by Sarina Bowen
Man Hands
Sarina Bowen
Tanya Eby
Contents
1. Sandwiches and Sorrow
2. My Spirit Animal
3. Top Ten
4. Lush Willows and Flowering Shrubberies
5. Sheer Propulsion
6. The Gardener
7. I Love Hardwood
8. Thanks, Man
9. Nice to Meet You
10. One Long Week Later
11. Look at My Sausage
12. Pining & Pupu Platters
13. Welcome Aboard the Titanic
14. Arm Wrestling Champion
15. Naked Skydiving
16. Giant Man Truck
17. Chocolate Mousse
18. Kiss De Girl
19. To Whom It May Concern, Those Are My Panties
20. Yummy Balls
21. Happy Face Stickers
22. Today’s Top Ten
23. I'm a Big Boy
24. Tits and Tots
25. Oh Honey
26. Hormone Spike
27. Flying High
28. Svenka & Torvold
29. Exclamation Points!!!
30. A Bonding Experience
31. Poppin’ Some Balls
32. A Kiss. A Squeeze. A Burp.
33. Fucking La La Land
34. Brazilian Cheese Puffs Can Fix Everything Except Heartache
35. Weave Your Magic
36. It Ain’t Easy Being Pink
37. Once More With Feeling
38. Fierce
39. A Blur, A Bikini, And A Moment Of Truth
40. Top Ten. Again. Because Lists are Satisfying.
41. Puzzle Pieces & Ramen Noodles
42. Up On The Rooftop
43. Sir Fixit Dick is Excited
44. FINALLY
45. Pillow Talk
46. Corn Dogs
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1 Sandwiches and Sorrow
Brynn
“What you need is to be fucked.”
Ashley says this to me, and I sorta can’t breathe. The not-breathing is because I’m winded from giving Ash and Sadie a very long monologue about how desperate and alone I feel now that my divorce is final. A divorce I wanted, mind you, but the end of my marriage is devastating.
I’ve failed at marriage.
My Monologue of Despair was so all-consuming that I haven’t even taken a bite out of my crisp, gooey Cuban sandwich with garlicky mojo sauce. That’s how bad things really are—I let that slice of salty ham heaven just sit there and get soggy and cold, like my love life.
Because I am in despair.
So after Ash says, “You need to be fucked,” I can’t breathe. It’s partly because my nose is filled with snot over my sorrow, and also because, goddamn it, she’s right.
I take a bite of the sandwich, just so, you know, she’ll continue with this line of thought.
“…and I’m not talking that kind of ‘Oh you complete me’ bullshit and ‘Can I touch you here’ lovey shit. I mean the growling, fumbling, grunting—”
“Biting,” Sadie adds as she steals one of my fries.
“—biting kind of hot fucking. You know, headboard-knocking fucking. The kind where you’re all…”
“Sweaty?” I guess.
“Yes! Sweaty, but that good kind of sex sweat, right? Like when you’re done and you’re starving and you go to the store for ice cream, people take one whiff of you and they know. They know!”
“They know you got the dick,” Sadie finishes.
I sort of giggle-burp because I’m really emotional right now and this sandwich is so good, and Sadie, a therapist and a mom to newborn twin girls, isn’t one to use the word “dick”. Usually, it’s penis, if she says anything at all. She’s my most anatomically correct friend.
“What I’m saying is—” Ash holds up one finger to mark her place while she drains the rest of her beer. “—stop wallowing and let’s find you someone to screw.”
I swallow another bite of my sandwich, and then I realize a bearded waiter is leaning over the adjacent table, mesmerized. He’s polishing the same few inches of the wood surface over and over again with a dirty gleam in his eye.
Also, he’s wearing really tight hipster pants.
That’s when me and my friends—my dear friends from college, my soul sisters—share a secret glance of amusement. We’re at eye level with his crotch and the evidence therein. He’s not our waiter, but it’s clear that he’d still like to help us out with anything we want…and not just food and beverages.
Ash leans forward, maybe to get the waiter’s attention by hoisting up her boobs, or maybe she just wanted to rest them on the table. “You, sir. I can see you’re invested in this conversation. Can I ask you a rather blunt hypothetical question?”
I try to kick her under the table, but I am on my second mojito and the first mojito went straight to my fine-motor skills, meaning I am one mojito away from drooling, two away from peeing.
He blinks, and then he blinks again. He moves his skinny hips closer to the end of our table and I have to avert my gaze. “Hit me. I love this conversation.”
“Well then.” Ash shoots me a look. “Hypothetically,” she asks, “would you fuck my friend? Like, a good fuck? Not a romantic fuck?”
Blink. Blink. Blink. Then: “I’m working a double shift,” he says.
“I’m not talking reality,” Ash scoffs. “I’m talking hypothetically. You know that hypothetically means in the supposed universe, right? As in, just in theory?”
He adjusts his pants. There is a marked swelling on one side of his leg, and I can’t help but do a double take. That enlargement travels almost to his knee. I mean, it’s a fucking anaconda. He could jump rope with that thing.
