The Year We Disappeared

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by Cylin Busby




  the year we

  disappeared

  a father–daughter memoir

  CYLIN BUSBY & JOHN BUSBY

  Contents

  Cover

  Title Page

  Dedication

  Prologue

  chapter 1

  chapter 2

  chapter 3

  chapter 4

  chapter 5

  chapter 6

  chapter 7

  chapter 8

  chapter 9

  chapter 10

  chapter 11

  chapter 12

  chapter 13

  chapter 14

  chapter 15

  chapter 16

  chapter 17

  chapter 18

  chapter 19

  chapter 20

  chapter 21

  chapter 22

  chapter 23

  chapter 24

  chapter 25

  chapter 26

  chapter 27

  chapter 28

  chapter 29

  chapter 30

  chapter 31

  chapter 32

  chapter 33

  chapter 34

  chapter 35

  chapter 36

  chapter 37

  chapter 38

  Epilogue

  Where they are now

  Acknowledgments

  About the Authors

  Imprint

  For Mom—C. B.

  I dedicate this book to my family:

  Polly, Eric, Shawn, and Cylin—the ultimate reason to keep on keeping on

  —J. B.

  All locations, dates, events, and people in this book are real.

  Some names have been changed.

  prologue

  WHEN MY DAD DIES, HIS BODY will go to the Harvard Medical School at Massachusetts General Hospital in Boston, though I suspect they are mostly interested in his head. Before the surgeons there embarked on what was at the time experimental surgery to reconstruct his face, they asked Dad if he would sign a document bequeathing his body to the hospital. They explained that they would then be able to use his skull as a model to instruct medical students training in facial reconstruction. His was an interesting case—the lower half of his jaw was removed when he was shot in the head with a shotgun. His tongue was torn in half, his teeth and gums blown away, leaving a bit of bone that was once his chin connected with dangling flesh at the front of his face.

  Dad saw the surgeons’ request as a hopeful sign. During his hospital stays, he always had a yellow legal pad by his bedside to communicate. On this day he wrote a note to Mom: “They want my head after I’m gone, asked me to sign something to donate my body. Must think I’m going to live through the surgery.”

  The request also made me and my two older brothers feel somewhat better. We sat outside Dad’s hospital room, playing Go Fish and War under the constant surveillance of the two Falmouth police officers who were on guard duty. “After Dad’s dead, we’ll get to see his skeleton,” Shawn pointed out. “We could come visit it.”

  I wasn’t so sure, but when I questioned him, Shawn snapped, “It’s our dad—they’ll let us come and hang out with his skeleton whenever we want to.”

  I also wasn’t quite sure how they would get all the skin off of Dad, and what they would do with it. But I didn’t like thinking about things like that; it reminded me of a scary comic book my oldest brother, Eric, had shown me once that had a creepy skeleton guy doing evil things and carrying around a big, huge sword. I just couldn’t picture my dad like that.

  The series of surgeries needed to reconstruct Dad’s face would be not only experimental but also incredibly expensive. And since Dad was a police officer, shot in the line of duty, the town of Falmouth would be responsible for the costs of reassembling his face—and his life. About two months after Dad’s shooting, our hometown held a fund-raiser in the form of a bake sale and a somewhat inappropriately named “fun run.”

  The day of the fund-raiser was unseasonably warm and muggy, the November sky threatening rain. I wore blue shorts that were supposed to be saved for my school gym uniform, along with my winter coat and a pair of dressy sandals I’d gotten for Easter. Since Dad’s shooting, Mom’s rules about which clothes I could wear—and about everything else—didn’t apply anymore, and I was pretty much free to do whatever I wanted.

  I eyed the bake-sale table, wanting a chocolate chip cookie—my favorite dessert, and Dad’s, too. I asked Mom for some money to get one. She looked at me like I’d lost my mind. “They’re selling them to make money for us,” she said, pointing out the obvious. “Just go get one if you want it.” And she turned back to whomever she was talking to. I stood behind her for a second, wishing she’d step in and say, “Okay, I’ll do it for you,” like she used to do, knowing that even at the age of nine I was still painfully shy, but she didn’t.

