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Girls & Sex

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by Peggy Orenstein


  Strasburger, Victor. “Policy Statement from the American Academy of Pediatrics: Sexuality, Contraception, and the Media.” Pediatrics 126, no. 3 (September 1, 2010): 576–82.

  Tanenbaum, Leora. Slut: Growing Up Female with a Bad Reputation. New York: HarperPerennial, 2002.

  Thomas, J. “Virginity Pledgers Are Just as Likely as Matched Nonpledgers to Report Premarital Intercourse.” Perspectives on Sexual and Reproductive Health 41, no. 63 (March 2009).

  Thompson, Sharon. Going All the Way: Teenage Girls’ Tales of Sex, Romance, and Pregnancy. New York: Hill and Wang, 1995.

  Tolman, Deborah. Dilemmas of Desire: Teenage Girls Talk About Sexuality. Cambridge, MA: Harvard University Press, 2002.

  Tolman, Deborah, Brian R. Davis, and Christin P. Bowman. “That’s Just How It Is”: A Gendered Analysis of Masculinity and Femininity Ideologies in Adolescent Girls’ and Boys’ Heterosexual Relationships.” Journal of Adolescent Research (June 2015).

  Tolman, Deborah, Emily Impett, et al. “Looking Good, Sounding Good: Femininity Ideology and Adolescent Girls’ Mental Health.” Psychology of Women Quarterly 30 (2006): 85–95.

  Trenholm, Christopher, Barbara Devaney, Ken Fortson, et al. “Impacts of Four Title V, Section 510 Abstinence Education Programs.” Office of the Assistant Secretary for Planning and Evaluation, U.S. Department of Health and Human Services. Princeton, NJ: Mathematics Policy Research, 2007.

  U.S. House of Representatives, Committee on Government Reform Minority Staff, Special Investigations Division. The Content of Federally Funded Abstinence-Only Education Programs. Prepared for Rep. Henry A. Waxman. Washington, DC: U.S. Government Printing Office, 2004.

  U.S. Senate Subcommittee on Financial and Contracting Oversight. Sexual Violence on Campus. By Claire McCaskill. 113th Congress. Senate Report, July 9, 2014.

  Valenti, Jessica. The Purity Myth: How America’s Obsession with Virginity Is Hurting Young Women. Berkeley, CA: Seal Press, 2009.

  Vanwesenbeeck, Ine. “Sexual Health Behaviour Among Young People in the Netherlands.” Presentation at the Sexual Health Forum, Brussels, March 13, 2009.

  Vernacchio, Al. For Goodness Sex: Changing the Way We Talk to Teens About Sexuality, Values, and Health. New York: HarperWave, 2014.

  Wade, Lisa, and Caroline Heldman. “Hooking Up and Opting Out.” In Sex for Life: From Virginity to Viagra, How Sexuality Changes Throughout Our Lives. Edited by Laura Carpenter and John DeLamater. New York: New York University Press, 2012, pp. 128–45.

  Ward, L. Monique. “Understanding the Role of the Entertainment Media in the Sexual Socialization of American Youth: A Review of Empirical Research.” Developmental Review 23 (2003): 347–88.

  Ward, L. Monique, Edwina Hansbrough, and Eboni Walker. “Contributions of Music Video Exposure to Black Adolescents’ Gender and Sexual Schemas.” Journal of Adolescent Research 20 (2005): 143–66.

  Ward, L. Monique, and Kimberly Friedman. “Using TV as a Guide: Associations Between Television Viewing and Adolescents’ Sexual Attitudes and Behavior.” Journal of Research on Adolescence 16 (2006): 133–56.

  Widerman, Michael M. “Women’s Body Image Self-Consciousness During Physical Intimacy with a Partner.” Journal of Sex Research 37, no. 1 (2000): 60–68.

  Widman, Laura, et al. “Sexual Communication and Contraceptive Use in Adolescent Dating Couples.” Journal of Adolescent Health 39 (2006): 893–99.

  Wolak, Janis, Kimberly Mitchell, and David Finkelhor. “Unwanted and Wanted Exposure to Online Pornography in a National Sample of Youth Internet Users.” Pediatrics 119, no. 2 (2007): 247–57.

  Wright, Paul J. “Show Me the Data! Empirical Support for the ‘Centerfold Syndrome.’” Psychology of Men and Masculinity 13, no. 2 (2011): 180–98.

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  Wright, Paul J., and Michelle Funk. “Pornography Consumption and Opposition to Affirmative Action for Women: A Prospective Study.” Psychology of Women Quarterly 38, no. 2 (2013): 208–21.

