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by Ned Rorem


  on art and artistic life, 39–40, 42, 52, 103, 114–15, 117, 133, 299, 304, 326, 327, 370, 466–67

  birth of, 28

  chickenpox suffered by, 349–50

  childhood and adolescence of, 28, 31–135

  at college, 135, 138–42, 144, 154–58, 160, 162, 165, 173, 237, 242, 244, 277

  as composer, 52, 81, 101–2, 103, 121, 156–58, 179, 181, 236–37, 244, 254–256, 258–61, 263, 272, 273, 275, 288, 302, 309, 311–12, 316, 317, 319–20, 322, 328, 338, 345, 347–48, 350–52, 385–87, 396, 415–16, 419–20, 423, 426–27, 435, 436–40, 479–80, 487–488, 502, 544, 545, 559, 560–61, 575, 578, 579 (see also specific works)

  as copyist, 197–98, 208–9, 210, 213, 215, 220, 221, 223, 234

  daily agendas kept by, 286–87, 300–301

  as described in other people’s memoirs, 381–84

  diaries of, 42, 142, 244–45, 270–78, 319–320, 325–34, 357–80, 384, 488–490

  draft status of, 98, 161, 173, 326, 433

  dreams and nightmares of, 33, 102, 217, 270–71, 272, 276, 328, 332, 333, 357, 358–59, 363, 365, 372, 516–17

  drinking and alcoholism of, 55, 95, 104, 113, 114, 121–22, 130–31, 143–44, 151, 152, 187, 201, 214, 227, 273, 330–31, 333, 334, 343, 349, 358, 359, 360, 367, 381, 382, 383, 393, 401–2, 429, 440, 459, 500, 517, 528, 568

  driving abilities of, 113

  earliest musical experiences of, 41–42, 46–47, 53–55

  earliest sexual experiences of, 44–45, 93–96, 98–99, 116, 122, 126–31, 136

  education of, 31, 36, 45, 48, 51–52, 59, 79, 89–90, 107, 108, 133, 134–35, 420

  as essayist, 322–23

  on fidelity, 162–63

  financial support of, 63, 430, 561

  first airplane ride of, 250

  first commission received by, 191, 196

  first compositions by, 81

  first dead person seen by, 62

  first earnings of, 55–56

  first European trip of, 83–88

  first public performances of, 133–34

  first published work of, 263

  first recorded work of, 419

  first song cycle of, 479

  handwriting of, 73

  hemorrhoidectomy of, 504–5, 506, 510, 528

  homosexuality of, 40, 51, 61, 89, 93–96, 104, 186, 217, 343

  inferiority complex of, 110

  insomnia of, 88

  as memoir writer, 42, 127, 467, 490, 515, 561–62, 585–87

  on musical performers and performance, 155–57, 177, 230–31, 493–94, 499

  musical training of, 47, 48, 62–63, 64, 102–3, 120, 135, 139, 140–41, 144, 155, 162, 165, 166–202, 216–17, 220–21, 226–27, 234–35, 237–38, 280–82, 286–288, 292–98, 306–7, 336, 350, 576, 579

  myopia of, 78, 90, 91

  Norwegian forbears of, 26, 35–36, 455

  parents’ deaths and, 13–23

  passivity of, 95, 131

  physical appearance of, 20, 35, 89, 186, 383

  as pianist, 46, 47, 48, 52, 62–63, 64, 79, 81, 102–3, 133–34, 139, 141, 144, 155–156, 162, 168, 171, 226–27, 234–35, 238, 239–41, 242, 245–48, 250, 251–52, 288, 386, 423, 481

  political views of, 81–82, 115–16, 126, 133, 313, 457–58

  portraits of, 519–20, 565, 567

  public virtuoso’s life rejected by, 155–156

  reading and literary tastes of, 79, 142, 199–200, 236, 244, 301, 363, 378, 421, 442, 449–50, 454–55, 484, 490, 500, 502, 505, 506, 510, 518, 551, 553, 560, 570, 575 (see also specific authors)