  After a few minutes of standing around, I had worked up the courage. I approached the table and asked one of the women working there, “Can I have a cookie?”

  “They’re fifty cents for two,” she responded before her coworker, a woman with long brown braids, said, “Do you know who this little girl is?”

  “Tell her your name, honey,” she said to me, and I did—my first name. “What’s your last name?” the woman asked, giving her friend a knowing wink. When I told them my whole name, they both got this sad look—a look that I was getting used to seeing on adults whenever they talked about Dad. “Of course you can have a cookie, sweetheart. You take as many cookies as you want,” the first woman said. The woman with the braids asked, “Can I give you a hug?”

  After giving the woman an awkward hug, I sat on the curb to watch the runners cross the finish line. I had already eaten two huge cookies before my brothers found me, my face smeared with chocolate and crumbs. “Give it,” my oldest brother said, motioning with his chin to the last remaining cookie in my hands.

  “Go get your own,” I said, pointing to the bake sale. “All you have to do is tell them your name and you get whatever you want,” I whispered excitedly. Watching my brothers descend on the snacks and each get a big hug from the woman with the braided hair, I felt at once sick to my stomach. It was partly from stuffing myself with sweets, but also something else. We were just regular kids, suddenly thrust into a world of pity cookies and hugs from strangers. But with the small-town fame and all the public pleasantries came an unfortunate reality: someone wanted to kill our dad, and maybe us, too. It was a strange mix, being the most popular and most miserable at the same time. My older and wiser cousin summed it up best when she told me, “Everyone thinks your dad is going to die. But you’re lucky—you don’t have to go to school.”

  It wasn’t until later, when my family had been relocated to an undisclosed address deep in the South—a tiny town where no one would try to hurt my dad or kill the rest of us—that I realized how “lucky” I had been, and how much I missed that notoriety and the distraction from reality that it afforded us. Instead of free cookies, there was just the waiting—waiting to see if Dad would pull through, waiting for whoever they were to find us or not find us, waiting to see what would happen next.

  chapter 1

  CYLIN

  ON August 31, 1979, we were supposed to go see The Muppet Movie. Dad had promised us that when he woke up, he’d take us to the movie before he went in to work the night shift. He was a police officer on Cape Cod, in Falmouth, Massachusetts. He worked the 11:00 p.m. to 8:00 a.m. shift, then slept during the day for a few hours.

  Usually, he’d come home from work right around the time I was sitting down with a bowl of Cocoa Puffs. Sometimes he’d hang out with me and my brothers until it was time for us to catch the bu
s, eating a piece of toast with raspberry jam, his favorite breakfast, or telling Mom about his night. But other days he’d go straight into the bedroom and change into his good suit, the dark brown one with the big lapels. He’d wear a cream-colored print shirt underneath, and a tie, too. I thought he looked like a movie star in his suit, with his strawberry blond hair, green eyes, and broad shoulders—like Robert Redford or Clint Eastwood. But as good as he looked in it, that suit always meant Dad was going to court to testify in a case. It also meant that he wasn’t going to get much sleep, so we should be sure to stay out of his way when we got home from school in the afternoon.

  During the summers when we didn’t have school, Mom made sure to have us out of the house by 8:30 or 9:00 a.m., rain or shine. We’d go to the beach and have swim lessons in the morning. Then we’d spend the rest of the day there, eating bologna sandwiches that were a little too warm from sitting out in the sun and begging Mom for quarters so we could cross the hot sand to the ice-cream stand for a Nutty Buddy or some chocolate chip cookies. Mom usually brought a big bottle of something to drink and a few Styrofoam cups to keep us from asking for soda money, too. But on days when she was feeling generous, we could get a real soda in a cold can from the ice-cream guy. I loved the feeling of a freshly opened Orange Crush, so cold and fizzy it hurt my mouth to drink it fast.

