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by Ann Dowsett Johnston


  239 “gender convergence is propping up sales”: Interview with Thomas Greenfield, April 2013.

  240 alcohol is 44 percent more affordable, in real terms, than it was in 1980: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2235017/Low-price-alcohol-mean-youngsters-drink-activities.html.

  240 alcohol companies have discovered they need women to drink—and they are marketing accordingly: Interview with David Jernigan, February 2013; and email exchange, April 2013.

  241 “FAS or FASD is just one example of harm to others”: Interview with Jürgen Rehm, February 2013.

  242 “Addiction is not a moral failure”: Interview with Susan E. Foster, May 2013.

  242 random breath testing is the future: Interviews with Andrew Murie, 2010, 2011, 2013.

  243 “we need to understand is the coexistence of depression and drinking in women”: Interview with Nancy Poole, February 2013.

  244 “Becky’s Not Drinking Tonight”: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hIe9KGAJeko.

  244 “The highest risk is for the higher-educated women in lower-resourced countries”: Interview with Sharon Wilsnack, March 2011.

  CHAPTER 16: WRESTLING WITH THE GOD THING

  245 “The spiritual life is not a theory”: Alcoholics Anonymous (Alcoholics Anonymous World Services Inc., 2001).

  250 Spiritus con spiritum: Marion Woodman, Addiction to Perfection: The Still Unravished Bride (Inner City Books, 1982).

  250 Jung corresponding with Bill Wilson: Jan Bauer, Alcoholism and Women: The Background and the Psychology (Inner City Books, 1982).

  251 Jung “recognized the confusion between physical and spiritual thirst”: Marion Woodman, Addiction to Perfection: The Still Unravished Bride (Inner City Books, 1982).

  251 the phrase “God as we understand Him”: http://www.barefootsworld.net/aadilemmanofaith.html.

  251 “We live in a predominately Christian culture”: Marion Woodman, Addiction to Perfection: The Still Unravished Bride (Inner City Books, 1982).

  253 “Giving up booze”: Wilfrid Sheed, In Love with Daylight: A Memoir of Recovery (Simon & Schuster, 1995).

  254 “flashy tail feathers of the bird courage”: E. B. White, as quoted in Scott Elledge’s E. B. White: A Biography (W. W. Norton and Company, 1984).

  254 “a bunch of sober alcoholics”: Anne Lamott, Travelling Mercies: Some Thoughts on Faith (Anchor, 1999).

  255 One of the sober alcoholics who helped me stay sober is Claire: Interview with Claire, January 2013.

  258 “Addiction attempts to fill a spiritual void—and of course, it doesn’t work”: Interview with Stephanie Covington, December 2012.

  260 “I was a distant stranger to my kids”: Stephanie Covington, A Woman’s Way Through the Twelve Steps (Hazelden, 1994).

  261 “The word God could have a religious meaning”: Gabor Maté, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts (Alfred A. Knopf Canada, 2008).

  261 “Underneath the personality, there’s a deeper self”: Interview with Gabor Maté, February 2013.

  262 “This is a disease of perception”: Interview with Karin, January 2013.

  CHAPTER 17: STIGMA

  263 “It’s the misunderstanding that kills”: Interview with Susan Cheever, June 2011.

  263 “You could say to me, ‘Drink responsibly,’ and I’ll say: ‘I’ll try!’”: Craig Ferguson at http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kI-BhQGwDO8.

  264 “When the series is over, will you need a job?”: Interview with Alison Uncles, November 2010.

  266 “We have known for more than twenty years that alcoholism is a chronic, relapsing brain disease”: Interview with Peter Thanos, November 2011.

  266 “The American Medical Association calls it a disease”: Interview with Patrick Smith, November 2011.

  266 “Our only shot is to see it as a disease because there’s much less stigma”: Interview with Jean Kilbourne, March 2010.

  266 “If, in fact, alcoholism is a kind of slow suicide”: Jan Bauer, Alcoholism and Women: The Background and the Psychology (Inner City Books, 1982).

  268 “Trauma isn’t just an emotional event: it shapes brain circuitry”: Interview with Gabor Maté, February 2013.

  268 “For a woman, the stigma of addiction is still very bad”: Interview with Sheila Murphy, May 2011.

  268 “no one chooses to be an addict”: Interview with Stephanie Covington, April 2013.

