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by Bolt, Rodney


  p.309 ‘cash-for-honours scandal’ Wilson, A. N., After the Victorians, p.119; the UK National Archive website sets the current value of the gift at over £1.72 million.

  p.310 ‘Greed and Selfish Desire’ Ben. MS Benson Adds 14, Letter Tremans 18 August 1914

  p.310 ‘all her life long the march of external events’ Benson, A. C., Unpublished Memoir of Mary Benson, Ben. MS Benson adds 12/3 p.85

  p.310 ‘a totter with a tortoise’ Benson, E. F., Mother, p.162

  p.310 The gout ‘with its Hydra nature’ Ben. MS Benson 3/38 fol 110

  p.310 ‘mistiness which slides across’ Ben. MS Benson 3/33 fol 134

  p.310 ‘IS THIS THE HEND?’ Ben. MS Benson Adds 114 Letter Tremans November 7 [no year date]

  p.310 ‘I am endeavouring to see’ Ben. MS Benson 3/38 fol 111

  p.310 ‘a certain shortage of hearing’ Ben. MS Benson 3/38 fol 82

  p.310 male conversation, escaped her Ben. MS Benson 3/38 fol 116

  p.311 ‘the Rest of Life stretches before me’ Ben. MS Benson 3/38 fol 116

  p.312 ‘Lord Morley dined here’ Ben. MS Benson Adds 14, Letter 11 May 1917

  p.313 Death of Mrs Benson This death notice is a précis of the one that appeared in The Times on 17 June 1918.

  p.314 ‘dangerous stuff that had better perish’ Benson, E. F., Final Edition, p.135

  SELECT BIBLIOGRAPHY

  Primary Material

  Mary Benson’s diary, together with substantial Benson family correspondence, manuscripts, photographs and other Bensonia are held with the Benson Family Papers, Bodleian Library, University of Oxford.

  A. C. Benson’s diaries are at the Pepys Library, Magdalene College, University of Cambridge.

  E. W. Benson’s diaries, and other papers, are at the Wren Library, Trinity College, University of Cambridge.

  Published Works

  Abbott, Evelyn, The Life and Letters of Benjamin Jowett, 2 vols, John Murray, London, 1897

  Ackroyd, Peter, London: The Biography, Chatto & Windus, London, 2000

  Anon., The Duties of Servants: A Practical Guide to the Routine of Domestic Service, Copper Beech reprint of 1894 original, London, 1993

  Asquith, Betty, The Bensons, A Victorian Family, E. F. Benson Society reprint, London, 1994

  Bailin, Miriam, The Sickroom in Victorian Fiction, Cambridge University Press, Cambridge, 1994

  Baring, Maurice, The Puppet Show of Memory, Little Brown & Co., New York, 1922

  Benkowitz, Miriam, Frederick Rolfe: Baron Corvo, Hamish Hamilton, London, 1977

  Benson, A. C. Memoirs of Arthur Hamilton, Henry Holt, New York, 1886

  ——The Life of Edward White Benson, Sometime Archbishop of Canterbury, 2 vols, Macmillan, London, 1899

  ——Beside Still Waters, G. p.Putnam’s Sons, London, 1907

  ——Hugh, Memoirs of a Brother, Smith, Elder & Co., London, 1915

  ——Life and Letters of Maggie Benson, John Murray, London, 1917

  ——The House of Quiet, John Murray, London, 1919

  ——The Trefoil, John Murray, London, 1923

  Benson, E. F., Dodo, An Omnibus, Hogarth Press, London 1986 [1893]

  ——The Challoners, William Heinemann, London, 1904

  ——Across The Stream, John Murray, London, 1919

  ——Our Family Affairs 1867–1896, George H. Doran, New York, 1921 [1920]

  ——Rex, Hodder & Stoughton, London, 1925

  ——Mother, George H. Doran, New York, 1925

  ——As We Were, A Victorian Peep-Show, Hogarth Press, London, 1985 [1930]

  ——The Tale of an Empty House and Other Ghost Stories, Black Swan, London, 1986

  ——Final Edition, Hogarth Press, London, 1988 [1940]

  Benson, E. F. (ed.), Henry James, Letters to A. C. Benson and Auguste Monod, Elkin Mathews & Marrot, London, 1930

  Benson, Margaret, The Soul of a Cat, and Other Stories, Heinemann, London, 1901

  Benson, R. H., The Sentimentalists, Pitman & Sons, London, 1906

  ——The Necromancers, Bernhard Tauchnitz, Leipzig, 1910

  Davidson, Randall, Life of Archibald Campbell Tait, Archbishop of Canterbury, Macmillan, London, 1891

