by Dianne Barr
BEAM ME BACK TO VENUS
A LIGHTHEARTED LOOK AT MOTHERHOOD
DIANNE BARR
Copyright 2004 Dianne Barr
Cover design Nigel Tinning
First printed by CM Digital 2004
234 Currie Street
Adelaide, South Australia 5000
First published in Australia 2004
Seaveiw Press
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Disclaimer:
Any similarity in characters or events portayed in these poems is entirely intentional and inevitable. I hope you enjoy seeing something of yourself, your mother, daughters, sons, cousins, sisters, brothers, nieces, nephews, friends and of course, other peoples children in these lines.
To Trevor, Christina, Alex and Libby
who are my inspiration
and
Mum, thank you for everything you have done for me.
Table of Contents
About the Author
BOUTIQUE BLUES
FIRST DAY AT SCHOOL
MOTHERHOOD
FAMILY PORTRAIT
TAXI
A CASE FOR CLONING
AEROPLANE SPOONS
WHO WOULD BE A GOLDFISH?
DISSECTION OF A MOTHER'S HANDBAG
SATURDAY SOCCER
QUESTIONS
WASHING PILE
FROM THE MOUTHS OF BABES
MINCE
THE BIRTHDAY CAKE
HOW TO BECOME INVISIBLE
SWIMMING LESSONS
WOBBLY TEETH
BEAM ME BACK TO VENUS
LITTLE YELLOW DUMMY
THE PRIZE
BATTLE SCARS
THE PERFORMER
LITTLE LESS CONVERSATION
KNOCK KNOCK
IRONING
AMBITIONS OF A 3 YEAR OLD
BING-GUMS AND FLOPPY CHEESE
PAPER CHASE
SUPERMARKET SCREAMERS
HOMEWORK
THE TODDLER
SCHOOL GATE
TEENAGERS
EYE TEST
THE BOYFRIEND
LOST SOCKS
TO BE A MUM
About the Author
BOUTIQUE BLUES
The women with the jewels and the triple double chin,
Demands more discount, from the twenty-dollar bin.
The tart from Toorak flounces round the store,
Throwing $500 garments roughly on the floor.
Sneering down their noses as I pack their plastic bags,
They look me up and down, as if I'm wearing rags.
How did I get here? I wonder to myself
As I flick my feather duster, quickly round the shelf.
I did have a brain, once, what is it I have missed?
I researched in a laboratory, an electron microscopist.
Owned my own business, was a potter in between,
Exhibited in art awards, had work chosen by the Queen.
Moved to another country, far away across the sea.
Left my friends and family, what will be will always be.
Had three busy children, juggled preschool, work and school,
And still these patronising women treat me like a fool.
So why am I here then? I ask myself again,
With dreams and ideas putrefying in my brain.
I guess it's just another stage, a step along the way.
Just because I'm here, doesn't mean I have to stay.
But until another bright idea becomes a solid fact,
I'll bite my tongue, smile and say...
"You look great in that!"
FIRST DAY AT SCHOOL
As I look at her on this special day,
My heart is beating quickly.
I'm leaving her all alone
And she's looking green and sickly.
The hand I hold begins to shake,
A tear rolls from her eye.
I walk her slowly through the gate,
I'd hoped she wouldn't cry.
But I think she's being really brave
As I kiss her on the cheek.
It's the day that I've been waiting for,
Counting down from week to week.
The teacher's there to greet the class
And now it's time to go.
She looks at me and tries to smile
But her fear it starts to show.
So I give her one last cuddle
Before I have to run
And whisper softly in her ear
"You'll be OK now, Mum"
MOTHERHOOD
No one ever told me what it means to be a Mum.
It's a job that's never ending, never really done.
When that bawling little person is placed upon your breast,
The pushing part is over, now comes all the rest.
That's when like a sword it struck me, I don't know what to do!
Some say motherhood comes naturally, I'm not sure if that's true.
There's so much information, by authors far and wide
But I wish the babe would read the books, while it's still inside.
