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by Joseph P. Lash


  abroad with Sara (1925), 372

  accompanies father to Yalta, 913

  birth and christening of, 189–90

  and birth of first child, 375

  on difference between parents’ personalities, 640

  divorces Curtis Dall, 465

  and father’s illness, 889n, 891

  letter to father as child, 201

  marriage of, Sara’s wedding gift to, 373–74

  on mother’s jealousy, 640–41

  problems with marriage, 429

  quoted, 242–43

  relationship with mother as teenager, 372–74

  and resentment of Louis Howe, 341–42

  resents Missy, 640–41

  run-in with father, 343

  stays at White House, 891–92

  upbringing and education of, 236–44 passim, 296, 297

  Roosevelt, Anna Hall (mother), 3, 16, 17, 18, 23–24, 65, 70, 112, 117–18, 173, 605

  and birth of Elliott Jr., 40

  and Britannic collision, 35

  and children’s education, 52

  and courtship and marriage to Elliott, 21–25

  and disappointment in Eleanor, 40

  education and religious training of, 19–21

  and Elliott’s absence, 41

  and European trip, Elliott placed in asylum, 42–47

  family background of, 17–21

  has Elliott adjudged insane, 46–47

  illness and death, 55–56

  illness of, 50

  income and lifestyle of, her beauty, 26, 27–28

  makes Eleanor feel excluded, 40

  pregnancy of, Eleanor’s birth, 29

  return to States, life at Hempstead House, 37

  and separation from Elliott, 49–51

  sons a comfort to, 53

  trip to Europe resumed, 36

  Roosevelt, Archibald, Jr., 771

  Roosevelt, Betty, 235, 441

  Roosevelt, Christine, 114, 115, 125

  Roosevelt, Corinne, see Robinson, Corinne (aunt)

  Roosevelt, Cornelius Van Schaack, 5

  Roosevelt, Danny (grandson), 616–17, 819

  Roosevelt, Dorothy, 114

  Roosevelt, Edith (Mrs. Theodore Roosevelt), 89, 170, 171, 232, 262, 283, 644

  ROOSEVELT, ELEANOR CHILDHOOD AND YOUTH:

  at Allenswood, 91–107

  and Ambition (school composition), 85–86

  and ambition and will to succeed, 85

  aristocracy, 149

  artistic endeavors of, 94–95

  attends Theodore’s inauguration, 170–71

  attitude toward society, Auntie Bye and Uncle Theodore help, 117, 118–19

  attributes to Franklin virtues ascribed to father, 149

  and Aunt Pussie’s taunts, 114

  birth of, 29–30

  and brothers’ illness, Elliott Jr.’s death, 62

  Candida foreshadows role with Franklin, 156–57

  care of mother during illness, 50

  changes in N.Y. since her childhood, 109

  childhood fears and insecurities of, 33

  childhood reading memories, 53

  and Christmas party at Aunt Corinne’s, 90

  and circle of friends, 93, 117

  classmates’ recollection of, her schoolwork, 73–79

  contrasted with cousin Alice, 38

  correspondence with father, 66–68

  courtship and engagement of, 126–37, 150, 152–61, 162–70

  cousin Alice’s opinion of, 88

  Cousin Susie objects to settlement work of, 121

  as debutante, social functions surrounding, 112–15

  deep puritanical stain in, 154

  devoted to Aunt Pussie, 87

  disappointed in father, still loves him, 66

  and donkey incident at Sorrento, 44

  dreads social debut, 110, 112, 113

  effect of Allenswood on personality, 91, 103, 106

  emerges as leader in Junior League, 122

  engagement made public, 167–68

  enrolls Hall in Groton, 117–18

  envious of Abingdon children, 64

  exquisite manners of, 115

  faithful churchgoer, 159

  father’s breakdown and, 48

  and father’s death, 69, 70, 73

  and father’s fractured ankle, 39

  father’s visits, 63

  favorite literature of, 83–84, 84n

  and fear of strangers, 53

  feels excluded by mother, 40

  and first Hyde Park visit, 34

  Franklin becomes interested in, 124–26

  Franklin gives ring to, 167

  and Franklin’s Caribbean cruise, 152, 158, 160

  Franklin’s family likes and accepts, 162–63

  and Franklin’s lost poem, 131n

  and Franklin’s return from the Caribbean, 160

  in French convent, 45

  and Gilded Butterflies (school composition), 78–79

  goes abroad with parents, 42–45

  on Grandfather Hall, 19n

  great-grandmother and, 18

  Hall family depends on, 117

  at Hempstead House, 37–38

  her mother’s debut and, 113

  ideals and values of, 86–88

  improved health and appearance of, 103

  inherits Theodore Sr.’s philanthropic traits, 6, 12

  is “yea sayer” by temperament, 155

  joins Consumers League, investigates sweatshop working condition, 122–23

  joins Junior League, works at Rivington Street Settlement, 119, 160

  left at home after Britannic collision, 35–36, 73

  literary aspirations of, 116

  love of nature as adolescent, 80–81

  love of poetry of, 78

  and Loyalty and Friendship (school composition), 86

  lying difficult for, hard concealing engagement, 152–53, 164

  makes rounds of Oyster Bay kin, 109

  Marie Souvestre’s teachings temper Franklin’s views, 147–48

  as mediator between mother and son, 162

  on men of genius and tasks of a poet, 95–96

  mistrusts Franklin’s feelings, 127–29

  mother’s coldness and father’s devotion to, 34–35, 40

  and mother’s death, Grandma Hall made guardian, 56

  neglected by grandmother, 73–75

  at Oak Terrace prior to debut, 111

  as an outsider, 72

  opposed to women’s suffrage, Colony Club invitation, 159

  “painfully high ideals no sense of humor,” 153–54

  and parents’ separation, 50, 53

  plainness and gravity of, 34

  reaction to anticlericalism, 100–101

  receives attentions from other men, 164

  relationship with Marie Souvestre, 93, 97–104, 107, 111, 118

  relationship with Oyster Bay relatives, 89

  religious upbringing of, 61–62

  report cards of, 96–97

  returns home from Allenswood with Aunt Pussie, their fight, 104–6

  returns to Allenswood for third year, 106

  returns to America (1902), exposed to country’s reform mood, 108–10

  and Roser classes, 52

  and Roser classes, father’s advice on education, 59–60

  on Russo-Japanese War, 158

  and Sara’s objections to and interference with engagement, 134–37, 138–42, 152, 160

  Sara yields to their plans, 161

  and secret understanding with father, 57

  sees Lyman Delano, 153

  shares society’s anti-Semetism, 166

  social idealism of, 119–20

  social poise of, 155

  standards of taste and judgement refined, 94–96

  stays at Campobello with Franklin, 165–66

  strength of character of, 86

  and summer months at Tivoli, 81–84

  and Sunday-visi
t-to-Hyde-Park issue, 138–41

  and The Flowers Discussion (school composition), 79–81

  and The Tempest (school composition), 72–73

  three years at Allenswood her happiest, 107

  and time for reading at Tivoli, 116

  tone of father’s correspondence, 58, 65

  and trip to Florence, 104

  tyrannized by governess, 75

  and Uncle Gracie’s death, 132–33

  and Uncle Vallie’s alcoholism, 111–12

  visits settlement-house child with Franklin, 166

  wedding arrangements of, 170–73

  wedding ceremony and reception of, 172–74

  and world into which born, 29–33

  ROOSEVELT, ELEANOR WIFE AND MOTHER:

  accepted by social elite, 234

  adjustment problems with Franklin, 192–94

  aids Franklin politically, 212–13, 216–17

  Alice tries canteen work, 264

  angry with Theodore over Franklin’s enlistment question, 257

  approves of Hall’s joining air force, 257

  approves of Rosy Roosevelt’s marriage, 235

  attention shifts to wounded after war, 267

  bad times with Franklin, buries self in work, 294

  becomes versed in politics, 213, 216–17

  and birth of Franklin Jr., 199

  and births of second Franklin Jr. and John Aspinwall, 236–37

  bothered by Jews at social functions, 263

  canteen duties and other war work of, 255, 259, 260–62, 263–65

  careful and frugal manager, runs athwart Sara, 214

  with children while Franklin away, 200–202

  climbs mast on the Rhode Island, 227

  converts to women’s suffrage, 258

  desire to serve breaks confinement to family, 302

  disastrous revel at Chevy Chase Club, 300

  discourages intimacy with the Howes, 233

  doing her job “better than anyone else,” 235

  doubts about Hall’s marriage, 223

  effect of war on family life, 255, 262

  effect of Wilson years on, 226

  and Elliott’s birth, 203, 207

  European trip of, 281, 282–88

  feelings about Franklin’s Caribbean tour, 253

  finds new independence in Albany, 210

  and first fan letter, 212

  first pregnancy of, Anna’s birth, 189

  and food-saving program, 258

  Franklin abroad, 264, 265, 266

  Franklin appointed assistant secretary of Navy, 224–25

  Franklin completes law school, 186

  and Franklin heirs to progressive tradition, 229

  Franklin Jr.’s illness and death, 202–4

  with Franklin on official inspection tour, 228–29

  and Franklin’s birthday party, 299–300

  and Franklin’s Navy League speech and mine-barrage plan, 256

  and Franklin’s return and illness, 266–67

  and Franklin’s victory and move to Albany, 208–9

  Franklin visits occupied areas, 286

  future activism of apparent, 234

  future-of-Hyde-Park argument with Sara, 259–60

  and Grandma Hall’s death, 298

  Hall’s visits to Campobello, 200

  Hall turns to in every crisis, 220–21

  happy in own Campobello home, 199, 200

  hears Wilson’s declaration-of-war address, 254

  helps control Franklin’s brashness and self-esteem, 245–46

  helps Franklin in Wilson movement, 216–17

  and Henry Adams, 231

  her and Franklin’s income, 187

  at home during Franklin’s state-senate campaign, 207–8

  honeymoon of, 178–85

  house headquarters insurgents in Sheehan designation fight, 210–12

  household changes, hires black servants, 293–94

  and Howe, and Franklin’s campaign, 218

  at Hyde Park while Franklin in N.Y., 188

  individually of subordinated to Franklin and Sara, 179

  and initiation into official life, 209–10

  insecure about running household, 178

  intimate circle of friends, 224–25

  invited everywhere, 230

  invites Miss Spring to Campobello, 200

  is jealous of Kitty Gandy, 181

  is vigorous anti-suffragette, 207, 213

  James and the Palmer assassination attempt, 295

  and James’ birth, 194–95

  labor movement engages sympathies of, 290–91

  Lady Gertrude calls on, 285

  and Lucy Mercer affair, 270–79, 293, 310

  managerial abilities of, 219–20

  and Maude’s romance with David Gray, 222

  as moralist in politics, 217

  moves into Draper house, 186

  Mrs. Wilson visits canteen, 264

  naval vessels at Tivoli and Campobello, 228

  not involved in League of Nations or women’s suffrage issues, 289

  not yet “evident force,” 213

  opinions of Wilson, 282

  and outbreak of World War I, 247–54

  prefers ignoring own birthdays, 299

  prods Franklin to write Sara, 179

  racial violence in Washington, D.C. (1919), anxious over Franklin, 294–95

  rebels against Sara and Cousin Susie, 301–2

  and reconciliation with Franklin, 280

  and Red-Cross England proposal, 263

  relationship with children, 236–44

  relationship with Franklin, 298–99

  relationship with the children, 296–98

  reservations about Theodore in 1916 campaign, 251

  returns to Albany (winter, 1911), popularity of, 215

