Jon and Kate Gosselin PA Reporting
Monday, September 13, 2010
Jon thinks it’s strange that the day Kate announces to the world that the kids would rather be at home with her, the first thing she does is leave them to go to Mexico with her bodyguard/boyfriend. They’re (Kate and Steve) even dressing alike now in matching colors. She’s making a fool out of herself and embarrassing her children at the same time. The kids have asked if Steve is going to be their new daddy and are wondering if they’re going to get married. They’re very confused because they know Steve’s wife very well and the little kids ask “what about Gina?”
Fresh on the heels of Kate announcing on Regis & Kelly that she sits at home waiting for the phone to ring from the kids wanting to leave Jon and come back home to her, she added another nanny to the babysitting staff. This one is a live-in nanny who will be in the house 24/7. This can only mean that Kate will be spending even less time at home and with the kids, and even more time out traveling around with Steve. “If only the world could see what really goes on behind closed doors at Kate’s house instead of listening to the lies that come out of her mouth on a daily basis. I hope the truth finally comes out someday and Kate gets what she deserves – a big empty house with no kids, family or friends.”
In addition to Kate bashing Jon on TV, she apparently thinks it’s also OK to bash Jon on Twitter and to encourage other people to bash Jon on Twitter, which she’s been doing now for years.
There is one particularly hateful lunatic posting on Twitter who is one of Kate’s biggest supporters. Kate must love having her as a friend…for obvious reasons: Kate doesn’t have to bash Jon as much by herself when she’s got fans like this doing the dirty work for her. On one single day in August 2012, this person tweeted more than 50 nasty tweets about Jon – which was viewed by Kate’s well over 150,000 Twitter followers.
Kate never once asked this tweeter to please stop speaking badly of Jon. Kate has never asked any tweeter to stop making nasty, sometimes vicious, comments about Jon, the father of her children. Instead, after all the nasty things this person tweeted, Kate tweeted this back to her on September 14, 2012:
I thank u for your constant FAIR surmising and opinions of situations re me/family! I think ur beautiful too! :) XO
“WE ARE NOT SCRIPTED”
“We’re not scripted. You heard me. We are not scripted. We’re living.
The kids run in and out of the frame and they just live.”
– Kate Gosselin
Kate said this in February 2011, when she sat down with some of the ladies on The Talk. I say “some” because for some reason, the two most outspoken hosts of the show, Sharon Osbourne and Holly Robinson Peete, found something better to do with their time than to sit on the couch with Kate for 15 minutes. They were there before and after Kate’s interview, but not during. Strange.
“We are not scripted.”
Whenever you hear Kate make a statement like that, it’s a tell-tale sign that she’s lying, and after a little digging, I found a little more proof.
Here are some printed, “scripted,” voice-over assignments, written for and given to Kate, telling her exactly what to say for airing on Jon & Kate Plus Ei8ht.
KATE
EPISODE #7
“So we thought it might be fun to take them to have their head shots taken.”
“But before we left for the photo shoot, we had our Saturday pancake breakfast, which has now become a Gosselin family tradition.”
“After pancake breakfast, there was a bit of a potty training party happening in the laundry room.”
“After pancake breakfast, a potty training session began, that was somewhat supervised by Mady and Cara.”
“Not surprisingly, Joel didn’t manage to use the potty that day.”
EPISODE #8
“Aunt Jodi, my brother’s wife, is coming over today to get the twins suitcases.”
“Uncle Kevin and Aunt Jodi are coming tonight. They’re bringing Cara and Mady with them. And our friend Beth will be there as well.”
“I had planned the dinner for after the babies went to bed, and a neighbor came over to sit while they were sleeping.”
“We had a plane to catch to Florida, and there we were stuck in the snow.”
“Jodi and Kevin have 4 kids of their own, and Cara and Mady really love spending time with their cousins.” (or something like this)
“So Jodi helped them bake cobweb cookies and meringue puffs” (is that what they were?)
Perhaps they were technically not “scripted” in the strictest sense of the word if the definition of “scripted” is that they were given a “script” of what they were supposed to say throughout the entire show. But even that is a lie, since each episode did, in fact, come with a printed list of “voice-over” narrations for Kate and Jon to read so they could be edited into the show for continuity.
The best way to describe the show is that it was totally scheduled with story lines planned in advance by Discovery and TLC. Kate was given her schedule for the week to let her know where her family would be going, what her family would be doing, and even what her children would be playing with. I have many original “weekly shooting schedules” and itineraries that are detailed, down-to-the-minute instructions for the family to follow with the crew in tow. There was absolutely nothing “organic,” normal, or natural about the Gosselin children being filmed.
The “interview” segment of the Jon & Kate Plus Ei8ht shows served as a great vehicle to squash any rumors or criticism that may have been present in the media regarding the show. It was mainly during the “Q&A” or “Viewer Emails” segments when they did their best work at “setting the record straight.”
