by Dennis Smith
So there is a new sense of joy in immersing ourselves into what our children are doing, and really appreciating it. I’m very, very proud of my children. All three of them have achieved so much in a short period of time. They are very loving and sensitive, and they are humble. But every once in a while, I’ll be sitting watching a concert, or go to firehouse picnics and things like that, and hear guys talking about their kids, and remember that there were a lot of my friends who had kids. Those kids don’t have fathers anymore. And they don’t have that aspect of a father’s or a parent’s love in their lives anymore. So one benefit that my own kids have is the presence of their father.
Religion and God play a big part in my family. A lot of our education comes from the mass media, and they choose not to highlight religious ideals. The best is not brought out. I don’t know that much about the Islamic religion. They believe that you are a believer or a nonbeliever, and you would think that they would want to preach peace and tolerance. But there’s not a whole lot of tolerance in that statement: You’re either with us or against us. I was raised a Christian, and you’re taught to love your fellow man. In my mind that’s what religion is all about: to give you a sanctuary from the everyday and learn what God’s message is and try to apply that to your daily life, to make your life and the lives of the rest of your family better, and to make your friends’ lives better.
You know, if you put people in the same room and they talk to one another, they will get along. They may have different opinions about things, but it seems like when communication breaks down is when things start to deteriorate. For these people to have developed such a hatred for us, dancing in the streets after September 11, we must wonder: What are we doing to make them so mad?
We didn’t do anything; they attacked us. I’ve heard people talk about the situation in Afghanistan and Iraq, saying, “Well, if we didn’t do that, maybe the World Trade Center wouldn’t have happened,” and I say, “Excuse me, the World Trade Center happened before.” It was in 1993, only a few years earlier. People have to start developing a tolerance for other nations. There seems to be a tremendous loss of respect for other countries and their laws and their way of life in America and Europe. That’s the big thing: We have to fight this tremendous loss of respect for other people.
I was recently talking to a train conductor I know, and, noting that the anniversary was coming up, he asked, “How do you feel about it now, nearly a decade later?”
I answered, “Well, some days it feels like it was twenty years ago, like it was such a long time ago. Some days it feels like it’s September 12, 2001. Some days it feels like I am still right there.”
I was never as proud to be a fireman as I was that day, a day that was shrouded with so much grief and bereavement, with 343 firemen lost that day. By attaching the number 343 to them it is like saying that they are heroes because they died. But it was easy to die that day. What made them heroes was what they were doing before the building came down, and people lose sight of that. They lose sight that they were witness to the most heroic actions any of us have ever seen. Most people watched the events of September 11 through the lens of a camera, but I saw it from the inside of the building. I saw what was happening inside: Courage under fire. People like Mike Warchola, Faustino Apostol, Patty Brown, Billy Burke, Terry Hatten, Orio Palmer. The hairs on the back of my neck just stand up as I remember their faces.
And the list goes on, all courage and heroism. Listen to the radio recordings of Orio Palmer calling for a “hand line”: “We’ve got numerous involvements of fire up here. We could use a couple of hand lines.” He was going to fight acres and acres of fire on all those floors with a couple of two-and-a-half-inch hoses. But I was thinking the same thing: We can do this, we gotta give it a shot. We can do this. We were going to attempt the impossible—damn the impossible. There were people up there that needed our help. That is the Fire Department, a selfless profession: You put other people’s lives ahead of your own, and, boy, was that principle on display that day.
A few years ago a group of retired firemen in Florida asked me for Josephine Harris’s phone number, because they wanted her to come down and give a speech on the anniversary of September 11. I called her to warn her, “You’re going to receive a phone call from these guys; they’re okay,” because she’s a private person. The guy who reached her called me back and said, “Well, she’ll go if you go.” And so I went down, and three thousand people had gathered in a Baptist church—it was a huge place with a very active retired organization. I opened my speech by saying, “Well . . . you know, there was a lot of heroism and courage on display that day, and I’m not sure if you could see it through the lens of the TV camera, but you could feel it. The altruism that was there was remarkable. But a lot of the heroism that you saw on display that day was because those guys were of a generation that had been broken into the job some fifteen, twenty, thirty years ago, and received all the lessons, the esprit de corps, and the organizational culture of the department. And if that earlier generation hadn’t taught us those lessons, what you saw on September 11 would have been a lot worse.”
This is why retirement celebrations in the Fire Department are such a big thing and are so well attended. Each of us realizes that this man really contributed. He made our careers better. He taught us a lot. Guys don’t forget that. They respect it.
Ada Rosario Dolch
Ada Rosario Dolch was the principal of a high school just two blocks from the World Trade Center. On 9/11 she safely evacuated her six hundred students. In memory of her sister Wendy Wakeford, who died that day, Ada helped build a school in Afghanistan that opened in 2005. She currently works with school leaders, and lectures on emergency preparedness and on how to respond and recover from disasters.
