The government released the expense forms in an unsorted collection of more than a million electronically scanned documents. The Guardian newspaper, which had been covering the scandal, knew it didn’t have enough manpower to sort through the mess, so it hired Simon Willison, a software developer, to design a website where anyone could examine the documents for incriminating details. With his help, the Guardian launched a site called Investigate Your MP’s Expenses, the world’s first massive multiplayer investigative journalism project. After just three days, more than 20,000 people had sifted through 170,000 documents. Investigate Your MP’s expenses also had a remarkable 56 percent visitor participation rate.
The investigation prompted the resignation of dozens of Parliament members, plus legal action, including suspensions and prosecutions. Ultimately, it led to widespread political reform.119
Though it may appear to be a suggestion not unlike Tom Sawyer persuading the neighborhood boys that whitewashing a fence is fun, imagine the kind of force gamers would become if every gamer dedicated just 1 percent of his gaming time — 30 million collective hours a week — to make a real-world impact like Investigate Your MP’s Expenses. Considering Wikipedia represents roughly 100 million hours of human thought, hypothetically 15.6 Wikipedia-size projects could be accomplished every year if each gamer invested that 1 percent into a crowdsourcing project. Now that would be a force to be reckoned with.
Next steps: Join us
At the end of Phil’s short but provocative four-minute TEDTalk, he made clear that his primary goal at the conference was to raise awareness and even alarm people. His talk was not designed to calm with simple solutions to this complex problem. We attempted in the relatively short space provided by the new TED Books format both to extend that original analysis by revealing its seriousness as well as its breadth and depth in society, and to suggest some solution starters. Our hope is that readers like you will join a forum on our website at demiseofguys.com or on our Facebook page to add your views, experience and solutions regarding the argument presented here.
Notes
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