During one such segment, a producer asked Jon and Kate this question: “Would you say that the show that we do is realistic?”
Why would they even have to ask that question if not to quell the rumors? Here’s Kate’s “scripted” response:
Kate: “Yes. It’s very realistic. There’s no scripting. There’s a plan about this is what we want to get.” She then added: “Right, that’s important for us to let people know we aren’t hiding anything. Our goal is to show people how hard this job is.”
Then Jon said: “Our crew follows us …”
And Kate quickly interrupted with: “Whatever we do and how we do it.”
Kate then continued: “Our goal is to make reality television, so that doesn’t mean we’re going to guard what we’re saying because that wouldn’t be real life. If I started to change into this hmm, hmm, hmm (Kate rolls her eyes) person, then why film it cause it’s not our life.”
HIDE AND SEEK
While reporting for US Weekly, a Gosselin nanny told me this:
“Back when TLC was filming the show, it was a filming day and the kids were playing and they were told by the crew to come outside to film a staged event. The kids were having fun and didn’t want to film so they all hid at different places in the house and wouldn’t come out. The crew had to go searching for them and the producer was getting very angry because they were wasting time and Kate became irate and started screaming at them to “get outside now or else!”
The kids hated having to film and the only time they had any fun was when they went on special trips and got to do exciting things like see the battle ship and go to the dude ranch. They hate filming at home. Kate tries to bribe them to be good for the cameras and when that doesn’t work, she turns to threats. She has no idea how much damage she’s doing to these little kids. She just worries about being famous.”
On April 5, 2011, while on a promotional tour for the new season of Kate Plus Ei8ht, Kate sat down with Joy Behar for an interview. It was the same Kate Gosselin, repeating the same scripted talking points. It’s funny to watch all of her interviews over the years, and hear her say the exact same thing, with the exact same tone of voice, with the exact same head bobs and mannerisms and fake smiles. How would that be possible unless she had rehearsed
it with her “media trainer” over and over and over again?
Joy Behar: “What is it about you that provokes this kind of negative attack? What is it?”
Kate: “I don’t know, um, I’m still trying to figure that out. I know that, um, there’s a lot of single moms out there, I have more than the average number of kids, um, this is something that Jon and I started together, and it was working then, um, it’s still working for me and the kids now, and, um, we’re all happy doing it, I’m working, they’re running in and out of the frame and if they want to run off and not do what we’re doing, they don’t. If they don’t wanna go along they don’t.”
Yeah, ask Mady if that’s how it worked when she begged to not go on the “amazing adventure” to Alaska.
THE CREW IS PART OF OUR FAMILY
“If someone knocked on your door tomorrow and said, this really great group of dads was gonna come, hang out with your family and film you doing whatever…would they really shut the door and walk away?”
On The Talk, which aired in February 2011, Kate and Discovery were in full spin mode doing damage control about the questions that were out there regarding Kate not having any close family around the kids and the kids having to be “working” constantly.
Kate said, “The kids came to me and said mommy, when’s our crew coming back? They missed them. I, and I waited for that and I waited, and they came and asked, it was a, it was a normalcy for them. It was a comfort, these guys when the cameras are off, they’re dads, they’re helping us, they play games with the kids, they read books to em, I mean, this is family to us.”
Then the interviewer, Julie Chen, asked Kate, “But then, what happens when that goes away cause there will come a day when that all goes away?”
And Kate responded, “But the people won’t go away cause we’ll stay in contact with them forever. They have truly, we’ve made deep, lifelong friendships, I mean you have to remember, these people have traveled with us as well … they’re like a part of us.”
I wonder if the crew knows that. From what I’ve been told by a crew member who has chosen to remain anonymous, filming Kate Gosselin was one of the most unpleasant experiences of his life. He said, “She treats us like shit. She treats the kids like shit. She’s rude to everyone. Nothing surprises me anymore with her.”
This love-fest of a family portrait Kate tried to paint contradicts what she told Oprah Winfrey regarding the film crew during an interview in March 2009. Kate said at the time, “The crew changes so often at this point, and, we’re seeing a lot of different people, which I once was not comfortable with, but over here you’ll see Mike. He’s the only one left from the very beginning.”
Apparently, the crew really was like Kate’s family; none of them are left from the very beginning either.
Kate said she had made deep, lifelong friendships with this great crew of dads, who played games with her kids and read to them. She loved this crew “family” so much, in fact, that she made up a special set of rules just for them. If the crew members were such a beloved part of her family, why would Kate treat them any differently than she treated Jon and the kids? Here are Kate’s “New House Rules” for the crew.
New House Rules
- This home address is NEVER to be discussed or written down. Directions to this house are not to be discussed either.
- Specific door use- side double doors on left side of house- enters into basement- no other doors in house to be used by crew members AT ALL please.
- Absolutely no smoking or drinking alcohol on our entire property (or on the road in front of our house).