  Delmont, Sara, and Duffin, Lorna, The Nineteenth-Century Woman, Her Cultural and Physical World, Croom Helm, London, 1978

  Flanders, Judith, The Victorian House: Domestic Life from Childbirth to Deathbed, HarperCollins, London, 2003

  Gilman, Charlotte Perkins, The Yellow Wallpaper and Other Stories, Dover, New York, 1997

  Hichens, Robert, Yesterday, Cassell, London, 1947

  James, Henry, The Turn of the Screw, Penguin Books, Harmondsworth, 1984

  Lubbock, Percy (ed.), The Letters of Henry James, Macmillan, London, 1920

  ——The Diary of Arthur Christopher Benson, Hutchinson & Co, London, 1926

  Marcus, Sharon, Between Women: Friendship, Desire, and Marriage in Victorian England, Princeton University Press, Princeton, 2007

  Martindale, C. C., The Life of Monsignor Robert Hugh Benson, 2 vols, Longmans, London, 1916

  Masterman, Lucy (ed.), Mary Gladstone (Mrs Drew), Her Diaries and Letters, E. p.Dutton, New York, 1930

  Masters, Brian, The Life of E. F. Benson, Chatto & Windus, London, 1991

  Money, James, Capri, Island of Pleasure, Hamish Hamilton, London, 1986

  Nethercot, Arthur Hobart, The First Five Lives of Annie Besant, University of Chicago Press, Chicago, 1960

  Newsome, David H., Godliness & Good Learning: Four Studies on a Victorian Ideal, Cassell, London, 1961

  ——On the Edge of Paradise: A. C. Benson, the Diarist, University of Chicago Press, Chicago, 1980

  ——The Victorian World Picture, John Murray, London, 1997

  Oppenheim, Janet, The Other World: Spiritualism and Psychical Research in England, 1850–1914, Cambridge University Press, Cambridge, 1985

  ——‘Shattered Nerves’: Doctors, Patients, and Depression in Victorian England, Oxford University Press, Oxford, 1991

  Page, Frederick (ed.), The Poems of Coventry Patmore, Oxford University Press, London, 1949

  Palmer, Geoffrey and Lloyd, Noel, Father of the Bensons, Lennard Publishing, Harpenden, 1998

  Partridge, Michael, Gladstone, Routledge, London, 2002

  Paterson, Michael, Life in Victorian Britain: A Social History of Queen Victoria’s Reign, Robinson, London, 2008

  Paxman, Jeremy, The Victorians: Britain through the Paintings of the Age, BBC Books, London, 2009

  Raverat, Gwen, Period Piece: A Cambridge Childhood, Faber & Faber, London, 1987

  Rolfe, Frederick, The Desire & Pursuit of the Whole, Quartet Books, London, 1993

  Roper, Michael and Tosh, John (eds), Manful Assertions: Masculinities in Britain since 1800, Routledge, London, 1991

  Showalter, Elaine, The Female Malady: Women, Madness, and Culture in England 1830–1980, Pantheon, New York, 1985

  Smyth, Ethel, Impressions that Remained, 2 vols, Longmans, London, 1919

  ——As Time Went On. . . , Longmans, London, 1936

  ——The Memoirs of Ethyl Smyth, Faber & Faber, London, 2008

  Stanley, Arthur Penrhyn, Life and Correspondence of Thomas Arnold, John Murray, London, 1881

  Stephenson, Glennis (ed.), Nineteenth-Century Stories by Women, An Anthology, Broadview Literary Texts, Peterborough, Ontario, 1993

  Tangye, Michael, Tehidy and the Bassets: the Rise and Fall of a Great Cornish Family, Truran, Redruth, 2002

  Taylor, Anne, Annie Besant: The Biography, Oxford University Press, Oxford, 1992

  Tosh, John, Manliness and Masculinities in Nineteenth-Century Britain, Pearson Longman, Harlow, 2005

  Vicinus, Martha, (ed.), Suffer and Be Still: Women in the Victorian Age, Indiana University Press, Bloomington, 1972

  ——(ed.), A Widening Sphere: Changing Roles of Victorian Women, Indiana University Press, Bloomington, 1977

  ——Intimate Friends, Women who Loved Women, 1778–1928, University of Chicago Press, Chi
cago, 2004

  Watkins, Gwen, E. F. Benson & His Family and Friends, E. F. Benson Society, Rye, 2003

  Whitehouse, J. Howard, Vindication of Ruskin, Allen & Unwin, London, 1950

  Williams, David, Genesis and Exodus: A Portrait of the Benson Family, Hamish Hamilton, London, 1979

