Trauma Stewardship

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by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky


  health, 162

  help, asking for, 205

  helping professions, 158

  helpless feelings, 15, 48–51, 152

  Herman, Judith, 216

  heroic mode, 42

  Holocaust survivors, 94, 181

  homeostasis, 175

  honesty, 168

  honoring life, 123

  hooks, bell, 197

  hopeless feelings, 37, 48–51

  Howell, Helen, 177–179

  Howell, Lem, 177

  H Street Skateboards, 182

  humility, 3, 156, 223

  humor, 104, 219–222

  Hurricane Katrina, 78, 157, 217

  hyperintellectualism, 131–132

  hypervigilance, 64–67, 227–228

  I

  idealism, 50, 82–83

  ideal society, 29–30

  identity, work as, 111–113

  imbalance, neutralizing, 96

  immigrant rights workers, 151–154

  immunity from trauma exposure response, 42

  improvement, choosing, 14

  inadequacy, 59–64, 82

  Inconvenient Truth, An (Gore), 169

  indicators of trauma exposure response, 45

  inertia, 94

  inner well-being, 209

  Inova Regional Trauma Center, 186–187

  inquiry

  creating space for, 122, 147–148

  self-, 117–120

  space for, 167–171

  into yourself/your history, 117–120

  instinctive behaviors, 117

  intellectualization, 131–132

  intention, creating, 231

  internal disarmament, 197

  internalized oppression, 60

  isolating yourself, 87, 93, 118–119, 239

  J

  James, William, 175

  Jansen, Golie, 21

  Jewish Federation, 64

  jobs. See also organizational culture

  addiction to, 239

  commitment to, 84

  cultural issues of, 24–25, 79–80, 113

  finding a calling, 170–171

  finding passion for, 86–89

  guilt at leaving, 98

  motivation for embracing, 168–169, 187, 191–192

  overwork, 109–110

  self-inquiry/self-reflection about, 148–149

  service rationing, 22

  taking breaks/vacations, 107, 127, 211–212

  understanding effects of, 42

  us-versus-them mentality, 139

  wanting to stop, 169

  workplace dynamics, 70–71

  Journal of Agricultural and Environmental Ethics, 6

  Jung, Carl, 165

  K

  Kabat-Zinn, Jon, 12

  Katrina, Hurricane, 78, 157, 217

  King, Martin Luther, Jr., 123

  Kingston, Maxine Hong, 71

  Knuth, Marianne, 202

  Kornfield, Jack, 119, 175, 196, 215

  Kufunda, 202

  L

  Lan, Luo, 63–64

  laughter, 222

  law enforcement personnel, 83–84

  Lawson, Billie, 70–71, 119, 217

  lawyers, 59, 107, 177–179, 207

  learned helplessness, 95

  Learning as Leadership, 241

  Leitch, Laurie, 42

  LeRoy, Andree, 5, 30

  lesbians, domestic violence among, 76

  Levine, Peter, 44, 117, 131, 213–214

  Levine, Stephanie, 66–67

  Lewen, Donna, 151–154

  liberation theory, 28–29

  life outside work, 208–212

  lifestyle, 121

  Lips, Karen, 48

  Lipsky, Michael, 22, 23

  listening, 90

  Liu Dong, 132, 133, 135

  Loeffler, Kati, 81–82

  loving-kindness meditation, 197–198

  M

  Malcolm X, 187

  Man’s Search for Meaning (Frankl), 170–171

  Maples, Cheri, 137–142

  Marsalis, Branford, 45

  Martin, Lesra, 174

  martyrdom, 17, 83

  mastery of trauma, 156–160, 192, 223

  McCann, I. L., 6

  McFarlane, Alexander C., 30, 31

  meaningful tasks, 121

  meditations, 197–198, 217–218

  Merton, Thomas, 108

  microcultures, 184–188

  military personnel, 5, 102

  Miller-Karas, Elaine, 65

  mindfulness

  definitions, 12

  doing activities with, 217–218

