by Ann McMan
“Told you.”
Cricket looked back at Shawn. “Don’t act so smug.”
“Come on.” Shawn waved a hand. “I told you this morning there was some kind of something going on there.”
Kate looked at her. “Some kind of something? Wow. With an ability to turn a phrase like that, you should think about becoming a writer.”
“Hey, hey.” Shawn tapped her chest. “Let’s not forget about my Simon & Schuster contract, okay?”
“How can we? You won’t let us.”
“Oh, like you’re suffering.” Shawn glowered at Gwen. “Feel free to shovel that fifteen percent right back my way if it ever gets to be too much of a burden for you.”
“Ooh. Catfight. Great.” Cricket turned in her seat. “I really need another drink for this.”
Gwen was chuckling, but Shawn was still offended.
“Really, baby cakes.” Kate patted her hand. “You need to lighten up.”
Shawn sighed and pushed her plate away.
“Are you on the rag?”
Shawn rolled her eyes at Cricket.
“Well?” Cricket suggested. “It seems like a reasonable explanation.”
“And they say our memories are the first things to go.”
“Fuck you, Gwen.” Cricket finally succeeded in flagging down a busser, who was hurrying by with a tray full of dirty dishes. “Could you please ask our server to activate her GPS and find her way back to our table?”
The busser looked at her with confusion.
“We need another round of drinks,” Gwen explained.
The busser nodded politely and continued on toward the kitchen.
“I’m sorry for being a bitch.”
All eyes at the table shifted toward Shawn.
“I have been on edge today.” She looked across the table at Cricket. “And, no, I’m not having my period.”
“I gave that shit up for Lent.”
Cricket looked at Gwen. “I know I haven’t been a practicing nurse for more than a decade, but I’m pretty confident that it doesn’t work that way.”
“It does when you tell your doctor that you want all that apparatus left behind in a surgical dish when they wheel you out of the OR.”
“What-ever.” Cricket appeared to notice something over Gwen’s shoulder. “Red light! Our bogie is on the move.”
“Where?” Gwen swiveled around on her chair.
“Over there.” Cricket pointed a stubby finger at the magnificent, red-draped ass winding its way between the crowded tables. “My god. That woman is hot.”
“Really girls?” Kate looked back and forth between the two older women. “Do we need to behave like dogs in heat?”
Gwen nodded enthusiastically. “You cannot refuse to dance when so much beauty is before you.”
“Dance?” Cricket looked confused. “What the hell are you talking about?”
“She’s quoting Pride and Prejudice,” Kate clarified.
Gwen looked at her with surprise.
Kate shrugged. “I have nine million cable channels, remember?”
“You should be an agent.” Gwen looked back to admire the view. The owner of the world’s-most-remarkable ass had reached her table, and the red-robed object of desire was now hidden from view. “Shit. She sat down.”
“Nothing gold can stay,” Cricket opined in a singsong voice.
Gwen looked at her. “Really?”
“It’s Robert Frost,” Cricket explained. “You’re not the only person here who’s read a book, you know.”
Gwen rolled her eyes and regarded Shawn. “Apropos of books, how is yours coming along?”
Shawn shrugged and didn’t reply.
“She’s stuck,” Kate explained.
“I am not stuck.” Shawn glowered at her.
“What do you call it, then? You haven’t written anything in a month.”
“I’m not up here to work on my book. I’m up here to work on Barb’s essay.”
Kate shook her head.
“What?” Shawn asked.
Kate looked at Gwen. “She’s stuck.”
Gwen sighed. “Are you still worried about writing something ‘good enough’ for your new editor?”
Shawn shrugged.
“Sweet pea, you gotta let that shit go. Just write the damn book and forget about who’s going to be reading it with a red pen.”
Shawn’s eyes grew wide.
“Oh, great.” Kate pointed at Shawn’s expression. “You just had to invoke the dreaded red pen. Now she’ll be up all night, munching on Tums.”