  Wright, Paul J., and Robert S. Tokunaga. “Activating the Centerfold Syndrome: Recency of Exposure, Sexual Explicitness, Past Exposure to Objectifying Media.” Communications Research 20, no. 10 (2013): 1–34.

  Yung, Corey Rayburn. “Concealing Campus Sexual Assault: An Empirical Examination.” Psychology, Public Policy, and Law 21, no. 1 (2015): 1–9.

  Index

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  ABCD model for raising sexually healthy children, 235

  abortion, 208, 209, 219, 221

  abstinence, 78, 83, 85, 91–92, 206, 207, 230

  Purity Balls and, 84–85, 86–87, 90–91, 93–95

  vows of, 86, 88–90, 92, 211

  see also virginity

  abstinence-only sex education, 52, 75, 76–77, 89, 210–12, 221

  Adolescent Health Services and Pregnancy Prevention and Care Act, 209

  Affordable Care Act, 212

  Agdal, Nina, 38

  AIDS, 52, 157, 210–11

  alcohol, see drinking

  Ali, Russlynn, 177–78

  Amazon, 164

  American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, 21

  American Enterprise Institute, 172

  American Psychological Association, 180

  American Society of Aesthetic Plastic Surgeons (ASAPS), 69

  anal sex, 33–34, 70–71

  pain and, 70

  porn and, 33–34

  virginity pledges and, 89

  Andrews, Arin, 162

  Anheuser-Busch, 200

  Antioch College, 173, 199

  Armstrong, Elizabeth, 104, 106, 107, 131

  asexual orientation, 142

  Association of American Universities (AAU), 176

  Atlantic, 118, 186

  Azalea, Iggy, 25, 27

  Baby Boom generation, 104

  bases, 47–48, 227

  Bauer, Jill, 34

  BDSM, 145

  Bearman, Peter, 88

  Bechdel, Alison, 148

  Beckham, Victoria, 68–69

  Bell, Leslie, 37, 107–8, 140

  Beverly Hills 90210, 173–74

  Beyoncé, 24, 26, 27, 41, 65

  birth control, 88, 89, 208, 209, 210–11, 212, 221, 222

  condoms, 89, 208, 210–11, 212, 224, 232

  birth rate, teen, 209, 219

  bisexuality, 152–53, 159, 162

  blow jobs, see fellatio

  blue balls, 174

  body parts, 61–62, 66

  body pride, 113–14

  Body Project, The (Brumberg), 17

  Booty Pop, 25

  Boston College, 13

  Brittan, Deb, 85, 86, 91, 94

  Brown, Tina, 42–43

  Brown University, 170

  Brückner, Hannah, 88

  Brumberg, Joan Jacobs, 17

  Bud Light, 200

  bullying and harassment, 86

  cyberbullying, 146

  see also sexual harassment

  Burns, April, 55

  Bush, George W., 210, 212

  butt, booty, 24–27, 33

  augmentation, 25

  selfies, 25

  Calderone, Mary, 209

  California Polytechnic, 115

  Calogero, Rachel, 39

  Campus Climate Survey, 176

  Campus Rape: When No Means No, 170

  Carl’s Jr., 38

  Carpenter, Laura, 82–83

  casual sex, 104

  friends with benefits, 105, 106, 138–39

  see also hookup culture; hookups

  “catching feelings,” 47

  Catfish, 150

  Census Bureau, 176

  Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 50, 117

  cervical cancer, 100

  c
hastity:

  vows of, 86, 88–90, 92, 211

  see also abstinence; virginity

  Children’s Digital Media Center, 19

  Christians, evangelical, 88, 89–90

  cis-gender, 163

  City University of New York, 55

  civil court, 178

  Clery, Jeanne, 177

  Clinton, Bill, 49, 50, 52, 210

  clitoris, 205, 206, 234

  clothing, 7–9, 11–12, 14–16

  “college experience,” 118

  colleges and universities, 2, 81, 112

  fraternities at, 113–17, 125, 133, 188, 193, 204

  investigation of sexual assault cases at, 179–80

  party culture at, 129–136, 185

  rape at, 168, 170–73, 176–83, 185, 187–88, 192–95, 198, 199, 201

  sororities at, 113–16, 133

  Title IX and, 170, 177–78

  CollegiateACB, 193

  Colorado Springs, Colo., 76, 77, 84

  Columbia University, 179

  Graduate School of Journalism, 193–94

  coming out, 156–57, 158

  average age of, 148, 156

  videos about, 155–56

  condoms, 89, 208, 210–11, 212, 224, 232

  consent, 58, 132–33, 134, 168, 171, 185, 188, 189, 195–96, 201–4, 226–27

  affirmative, 173, 199, 201

  sexual manipulation and, 195–97, 223

  “yes means yes” law and, 199, 201

  contraception, 88, 89, 208, 209, 210–11, 212, 221, 222

  condoms, 89, 208, 210–11, 212, 224, 232

  Cox, Laverne, 161, 164

  Crisis Pregnancy Center, 85

  cross-gender identification, 165

  cunnilingus, 48, 49, 56, 62–63, 64, 66, 224–25

  in hookups, 106

  as passive activity, 56

  redirection and, 65

  cyberbullying, 146

  Cyrus, Miley, 27, 28–32, 65

  Daily Mail, 186

  “dating,” use of term, 47

  DeGeneres, Ellen, 148

  Denison, Charis, 205–7, 208, 213–19, 222, 223–33

  Department of Education, 177, 178

  depression, 86, 157

  Details, 65

  Devine, Jennifer, 234

  divorce, 92

  Doherty, Shannen, 173

  Don Jon, 38

  Dorf, Michael, 178

  Drake, 65–66

  Dreger, Alice, 212–13

  dress, 7–9, 11–12, 14–16

  drinking, 131, 132, 133, 135, 187, 217, 225, 226, 230

  alcohol poisoning and, 187

  amounts consumed, 117

  binge, 116, 117, 186, 187, 188

  eating and, 118

  energy drinks and, 129, 189

  hookup culture and, 116–19, 188, 201, 202, 230

  rape and, 171, 172–73, 177, 185–89, 192–93

  roofies and, 188

  drugs, 157, 226

  Duke University, 13, 115

  Dunham, Lena, 25–26, 40

  Dutch, 219–23, 232, 235

  Edwards, Michael, 69

  either/or thinking, 23

  emotions, 140

  “catching feelings,” 47

  England, Paula, 176–77

  Enlighten Communications, 76

  Epifano, Angie, 178

  Etheridge, Melissa, 148

  evangelicals, 88, 89–90

  Facebook, 18, 19, 20

  fallbacks, 214–15, 216, 217

  Family Acceptance Project, 148

  fan fiction, 144–45

  Farley, Chris, 173

  FBI, 176, 194

  fellatio, 48–61, 63, 66, 70, 224–25

  as active activity, 56

  coerced or forced, 59

  in hookups, 105, 127–28

  rainbow parties and, 51

  shoulder push and, 59, 61, 65

  Female Chauvinist Pigs (Levy), 13–14

  Feminine Mystique, The (Friedan), 208

  femininity, 162, 163, 165

  Feministing, 186

  Fergie, 65

  Fifty Shades of Grey (James), 144

  Flanagan, Caitlin, 118

  Fleischman, Sasha, 162–63

  Forbes, 41

  Ford, Jessie, 176–77

  Forgetting Sarah Marshall, 64

  Fortenberry, Dennis, 93, 101

  Fox TV, 170

  fraternities, 113–17, 125, 133, 188, 193, 204

  friends with benefits, 105, 106, 138–39

  Frozen, 95

  Fun Home, 148

  Gay, Lesbian, and Straight Education Network, 146

  gezelligheid, 222

  gender, 210

  gender binary, 163

  genderqueer, 162, 165

  genital warts, 67

  Girls, 25–26

  Glee, 40

  Glen Ridge, N.J., 168, 169–70, 180, 182

  Go Ask Alice!, 146

  gonorrhea, 53

  Google, 46, 161–62

  Gordon-Levitt, Joseph, 38

  Gore, Tipper, 2

  Gradus, Ronna, 34

  Greek life, 113–17

  fraternities, 113–17, 125, 133, 188, 193, 204

  sororities, 113–16, 133

  Halberstam, Jack, 164–65

  hand jobs, 60

  Hard to Get: Twenty-Something Women and the Paradox of Sexual Freedom (Bell), 37, 140