  reasons for behavior, 147–150

  mindfulness bells, 232–233

  minimizing feelings/events, 78–80, 96

  mistreatment, 93

  Mooney, James, 93, 167

  Mooney, Linda, 157

  Moore, Jonathan, 153–154

  motivation, 147, 158, 161

  Muir, John, 245

  N

  Native American Ceremonies, 167

  Native Americans

  First Nations Tribe, 185–186

  spirituality of, 157

  traditions of, 144–145, 216, 240

  violence among, 76

  natural disasters, 78, 157, 217

  nature solos, 162

  negativism, 79–80, 173

  Newcomb, Charles, 132

  Newsweek, 92

  New York Times Magazine, 25

  Nhat Hanh, Thich, 72–73, 97, 119, 137, 138, 139, 216, 225

  NiCarthy, Ginny, 112

  Niebuhr, Reinhold, 224

  Nietzsche, Friedrich, 147

  No Child Left Behind Act, 22

  north/space for inquiry, 122

  evaluating behavior, 167–171

  mastery of trauma, 156–160

  mindfulness of reasons for behavior, 147–150

  Northwest Immigrant Rights Project (NWIRP), 151–155

  Northwest Network of Bisexual, Trans, Lesbian and Gay Survivors of Abuse, 68–69

  not enough-ness, 59–64

  numbness/lack of empathy, 48–51, 78, 104–106, 131, 198

  O

  obligations, 82

  obstacles, seeing paths around, 93–94

  opening inquiry, 117–120

  oppression

  forms of, 60–61

  role in trauma of, 28

  systematic, 28–29, 31, 102

  oppressive messages, 59–60

  organizational culture, 24–25, 79–80, 113, 122, 162

  organizations

  covert emotional life of, 240

  cultures of, 79–80, 113, 122

  roles in trauma stewardship of, 21–27

  overwhelming feelings, 51, 81, 91, 95, 235

  overwork, 109–110

  P

  Pantesco, Victor, 48

  paradoxes, 15, 23

  paramedics, 33

  Parry, Cindy, 33–38

  passion, finding, 86–89

  patience, 123

  Pearlman, Laurie Anne, 6

  People of Color Against AIDS Network, 24–25

  People’s Hurricane Relief Fund, 217

  People’s Institute for Survival and Beyond, 217

  persecution, 93–95

  personal control, 121

  personal dynamics, 19–21

  personal history, 161

  personal life, 91, 109–110

  Petersen, John, 100

  physical problems/exhaustion, 81–84

  Plan B, 180–183

  policies, effective, 24

  pollution metaphor, 27–28

  posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), 42, 122

  power, abusing, 27

  powerlessness, 54

  practice, steps toward, 231–234

  presence in the experience

  act of/quality of, 245

  bell-ringing tradition for, 232

  cultivating quality of, 116–117

  for healing process, 45

 
; mindfulness for, 12

  nonantagonistic, 93–94

  openness to, 97–98

  practice of, 135

  traditions of, 130–131

  primary trauma, 158, 161

  prison inmates, 75, 138–139, 158

  prison workers, 26, 148

  Proust, Marcel, 172

  Psychological Trauma (van der Kolk), 121

  public health workers, 95

  public views of trauma responders, 30–31

  Q

  qigong, 132–133, 196, 217

  R

  rape laws, 74, 75

  reactions, habitual, 165

  reality, perceptions of, 233

  Rebuild, 186–187

  reflection, self-, 134

  reframing experiences, 174, 215–216

  relationships

  emotional presence in, 64

  self/work, 120

  for trauma mastery, 157

  relaxation, 211

  relief, lack of, 51

  resiliency, 237–238

  resolutions for happiness, 87–88

  resourcing, 174–175

  responsibility, 51, 164

  Rice, A. K., 240

  Richards, Kimberley, 217

  Richie, Beth E., 25, 76

  Robinson, Jill, 202

  roles, negotiating, 70–71

  Roshi, Suzuki, 13