We were five girls and one brother, all within seven years of each other, so my mother and father were very busy for a lot of the time. I was the oldest. Then there was my sister Miriam, my brother, Ed, and then three more girls—Rachel, Wendy, and Clara, in that order. I remember five Easter Sunday dresses my mother bought us when we were kids. They were very fluffy and had these big green and pink ribbons and bushy sleeves, like organza. Before church we dressed up my little brother in one of those dresses, either Wendy’s or Rachel’s. And I can see my sisters now trying to tackle him, and then finally getting this dress on him. He was the only boy in the house, and so we took advantage of that.
I think that’s my first recollection of Wendy, and she was having fun. I also remember how we used to tease her. Wendy had this ridiculously thick hair that was extremely straight, so we used to say that there must have been some Chinese in her.
As the oldest I played surrogate mom very often. My mother would leave me with the children so she could run an errand, so she could run to the doctor or dentist. Wendy was six years away from me, but when you’re younger that’s an eternity apart. The two youngest, Clara and Wendy, were eleven months apart, but spiritually and emotionally they were twins. And losing Wendy brought a severe and intense pain that Clara suffers to this day. She suffers this pain, and simply can’t address the issue of 9/11. She still cannot believe that we have been through this and that she has lost someone as close as Wendy. It’s been painful for us to watch Clara not able to begin the journey toward recovery. We all hope and pray her time to heal will come sooner rather than later.
We lived on the Lower East Side for a long time, and then moved to Brooklyn. I got married very young—at just nineteen—when the youngest one of us was twelve and Wendy was thirteen. So I had to leave these selfblossoming teenagers behind. I didn’t spend a lot of time with them at home then, but they would love to come to my house. We were brought up in a family that was very religious, and my parents were very, very strict Pentecostal Protestants. The girls had very few outings without both parents, and so being able to go to my house was a big thing, something they could do on their own. I lived out in Bay Ridge, a whole other part of the world, out there on Shore Road, where
there was a park and the waterside. I remember Wendy, and all of my siblings, always struggling with wanting to be faithful to the upbringing our parents had given us but at the same time trying to spread their own wings and accept God as they wanted to in their hearts—without the limitations that were often put on us under the classification of “this is religion and this is God.” And I think they saw me spread my wings through my marriage and realized that there were other things in life. They were beginning to open their eyes to other things, and that was a very interesting experience for me. I was able to show them that God was not just about rules and regulations and thees and thous and don’ts and dos but really One who wanted to know and touch your heart. I’m very happy to have had that experience, to have been able to provide a different angle to the issue of loving God, or worshipping God.
Both my parents came from Puerto Rico when they were young. My mother was fourteen, and my father was sixteen. Two years later they were married on the Lower East Side. My parents both came here looking for the seascape of gold, like just about everyone who comes to America. And, of course, if you’re from Puerto Rico you’re part of America, and life is going to be easier if you’re poor. You’re really going to make it big in these great streets of New York. My parents, though, found their life and their streets of gold in factories. So my mother supported our education, because she knew there had to be more than just a sewing machine. She often said, “I don’t ever want you to have to find yourself in front of a sewing machine to make a living.”
We grew up in a truly complete bilingual environment, because at school everything was in the English language, but we went to a Spanishspeaking church and read the Bible in Spanish. My parents did not speak English very well, but they truly encouraged our English. They were big on: “Let’s speak the English.” “We don’t want you to get confused,” I remember my mother saying.
We all went to vocational high school, and so all of us acquired good business skills. But my siblings wondered how I, being the oldest, would get away from a very difficult situation at home, and the strictness of my father holding the reins. I guess they felt that my salvation would come through marriage and college. I went on to Baruch College. And, thank God, thirty-six years later, I’m still a very happily married woman. Wendy went to work, and about three years later she realized that she wanted to get ahead in life, to have better employment opportunities. And so she decided to go to college and got accepted at [the State University of New York at] New Paltz. She was proud of that, our big, tough Wendy—very independent; she knew what she wanted. My husband and I actually drove her up to college, and as we were saying good-bye she wrapped her arms around my husband and said, “Don’t let me go.” She was twenty-one then, and we realized, Oh, my God, this is a kid. She did very well at New Paltz. She also met a lovely young man, got married, finished college, and went to work. Her marriage didn’t work out, but it was part of her life, and it wasn’t a terrible thing.
She started working at the World Trade Center for a bond house, Cantor Fitzgerald. In 1993, when the center was first bombed, we couldn’t find Wendy. We were all in front of the television looking for her but didn’t see her coming out. And then it turned out that that morning Wendy had woken up and said, I’m not going to go to work today, I’m going to go shopping . And she spent the whole day in a mall and had no clue as to what had happened. Everyone from her office had been evacuated, and luckily everyone was just fine. But so often, after the bombing in 1993, we would hear Wendy say, “I need to get out of here. I don’t like this place. I don’t like this energy.” She was hoping to one day go back to school for her master’s degree.
