Judith Viorst, Necessary Losses (New York: Fawcett, 1986).
Beverly Engel, The Emotionally Abused Woman (New York: Fawcett Columbine, 1991).
Michael Gurian, A Fine Young Man (New York: Tarder, 1998).
CHAPTER 6: ACTION STEPS FOR THE ABUSIVE PARTNER
Lewis B.Smedes, Shame and Grace: Healing the Shame We Don't Deserve (San Francisco: HarperSanFrancisco, 1993).
CHAPTER 9: WHEN YOUR ABUSIVENESS STEMS FROM YOUR PERSONALITY DISORDER
James Masterson, The Search for the Real Self Unmasking the Personality Disorders of Our Age (New York: The Free Press, 1988).
Elan Golomb, Ph.D., Adult Children of Narcissists in Their Struggle for Self (New York: William Morrow, 1992).
EMOTIONAL CHILD ABUSE
Emotional Child Abuse: The Family Curse, by Joel Covitz
Emotional Abuse, by Marti Tamm Loring
Necessary Losses, by Judith Viorst
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self, by Alice Miller
RECOVERY
Stalking the Soul: Emotional Abuse and the Erosion of Identity, by Marie-France Hirigoyen
Finding the Love You Want, by Harville Hendrix
If You Had Controlling Parents: How to Make Peace with Your Past and Take Your Place in the World, by Dan Neuharth
The Narcissistic/Borderline Couple, by Joan Lachkar
Emotional Blackmail, by Susan Forward
Are You the One for Me? Knowing Who 's Right and Avoiding Who's Wrong, by Barbara De Angelis
Adult Children of Abusive Parents, by Steven Farmer
Divorcing a Parent, by Beverly Engel
Toxic Parents, by Susan Forward
RECOVERY FOR FEMALE VICTIMS OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE
The Emotionally Abused Woman, by Beverly Engel
Encouragements for the Emotionally Abused Woman, by Beverly Engel
Loving Him without Losing You, by Beverly Engel
The Dance ofAnger: A Woman 's Guide to Changing the Patterns in Intimate Relationships, by Harriet Lerner
RECOVERY FOR MALE VICTIMS OF EMOTIONAL ABUSE
The Wounded Male, by Steven Farmer
Wounded Boys Heroic Men: A Man 's Guide to Recovering from Child Abuse, by Daniel Jay Sonkin, Lenore E.A.Walker
Flying Boy: Healing the Wounded Male, by John Lee
ANGER MANAGEMENT AND STRESS REDUCTION
The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook, by Martha Davis, Matthew McKay, and Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman
The Big Book of Stress Release Games, by Robert Epstein, Ph.D.
Angry All the Time: An Emergency Guide to Anger Control, by Ron Potter-Efron
The Angry Self A Comprehensive Approach to Anger Management, by Miriam M. Gottlieb, Ph.D.
Beyond Anger: A Guide for Men, by Thomas J.Harbin
RELATED RECOVERY ISSUES
Boundaries: Where You End and I Begin, by Anne Katherine
Codependent No More: Beyond Codependency, by Melody Beattie
Shame and Grace, by Lewis B.Smedes
The Shame That Binds, by John Bradshaw
Blessings from the Fall: Turning a Fall from Grace into a New Beginning, by Beverly Engel
The Power ofApology, by Beverly Engel
Boundaries and Relationships, by Charles L.Whitfield, M.D.
OTHER FORMS OF ABUSE
The Verbally Abusive Relationship, by Patricia Evans
The Right to Innocence: Healing the Trauma of Childhood Sexual Abuse, by Beverly Engel
The Courage to Heal, by Laura Davis
Getting Free: You Can End Abuse and Take Back Your Life, by Ginny NiCarthy
It's My Life Now. Starting Over after an Abusive Relationship or Domestic Violence, by Meg Kennedy Dugan
BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER
Lost in the Mirror: An Inside Look at Borderline Personality Disorder, by Richard A. Moskovitz, M.D.
Skills Training Manual for Treating Borderline Personality Disorder, by Marsha M. Linehan
Stop Walking on Eggshells: Coping When Someone You Care about Has Borderline Personality Disorder by Paul Mason and Randi Kreger
NARCISSISTIC PERSONALITY DISORDER
Trapped in the Mirror: Adult Children of Narcissists in Their Struggle for Self, by Elan Golomb, Ph.D.
Children of the Self-Absorbed: A Grown-Ups Guide to Getting Over Narcissistic Parents, by Nina W.Brown
The Search for the Real Self. - Unmasking the Personality Disorders of Our Age, by James E Masterson, M.D.
BREAKING THE CYCLE
The Parenthood Decision, by Beverly Engel
Your Child's Self-Esteem, by Doroty Corkville Briggs
www.beverlyengel.com
www.powerofapology.com
EMOTIONAL ABUSE CHAT ROOMS
www.healingclub.com
www.thewoundedhealer.com
www.selfgrowth.com
www.about.com
www.joy2meu.com
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CHAT ROOM
www. thewoundedhealerj ournal. com
BORDERLINE WEBSITES & CHAT ROOMS
www.mhsanctuarycomiborderline/ chatrooms for BPDs, partners, families-also for males suffering from BPD
www.bpdcentral.com/
for partners of BPDs
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