“Sure,” he says. “I mean, not that I would, I’m totally engaged to my girlfriend. It’s on Instagram and everything. We had chalkboards with our names on it and the date and all. But yeah. I’d totally fuck her.” He leans down and whispers, “Against. A. Wall.”
There is a pregnant silence, by which I mean I could almost get pregnant just basking in his stare. His eyes are on my generous cleavage. Sometimes I find that sort of behavior from a waiter rude. But he’s not our waiter. And since we just invited him to hypothetically boink me, I can’t really hold it against him.
Hypothetically.
Sadie snorts, breaking the silence. “Hopefully not these walls,” she says, motioning to the wood paneling. “Splinters.”
“Ow,” he agrees, leaning close to me, and I swear he smells like wonderful things, including bacon. “I get off at three a.m. Just saying.”
There is another awkward pause, and I pass the time admiring his trouser snake. I’m a little worried that it’s going to bust out of his pants all Hulk-like. Some kind of response is required of me, but mojitos and pheromones have rendered me speechless.
“She’s not going to be wallbanged by an engaged man,” Sadie says, answering for me.
Right. I’m not. I’m not one for casual…wallbanging. I need an emotional connection. I needed someone like…Steve.
Goddamn it!
My emotions suddenly flood me again as I picture Steve. Slender Steve. My husband. My ex-husband. Our first kiss. The first time we made love, and he apologized because he couldn’t keep an erection. The last time we made love and…he apologized for not keeping an erection.
Ash snaps her fingers in front of my face. “Stay with us, Brynn! Don’t go toward the light!” To the waiter she says, “Check, please!”
He speeds off.
“All right,” Ash says, fishing her credit card out of her purse. “What did we just learn?”
“The waiter has an extra limb?” I offer.
“Oh, honey,” Sa
die says with a sigh. Motherhood has made her a very effective sigher. “Answer this question for me: is that man attractive? I mean—are you attracted to him?”
I think about it before answering. I sip the rest of my mojito until it slurps. I try to analyze the peculiar warmth and throbbing in my vagina. Is it attraction or a urinary tract infection? Hmm.
“Yes. I am attracted to him.” I mean, he’s skinny and wearing tight pants and has a funky mustache. He looks like he writes poetry and listens to Philip Glass or something. His skin is slightly translucent, even though it’s June.
He’s totally my type.
“That’s what I thought.” Sadie grips my hand. Her fingers are cold and so fragile. “As your friend… No, as your therapist, I’m telling you from here on out, if you’re attracted to a guy, it’s a giant red flag. I agree with Ash that you totally need to be fucked, and we should make this our mission as your friends and sisters by choice. But here’s the thing—you can’t be attracted to the guy. Not at all.”
“Wait.” I’m having trouble following her, which is probably the mojitos’ fault. “You want me to fuck someone unattractive?”
They shake their heads in perfect synchronicity. “No, babe,” Ash says. “You need to do the nasty with someone who isn’t your type. If your body is responding with all those whozits and whatsits, then you need to run away because your instinct is just plain wrong. You make bad choices.”
Sadie is nodding along. “Really bad.”
“So…” This can’t be a good idea. “You want me to jump back into the dating world, forgetting that my tender emotions have been run through a pasta machine.” (I’m a food blogger. Don’t judge my metaphors.) “You want me to ignore my instincts? My own body?”
They’re nodding. They’re totally nodding!
I think of Steve again and when I told him I was leaving him. “Ah,” he’d said.
Ah.
I burst into tears.
The waiter brings us the bill and another mojito for me. “On the house,” he says and winks. His mustache, I swear, waves.
Ash and Sadie don’t say anything. Oh no. They just let me sit for a while. It’s loud in here, with the sounds of laughter and carefree Friday night cavorting. But it’s all weirdly quiet in my mind. “Okay,” I finally say. And then I drink the rest of my mojito in one long, impressive slurp.
I also think I pee a little.
2 My Spirit Animal
Brynn
By now I have tried on a hundred dresses. A hundred!
Okay, four. Still.
With each one it’s the same story. Bloated face, huge boobs, hips built to carry three or four children, and anvil feet. How? How did I let this happen to myself? The mirror hates me. It’s propped up against the wall because this is a new apartment and I don’t know how to do anything, and hanging a mirror is just too much work. But still, something is just wrong.
I grab the edges of the mirror, thinking to give it a little shake. I’d rather shake Steve for wrecking my self-esteem, but he’s not available.
It proves unsatisfying to wrestle a mirror, though, so I lean it against the wall again, this time at less of an angle. And when I catch my reflection again, something has shifted. My face is slimmer, my hips less otherworldly. Even my cleavage is perkier.
It’s a miracle!
Wait.
Okay, who knew that mirrors can make you look funny when they were angled on the wall? Not me, obviously. I’ve been in this new house for two months already, wondering how I’d become so stumpy looking. I’d thought it was a side effect of divorce.
So this is a shred of good news, and I’ve needed that.
Even so, I don’t feel like going to a party. I grab my phone and add a message to the three-way text conversation I’ve had going with my friends for, I swear, whichever year texting was invented.