  As the afternoon wore on and my skin started to feel tight and hot from the salt and the sun, I would take my favorite towel, a white one with a bright rainbow arching across it, and wrap it around me, even covering my head. Then I’d lie in the sand by Mom and watch the sunlight filter through the stitches in the towel, transformed into my own private rainbow. Sometimes I’d fall asleep cocooned like that until it was time to go home.

  On days when it rained, we still went to the beach for our swim lessons, and we’d stay for as long as we could take it. If it was a light rain, Mom would bring an umbrella and tell us to get out in the water. “What difference does a little rain matter, since you’ll be getting wet anyhow?” she’d reason. She’d plant the umbrella in the sand, take out whatever paperback she was reading, and plunk down in a beach chair.

  My two older brothers and I would come out of the ocean hours later, lips blue and shaking, only to wrap up in towels that were wet from being left on the beach in the rain. It’s not like my mom or my family loved the beach—we weren’t trying to break any records for being the biggest sand bums on the Cape. But Dad had to sleep, and when we were stuck at home there was no way that could happen.

  Snow days were Mom’s worst nightmare. We’d be sent out to go sledding for hours at a time, just to keep the house quiet. We’d come back in, soaked to the skin, and shuck off our snow-covered coats and boots with Mom whispering, “Your dad is sleeping, so keep it down.” But we’d always want to watch TV or play records. And then the fighting would inevitably start. Maybe Eric, who was thirteen that year and totally into sci-fi, wanted to watch Star Trek while I wanted Little House on the Prairie. We’d end up yelling and chasing each other around the house, throwing Atari game cassettes at each other, Mom reminding us that Dad was sleeping, only to see him appear, bleary-eyed, groggy, and in his underwear, at the bedroom door. “Keep it down to a dull roar,” he’d growl in his heavy Boston accent. Then he’d disappear back into the bedroom, and we’d try to be good for at least a half hour or so.

  That summer I was nine years old—just turned nine that May. I loved the Muppets. I adored Kermit and Miss Piggy especially. The whole family watched the show religiously on Sunday nights, with my parents on the couch and the three of us on the rug right in front of the television. So that day at the beach, all I had been thinking about was how we were going to the movies that night, finally seeing the Muppets on the big screen. Dad would sneak in a big bag of peanut M&M’S for us all to share, and we’d get a huge tub of popcorn. But when we came back that Friday afternoon and found Dad at home, still in his suit, I knew that he had just gotten home from spending the day in court after working all night, and he hadn’t had any sleep yet. We weren’t going to the movies. I was crushed. While Mom went to make dinner, I laid on the bunk bed in my room, still in my sandy blue bathing suit, and cried.

  The evening was a disaster in the making. Dad had to sleep, Mom was stuck in our two-bedroom house with three grouchy, hot, tired kids who couldn’t face the disappointment of a canceled movie date. To cheer us up—and probably to get us out of the house for a few hours—Mom came up with a plan and pretended that it was something great. “We’re painting Dad’s car,” she announced, and headed to the basement for paint and brushes.

  Mom was really tired of Dad’s car—a multicolored Frankenstein of a Volkswagen Beetle put together from spare parts. She was pretty tired of all Dad’s other car “projects,” too. We always had one or two VW Beetles sitting in our L-shaped driveway, either parked off to the side or up on blocks. Dad would buy them cheap and keep them around for spare parts for the one Bug that he actually kept running—most of the time. That summer, he had a white MG parked in the yard too. The body of the car still looked good, but it didn’t run. He had plans to fix it up when he had the time. Meanwhile, it made a great place for my brothers and me to play—messing with the radio knobs and jerking the stick shift around like we were driving. We weren’t allowed to touch the emergency brake, after my brother Shawn accidentally sent the MG rolling backward down the driveway one day. But even with that off-limits, the cars in the driveway were the best toys we could have asked for.

  The VW Bug that Dad was using as his main car that summer had an okay engine and it ran, but it didn’t look too pretty doing it. He had pieced together the body from three or four other VWs, so it had a red front fender and a blue front fender mismatched on either side of a faded red hood, along with a blue door on one side and a gray door on the other. The seats were split open in some spots, with rusty springs and tufts of coarse horsehair sticking out. This made riding in Dad’s car a summer nightmare—sitting on the split seats, especially in the back, in shorts, or worse, a bathing suit, was torture unless you stuck a towel under you. Mom was on Dad’s case about the car and how it looked. “It’s embarrassing,” she’d say. “Can’t we at least paint it one color?” Dad would shrug. “Sure, knock yourself out.”