  remoteness of, 108, 114, 337

  on sexual proclivities of musicians, 346–347

  shyness of, 28, 140, 201, 275, 337

  on singing and human voice, 156–58, 296

  sole heterosexual experience of, 186, 194

  speech defect of, 37, 78, 336

  spiritual beliefs of, 28–29, 60, 100–101, 161, 508–9

  at summer camp, 106–7

  as teacher, 247

  tonsillectomy of, 136

  women adored by, 113–14

  on women artists, 327

  Rorem, Ole Jon (grandfather), 17, 18, 26, 32, 37, 70, 73, 74

  Rorem, Rosemary (sister), see Marshall, Rosemary Rorem

  Rorem, Sine Tendenes (grandmother), 26

  Rosand, Aaron, 169

  Rosen, Lucie Bigelow, 370

  Rosenberg, Harold, 254

  Rosenthal, Laurence, 336

  Rosenthal, Manuel, 115

  Rosenwald, Julius, 63–64, 92

  Julius Rosenwald Fund, 63–64, 71, 290

  Ross, Alan, 549

  Ross, Alvin, 174, 180, 198, 214, 225, 228, 242, 280, 369, 409, 499, 566

  Ross, Hugh, 121, 282, 287, 291, 293, 352, 368

  Rossini, Gioacchino, 450

  Rost, Leo, 301

  Rothschild, Edward, 62, 63

  Rothschild, Nuta, 62–63

  Rousseau, Jean-Jacques, 561–62

  Royer, Fernand, 422–23, 426, 452, 482

  Royer, Fernande, 422–23, 426, 440, 452, 482

  Royer, Jeannine, 422–23, 440

  Royer, Michel, 422–23, 440, 452, 489, 503, 507

  Rubinstein, Anton, 54

  Rubinstein, Ida, 458

  Ruggles, Carl, 228, 259–60

  Ruml, Stud, 364

  Russell, Bertrand, 116

  Sablé, Lucien, 527

  Saby, Bernard, 428, 431–32

  Sachs, David, 110–11, 112, 124, 164, 198, 225, 294, 373

  Sachs, Maurice, 482, 502, 503

  Sachs, Oliver, 36

  Sade, Marquis de, 500, 538

  Sagan, Françoise, 538

  Sager, Gordon, 459, 527

  Saint-Jean, Robert de, 511, 512, 528

  St. Just, Maria, 383

  Saint Thomas’s Church (Chicago), 57, 60

  Salgues, Yves, 432, 434, 459, 472, 495, 518

  Salme, Dr., 491

  Salzedo, Carlos, 170

  Saminsky, Lazare, 385

  Samuel, Gerhard, 294, 394, 402

  Sandburg, Carl, 117

  Sanders, George, 343, 344

  Santayana, George, 25

  Sappho, 287, 459, 472

  Sara (cousin), 19, 22–23

  Sartre, Jean-Paul, 256, 302, 358, 377, 401, 405, 413, 426, 467, 505, 509, 553, 570, 575

  Satie, Erik, 25, 207, 211–12, 232–33, 387, 410, 476, 532, 534, 553, 557, 564, 580

  Saturday Review, 445–46

  Sauguet, Henri, 210, 369, 405, 407, 410, 464, 465, 472, 475, 478, 504, 537, 543, 567

  Scalero, Rosario, 165, 167, 178, 179, 189–190, 194, 198, 201, 457

  Scarlatti, Alessandro, 99, 106

  Schanker, Louis, 542

  Schelling, Ernest, 501

  Schiller, Johann von, 578

  Schippers, Thomas, 570–71

  Schmidt, Gladys, 259

  Schmitz, E. Robert, 226

  Schnabel, Artur, 119, 130, 155, 193, 468

  Schneider, Alexander, 216

  Schoenberg, Arnold, 53–54, 102, 133, 185, 186, 195, 198, 207, 227, 264, 383, 386, 438, 472, 573