“Any port in a storm,” Cricket quipped. “But if she’s going to be up all night munching, I’d offer her something better to gnaw on.”
“Could you get your head out of your ass for two seconds?” Gwen asked.
“I might if I had something else to occupy myself with—like another goddamn drink.”
“Well take heart.” Kate smiled at their approaching server. “Here come our reinforcements.”
The server arrived to pick up their empty glasses and deposit a fresh round of cold drinks. When she departed, the women all hoisted their glasses and clinked rims. Gwen led the toast.
“Here’s to successful new ventures for all of us.”
“Here, here.” Cricket sipped her Scotch and smiled. “Hell hath retreated to its box.”
“Is that another quote?” Gwen asked.
“Beats me. I just thought it sounded good.”
Across the table from Cricket, Shawn was still sulking. She didn’t care for that “stuck” comment of Kate’s. It irked her. A lot. Mostly because she knew it was true.
She felt something skate across her thigh. Kate’s hand settled on her knee and gave it a warm squeeze. Shawn looked over at her.
“I’ll help you get unstuck,” she whispered.
Shawn didn’t reply, but she smiled. Kate could be very creative when it came to finding ways to get unstuck.
She glanced at her watch and wondered how quickly they could finish their drinks.
Essay 3
When it comes to questions about my tenure in psychotherapy, I like to tell people that I was on the five-year plan. Don’t laugh—I’m not really kidding.
I didn’t think my “issues” were all that complicated. Not at first, anyway. I thought I was breezing in there with some pretty textbook stuff. You know—castrating mother, alcoholic father, upper-middle class angst and umbrage, yadda, yadda, yadda. The usual. I figured I’d be good for about six months of group therapy—then I’d get my parking validated, and sally forth into high-functioning relationships and marriage to someone solidly enmeshed in a thirty-three percent tax bracket.
That would make me an unqualified success in my mother’s eyes. At least until I could convince her that I wasn’t spitting out kids because of early onset menopause. This would be a bold-faced lie, of course, but if it kept her out of my sex life, it would be worth the expressions of pity and disappointment I’d be sure to get from the women in her bridge club—all of whom, I might add, catapulted from their sister college sororities equipped with pelvises that would make Chinese peasants green with envy.
I know this probably sounds like I spent a lot of time strategizing about my future, but in my family, that was generally a safer way to proceed. It was a skill I acquired while learning how to off-load double twelves in cutthroat games of Mexican Train.
Games were like leitmotifs in our lives. My mother had a compulsive addiction to order, and that played out on an endless succession of game boards that, laid end to end, could have circled the globe twice. Even at a young age, I found this to be an ironic passion for someone who really could control next to nothing in her own life—or anyone else’s, for that matter. As small children, we played so many successive games of Sorry! that my brothers would salivate whenever they heard the sound of a bell ringing. (In case you were wondering, we were partial to the version of the game popularized on Mama’s Family because the bell drove our mother nuts.)
Playing games was a passion my father learned to love, too. In his case, it offered a perfect excuse to be out of the house between the hours of dinner and breakfast. It was amazing how he managed to find so many “all night” golf courses. I was well into my teens before I figured out that my mother’s snide references to “night putting” had little to do with golf, and everything to do with our father’s secretary, Frau Hertzog—a former stewardess for Lufthansa. I didn’t blame my father for this indiscretion—Frau Hertzog wasn’t that much of a prize, either. I never really understood why he’d cheat on our domineering mother with a leviathan who could toss him around like a shot put. I guess it’s true that water seeks its own level.
My brothers (we’ll call them Biff and Scooter) proved the truth of this hypothesis in pretty rapid succession. Sadly, Biff’s longest-term relationship ended up being with his parole officer. After four bouts of rehab, he finally succumbed to his cocaine addiction and collapsed in his college dorm room at age twenty-one. He died before the EMTs could revive him.