  Harry Potter, 144

  Harvard University, 115

  Herbenick, Debby, 67, 69–71, 104, 105

  Heritage Foundation, 85

  herpes, 53

  Hill, Katie, 162

  Hilton, Paris, 31, 41

  HIV/AIDS, 52, 157, 210–11

  Holland, 219–23, 232, 235

  homosexuality, 144, 210

  fan fiction and, 144–45

  same-sex marriage and, 36, 148

  see also lesbians

  hooks, bell, 26–27, 33

  hookup culture, 103, 217

  alcohol and, 116–19, 188, 201, 202, 230

  as buffer, 107

  panics about, 104

  “slut” and, 124–25

  use of term, 104

  hookups, 103–40, 228–29, 231

  apps for, 105

  and friends with benefits, 105, 106, 138–39

  intercourse in, 105, 106

  number of partners and, 105, 126–27

  objections to, 109

  oral sex in, 105, 106, 127–28

  physical satisfaction in, 106–7, 126

  regret over, 136–37

  relationships and, 109–11

  texting after, 136, 137

  types of, 104–5

  use of term, 47, 104

  HPV, 100

  Huffington Post, 186

  Humphries, Kris, 41

  Hunger Games, The, 144

  hymen, 78

  “I’m a Feminist, but I Don’t Eat Pussy,” 64

  independence, assertion of, 221–22

  Instagram, 9–10, 18, 19, 20, 25, 32, 41, 66, 135, 181

  Internet, 46, 145–46, 161, 178, 232

  cyberbullying and, 146

  fan fiction on, 144–45

  Google, 46, 161–62

  photographs and videos of assaults posted on, 181–82

  pornography and, 33

  Reddit, 146

  sexual identity and, 142, 144, 145–48, 149

  see also social media

  It’s All One Curriculum, 207–8

  Jenner, Caitlyn, 14, 161, 164

  Jews, 88

  Jezebel, 186

  Jordan, Jan, 194

  Justice Department, 133

  Kaiser Family Foundation, 188, 201

  Kaling, Mindy, 105

  Kanin, Eugene J., 194

  Kardashian, Kim, 25, 41–42

  Keeping Up with the Kardashians, 41

  Kelly, R., 24

  Kennedy, Edward, 169, 209

  Kennedy, Patrick, 169

  Kinsey, Alfred, 67 />
  Kinsey Institute, 66–67, 104

  Klein, Ezra, 199

  Knocked Up, 64

  Koss, Mary P., 170–71

  Kricfalusi, John, 30

  Kunis, Mila, 64

  labiaplasty, 69

  Lady Gaga, 24, 26, 27

  Lang, Izzy, 7

  leadership positions, 13

  Lee, Alyson, 32–33, 36–37

  Lehigh University, 177

  lesbians, 142, 144, 148, 159–60, 162

  passing as straight, 152, 153

  Levine, Adam, 2

  Levy, Ariel, 13–14, 31

  Lewinsky, Monica, 49

  LGBTQ, 17, 146, 156–57, 166

  L’il Wayne, 2

  Lopez, Jennifer, 24–25

  Louisville, Ky., 181, 182, 183

  Luker, Kristin, 208

  L Word, The, 153

  Manago, Adriana, 19

  Maroon 5, 2

  marriage, 107, 208

  divorce and, 92

  rape in, 172

  same-sex, 36, 148

  sex education and, 209–10

  masculinity, 162, 163, 233

  Massoud, Megan, 122

  masturbation, 62, 65, 66, 78, 90, 128–29, 206, 234

  McClelland, Sara, 5–6, 71–72

  McElroy, Wendy, 194

  McNeill, Amber, 141–42, 147–66

  Hannah and, 154–55, 157–60, 166

  Jake and, 151–52, 153, 155, 160

  “Jake” identity of, 149–50

  Minaj, Nicki, 24–27, 65–66

  Mindy Project, The, 105

  Moran, Caitlin, 12

  Moran, Jeffrey, 209

  Morning After, The (Roiphe), 171–72

  motherhood, teen, 209, 219

  MTV Video Music Awards, 28

  National Commission on Adolescent Sexual Health, 5

  National Institute of Mental Health, 170

  National Panhellenic Conference, 114

  Navarro, Christina, 75–77, 78–79, 81, 83, 84, 95–101

  NBC News, 51

  Netherlands, 219–23, 232, 235

  New Year’s resolutions, 17

  New York Magazine, 186

  New York Times, 48, 50, 172, 173, 179

  New York Times Magazine, 207

  New York University, 50

  No Child Left Behind, 211

  Nodianos, Michael, 181

  Not Under My Roof (Schalet), 220

  NPR, 171

  Obama, Barack, 2, 177, 211

  objectification, 14, 15, 133, 140

  self-, 2, 12–13, 39, 67

  O’Connor, Sinead, 28–29

  Odd Girl Out (Simmons), 20

  Oh, Matilda, 19, 25–26, 27

  Oliver, John, 200

  O Magazine, 51

  Online College Social Life Survey, 105, 176–77

  oral sex, 47–61, 71, 78, 104, 217, 224–25

  in hookups, 105, 106, 127–28

  STDs and, 53

  virginity and, 89, 98, 100

  see also cunnilingus; fellatio

  Orange Is the New Black, 40

 

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