by Jeremy Camp
Praise for I Still Believe
Jeremy Camp is an extremely talented artist. But what many do not know is that he has suffered greatly in life. Out of this suffering many of the songs we have come to love have been born and have brought encouragement and comfort to untold thousands around the world. Now, for the first time, Jeremy Camp tells his whole story. This is a book you will want to read and then pass on to a friend. I heartily endorse it.
GREG LAURIE
Senior pastor, Harvest Christian Fellowship in Riverside, California
Cancer. Love. Hope. Loss. Where do you turn when life is hard? In his new book, I Still Believe, Jeremy Camp shares his story—personal, painful, and promise-filled. If you need hope in the midst of a hard season in your life, pick up a copy of this book. It will encourage you, challenge your faith, and point you to the One Who is Hope, Jesus Christ.
DR. JAMES MACDONALD
Senior pastor, Harvest Bible Chapel
Jeremy’s music has always had a powerful impact on me, and now I know why. Behind his voice is a heart that’s uniquely connected with God. Through his pain, grief, sorrow, and loss, his life has become a crucible where the Lord’s love and mercy are real revelations. Reading Jeremy’s story has reinforced my faith in Him who is able and alive!
BOB COY
Senior pastor, Calvary Chapel Ft. Lauderdale
Visit Tyndale online at www.tyndale.com.
TYNDALE and Tyndale’s quill logo are registered trademarks of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.
I Still Believe
Copyright © 2013 by Jeremy Camp. All rights reserved.
A previous version of this title was published in 2011 by Jeremy Camp LLC under ISBN 978-0-6154-6866-2.
Cover photograph by Lee Steffen. Used with permission.
All interior photographs are the property of their respective copyright holders and all rights are reserved. Jeremy and Melissa’s wedding © Susan Anderson of Signature Prints Photography; in recording studio © Dale Manning; holding gold albums © Aaron Crisler/The Judy Nelon Group; playing guitar on stage © Gerry Leslie; Jeremy and Adie singing on stage © Karen Redmond, 2010; Jeremy and Adie’s wedding © Karen Mason-Blair Photography; Camp family © Trevor Hoehne Photography; hand raised on stage © Scott Barkley Photography. All other interior images are from the author’s personal collection and are used with permission.
Designed by Jacqueline L. Nuñez
All Scripture quotations, unless otherwise indicated, are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version,® NIV.® Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984, 2011 by Biblica, Inc.™ (Some quotations may be from the previous NIV edition, copyright © 1984.) Used by permission of Zondervan. All rights reserved worldwide. www.zondervan.com.
Scripture quotations marked NASB are taken from the New American Standard Bible,® copyright © 1960, 1962, 1963, 1968, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1975, 1977, 1995 by The Lockman Foundation. Used by permission.
Scripture quotations marked NKJV are taken from the New King James Version.® Copyright © 1982 by Thomas Nelson, Inc. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Camp, Jeremy.
[I still believe (Biography)]
I still believe / Jeremy Camp with David Thomas.
pages cm
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 978-1-4143-7559-5 (sc)
1. Camp, Jeremy. 2. Contemporary Christian musicians—United States—Biography. 3. Christian biography. I. Thomas, David, 1968 June 21- II. Title.
ML420.C219A3 2013
782.25092–dc23
[B] 2012035508
Build: 2013-02-20 08:21:24
This book is dedicated to my family and friends who have helped me walk through this season of my life and who have held on to the Lord’s faithfulness with me.
Contents
Prologue
Chapter 1: It Starts at Home
Chapter 2: Tug-of-War
Chapter 3: Set Free
Chapter 4: The Call
Chapter 5: Heading West
Chapter 6: The Gift
Chapter 7: Broken Up and Broken
Chapter 8: “Just One Person”
Chapter 9: Walking by Faith
Chapter 10: Seeking Hope
Chapter 11: “It’s Time”
Chapter 12: Why?
Chapter 13: Breaking Through
Chapter 14: Falling in Love Again
Chapter 15: All about God
Chapter 16: Reaching the Roots
Chapter 17: All That Truly Matters
Chapter 18: There Will Be a Day
Chapter 19: I Still Believe
Photo Insert
Notes
PROLOGUE
“Pick up your guitar.”
I didn’t want to. I didn’t want anything to do with music. It had been two weeks since Melissa had gone to heaven. My wife was only twenty-one, and we had been married just three and a half months when she passed away from ovarian cancer.
I sat on the couch in my parents’ living room alone—alone in many ways.
For two weeks, my life had been in a fog that wouldn’t lift. Once everything had seemed to make so much sense; now nothing made sense. Doctors had told us Melissa’s cancer was gone. We had married with the dream of having kids and working together in ministry—I through music, she through women’s ministries and Bible studies. But then we barely had the chance to begin living out our dream.