  Rosten, Leo, 221

  Roy, Arundhati, 202

  Rumi, 181

  rumination, 186

  Rwandan genocide, 15

  S

  Saakvitne, Karen W., 6

  Sahn, Seung, 4

  sainthood, 224

  Sanders, Kerry, 25–26

  sangha, 184

  scarcity, 60–61

  Schwartz, Karyn, 112–113

  Schwegel, Bob, 92

  scientists, 57, 132

  Sealth, Chief, 198, 244

  secondary posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD), 42

  self-awareness, 132–133, 175

  self-care, 97, 121–123, 193

  self-efficacy, 94, 95

  self-inquiry, 117–120

  self-reflection, 134

  self-transformation process, 12

  Seligman, Martin E. P., 50–51

  Senge, Peter, 184–185

  sense of humor, 220

  service rationing, 22, 23

  service to others, 170–171

  shamanic traditions, 185

  Shantideva, 109

  sharing trauma, 195, 215, 237–238

  Shiva, Vandana, 28

  Siegel, Daniel, 12, 132, 175

  Sinclair, Cameron, 202–203

  sleep, 133–134, 212

  slowing down, 216

  social norms, 102

  social support, 121

  societal impacts on trauma stewardship, 27–31

  somatic experiencing, 174–175, 214

  south/building compassion and community, 122

  microcultures, 184–188

  practicing compassion for self and

  others, 196–199

  systemic change, 200–203

  Spence, Harry, 234–242

  spirituality, 144

  Stade, Kirsten, 49

  Star Wars: Episode I—The Phantom Menace, 99–100

  Stifter, Vicky, 151–154

  stillness, finding, 134–135

  Stohr, Kate, 202–203 Street-Level Bureaucracy (Lipsky), 22

  street-level bureaucrats, 23–24

  stress, resistance to, 121–122

  stress hormones, 5

  structural violence, 28–29

  Suarez, Ray, 43

  success, envisioning, 87

  suffering, 17–18, 197

  Sufi wisdom, 197

  suicide, 23, 227

  Sultanoff, Steven, 220, 222

  support

  from community, 185–187

  culture of, 122

  family, 165

  getting/using, 127–128

  need for, 164–165

  social, 121

  for trauma exposure response, 24

  from your organization, 21

  systematic oppression, 28–29, 31, 102

  systemic change, 200–203

  T

  taking sides, 70–71, 80

  Taoism, 132

  Tatum, Diane, 97

  Tavistock Institute, 240

  Taylor-Murphy, Kanika, 217

  teachers, 22, 24

  teamwork models, 236

  Ternasky, Mike, 182

  Thanassi, Mark, 214

  Thoreau, Henry David, 7

  threat responses, 213–214, 220

  Through the Looking Glass (Carroll), 68

  Thurber, James, 222

  Thurman, Howard, 244

  tikkun olam, 203

  Tomlin, Lily, 104

  transformation. See change transformation, self-, 12

  trauma

  acknowledging exposure to, 44–45

  being the creator of, 235

  effects of, 1–8, 17, 124–125

  first-hand experience with, 158, 161

  mastery of, 156–160, 223

  Trauma Center (Boston, Massachusetts), 83–84

  trauma exposure response

  definition, 41

  identification with, 47–48

  keeping positive, 46

  methods for dealing with, 125

  occurrences of, 42

  other terms for, 6

  understanding/defining, 4–5, 41–46

  Trauma First Aide, 65–66

  trauma stewardship, concept/definition, 4, 6, 11

  Traumatic Stress (deVries), 186

  Traumatic Stress (van der Kolk and McFarlane), 31

  trust, 228

  Truth and Reconciliation Commission, 43

  Tum, Rigoberta Menchú, 28

  Tutu, Desmond, 43, 201, 240

  U

  unconscious beliefs, 231–232

  unethical behavior, 25

  U.S. Air Force personnel, 102. See also military personnel U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, 85