  Sara builds 65th St. house, 197

  Sara controls raising of grandchildren, 189–90, 196

  Sara’s domination increasingly oppressive, 196, 197–200

  Sara sets lifestyle during first year of marriage, 187, 188, 189–90

  Sara’s influence and interference, 236, 238, 240–43, 244

  Sara stays with, 191

  and Schenectady visit to Hall and Margaret, 259

  sense of inadequacy as woman, 203

  settlement-house work frowned on, 187

  sexual attitudes of, 178–79

  she and Franklin ill, campaign successful, 219

  “sleeping princess awakened,” 269

  social engagements of, in tears over dinner party, 299–300

  and the Springs-Rice’s departure, 262–63

  state of mind during 1919, 292–93

  success as wife of public official, 223

  summers at Campobello, 190–91

  supports Franklin’s political ambitions, 205–8

  and Theodore’s death, 283

  and Theodore’s visits, 256–57

  three deaths in 1918, 262

  and trip home, observations on President and Mrs. Wilson, 286–89

  visits French hospitals, 286

  and war-front visit, 284–85

  Washington atmosphere “very partisan,” 289

  Washington duties of, 226–27

  the Woodrow Wilsons talked about, 184

  and work with hospitalized veterans, other public activity, 267–69

  ROOSEVELT, ELEANOR EMERGENCE OF ELEANOR ROOSEVELT:

  activities considered her own, pride in paid jobs, 416

  advocates air travel, cross-country flight, 461

  ahead of Franklin on labor issues, 410

  and Albany battles for women and children legislation, 385–86

  and Anna and James’ trip to Europe, 342

  Anna a problem, 340, 341

  and Anna’s marriage, Sara’s wedding gift, 373–74

  anti-war sentiments of, 350

  ascetic strain of, 438

  attitude of toward Franklin’s presidential ambitions, 422r />
  behind-the-scene political activity of, 408–9

  best defense against Sara to get away, 378

  and Bok Peace Award controversy, 351–53

  breaks with precedents, 452–53

  and campaign, 312–18, 346, 347

  at Campobello, Howe ideal guest, 330

  and Capt. Calder’s aid, 337

  captivates the public, 457

  champions protection of women and children workers, 409

  and Child Labor Amendment fight, 360, 361

  and child-labor-legislation issue, 432

  children resent Howe, Sara uses, 340, 341

  concerned over Franklin’s neglect of children, 429–30

  concerned over prison conditions, 414

  and the convention, friends baffled by her attitude, 435–36

  cousin Alice’s malice toward, 472

  criticized for nonconformity and continuing her activities, 444–45

  daily schedule of, her staff, 465–67

  defenders of, 446–47

  and the Democratic News, 385

  and Democratic State Committee fund-raising, 385

  described by the press, 308–9

  despairs over exclusion by Franklin, 429

  domestic responsibilities of, Franklin’s illness and, 363–65, 369, 370

  in Dutchess County politics, coached in public speaking, 346

  elected to Leslie Commission, 387

  Election Day, 318

  envisages her role in Albany, 400–401

  in Europe, 414–16

  and executive-mansion lifestyle, 406

  “fear” worst outcome of Depression, 450

  and first grandchild, 375

  first involvement in public controversy, 326

  follows Franklin’s progress, his week at Campobello, 311–12

  formal entertainments of, teas, receptions, 469–71

  Franklin and Elliott go to France, 431

  Franklin elected governor, her withdrawal from politics, 399

  Franklin goes to N.Y., 337, 338

  and Franklin K. Lane’s death, 321

  Franklin lifts ban on attending political gatherings, 408

  Franklin nominated for presidency, her unhappiness, 437, 438–39

  Franklin paralyzed, she ministers, 332–36

  and Franklin’s bid for the presidency, 422–25

  Franklin’s close advisers resent, 432

  and Franklin’s gubernatorial nomination, 392–98

  and Franklin’s homecoming ceremonies, 310

  and Franklin’s need of, 327

  and Franklin’s nomination for vice president (1920), 308–9

  and Franklin’s notification ceremonies, 312

  Franklin’s playboy qualities irritate, 317

  and Franklin’s power struggle with Smith, 402–5

 

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