My Melissa was gone, and I wondered where God was too. I wanted to pray, but in my despair, I wasn’t sure what even my own thoughts were. I tried to pray, but I didn’t know where to begin. Whatever weak words I did manage to send God’s way seemed to be getting lost in the fog engulfing me.
Do you really hear me, God?
Do you really care about every situation?
God? Are you near?
“Pick up your guitar.”
For the first time since Melissa’s death, I felt that God was answering me. His words came crystal clear into my heart.
But I didn’t want to pick up my guitar. I didn’t want to go back to music or to anything I had done before. When I had written songs in the past, I wrote what my heart felt. Now I felt nothing. I was numb. I was physically and emotionally drained. I had nothing to offer.
No, Lord—no. The last thing I want to do is play my guitar.
“Pick up your guitar. I have something for you to write.”
I relented and mindlessly strummed some chords. I didn’t understand why I was playing, but I kept going. Then emotions welled up within me. Tears formed in my eyes. Words—actual thoughts—came to me, and I spoke them as I played.
Scattered words and empty thoughts seem to pour from my heart.
For the first time in two weeks, I was able to express how I felt.
I’ve never felt so torn before, seems I don’t know where to start.
I quickly found a pen and notebook and returned to the couch.
But it’s now that I feel Your grace fall like rain from every fingertip, washing away my pain.
I jotted down the words as they continued to come to me.
I still believe in Your faithfulness. I still believe in Your truth. I still believe in Your holy Word.
The words were pouring out, not from my mind, but from deep within my soul.
Even when I don’t see, I still believe.
I alternated between playing the tune and writing in the notebook until I softly sang and penned the final words: In brokenness I can see that this was Your will for me. Help me to know You are near.
I leaned back, struck by the words that had come to me and completely unaware of how God would use those words to speak to others who, like me, felt abandoned in
life’s deepest valley. Who needed hope. Who needed encouragement to allow God to dig into the depths of their souls, down to the very foundation of their faith, and then to discover the resolve to declare, “I still believe!”
I wrote “I Still Believe” in ten minutes.
But, in essence, I had been writing the song all my life.
CHAPTER 1
IT STARTS AT HOME
Faith and family. Looking back, it is fitting that my healing in the aftermath of Melissa’s passing began to take place back in my parents’ home in Lafayette, Indiana.
I had left home for California to attend Bible college. It was in California that I found my path in ministry. It was there that my music career began to develop. It was there that I met God’s partner for me in ministry. But after Melissa’s memorial service, when the path I thought had been laid out for me suddenly disappeared, when my faith had been shaken in a way I had never imagined possible, all I knew to do was to go home.
Faith and family are seamlessly knit together in my life’s story.
My parents provided me with what they did not have growing up: a Christian home. That in itself was a miracle.
Imagine a drunk man, with his equally loaded friend, staggering into a church on a Sunday evening and then answering an altar call to accept Jesus as his Savior, and you have my dad’s remarkable conversion story.
My dad, Tom—or “Bear,” as his friends called him—dropped out of school at age sixteen because he had gotten heavily into alcohol and drugs. (He later earned his GED and attended college.) My dad has a life-of-the-party, let’s-have-some-fun-here personality, and when he was growing up, he didn’t have any trouble finding the parties or convincing others to join in his type of fun.
My mom, Teri, was the classic good girl in school. She grew up in a stable home environment. A good student, she had plans and goals. She had been accepted to Purdue University when she met and began dating my dad during her senior year of high school.
Their relationship was the talk of the hallways—but not in the head-cheerleader-dates-the-quarterback kind of way. The comments were more like “What is she doing going out with him?”
She had fallen for my dad’s likable personality and found him easy to talk to. But because of his heavy drinking and marijuana use, my dad had trouble landing steady work. So my mom scrapped her plans to study interior design in college and started working instead. My parents became popular party hosts. My dad was selling pot by then, so you can imagine their types of parties and the partygoers they entertained.
After learning my mom was pregnant, my parents moved in together, and my sister, April, was born out of wedlock in 1975. Having a newborn cut back on the parties in the home, but my dad’s lifestyle continued further down the wrong path. His drinking increased, and he began to use and sell cocaine. The more he drank, the more violent he became.
About a year and a half after April was born, my dad was battling depression and realized his life was spiraling out of control.
“I don’t know what’s wrong with me,” he told my mom. “I feel so empty inside. It’s not you. It’s not April. The drugs aren’t making me happy. I don’t know what’s wrong.”
“Do you need to see a psychiatrist?” my mom asked him.
“No,” my dad replied. “I need to talk to a minister.”
On Christmas Day 1976, my dad was noticeably depressed. My mom thought he might harm himself, but when she tried to console him, my dad said, “I have to go to church, and I have to go now.”
They drove from church to church that evening, looking for one that was open. Finally, they found one where a couple of people were inside practicing music. My parents walked in and quietly sat in a pew, but the musicians never spoke to them, probably because they looked more like hippies than regular churchgoers. They remained in the pew for a while until my mom asked my dad if he felt better.