- Turn lights off in apt and house every time you leave a room- no exceptions
- Approved bathroom for crew use is in apartment. This is the ONLY bathroom for crew usage. (do not use bathrooms in house please)
- No shoes in house or apt at any time. Shoe booties (that have NOT been worn outside!) or no shoes. Period.
- Please leave thermostat in apartment where it is. When leaving, turn down to 66 degrees. Thermostat will be set to a temp- and should not be changed please.
- Use trash cans for all trash. Please remove all trash from apartment and place in outside trash cans everyday and before leaving at the end of each shoot.
- Place all towels (if applicable) in specified area before leaving.
- Absolutely no eating/ drinking in our house.... All food/ drinks need to remain in apartment.
- Completely Close doors!!!! Every time and quickly!! No exceptions.
- Please knock before entering our house-DO NOT just walk in!!!
- Crew equipment storage- all equipment should be stored in crew purchased storage box in first bay of garage. Make all equipment fit and close and lock door before leaving shoot. NO equipment should remain in apartment as we will be using apt for guests between shoots.
- Do not leave trash or any equipment behind in our house. A walk through by a PA should be done at the end of each shoot to ensure that all equipment/ trash was collected.
- Do not help yourself to tools, our equipment etc. (including product placement items) Please ask before using things that are not yours.
- Please remember, this is not a 'set' (or a college dorm!)-- its our home!!!! We are very proud of this house, please treat it with care!!!!!!!
Kate sent an email to Wendy Douglas of Discovery telling her that “anytime the film crew is present Jon and or I need to also be present to let them into the house and to oversee. Therefore, I am requesting that the schedule be revised to reflect this.”
If the crew was like family and she trusted them to be alone with her children, why wouldn’t she also trust them to be at her house without her or Jon there to “oversee” them? Kate trusted contractors to be in her home alone, but not her “family,” the crew?
Kate repeated over and over that having the crew around and the constant filming was a “normalcy” for her children. There was another time in history when children were subjected to this same kind of “normalcy.” If you Google “Dionne Quintuplets,” you will learn how five little girls were exploited and put on display like animals in a zoo. Here is some information about them from Wikipedia (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dionne_quintuplets):
…The Dionne quintuplets (born May 28, 1934) are the first quintuplets known to survive their infancy. The sisters were born just outside Callander, Ontario, Canada near the village of Corbeil.
…After four months with their family, they were made wards of the King for the next nine years under the Dionne Quintuplets' Guardianship Act, 1935. The government and those around them began to profit by making them a significant tourist attraction in Ontario.
… Across the road from their birthplace, the Dafoe Hospital and Nursery was built for the five girls and their new caregivers. … The compound had an outdoor playground designed to be a public observation area. It was surrounded by a covered arcade that allowed tourists to observe the sisters behind one-way screens. …It was a nine-room nursery with a staff house nearby. The staff house held the three nurses and the three policemen in charge of guarding them. A housekeeper and two maids lived in the main building with the quintuplets. The buildings were surrounded by a seven foot barbed wire fence.
Approximately 6,000 people per day visited the observation gallery that surrounded an outdoor playground to view the Dionne sisters. Ample parking was provided and almost 3,000,000 people walked through the gallery between 1936 and 1943. Oliva Dionne ran a souvenir shop and a concession store opposite the nursery and the area acquired the name "Quintland". The souvenirs pictured the five sisters. There were autographs and framed photographs, spoons, cups, plates, plaques, candy bars, books, postcards, dolls, and much more at this shop … In 1934, the Quintuplets brought in about $1 million, and they attracted in total about $51 million of tourist revenue to Ontario.
This was their normal, too. And they suffered dearly for it their entire lives.
“MY KIDS LOOOOOOOOOVE FILMING THE SHOW!”
In Ap
ril of 2011, Kate said this to Matt Lauer on the Today show: “It is a very positive fixture still in our lives. It’s normal, it’s exciting. They still cheer when the crew comes in the door. I would not say that if it were not true.”
There she goes again using the word “normal” to describe the completely abnormal action of selling your children’s privacy and childhoods for profit.
During that same interview, Lauer expressed disbelief that Kate could put eight children on a 21-hour flight to Australia and avoid a major family meltdown. Kate said even she was surprised by how smoothly it all went. “It was one of the best flights of our lives. I’m not kidding. I’m shocked to be sitting here saying that.”
I don’t doubt that it was a good flight for Kate. She sat with her handsome, married bodyguard, Steve, in first class, while the suffering children sat in another part of the plane with two babysitters, the film crew and the show’s director/producers.
The Season 4 “All You Wanted To Know” episode of Jon & Kate Plus Ei8ht was one of those episodes TLC used to respond to the negative criticism in the media regarding the show. Most, if not all, of the questions or comments in those types of episodes were written or “planted” by Kate and the show’s producers. This is how they “set the record straight” about how much the kids loved filming:
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