  Schubert, Franz, 24, 167, 200, 202, 337, 342, 374, 376, 382, 438, 468, 476, 524

  Schuman, William, 208, 350, 385

  Schumann, Robert, 193, 223, 504

  Schumann, Elisabeth, 170, 202, 230

  Schupper, Fabian X., 248

  Schuyler, James, 254

  Scott, Cyril, 107, 126

  Scott, Dan (later Simon Scott), 353

  Scriabin, Aleksandr, 37, 139, 158

  Scriabin, Miriam, 493

  “See How They Love Me,” 339–40

  Seligmann, Kurt, 255, 256, 353

  Semser, Ethel, 570

  Serkin, Rudolf, 167, 168–69, 194, 199

  Sermon on Miracles, A, 309, 338

  Sessions, Roger, 283, 340, 346

  Sessler, Eric, 334

  Seven Little Prayers, 312, 338

  Seventieth Psalm, The, 191, 196

  Shakespeare,
William, 71, 74, 83, 84, 164

  Shanet, Howard, 292

  Shapero, Harold, 207, 235, 281, 346, 386, 486

  Shapiro, Karl, 338

  Shapiro, Lillian, 260

  Shaw, Artie, 96, 119, 263

  Shaw, George Bernard, 102

  Shaw, Robert, 298, 314

  Shelley, Percy Bysshe, 522–23

  Sherer, Rolf, 167

  Shomate, James, 499

  Shostakovich, Dmitri, 97, 175, 294, 413, 535

  Sibelius, Jean, 294, 450

  Sicilienne, 487–88

  “Sick Rose, The,” 230

  Sigmond, Robert, 16

  Silas (uncle), 26

  Siloti, Kiriena, 235

  “Silver Swan, The,” 311, 345

  Simenon, Georges, 142, 236, 551

  Simon, Abbey, 493

  Simon, Joan (Lewison), 366

  Simon, Sid, 366

  Sitwell, Edith, 351–52, 368, 458, 471, 534

  Sitwell, Sacheverell, 351, 534

  Sivori, Ernesto, 167

  Six Irish Poems, 480, 488, 571

  “Sleeping Palace, The,” 423

  Slobe, Laura, 102

  Slonimsky, Antony, 107

  Slow Piece for Cello and Piano, 488

  Smit, Leo, 314, 346, 485–86

  Smith, Bessie, 159–60, 216

  Smith, Bill, 243, 271

  Smith, Carleton Sprague, 345, 376

  Smith, Cecil, 164, 246, 436

  Smith, Loren, 134, 224

  Smith, Muriel, 170, 230–31, 243, 246, 257, 355, 364, 365, 372, 370, 530

  Smith, Oliver, 221, 257, 258

  Smith, William Jay, 457, 462

  Snow, Carmel, 533

  Society of Friends, see Quakers, Quakerism

  Sokoloff, Nicolai, 243

  Sokoloff, Noel, 243, 246

  Sokoloff, Vladimir, 243

  Sonata in Four Scenes, 419–20

  Sondheim, Stephen, 253

  “Song,” 225

  “Song of David, A,” 101, 259, 263, 440

  “Song of Songs,” 95, 121

  Sontag, Susan, 436, 470

  Sorel, Felicia, 356

  Sorel, Julien, 447

  Souvchinsky, Pierre, 432

  Souzay, Gérard, 466, 469, 472, 499, 559, 569

  Sowerby, Leo, 95, 120–22, 124, 135, 148, 157, 190, 280, 291

  Spender, Natasha, 521–22, 527

  Spender, Stephen, 158, 289, 294, 351, 468–469, 470–71, 520, 521–23, 527

  Spenser, Edmund, 437

  Sphinx and the Chimera, The, 179

  Spirito, Romolo di, 301

  “Spring,” 338

  “Spring and Fall,” 260, 338

  Stander, Lionel, 255

  Stankeiwicz, Richard, 370

  Starer, Robert, 288

  Starker, Janos, 494

  Starkie, Enid, 452

  Starr, Kay, 174

  Stauffer, Thomas, 110, 116, 365, 405

  Steber, Eleanor, 307, 569

  Steegmuller, Francis, 497

  Stein, Elliott, 469, 470, 471, 499, 535, 575

  Stein, Gertrude, 75, 89, 210, 213, 219, 221, 253, 415, 473, 534, 545

  Stein, Jean, 192, 383, 583

  Stein, Joe, 139

  Steinbeck, John, 132

  Stella, Adler, 578

  Stendahl (Marie-Henri Beyle), 482, 483

  Stéphane, Nicole, 436

  Sternberg, Jonathan, 439

  Steuermann, Edward, 133

  Stevens, Wallace, 353

  Stevenson, Robert Louis, 350

  Stickney, Billy, 80

  Stimer, David, 226, 301, 427

  Stock, Frederick, 119

  Stokowski, Leopold, 97, 98, 99–100, 171, 182, 209–10, 226

  “Stopping by Woods,” 338

  Strauss, Noel, 385

  Strauss, Richard, 63, 139, 322, 342

  Stravinsky, Igor, 42, 63, 78, 90–91, 98, 103, 107, 114, 198, 207, 211, 234, 235, 254, 262, 263, 284, 314, 344, 346, 371, 375, 428, 431, 432, 451, 466–67, 472, 476, 485, 486, 548, 568, 575