“Yes,” he said, and they left.
Four days later, on a Wednesday evening, my parents again decided to look for a church.
When my dad was young, a sweet neighbor lady named Meb had taken him to church with her from time to time. One of those times, when my dad was eleven, he had gone forward to accept Christ. Without a family to keep him spiritually connected, though, he eventually got away from church. He had brought up spiritual topics with my mom early in their relationship, but Christianity stayed something he thought about and questioned in his heart, and it never became more than that. But at least he had that church background when he analyzed his own life and reached the conclusion that he needed to make a serious change. He had tried just about everything else, but deep in his heart he knew what the truth was and that the Holy Spirit was drawing him.
My mom had attended church in spurts when she was growing up, with her mom taking her and her dad staying home except on Easter and a few other special occasions. Her mother had bought a book of Bible stories that my mom had enjoyed reading as a child. But while she knew about Jesus, there was never a time when my mom had developed a relationship with Him. With my dad showing a trend toward dangerous behavior, she was open to a church providing the change he needed.
A few days after Christmas, my dad said again, “I have to talk to a minister. I know where we can go—Meb will be at church.”
My dad knew where his former neighbor would be on a Wednesday night. When they arrived at the church, the service had just ended and people were on their way out. As expected, Meb was there. A big smile crossed her face when she saw my dad. When my dad said he needed to talk to a minister, she introduced my parents to her pastor. The four of them sat down, and my dad explained his problems and described how he felt a void in his life.
The pastor identified the problem as unconfessed sin and explained that the void in his life was one only Christ could fill. My dad agreed. The pastor then led my parents through a prayer asking for forgiveness, although my mom prayed more out of embarrassment and the potential awkwardness of not praying in that small of a group.
After the prayer, the pastor gave my parents a short and direct list of changes they needed to make: “You need to get married, change the way you dress, cut your hair, and get new friends.”
My parents understood the need to give up the drugs and alcohol. But they were confused about how they could come up with a completely new set of friends overnight. And as for the way they dressed, they could barely afford the clothes they had. How were they supposed to afford an all-new wardrobe?
My dad initially had a problem with marriage. He had been briefly married when he was sixteen. His girlfriend got pregnant, so they married. But when she had a miscarriage, they decided they didn’t want to be together and divorced after less than six months together. There had been a few times in the past when my dad had asked my mom if she would marry him if he asked. She kept saying she would, but my dad never asked. He told my mom he had no interest in marrying because he had never seen a good marriage—not when he was growing up and not for the few months he was married. But as he considered what the pastor had said about needing to marry, he agreed.
The pastor gave my parents a Bible, but he didn’t give them any practical help for how to make the changes he told them they must make.
As a result, they left the church asking themselves, How can we do all that?
CHANGED FOR GOOD
The Bible the pastor had given my parents was a King James Version. Reading was difficult for my dad, and the King James was even more of a challenge, so my mom read to him from the Bible. They continued to talk about church, and my mom mentioned that coworkers had been talking to her about Jesus and had said my parents would be welcome at their church regardless of how they looked or dressed. My dad agreed to try it.
They planned to attend the Assemblies of God church on the first Sunday evening of the new year—January 2, 1977. My dad helped a friend move that morning, then went out with his friend that afternoon.
As my mom was getting ready for church, he called.
“Where are you?” she asked him.
“I’m at a Mexican restaurant.”
She knew he was at the only local restaurant that served beer on Sundays. “Have you been drinking?”
“Oh, just a little.”
When my dad came home to pick her up for church, he and his friend were laughing about how they had been busting out lights at the restaurant. They had been drinking more than “just a little.”
My mom started crying. From the night they had prayed at Meb’s church, neither of them had used drugs or alcohol—not even on New Year’s Eve. “There’s no way I’m going to church with you guys,” she told him.
My mom’s mother was watching April that evening, so when my mom saw how drunk my dad and his friend were, she immediately left for church alone.
Because it was a Sunday evening, the crowd of about three hundred wasn’t as large as for a morning service. About eight rows of folding chairs at the back of the sanctuary had been roped off so the people would sit closer to the front. My mom took a seat by herself in the middle of the last available row. Shortly after the service began, she heard a commotion behind her. She looked over her shoulder to see my dad and his friend stumbling through the doors in the back.
My mom’s first reaction was to hide. She turned back toward the front, slumped in her seat, and tried to blend in with the others in front of her. It didn’t work. My dad and his friend spotted her and made their way toward her. But not by walking down the aisle and quietly slipping into the row where my mom was sitting. My dad started off on the most direct route from point A to point B—by stepping over the roped-off rows of chairs!
My mom continued to look forward while everyone else turned their attention to the two drunken chair-jumpers. My dad and his friend plopped down right next to my embarrassed mom, and the friend chattered away.
An usher seeking to calm the ruckus came over and asked my dad’s friend if he would like to sit next to him, and my dad’s drinking buddy obliged.