  U.S. Department of Justice (DOJ), 75

  V

  van der Kolk, Bessel A., 30, 31, 121–122, 158, 240

  veterans/Veterans Administration (VA), 92

  veterinarians, 81–82, 132

  violence, structural, 28–29

  violence prevention workers, 66, 68–69

  Vitaliano, Peter, 5, 30

  Vredenburg, Vance, 52–58

  vulnerability, 100, 237

  W

  Wake, David, 55

  Waking the Tiger (Levine), 44, 214

  warning signs of trauma exposure response

  addictions, 108–111

  anger/cynicism, 101–104

  avoidance, 49, 90–91, 225

  diminished creativity, 67–69

  dissociation, 38, 91–93, 92

  dissociative moments, 91–93

  exhaustion/physical problems, 81–84

  fear, 99–101

  grandiosity, 111–113

  guilty feelings, 95–98

  helpless/hopeless feelings, 48–51

  hypervigilance, 64–67

  inability to embrace complexity, 70–73, 74–77

  inadequacy, 59–64

  lack of empathy/feeling numb, 104–108

  minimizing feelings/events, 78–80

  sense of persecution, 93–95

  wave metaphor, 172–173 Way of Qigong, The (Cohen), 133

  web of life, 244–245

  wellness path, 209–210, 214, 246

  west/finding balance, 122

  energy, 213–218

  gratitude, 223–226

  life outside work, 208–212

  White, E. B., 7

  Wilson, Ed, 133

  Wisconsin Coalition Against Domestic

  Violence, 137

  Wonder, Stevie, 18

  worldview, 42, 168, 173

  Worrell, Richard, 6

  X

 
X, Malcolm, 18

  Y

  Yawnghwe, Harn, 100–101

  yuan shen, 132–133

  ABOUT THE AUTHOR

  Laura van Dernoot Lipsky has worked directly with trauma survivors for over two decades.

  At age 18, she regularly spent nights volunteering in a homeless shelter. From there, she went on to work with survivors of child abuse, domestic violence, acute trauma, and natural disasters. Simultaneously, she has been active in community organizing and movements for social and environmental justice and has taught on issues surrounding systematic oppression and liberation theory.

  Like so many of her colleagues, Laura initially engaged in her work with great passion and commitment, and with a sense that it was a privilege to serve others. But over time, the worked changed her, until she was no longer the person she had once been. She felt a rising despair about the brutality of the world and anger at those who had helped to create the conditions of trauma and suffering of humans, animals, and our planet. About 10 years ago, she finally faced an uncomfortable reality: The work she cared so much about was taking a toll on her. Her work had compromised her ability to be present in her life, enjoy her relationships, and even be an effective social worker and educator.

  Feeling that she could no longer work with integrity, she began the second stage of her involvement with trauma. In 2000, she quit her job as an emergency room social worker at Harborview Hospital in Seattle, Washington, and began an urgent quest for wisdom that would allow her to preserve her trust in life and its beauty even when doing work that guaranteed exposure to endless waves of pain. Her explorations took her from Buddhist monks and nuns to qigong healers to Native American medicine men and women to the latest scientific research on the effects of prolonged exposure to others’ trauma. Laura’s hunger to embrace both the joy and the sorrow of our life experiences is at the root of her concept of trauma stewardship.

  Laura offered her first version of a workshop on trauma steward-ship to a group of public health workers in 1999. Since then, she has trained a wide variety of people, including zookeepers and reconstruction workers in post-Katrina New Orleans, community organizers and health care providers in Japan, U.S. Air Force pilots, Canadian firefighters, public school teachers, and private practice doctors. She has worked locally, nationally, and internationally.

  Recently, Laura turned her attention to the effects of trauma exposure on those doing frontline work in environmental and conservation movements throughout the world. She was among the first to talk publicly about the profound price that the witnessing of mass extinctions and other potentially irreversible ecological losses caused by global warming and other forms of human encroachment is exacting from the organizations and individuals who are attempting to save our planet.

 

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