Me: I’m not going.
Ash: Fuck you. You’re going.
Sadie: Just wear the wrap dress. The wrap dress is made for every body shape. The wrap dress can make the Michelin Man look sexy.
I’m not sure how Sadie knows I’m struggling with what to wear. Okay, she’s a therapist and all. But sometimes her level of empathy puts her in the category of being freaky.
Me: I don’t want to go. You guys have fun. I think I have the flu.
Ash: You don’t have the flu. You’re going.
Me: Ebola. I have Ebola. And you don’t joke about Ebola.
There’s a knock at my door, and I hear Ash screaming, “I’m here! Open the fucking door or I’m going to start fucking swearing!”
Crud. Since I’m new to the neighborhood, I’m worried about what the neighbors will think of their new, psychotic, recently divorced, bloated neighbor, so I throw on the wrap dress, tie it, run downstairs, and open the door.
Ash and Sadie look at me, stunned. “I gotta say,” Sadie says, “Exposing your breast like that is really…” She looks like she can’t think of the right word.
“Adventurous?” Ash offers.
“Adventurous, yeah, but maybe not…”
“Wise,” I finish, looking down to see that I tied the dress, yes, but I left one boob out in the open. Thank god it’s covered by my sports bra. Still. This was almost a full-on nipple infraction. In front of the neighbors too. “Get in here,” I say and wave them inside.
Ash and Sadie look great. They always do. Ash is a ruthless realtor, ever keen to make the sale. She doesn’t take any bullshit, and right now she’s dressed like she just barbecued some poor soul and then went shopping at Bergdorf to celebrate. She’s sleek and thin and blond, of course, and intimidating as hell.
Sadie, new mom to the cutest babies on the planet, is softer, with wispy, curly brown hair, brown skin, and eyes that make you want to bake her a muffin. Ash is in a pencil skirt and a silky blouse thing, and Sadie has on this bohemian kind of dress that shows off her clavicles and I’m pretty sure she’s braless.
And I’m wearing a too-tight dress with my sports-bra boob hanging out. No wonder Steve couldn’t get it up for me.
Right then and there, I start to cry.
“I can’t go out on the prowl, guys. I don’t want to do this. Too scary,” I whine. “I just want to cook something and post it online and have a thousand people like it so I feel validated. Can’t I do that instead?”
“No,” they say.
Fucking girlfriends.
Ash runs past me, heading upstairs. “Where are you going?” I call after her skinny butt.
“You are not wearing granny underwear and a sports bra!” she calls back.
How does she know about the underwear? They’re comfortable. I used to reserve them for when I had my period, but that seemed silly. Why not wear them every day? The same kind of gigantic panties. Not the same pair, because ew.
“What you wear against your skin affects how you present yourself on the outside,” Sadie offers. “Right now, I’m totally naked underneath.” I take a longer look at her. She is. Naked as can be under all her clothes, her breasts round and heavy. Must be the babies.
“Don’t you…uhm…chafe?” I ask, glancing down a bit.
“I put lotion on my labia majora. It’s fine.”
I nod, as if I know exactly where that is. I’m a writing professor, not a biologist. And the labia majora doesn’t crop up too often in my students’ essays. But maybe it should.
Actually, I was a writing professor. Now I’m jobless. My ex’s father is the chair of the English department where I worked. I got a pink slip in the mail the day after I signed my divorce papers.
“I’m unemployed,” I say, trying out the word. It sounds just as bad out loud as it did inside my head.
“I know, baby.” Sadie pats me on the hand. “But it’s Saturday and we’re going to get you drunk and then laid. Get with the program.”
From upstairs comes the sound of thumping, and drawers opening. Then the closet door opening. I could go up there and help her look, give some guidance, but I hones
tly have no energy. Standing is hard. Breathing takes an act of will.
Going to this party? That’s an act of god that I just don’t see happening.
I can hear the tear of cardboard as she rips open one of my moving boxes. Then a gasp. “You have the worst lingerie I’ve ever seen!”
I’m relieved. For a minute there, I worried that I’d packed some poor woodland creature in my haste to get out of my marriage, and didn’t notice.
“You can wear these tonight, but we are going shopping tomorrow!” She’s coming down the stairs, a look of pure determination on her face. “You need to treat yourself better, Brynn!”
She throws a black bra and pink panties at me. The panties were a gag gift from Ash herself, this past Easter. They say Chocolate Bunnies Are My Spirit Animal, and they’re printed all over with—wait for it—chocolate bunnies. They’re ridiculous, and yet still a step up from what I’m currently wearing.
At the time I’d left him, Steve hadn’t shown any interest in me in over a year. Hence, the grannie panties. After a while, I’d given up. Why bother being sexy for a man who doesn’t even see you? Unless I was serving him a plate of food, I was invisible to him. Like, I could literally be in a room and he’d turn off the light because he didn’t know I was there. Lingerie was just an invitation for humiliation.
These are my thoughts as Sadie unwraps my dress and slides it off me, because I’m not humiliated enough yet.