  I don’t know why Mom picked that night to start in on her project, other than the need to get our butts out of the house for a few hours, but she did. She got out the only big paint can she could find in the basement—green paint—and a few extra paintbrushes. “We’ll surprise your dad by painting his car while he’s sleeping,” she explained, and everyone joined in. It didn’t take long to realize that painting a car with a paintbrush wasn’t such a great idea. The brush left sticky lines on the car, and as the dusk rolled in, so did the gnats and mosquitoes, leaving streaks and spots where they landed in the gooey mess. Mom didn’t want to give up, so she just kept on painting the door and one fender with the too-thick paint—paint that I think was actually for wood, not cars—until it grew too dark to see what she was doing.

  I grew bored of the painting quickly, and opted to play with our new box turtle instead, while Mom and my brothers tackled the job. Dad had found the turtle on one of his runs up Hatchville Road—a sweet country street that wound its way around the corner from our house. Though it didn’t run along the coast, Hatchville was one of the prettiest roads on the Cape; it cut through fields, past big houses, horse barns, and a famous organic farm. Sometimes, in the summer, Dad would take us running with him on the route, the three of us puffing behind him, trying to keep up. Shawn was the only one who had the steam to make it the full five miles, while Eric and I usually dropped out of the race around three. On evenings when I knew I couldn’t keep up, I’d take my bike and race circles around Dad and my brothers. “Come on, slowpokes!” I’d shout, standing up on my pedals to push my bike faster than they could run.

  With his better-than-20/20 vision and the instincts of a cop forever looking for clues, Dad always seemed to
find stuff on the side of the road: a mangled pair of sunglasses or a beach hat. A piece of jewelry, cheap to start with and now run over a few times. A mangled baseball, rotted and brown. Usually the stuff Dad found was worthless, but one evening, he came home with a good-sized box turtle, about as big as my shoe. He didn’t have any marks on him, except for a scuffed up shell; Dad thought he had probably been hit by a car since he couldn’t seem to walk very well.

  We put the turtle in a cardboard box and set him up against the house, in the shade. I brought him water in a little bowl, and some iceberg lettuce to eat. But he never even took a bite; the lettuce just turned brown and droopy. I tried fresh grass trimmings and leaves, too, but he just wasn’t interested in eating. Late in the day, I would take him out of his box to give him some free time. If you waited a really long time, and you were very quiet, sometimes he would take a step or two in the driveway. But mostly he just sat there, blinking his big shutterbug eyelids and not doing much else.

  When Mom was ready to put down her paintbrush for the night, she was so proud of the gooey half-painted car, she went inside to get the camera to record it, so we have a couple of pictures from that evening. In one photo, Mom is posing by her paint job. She looks petite and trim in shorts and a summer top. Her skin is tanned a honey brown, her dark hair in a pixie cut; she’s smiling big. Another picture shows me, sitting in the driveway by the cardboard box with the turtle beside me. I’m painfully thin, all knees and elbows, and too shy to actually look into the camera, so I’m looking down instead, smiling a little. My long straight hair, parted in the middle, falls like curtains on either side of my freckled face.

  There’s one more picture, of my two brothers standing with their backs against our red-shingled house, squinting into the setting summer sun. Shawn, thin and darkly tanned like Mom, his brown hair cut in thick bangs over his eyes, his new braces crowding his mouth; Eric, big and broad like Dad, with the same strawberry blond hair and a splash of freckles over his nose. I’m glad we have this picture of them, taken on that night, before everything changed. I’m glad to have the picture of Mom, looking so happy and young. I’m even glad to have a picture of the turtle, though I don’t know what happened to him—forgotten in his little cardboard box by our house while we were gone in Boston, where Dad was undergoing the emergency surgeries that would ultimately save his life.

 

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