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How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime

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by Morpheous


  Resources

  Resources

  Works Cited

  How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Morpheous, Green Candy Press, San Francisco CA 2008

  A Guide to Sexual Misery Bernhard Ludwig Uberreuter, Wien 2005

  Bound to be free Chales Moster and JJ Madeson Continuum NY 2000

  On The Safe Edge: A Manual for SM Play Trevor Jacques WholeSM Publishing Toronto 1993

  Suggested Reading

  Two Knotty Boys Showing You the Ropes, Two Knotty Boys, Green Candy Press, San Francisco CA 2006

  Two Knotty Boys Back On The Ropes, Two Knotty Boys, Green Candy Press, San Francisco CA 2010

  SM 101 Jay Wiseman, Greenery Press San Francisco 1998

  Erotic Bondage Handbook, Jay Wiseman Greenery Press San Francisco, 2000

  The Master’s Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance, Jack Rinella, Daedalus Publishing Company, 1994

  Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission, Claudia Varrin, Citadel 2003

  Miss Abernathy’s Concise Slave Training Manual Christine Abernathy, Greenery Press 1998

  The Bride Wore Black Leather…And He Looked Fabulous!: An Etiquette Guide for the Rest of Us Drew Campbell Greenery Press 2000

  Toy makers and artisans

  This is by no means a comprehensive list, during my travels I meet many wonderful toy makers and artisans of kinky toys and speaking from personal experience these are some of my most favorites. The great thing is that I am always discovering new everywhere I go. There are lots of online resources run by individuals in your local area. Google is your best friend. Support your local artisans so they can support you!

  Facing Page: Who wouldn’t want to know more?

  Rope

  I exclusively use these rope makers for all of my teaching and personal use:

  Handmade Rope handmaderope.com

  Serenity Bound serenity-bound.com

  Other great rope makers and suppliers

  Madam Butterfly butterflyrope.com

  Maui Kink mauikink.com

  Aja Rope ajarope.com

  Shibari Ropes shibariropes.com

  Twisted Monk twistedmonk.com

  Kinky Ropes kinkyropes.com

  Beautiful Bondage UK beautifulbondage.net

  Clothing and Toys

  Northbound Leather northboundleather.com

  Come As You Are comeasyouare.com

  Latex Vac Beds kinkengineering.com

  Ego Assassin Latex Designs ego-assassin.com

  Master Andre masterandre.com

  Aslan Leather aslanleather.com

  Toy Cases foryournymphomation.com

  Steampunk Vibrators littledeathray.com

  Fetish jewelry fetjeweller.com

  Bellakoi Designs bellakoidesigns.com

  Alice Handle alicehandle.com

  Torvea torvea.com

  Priape priape.com

  Hot Wax mild-to-wild.com

  Floggers kaosfloggers.com

  Rosie's Floggers rosiesfloggers.com

  Venus Envy (Halifax and Ottawa) venusenvy.ca

  Ponce jewelrybyponceportland.com

  Atelier Gothique ateliergothique.com

  Axovus axovus.com

  Nipple Charms nipplecharms.com

  Girdles girdlebound.com

  Heartwood Whips heartwoodwhips.com

  Mailler Phong Chainmail cgmaille.com

  Leather toys katanaworks.com

  Corsets fittobetied.ca

  Ms. Martha's Corsets corset1.com

  Whips whipmaker.ca

  masterwhipmaker.com

  snakewhips.com

  Libido toys libidolondon.com

  The Wild Side Cross Dressing wildside.org

  The Stockroom stockroom.com

  Mr. S. Leather mr-s-leather.com

  Extreme Restraints extremerestraints.com

  Burlesque supplies bettiesandbombshells.com

  Bear T shirts beartshirts.com

  Canes canes4pain.com

  thekinkshop.com

  Leather Masks and canes prysmcreations.com

  CheapTRX cheaptrx.com

  Master of Toys motbdsm.com

  Aluminum handled floggers floggers.com

  Restraints luckystarsleather.com

  Floggers kinkykustoms.ca

  flogger.com

  Rings triskeliondesigns.com

  Sensuous Bliss etsy.com/shop/sensuousbliss

  Chastity Devices lockedinsteel.com

  wholesalebdsm.com

  Fort Troff forttroff.com

  Kinky Medical kinkymedical.com

  Venus Eromedia venuseromedia.be

  Rubber Fucker Latex rubberfucker.com

  Paddles spankinc.ca

  Steel toys bluediamondtradingco.com

  Violet Wand violetwandstore.com

  Healsfang healsfang.com

  Fantasies in Leather fantasiesinleather.com

  Dr. Clockwork drclockwork.com

  Fire play and medical toys mtslenterprises.com

  Good Vibrations goodvibes.com

  Coco De Mer cocodemerusa.com

  Babeland babeland.com

  Self Serve selfservetoys.com

  Australia: Leather Gear eagleleather.com.au

  Ireland: BDSM toys toysforjoys.ie

  BDSM B&B and other kinky accomodations

  Ontario chateausauble.ca

  warmbuns.ca

  Seattle mybdsm.com/pages/GypsyArms/seascene.htm

  Oregon twistedcedarestate.com

  Amsterdam absolutesuite.com

  UK essandemm.com

  France frenchdungeon.com

  Spain sm-urlaub-mallorca.com

  Italy casacarisma.it

  Jamaica kinkinthecaribbean.com

  New Zealand bdsmpassion.com

  Australia dragonhousefarm.com.au

  Magazines online and paper

  Eros eros-zine.com

  Domination Directory International ddimag.com

  Skin Two skintwo.co.uk

  Marquis marquis.de

  Secret secretmag.com

  Bookstores and kinky cafés

  Come As You Are (Toronto) comeasyouare.com

  St. Louis shamelessgrounds.com

  Outwrite Books (Atlanta) outwritebooks.com

  A Different Light (San Francisco) adlbooks.com

  Websites of hot online sites and art

  Mine lordmorpheous.com modelmayhem.com/812653

  Maxine X maxinex.com

  Candle Boxxx candleboxxx.com

  Chloe Bond chloebond.com

  Artemis Hunter artemishunter.com

  Kink.com kink.com

  Chanta Rose chantasbitches.com

  JB Roper jbroper.com

  The Beautiful Kind thebeautifulkind.com

  Lew Rubens boundndetermined.com

  Educational/ Conferences and Advocacy groups

  Canada

  Northbound (Toronto) northboundlive.com

  Torture Garden Toronto (Toronto) torturegardentoronto.com

  Toronto TNG torontotng.com

  Black and Blue Ball (Winnepeg) blackandblueball.ca

  Breathless (Ottawa) breathlessottawa.com

  Montreal Fetish Weekend (Montreal) fetishweekend.com

  Northern Exposure (Sudbury) snobears.ca

  EHBC (Southern Ontario) ehbc.ca

  Vancouver Dungeon (with car pooling!) vancouverdungeon.com

  Lupercalia (Edmonton) lupercalia-edmonton.com

  Libido (Vancouver) libidoevents.com

  519 LGBT community centre (Toronto) the519.org

  U.S.

  National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (San Francisco) ncsfreedom.org

  LA KinkBall Fetish Weekend (LA, CA) lakinkball.com

  Southplains Leather Fest (Dallas) southplainsleatherfest.com

  Thunder in the Mountains (Colorado) thunderinthemountains.com

  Pony Play(Russell Springs) dulca-scenes.org

  The Floating World (New Jersey) floatingworld.dreamhosters.com

  TES (NYC)
tes.org

  Miss Rubber World (NYC) nyrubberball.com

  IML (Chicago) imrl.com

  Beyond Leather (Fort Lauderdale) beyondleather.net

  Black Rose (Maryland) br.org

  N.O.B.L.E. (New Orleans) lanoble.org

  Shibaricon (Chicago) shibaricon.com

  Knot Guilty (Atlanta) knotguilty.org

  DomCon (Atlanta) domconatlanta.com

  Atlanta Bound (Atlanta) atlantabound.com

  St.Louis STL3.com

  Lewbaricon (travelling) lewbaricon.com

  C.L.A.W. (Cleveland) clawinfo.org

  Mid Atlantic Leather (Washington) leatherweekend.com

  Colonial Kink (Williamsburg): colonialkink.com

  Northern Exposure (Anchorage) ne2010.net

  Europe and UK:

  Boudoir Bizarre (Zaandam, Netherlands) boudoir-bizarre.nl

  Mr. Rubber Italy (Rome, Italy) lcroma.com

  Evolution Fetish (Stoke on Trent, UK) atlantisevolution.co.uk/evolution_fetish.html

  Carribean

  Paradise Bound (Dominican Republic) kinkevents.com/cff/pervypeople.html

  Kink in the Carribean (Negril, Jamaica) kinkinthecaribbean.com/kinkx/

  Kinky Furniture makers

  Porte Rouge porterouge.net/pr/Home

  Dating and Online BDSM sites:

  Fetlife fetlife.com

  Bondage bondage.com

  Museums and Archives

  Amsterdam Sex Museum: sexmuseumamsterdam.nl

  NYC Sex Museum: museumofsex.com

  Leather Archives and Museum (Chicago) leatherarchives.org

  Sex worker and other resources

  Toronto

  Maggies maggiestoronto.ca

  Sex Professionals of Canada spoc.ca/index.html

  A.C.T. actoronto.org

  Montreal

  Stella chezstella.org

  San Francisco

  Health Resources bayswan.org

  New York

  Spread Magazine spreadmagazine.org

  Sex Workers Project sexworkersproject.org/

  Listings for therapists/counselors in Ontario:

  Daniel Zimmerman, M.S.W., 7 – 348 Lacasse Ave., Ottawa, Ontario, K1L 7A9, 613-741-0606, Dsottawa@sympatico.ca

  Fadi Abou-Rihan, Ph.D., 202 – 2 College Street, Toronto, 416-964-6357, http://psychotherapytoronto.info/sexuality.html

  Nick Mulé, Ph.D., RSW, Suite 820, 77 Maitland Place, Toronto, Ontario, Canada M4Y 2V6, Phone: 416-926-9135. Individuals, couples, families. Various BDSM issues.

  Peggy J. Kleinplatz, Ph.D., C. Psych., C, 161 Frank St., Ottawa, Ontario, K2P 0X4, Canada, 613-563-0846, email: kleinpla@uottawa.ca. Sex therapy with individuals, couples and groups.

  Terri Lyn Lemon, ABA Therapist, Michigan and Southern Ontario, based in Windsor, terrilynlemon@comcast.net Metro Detroit, Flint, Lansing, Windsor areas.

  The Models

  Models

  Elle, Kittehlicious, Ava Destruction, Doll, Brittany, Babygap, Greg, SLam, Russian Bear, Little Rose, Annie, Bella Noir, Jon Henderson, WyldAura, Fire Domination, The Red Rocket, Tragedy Ann, Nadia Versace, Aeva, Mandy the Halfcast Moon, Amu, Tanya Rigley, Dylan Ryan, Lyarah, Rain Daniels and Vaeda.