  268 “A big process of my recovery was self-forgiveness”: Interview with Rebecca, March 2013.

  268 “I wish I could use my real name”: Interview with Scout, November 2012.

  269 Is it time for AA to drop the second A?: New York Times, May 6, 2011.

  270 “We are in the midst of a public health crisis”: Susan Cheever at http://www.thefix.com/content/breaking-rule-anonymity-aa.

  270 “Post-treatment, those who remain involved in a mutual twelve-step program like AA dramatically improve their chances of remaining clean and sober”: Interview with Patrick Smith, June 2011.

  270 “if we cross into addiction, there is no going back”: Interview with Johanna O’Flaherty, November 2012.

  271 “Anonymity protects”: Interview with Susan Cheever, June 2011.

  271 “I think that the recovery world is where the gay world was in the 1990s”: Interview with Maer Roshan, June 2011.

  271 “I do think recovery needs a face and a voice”: Interview with Stephanie Covington, July 2011.

  272 “the hostility to meetings always surprises me”: Interview with Susan Juby, June 2011.

  272 “If you’re female and drunk, you’re not going to live it down”: Interview with Karin, June 2011.

  272 “One of the greatest problems is that the general public and policy makers don’t understand that people can and do get well”: Interview with Pat Taylor, June 2011.

  272 “Recovery is a mind, body, and soul experience”: Interview with William C. Moyers, June 2011.

  273 “you don’t need alcohol to be confident”: Interview with Chris Raine, April 2013.

  274 National Roundtable on Girls, Women, and Alcohol: http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/2013/03/08/sobering_lack_of_progress_seen_on_women_and_alcohol.html.

  CHAPTER 18: BECOMING WHOLE

  275 “You will lose someone you can’t live without, and your heart will be badly broken”: Anne Lamott, Plan B: Further Thoughts on Faith (Riverhead Books, 1995).

  275 For me, there has been one central fairy tale that has been totemic in my journey: Marie-Louise von Franz, The Feminine in Fairy Tales (Shambhala, 1993); and Robert A. Johnson, The Fisher King and the Handless Maiden: Understanding the Wounded Feeling Function in Masculine and Feminine Psychology (Harper-SanFrancisco, 1993).

  280 “For the Breakup of a Relationship”: John O’Donohue, To Bless the Space Between Us: A Book of Blessings (Doubleday, 2008).

  282 “You are standing on the shaky sands of doubt”: Fraser Boa at http://blog.gaiam.com/quotes/authors/fraser-boa.

  ABOUT THE AUTHOR

  Photo by © Christopher Dew

  Winner of five National Magazine Awards, ANN DOWSETT JOHNSTON is a writer and editor recognized for her expertise in higher education and alcohol policy. Recipient of an Atkinson Fellowship in Public Policy and a Southam Fellowship in Journalism, she spent most of her professional career at Maclean’s magazine where she was best known as the chief architect of the university rankings issue. A graduate of Queen’s University and a former vice principal of McGill, she lives in Toronto.

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  Various portions of this book first appeared in the author’s series on women and alcohol in the Toronto Star in 2011. Used by kind permission from the Atkinson Foundation and the Toronto Star.

  Portions of Chapter 2: “Out of Africa” first appeared in Maclean’s as “Postcards from Paradise” (Aug. 20, 2001). Reprinted by kind permission from Maclean’s magazine, Rogers Publishing Limited.

  “The Laughing Heart” from Betting on the Muse: Poems & Stories by Charles Bukowski. Copyright © 1996 by Linda Lee Bukowski. Reprinted by permission of HarperCollins Publishers.

  Excerpt from “East Coker” from Four Quartets by T. S. Eliot. Copyright © 1940 by T. S. Eliot; copyright © renewed 1968 by Esme Valerie Eliot. Reprinted by permission of Faber and Faber, and Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. All rights reserved.

  “The breeze at dawn has secrets to tell you” from The Essential Rumi by Coleman Barks (HarperCollins Publishers, Inc., 1995); copyright © 1995 by Coleman Barks. Reprinted by permission of Coleman Barks.

  “Natural History” from Letters of E. B. White, Revised Edition, originally edited by Dorothy Lobrano Guth and revised and updated by Martha White. Copyright © 2006 by White Literary LLC. By permission of HarperCollins Publishers.

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