Scooter didn’t fare much better. He married so many clones of the Stepford wives that he eventually just kept his divorce attorney on speed dial. He was in Cancún on his fifth or sixth Club Med honeymoon when a freak scuba diving accident rendered him brain dead. Fortunately or unfortunately for him, the majority of his ex-wives were unable to discern the difference. He died in relative penury less than a week later.
If I sound callous, it’s not because I didn’t care about my brothers. I did. But we were more like polite strangers than siblings. I suppose that, for me, the real impact of these tragedies showed up later on—like a bruise that finally surfaces days later, when you’ve already forgotten about whatever it was you banged into. In my case, it might be more accurate to say that the cumulative weight of all of these losses came crashing down on me like a piano dropped from the sky. But unlike Wylie E. Coyote, I was unable to shake it off and walk away.
Although, in retrospect, I did often wonder how Road Runner got his paws on a Steinway in the middle of the desert. It must’ve had something to do with “the willing suspension of disbelief”—a philosophical concept that has never really had much resonance for me.
My hardcore realism has always been the bane of my existence. It’s a paradox. The same personality trait that probably allowed me to escape my childhood mostly unscathed later became my relational undoing. I reached a point where I couldn’t make anything work—even a two-minute conversation with the guy behind the counter at Jiffy Lube turned into a slugfest. I was a mess, and I knew it. I was like an obscene parody of Robert Browning’s “Last Duchess.” I despised whate’er I looked on, and my looks went everywhere.
After years of sinking deeper into anger and depression, or repression, or a mixed bag of all those words with the “-ession” suffix, a cadre of the few remaining friends I had descended upon me en masse and told me I needed a shrink. Immediately. Tess, one of my best friends, even shoved a folded-up piece of paper into the palm of my hand and muttered, “Use it—you two are perfect for each other,” as she headed for the door of my small apartment.
I sat down on my couch for about two hours, holding nothing but my pent-up rage and that small wad of paper. I sat there for so long that my cat, Shadow, strolled into the room to see what was going on. Understand that my cat didn’t like me much, either. He generally only made forays out under the cover of darkness.
Finally, in a last gasp of hope—or resignation—I unfolded the torn slip of notepaper. It took a minute to decipher Tess’s illegible scrawl.
½ doz. eggs
Diet Coke
trash bags
tampons
Dr. Anne McCall 583-3127
I stared at the list. Was good mental health generally found on the same aisle as feminine hygiene products? It made a kind of quirky sense, so I decided to give it a try, and make the call.
Anne McCall, a.k.a. “Mickey,” was a big woman—larger than life, really. And Tess was right: she was perfect for me—especially in all those “don’t come in here and blow smoke up my ass” ways that made it impossible for me to run my numbers on her. She was smart and tough. A refugee from Scranton, Pennsylvania. That fact alone was enough to garner my respect. My father was from Scranton, too. And, believe me, you had to have titanium cojones to walk away from that place and be able to drink without drooling.
It took me most of the first year in therapy to figure out that Mickey wouldn’t put up with any of my shit. So we spent many of our forty-five minute “hours” in silence, staring at each other from our respective chairs (I quickly claimed a seat on the couch, but staunchly vowed never to lie down upon it). I thought the silent treatment would crack her. Why not? It always worked with everyone else. When it eventually became clear to me that Mickey was quite content to endure my silence and still bill me one hundred and twenty-five dollars per session, I realized that it might be prudent to give voice to at least some of the behavioral issues that led me to spend most of an hour every week admiring the postmodern artwork and hand-thrown pottery that ornamented her truly tasteful office.
We started out with my mother, of course. Then moved on to my father and my “issues” with his alcoholism and philandering. The deaths of my two brothers came next. It soon became clear to me that this process was the psychological equivalent of moving through the hot bar at Golden Corral—without the yeast rolls. It was a good thing I had no idea about the tasty confection that was lying in wait for me at the end of the dessert line.
Our conversations pretty much followed a typical pattern.
“How was your week,” Mickey would ask.