That wrinkled little bundle, soon will walk and talk and grow,
Have all its own opinions, won't accept the answer "No."
Preschool, school and college, travel without a care,
Mum will get him through it; Mum will get her there.
There isn't one right answer, one way to raise a child.
One might be quite placid while the other's running wild.
There isn't any manual, to instruct on how it's done.
Life will change and so will I, but I'll always be a Mum.
FAMILY PORTRAIT
Time for a family photo,
Don't everybody moan,
We'll give them out for Christmas
To show how much you've grown.
Now stand up in the middle,
No, sit down on that chair,
Stop pulling painful faces
And fiddling with your hair!
Leave some room for me to run,
When the camera's set.
Smile like you're enjoying this...
Wait, it's not ready yet!
Get back to your places
Who said that you could go?
Do you have to cry so much
'Cause I trampled on your toe?
One more time, now smile
Don't blink when it goes flash
And we'll have our family portrait
And have saved a pile of cash.
Let's hope that when it's printed
We have for history to keep,
A smiling family portrait
With all our heads and feet!
TAXI
Drop the kids at ten to nine,
Pick them up at half past three.
Work the hours in between,
Plan what to have for tea.
Six-year-old has ballet class,
Leave her there at four,
Next stop is the station,
Get eldest daughter in the door.
Collect Miss Six, dancing done,
Poor son's still in the back.
Soccer starts tomorrow,
He'll have to cut some slack.
Home, but first a detour,
To the shop to buy the bread,
Also add some other things
From the list inside my head.
Phone call from
the husband,
Can I get him from the tram?
Going past there anyway
So don't really give a damn.
Tomorrow I'll paint my trusty car
Yellow green and black,
Install a fare collection thing
And charge them there and back!
A CASE FOR CLONING
I would like to clone myself
And leave my clone at home,
While I fly to Alaska
And she stays home alone.
I'll cruise among the icebergs
And watch the Northern Lights,
While she does all the other stuff
That I do day and night.
I'd go to deepest Africa
See rhino and gazelle.
While she looks after everyone,
And works all day as well.
I'd fly above the Nazca Lines
And wonder why they're there,
While she cleans up the kitchen
With all my love and care.
AEROPLANE SPOONS
The aeroplane spoons are grounded,
There's no way that they're going in.
The hangar mouth is firmly shut.
No chance that I can win.
Yesterday's pumpkin was yummy,
But today it's something most foul.
The aeroplane spoons aren't working,
The hangar's emitting a howl!
Time for a menu revision,
It happens most days of the week.
One day he'll eat only stewed apple,
The next, just banana or leek.
I'll be glad when this stage is over,
He'll out-grow the habit quite soon.
'Cause I've never seen in a restaurant,
Adults eating from aeroplane spoons!
WHO WOULD BE A GOLDFISH?
I walked into my daughter's room,
Then stopped in my tracks with fright.
The goldfish bowl, always green
Was now a milky white!
Some curious little person
Who was interested in boats,
Dropped soap, shaped as a duckling, in
To see if it would float.
The ducky's on the bottom,
The prognosis, pretty grim.
The goldfish is now a floating
No longer will it swim.
On another such occasion,
In a bowl I also found
A very dizzy goldfish
Spinning slowly round and round.
This time the poor small creature
Black pepper it was fed.
The fish, although well-seasoned,
Ended up quite dead.
Who'd be reincarnated as a goldfish
Not anyone quite sane,
But at least it's widely recognised
That fish can feel no pain!
DISSECTION OF A MOTHER'S HANDBAG
Observe this female handbag, small and dainty in its form
But note, that like a virus, a mutation will be born.
If the owner produces offspring, it's size becomes immense
Extra zips and pouches grow, to fit the burgeoning contents.
Take this average mother's handbag, we'll dissect it now, with care.
Note the handles are quite stretched, the zippers showing wear.
Remove its load with caution, you'll know when it's time to stop,
There will be some missing car keys and a sticky lollypop.
There's an asthma inhaler, a wallet