  Wilson, A. N., After the Victorians, Hutchinson, London, 2005

  Wohl, Anthony (ed.), The Victorian Family, Structures and Stresses, St Martin’s Press, New York, 1978

  INDEX

  Page numbers in italics refers to an illustration

  Addington 160, 168, 169, 183, 193–4, 216, 217

  Albany, Duchess of 249

  Albany, Duke of 266

  Albert, Prince 14, 43, 60–1, 166

  Algiers 191–3

  Arnold, Dr Thomas 35, 36, 61, 62, 64

  Asquith, Herbert 201

  Austin, Alfred 267

  Baker, Thomas 16–18

  Balfour, A.J. 259

  Balfour, Lady Blanche 69–70

  Baring, Maurice 181

  Barton, Dr 303

  Basset, Charlotte Mary (‘Chat’) 148–50, 152–3, 159, 171

  Basset, Gustavus 149

  Bedford, Duchess of 172–3, 237, 259, 265, 304

  Beeton, Mrs

  Book of Household Management 65

  Bell, Gertrude 195

  Benson, Ada (Edward’s sister) 4, 16, 26, 36, 72, 81

  Benson, Agnes (wife of Christopher) 101, 102, 106

  Benson, Arthur (son) 196–9, 200, 206, 228, 245, 264, 271

  Beside Still Waters 89, 269, 296–7

  and Beth 89–90, 300

  birth 81

  at Cambridge University 146, 196

  character and appearance 141, 196, 266, 275–6

  childhood and early years 89–90, 90, 93, 110, 112, 136, 138

  composes verses for ‘Land of Hope and Glory’ 305, 367

  and death of father 226

  depressions suffered 196, 197, 292, 296, 301–2, 309

  earnings 309

  editing of Queen Victoria’s letters 167, 267

  fellowship at Magdalene College 267

  and First World War 305

  friendship with Henry James 235, 236–7

  gift of money from Madame de Nottbeck 309

  holding back of emotions and sexual inclinations 267–9

  The House of Quiet 197–8, 253

  on Lis Escop 129

  literary career 196, 200, 267, 275–6, 278–9

  made Master of Magdalene College 309

  and Maggie’s mental breakdown 291–2, 300, 303

  male friendships 196–7, 198, 241, 261

  master at Eton 188, 235

  Memoirs of Arthur Hamilton 93, 198–9

  mental collapse and convalescence in nursing home 309

  mother’s view of literary efforts 277, 278

  and motoring 263

  moving up the social ladder 266–7

  on parents’ marriage 217

  and religion 258

  Revivalist meeting attended 196

  and Tremans 250, 253, 282

  as unofficial Poet Laureate to Court of Windsor 267

  view of Churchill 305

  view of Edward VII 265

  view of Hugh’s ordination as Roman Catholic priest 272

  view of Lucy Tait 287

  view of Mary Basset 148–9

  view of Rolfe 280–1

  Benson, Captain White (Edward’s grandfather) 11

  Benson, Charlie (Edward’s brother) 16–17, 18, 19

  Benson children 143, 163, 195

  and death of Nellie 188–9

  and Ethel Smyth 178

  fascination with natural world 138

  and father’s will 226

  life at Lincoln Chancery 113–14

  life at Lis Escop 129, 134–5, 136–7

  and Martin’s death 132–3

  producing of Saturday Magazine 140

  relationship between 140

  relationship with father 115–16, 135

  relationship with mother 115, 136–7

  Benson, Christopher (Edward’s brother) 100, 101, 219

  Benson, Edward White (husband)

  antipathy felt towards Ethel Smyth 179–81

  as Archbishop of Canterbury 151–2, 166–7, 216, 218

  belief in Muscular Christianity 36, 203, 218

  as Bishop of Truro 122, 123–4, 127, 135, 144

  at Cambridge University 7, 13–14, 19–20, 21, 35

  as Chancellor of Lincoln Cathedral 103–4, 105, 109, 111–12, 116–17

  character 163, 217

  childhood 12

  and death of mother 16

  and death of son (Martin) 132–4

  death and funeral xvii, 221, 225–6, 249–50

  depressions and moods 42–3, 67, 103, 116–17, 144–5, 191–2, 216, 218, 219

  disposition to ‘make idols’ 19, 23

  early education 9

  early intentions of marrying Mary 23–5, 26, 27–34

  and education of children 133

  engagement to Mary 34, 36–7, 40–3

  family background 11

  family holidays 146–7

  founding of Ghost Society 19, 73, 169

  and Gladstone 165

  headmastership of Wellington College 43, 61, 63–4, 67

  honeymoon travels 51–7

  invites Lucy Tait to live at Lambeth Palace 190

  Irish tour whilst Archbishop 219

  and Lincoln Trial judgement 219

  marriage to and relationship with Mary 64, 65, 73–7, 105, 108–9, 117, 119, 121, 122, 142, 144, 145, 217–18