Silence.
Eventually, I’d shrug. “It sucked.”
“Why?”
“Who knows? People are assholes.”
“What people?”
“My mother.”
Mickey would re-cross her legs. “This is hardly a breaking news item.”
More silence.
“Do you want to tell me what happened?” she’d ask.
“Not really.”
More silence.
“Is that a new piece of pottery?” I’d point at something with sleek lines that sat atop her white bookcase.
“No.” She’d take a sip from her mug of hot tea.
I’d look at my watch. Six or seven minutes would have passed. Finally I’d quit stalling and cough it up. “So, this guy at work asked me out.”
“And?”
“I don’t want to go.”
“Did you tell him that?”
“No.”
“Why not?”
“I don’t feel like I can.”
“Because?”
I’d shrug.
More silence.
“I feel like I have to go, and it pisses me off,” I’d confess.
“Which part pisses you off? Going, or feeling like you have to go?”
“Yes.”
“Say more about that.”
It drove me nuts when she said, “Say more about that.”
“It drives me nuts when you say that,” I’d say.
She’d raise an eyebrow. “Say more about that, too.”
I never really noticed that the not-wanting-to-date thing was becoming my own leitmotif. I don’t know why I thought that projectile vomiting was a normal response to being asked out for dinner by a good-looking guy. Of course, Mickey seemed to figure this one out right away—the way they all do. I remember that I even tried to take her to task for that once—suggesting that she already knew all the outcomes and was just waiting for me to catch up. She looked at me like I had two heads (which, in retrospect, would have provided a unique opportunity for double billing).
“Why would you think that I’m sitting here with all the answers?” she asked.
“I don’t know. Maybe because that’s what you get paid for?”
“If I knew the answers, don’t you think I would share them with you?”
I didn’t reply.
“Believe me,” Mickey continued. “I’m not clairvoyant. I don’t have a magic eight-ball that I consult as soon as you leave the office. When I have insights, I share them with you. My job is not to conceal things from you until you figure them out.”
“It isn’t?”
“No.”
“Not even when it’s about my mother?”
“Especially when it’s about your mother. In fact, I think your mother should will herself to science.”
I found it hard to argue with that one.
“So,” she continued. “Do you want to tell me about the rest of your week?”
I nodded. “It was pretty uneventful. Work sucked. But on Tuesday night, I went to a recital with Byron.”
Byron was my gay best friend. We pretty much did everything together.
Mickey waved a hand at me. “And?”
“It was a great concert. Cecilia Bartoli in an all-Rossini program. We had excellent seats—right in the center of the second row.”
“Sounds wonderful.”
“It really was.” I thought about the event for a moment. “Something weird happened when she came out on stage.”
“What?”
I shrugged. “I don’t know. She was wearing this really gorgeous, low-cut red dress—it fit her like a glove.”
Mickey nodded, but didn’t say anything—so I kept talking.
“I just felt—strange when I saw her. I don’t know how else to describe it. It was just—weird.” I shook my head. “After the concert, Byron and I went out for a late supper at the oyster bar and ran into some friends of his from graduate school. That was a drag because they sat down with us, and proceeded to talk prevailing issues in library science for the duration of the entire meal. You cannot imagine how interesting a discussion of subject-based information gateways isn’t. At one point, I seriously thought about impaling myself on a seafood fork. Trust me, there weren’t enough glasses of Rioja on the planet to keep my interest up during that meal. Fortunately for me, Byron was driving that night, so I didn’t have to monitor my intake. The rest of the week was just pretty ho-hum. I got a reprieve of sorts because my mother is still down with bronchitis—it’s hard for her to be as castrating as usual when she can’t breathe. My obnoxious neighbor stepped right up to fill the void, however. He’s still blasting The Best of Prince at three a.m. Last night was the second time this week. I called my landlord about this…again. But he plainly doesn’t give a shit. What do you think I should do about this? It’s really driving me crazy.”