After her divorce, Wendy lived with me for some time, until she found a place of her own in New Jersey, which was very close to our sister Clara. And then she met a young man, a police officer, and about a year later, in May of 2001, moved in with him. We went to her house for a Memorial Day weekend barbecue. We had met him already a couple of times, but now we could see that they were creating a home for themselves.
One of the things that we always did at the end of September or beginning of October was to go apple picking. Wendy lived in Freehold, and we planned to go to an orchard near her home. But my mom and I wanted to see her before then, and so we decided to meet on her fortieth birthday—August 6, 2001—at the World Trade Center. At this point I was working close by as principal at the Leadership and Public Service High School.
Because she worked for brokers on the 103rd and 104th floors of the tower, she sometimes couldn’t get out for lunch, as she was stuck to her table on the trading floor. I told her, “Mom and I, we’ll just be right in the mezzanine of your building.” We met her there with our presents and cupcakes. We talked and laughed and, because we all have such busy lives in New York, after a few minutes she went back to work, Mom left, and I went back to my school, and life went on. Then came 9/11.
That day was a special election day, for the primaries. It was also the first time that our school building was being used as a voting site, because the area was becoming more of a family community and not just the canyons of nothing but Wall Street office buildings. In fact, some of those office buildings were now being turned into residential apartments, and so there was a need to have a new voting district. The Leadership and Public Service High School was a collaborative effort with Syracuse University, and because some of the members of the advisory board knew Michael Bloomberg, who was on the ballot running for mayor, we were hoping that he would show up at our building to vote. Everything was spiffed up that day, and we were so excited about people voting at a school with the name Leadership and Public Service, as we were really living out our mission. It was another great push for us to continue our public service work.
I got to school by 6:00 A.M. that morning, which was probably one of the most beautiful, most spectacular clear mornings ever. We have an extremely large lobby, and I saw the voting booths spread all over the place. I didn’t want my rambunctious teenagers bumping into people who were coming in to vote, so I instructed my custodian to set up two long cafeteria tables to create a dividing line—the voting on one side, and the kids coming in on the other. People began coming in at a quarter to eight, and when I saw that things were running smoothly, I ran upstairs to check on what was going on in the office.
My secretary was actually preparing placards with the names of every teacher for the fire drill we were planning for the next day. When we went outside for the drill, each teacher was to hold up his or her placard so that the children could always find them easily. We had an effective plan for our school, which was enormous—a fourteen-story school building is not very usual. Also, because it was integrated into an office building, the fire codes were very different than they would be for just a schoolhouse.
I sat at my desk to do some paperwork. At 8:30, when classes started, I said to my secretary, “I’m going to run downstairs, just to see who the last stragglers are.” I also wanted to check on what was happening with the election. In addition, the battery on my watch had stopped working, so I was going to run into the World Trade Center to get a new battery at Watch World. Since we’re such a big school, we had walkie-talkies, so I took my walkie-talkie, which I would never leave without, and my keys, and left. And I never went back upstairs on that day.
At the polls I saw a gentleman who was reading his newspaper, indifferent to what was going on. There was a woman with a little dog, some elderly people, and the policeman who was assigned to the building for the election. As I was speaking with my school safety agents the lights in the lobby went out. Oh, no, I thought, we’re having a blackout—probably an electrical mess because of the voting booths. I believe that when the airplane entered our area it caused a power surge, because there was no [other] reason for those lights to go out. I believe it was because God was watching out for us, and it put me into alert mode. When you’re a school principal you’re responsible for everybody in the building.
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ds later the lights went back on. And almost immediately, the first boom resonated. The sound was so intense that you actually shook. I looked over at the police officer in the building, but he was out of there in a flash, and to this day I don’t know what happened to that young man. People started screaming and scrambling. I stayed in the lobby and looked up at One Liberty Plaza, and because it’s all glass I could see the reflection of the North Tower in it. Garbage started to fly, and I’m wondering, What the hell is that? What am I watching? People started spewing into my building for safety, screaming, “An airplane hit! An airplane hit!” They asked for a phone, but I told them we only had an intercom. I wasn’t really telling the truth, but I didn’t want everyone on the phone. I got on my walkie-talkie and told the assistant principal, who was upstairs, to go and take a look out the window and tell me what had just happened. More and more people were rushing into our lobby, and with all the turmoil going on, and screaming, a few of my kids started coming in. I remember specifically one young man, David, who looked as if he’d seen a ghost. He said, “The World Trade Center was hit.” And I said, “Hit with what?” He replied, “An airplane hit the building.” I thought to myself, An airplane, and pictured a Piper. I pictured a helicopter. A young lady then came in and said, “Ms. Dolch, a big airplane hit.”
“Big airplane? What are you talking about, big airplane?” And then I asked her to describe it. She was crying, and had a look of terror on her face, so I sat her down on a big granite bench, and she told me that the North Tower had been hit by a big airplane. And I remember I instantly thought to myself, Oh, my God, my sister Wendy is there. And then I said to God, Please, you have to take care of Wendy, because I have to take care of the kids.