  and Mary’s breakdown and recovery in Wiesbaden 103, 105–6

  ordination 40

  redecoration of Lambeth Palace 157–8

  relationship with children 93, 115–16, 130, 133, 135, 182, 192, 206

  relationship with Francis Martin 18–19, 20–1

  relationship with Mary’s mother 27, 32

  relationship with son (Hugh) 141, 202, 203

  reliance on by Queen Victoria 166–7

  religious faith 12–13, 16, 18

  starts up new theological college (Scholae Cancelarii) 116, 117

  teaching post at Rugby school 35–7

  tour of German schools 61

  trip to Algiers and Tunis 191–3

  verses written 133–4

  view on education 63–4

  view of Mary’s friendships with other women 88, 108, 119, 150

  view of spiritualism 73

  visits Mary when a child 4–6

  wedding 43–8

  will 226

  work on the life of St Cyprian of Carthage 191

  Benson, Edward White (Edward’s father) 9, 10, 11, 11

  Benson, Eleanor (Edward’s sister) 4, 13, 16, 19, 26, 29, 36

  Benson, Eleanor Sarah 11

  Benson, Fred (son) 172, 194–5, 199–202, 233, 271, 303–4

  Across the Stream 92, 94–5

  appearance and character 141, 199

  archaeological expeditions in Athens 206

  and Beth 300

  birth 81

  at Cambridge 199

  in Capri 301

  catches typhoid 232

  The Challoners 270

  childhood and early years 92, 101, 113–14, 133, 134, 136

  and death of father 225

  and death of Nellie 188–9

  departs for Athens 245

  dislike of Tremans 252–3

  Dodo 170–1, 175–6, 178–9, 200–1, 202

  education 146

  and First World War 308

  friendship with Lord Douglas 207–8

  gives up lease on Tremans 313–14

  literary career 235–6, 269–70, 313

  living at Winchester 236, 239–40

  and Maggie’s mental illness 307

  male friendships 207, 241, 261–2, 301

  The Money Market 277–8

  mother’s view of literary ef
forts 277–8

  Our Family Affairs 116, 193–4

  on parents’ marriage 217–18

  ‘Pirates’ 137–8

  relationship with mother 163, 199, 201, 215–16, 228, 240, 270, 301

  removal of kidney 301

  Rex 145

  takes tenancy of Lamb House 313

  trip to Egypt 207–8

  Benson, Harriet (Edward’s sister) 16

  Benson, Harriet (née Baker) (Edward’s mother) 11, 11, 12, 14–16, 26

  Benson, Hugh (son) 202–3, 231–2, 271

  and Beth 300

  birth 81, 97

  character and appearance 141–2, 202

  childhood and early years 96, 103, 114, 133, 135, 140

  death 306

  and death of father 226

  education 146

  and First World War 305–6

  Hare Street House purchase and ménage at 301

  joins the Community of the Resurrection 270

  The Light Invisible 270, 278

  and Maggie’s mental breakdown 292, 301

  The Necromancers 254

  plan for a novel on the European War 307

  poem 142

  preaching tours 274

  relationship with father 141, 202, 203

  relationship with mother 301, 306

  relationship with Rolfe 280–2, 301

  and rheumatism 228

  and Roman Catholicism 270, 272–4

  and Tremans 250

  trip to Egypt 228–30, 229

  Benson, Maggie (daughter) 166, 181, 203–10

  archaeological digs in Egypt 209, 228, 229–30

  birth 81

  character and appearance 140–1, 203–4, 203, 204, 205

  childhood and early years 90, 95, 103, 113–14, 114, 136, 150

  death 307–8

  and death of Nellie 189

  education 135

  establishment of St Paul’s Association 255

  and father’s will 226

  health and mental problems 204, 206, 207, 243

  heart attack 232

  improvements in mental condition 297, 302

  jealousy and resentment of Lucy 203–4, 229, 234, 240, 243, 285, 286, 287, 290, 294, 295

  living at Winchester 241

  love of animals 138–9, 139, 255, 297

  mental breakdown and committed into care 285–94, 300–1

  at Oxford 188, 206

  pleurisy 232

  possession of by Edward’s spirit 241–3, 255

  relationship with mother and treatment of during mental illness 242–4, 285, 286–9, 294, 297–8, 300, 302–3

  relationship with Nettie Gourlay 210–11, 236, 255

 

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