  Streisand, Barbra, 231, 450, 537

  Strickland, William, 190, 191, 236, 327, 338

  Stringham, Ed, 326, 342

  String Quartet No. 1, 288, 488

  String Quartet No. 2, 338, 436, 487, 488

  Strouse, Charles (Buddy), 335–36, 396, 397

  Stryker, Dick, 377

  Sturrock, John, 561–62

  “Such Beauty as Hurts to Behold,” 316

  Suite for Two Pianos, 479–80, 485

  Sullivan, Sir Arthur, 565

  surrealism, 254, 354, 435, 509, 523, 544, 556

  Sutherland, Jimmy, 62

  Swanson, Howard, 64

  “Sweet Dancer,” 559

  Swenson, Mae, 137

  Symphony No. 1, 439, 440, 560

  Symphony No. 2, 243

  Symphony No. 3, 148, 171, 185, 480

  Tabuteau, Marcel, 171

  Taft, Laredo, 67

  Tagrine, Nadia, 478

  Talma, Louise, 499

  Tangeman, Nell, 202, 344–45, 347–48, 349, 367, 368, 373, 377, 378, 382, 385, 387, 394–95, 437, 452, 453–57, 465–466, 467–68, 480, 488, 498–99, 512, 569, 571, 573, 575, 579, 584

  Tangeman, Robert, 345

  Tannenbaum, Belle, 102–3, 120, 130, 133, 134, 162, 200, 256, 325

  Tanner, Alan, 200, 256

  Tarlet, Yves, 504

  Tchelitcheff, Pavel, 200, 217, 254, 256, 273, 301, 405

  Tcherepnin, Nikolay N., 103

  Téchoueyres, Jean, 464

  Teicher, Ralph, 352

  Templeton, Alec, 379

  Tennyson, Alfred, Lord, 170, 423

  Tertian, Paul, 464

  Tessier, Carmen, 527

  Tessier, Valentine, 557

  That We May Live, 260, 261

  Thibaud, Jacques, 348

  Thomas, Hilda Mary, 164

  Thompson, Agnes Rorem (aunt), 40–41

  Thompson, David, 144

  Thompson, Emmett (uncle), 41

  Thompson, Junior (cousin), 41

  Thompson, Kathleen (cousin), 41

  Thompson, Maxford (cousin), 41

  Thompson, Olga (cousin), 41, 44, 109, 373

  Thompson, Phyllis (cousin), 41

  Thomson, Clara May (Virgil’s mother), 218

  Thomson, Virgil, 21, 81, 102, 137, 155, 164, 178, 197–98, 207–13, 217–21, 223–24, 226, 227, 228, 232, 235, 236, 238, 239, 243–44, 246, 252, 254, 258, 262, 268, 271, 274, 278, 281, 282, 291, 310, 313, 317, 318, 322–23, 345, 346, 355, 363, 372, 382, 383–84, 407, 432, 463, 464, 468, 484, 545, 561, 575, 580

  Three Incantations for a Marionette Tale, 255

  Three Old English Songs, 225

  Three Pieces for Voice and Instruments (formerly In Piazzas Palladio), 226, 228, 345, 419