  And those with weblinks

  Alec & Chloe Bond chloebond.com

  Archean modelmayhem.com/1257597

  Kerry Maguire modelmayhem.com/596363

  Nyssa Nevers nyssasneverland.com

  Katy Cee modelmayhem.com/687335

  Tina Timebalm modelmayhem.com/285662

  Bri Playter modelmayhem.com/629431

  Wenona modelmayhem.com/25021

  Nicotine modelnicotine.com

  Kyla Blair modelmayhem.com/1816408

  Melissa Dale-Hicks modelmayhem.com/2008952

  Kat Reznor modelmayhem.com/1300712

  Katrina Razor modelmayhem.com/2105178

  Siren Thorn sirenthorn.com

  Allyss modelmayhem.com/1767040

  Deanna Deadly deannadeadly.com

  Andriana Santos andrianasantos.com

  Amazon Syren modelmayhem.com/1005204

  Droidsy modelmayhem.com/230678

  Laura Unbound lauraunbound.com

  PXE modelmayhem.com/505070

  Goddess Shea goddessshea.com/

  Orabella modelmayhem.com/627686

  Melissa Masters modelmayhem.com/856616

  Mad Scientist kinkengineering.com

  Sybil Hawthorne sybilhawthorne.com

  Ego Assassin ego-assassin.com

  Kaze modelmayhem.com/1496988

  Jezabel Knight jezabelknight.com

  Sandy Gabriel modelmayhem.com/572038

  Studios and Media Support

  Video production bluemyst.com

  Geoff George Photography geoffgeorge.com

  The Oh Team theohteam.com

  FAT CAT Photography modelmayhem.com/902307

  Creative Image Studios creativeimagestudios.com

  SubSpace Studio subspacestudio.com

  Sex Matters cp24.com/sexmatters

  Fat Cat Studio modelmayhem.com/902307

  Special Thanks to

  Once again my editor, Kevin, who has helped polish my words again and who I’m surprised still puts up with nonsense. The Cundari Agency for pimping me out. All of the models that grace these pages for giving of their time selflessly and supporting this project during its development. You are all consummate professionals and I couldn’t have done it without you. Elle and Effi for putting up with my shenanigans over the years. Kittehlicious for her midnight adventures across the world. Speedy Rope Guy for his medical play expertise, Alec and Chloe Bond for my Florida adventures. Lew Rubens for the inspiration and Peter Claver for joining in. Dr. Phil and his evening rigging in Paris, George and Anna and the whole gang at Northbound Leather. Maxine X and Scott for their undying support over the years. Archean for being scared of me from time to time and Mad Scientist for letting her. Gregg for being a demo bunny for people to torture over the years. Joey and Scott for helping with making my work look awesome online. Roy the lube boy and Kharma for both their support. Beret, Geoff and Garfield for the great discussions and encouragement of my photography. Dr. Carol Pukall at Queen’s University. Joe for being my anchor in the US. Dart and his Domain, Cub Dan for being such a great bear, The Knoxville scene for being so incredibly welcoming, Come As You Are for encouraging my teaching career when I was starting out. Diana and the Shibaricon crew, Michael my Viennese hideaway, Stella Perversa and Dommy Darko, Byrd, Craiger, Sir Alex Dark and Johnny-Boy for being great bros. EMJ and the FetLife team. Tracy and Jeff Adams for being my token soulless Gingers. Don Sir for being such a great guy whom I never get to see enough of, Carrie Grey of Aslan Leather for her unmatched quality in leather toys, FetishCon in Tampa for being the craziest 4 days of my year as well as Cecil and Penguin at The Woodshed, FL. Most of all to you and everyone around the world who has ever come to my classes, been to the Morpheous Bondage Extravaganza during Nuit Blanche or complimented my work by picking up this book. Lastly, my family who will never read this book and don’t understand my lifestyle but I love them regardless.

  About the Author

  Morpheous (Hons B.A., B.Ed) is a sex educator/author, photographer and magazine/kinkyTV/radio consultant based in Toronto, Canada. He is the author of two books: How to Be Kinky: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM (2008, Green Candy Press, San Francisco) and this one, How to Be Kinkier: More Adventures in Adult Playtime (2012, Green Candy Press, San Francisco). His work is archived at the Sexual Representation Collection at the Bonham Centre for Sexual Diversity Studies at the University of Toronto, the Leather Archives of Chicago and the National Archives of Canada. He travels and presents across the Americas and Europe doing outreach to both academic and kink aware safer sex organizations. He is also the host the world’s largest single night public erotic Japanese rope bondage event during Nuit Blanche in Toronto, Canada.

  Morpheous online: lordmorpheous.com

  Email: LM@lordmorpheous.com

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