A kiss carries different meaning for different persons, different relations, different situations, different objectives and different geographic connotations.
When a mother kisses her child, it means love & affection, best wishes, blessings, securities-both physical and emotional at different stages of life and for different ocassion.
When a grandmother kisses a grandchild, it means love without boundness, blessings and love for her own child who has given this most beautiful gift. Grandmother never expects anything except few words of love from her grandchild.
When a father kisses his child, it means his love, assurance for physical and financial insurance and protections from outside world. Sometimes a father may not be able to protect his child from a powerful adversary, even then he kisses his child which is nothing but an expression of grief and apology for his own incompetence or incapacity.
When a teacher kisses a student, it means blessing for his prodigy coated with love and affection. He wants that he should be known for his student, while kissing him or her.
When a child kisses his/her father, it is a cheer joy without any explanation. When a very young kid kisses his/her parents, his/her saliva makes the cheeks of parents wet ,but that makes the young couple forget all the pains/struggles/ unhappy incidents they have to face during the day. They do not wipe the saliva on their cheeks, but allow them to dry through evaporation only.
For a kiss from a grandson/granddaughter one has to wait for more than fifty years or so. Some are lucky to earn that kiss and some are not. But when they get it, they get the flavour of seventh heaven.
Normally, only parents have the liberty to kiss their children on any part of the body till a certain age No other person has that liberty, socially, legally or emotionally. All other may have the permission to kiss only on head, forehead and cheeks.
A kiss between spouses, lovers means love, affection, faithfulness, submission, promise and so on. Where to kiss and when to kiss is coming out of consensus of two matured persons. Well, kissing at public places by two adults is not a welcome gesture in many conservative societies/countries. However, in most of the modern societies/ countries, kissing by two adults in public places is no more a taboo. It is an expression of intimate love, no one wants to miss.
What are the common things about a kiss, irrespective of age, relation, geographical/ social differences? Kiss is a sensual and sensitive personal expression of intimate love. Therefore, whenever you kiss a person, you should be sure that you love him/her and decide where to kiss, if you kiss someone on head/forehead you love the person as son/daughter/grandchild/sister/brother/student/well-wisher. Alternatively, you should kiss on head and forehead whom you treat as son/daughter/sister/brother/student/well-wisher. Similarly, if, you get a kiss from a person on your head/forehead then the person will be a father(like)/mother(like)/grandparents/sister/brother/teacher/student/well-wisher and please try to respect love and feeling of that person. If you get a kiss on your cheek, he/she may be a close friend/well-wisher/grandparents and of course your parents.
What is the effect of a kiss on a person? It gives you love, emotional support, happiness, zeal to live longer(for a old person) and so on. So, do not be a miser to place a kiss on right person, right part of the body and right place, of course, whom you love. Never kiss a person whom you do not love. Similarly, do not expect a kiss from a person who is not a close person to your heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Chapter 15: Have you ever heard?
Do you know about a species which was never in existence, but still people, all over the world, have been searching ?
-An extremely good son and son in law in the same man.
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Have you ever heard a mother –in-law and her daughter-in law agreed to a suggestion made by husband of the mother in law on investment?
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Have you ever heard about a sister–in-law who speaks high on her own sister in law in private?
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