  Tibaudin, Henri-Georges, 528

  Tiger’s Eye, 361

  Tillich, Paul, 53

  Time, 249, 251, 260, 290, 294, 308

  TLS, 561–62

  “To Anthea, Who May Command Him Anything,” 479

  To a Young Girl, 559

  Toch, Ernst, 103

  Todd, Miss (teacher), 68

  Toklas, Alice B., 88–89, 219, 553, 566–67

  Tolstoy, Count Leo, 34, 449

  “To Music, to Becalm His Fever,” 479

  Torke, Michael, 172

  Tosar, Heitor, 281, 292

  Toscanini, Arturo, 191, 472

  Toumanova, Tamara, 529–30

  Tourel, Jennie, 225, 301, 363, 424, 443, 481, 498–99, 569, 575

  “Tourist’s Song,” 339

  Tree, Iris, 355

  Trenet, Charles, 395, 491, 553

  Trerisse, Victor, 367

  Trotter, Robert, 141, 155

  Truebridge, Lady Una, 456

  Truman, Harry S, 81, 241, 373–74

  Tureck, Rosalyn, 325

  Turner, Chuck, 288–90, 307, 310, 355, 359, 364, 369, 372, 522, 527

  Turner, Lana, 252, 263, 417

  Two-Piano Suite, 436


  Tyler, Parker, 119, 254, 255, 256, 273, 353

  Tyler, Veronica, 171

  Tynan, Kenneth, 446

  Undset, Sigrid, 35

  University of Buffalo, 318

  Ussachevsky, Vladimir, 292

  Utah Symphony, 284

  Vadot, Monsieur, 435, 469, 479, 490

  Vail, Mr. (music instructor), 107

  Valéry, Paul, 585

  Valeva, Countess, 457

  Vanderbilt, Gloria, 444

  Van Gogh, Vincent, 368

  Van Grove, Isaac, 260

  Van Horne, Harold, 139, 141, 144, 155

  Varèse, Edgard, 89, 107–8, 228, 353

  Varèse, Louise, 210, 211

  Vaughan, Sarah, 130

  Velde, Rosabel, 421

  Vengarova, Isabelle, 169

  Verdi, Giuseppe, 63, 321

  Verlaine, Paul, 342, 396, 421

  Veyron-Lacroix, Robert (Roro), 543, 545–546, 552–53

  Vidal, Gore, 101, 181, 288–89, 384–85, 411, 449, 461

  Vidal, Yves, 535

  Vienna Philharmonic, 439

  View, 218, 254, 255, 339, 353, 424, 454

  Villa-Lobos, Heitor, 502

  Vilmorin, Louise de, 472, 481, 532

  Vincent, Gail, 520

  Violin Concerto, 354

  Violin Sonata, 255, 419–20, 427, 428, 464

  Voltaire (François-Marie Arouet), 304

  Wagenaar, Bernard, 287–88, 350, 363, 375

  Wagner, Richard, 322, 413, 458, 575

  Wald, Max, 158, 162

  Walker, Charles, 434, 459, 471–72

  Walker, Norman, 268

  Wallenstein, Alfred, 210

  Walpole, Hugh, 136

  Walter, Bruno, 225

  Walton, William, 314, 351, 458

  Ward, Robert, 288

  Washington Ballet Company, 445

  Waterbury, Nikita, 462, 472

  Waters, Ethel, 70

  Watson, Peter, 528

  Weaver, Bill, 174

  Weber, Ben, 185, 186, 195, 260, 265, 275, 301, 347, 353, 383

  Webern, Anton, 185, 232–33, 428, 481

  Weidman, Charles, 228

  Weill, Kurt, 170, 253, 316, 318, 322, 395

  Weinberg, Marian, 125

  Weinstein, Arthur, 164, 193, 298, 394, 575

  Weinstock, Herbert, 375

  Weissberger, Arnold, 448

  Weissenberg, Sigi (Alexis), 348

  Welles, Orson, 314

  Wescott, Glenway, 445

  Wessel, Morry, 115

  West, Mae, 29, 60, 79, 119, 130, 176, 241, 518, 563

  Wharton, Edith, 25, 548, 549

  “What If Some Little Pain,” 436–37, 439–440

  “Whiskey, Drink Divine,” 488

  Whitelaw, Jordan, 352, 368

  Whitman, Walt, 15, 260, 314, 487, 540, 546

  Whittemore & Lowe, 488

  Wigman, Mary, 52, 53

  Wilcox, Wendell, 461

  Wild, Earl, 190–91

  Wilde, Oscar, 11, 42, 74, 110, 253, 506

  Wilder, Alec, 370

  Wilder, Thornton, 26, 35

  Wilk, Maurice, 345, 419

 

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