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by Филип Дормер Стенхоп Честерфилд




  Letters to His Son on the Art of Becoming a Man of the World and a Gentleman (Письма к сыну – полный вариант)

  Филип Дормер Стенхоп Честерфилд

  В этот сборник вошли 320 писем Филипа Честерфилда – на русский переводилась еле четверть из них.

  Earl of Philip Dormer Stanhope Chesterfield

  Complete Project Gutenberg Earl of Chesterfield Works

  Chesterfield's Letters to His Son

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  His Son, by The Earl of Chesterfield

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  Title: The PG Edition of Chesterfield's Letters to His Son

  Author: The Earl of Chesterfield

  Release Date: October 12, 2004 [EBook #3361]

  [Last updated on February 14, 2007]

  Language: English

  *** START OF THIS PROJECT GUTENBERG EBOOK LETTERS TO HIS SON ***

  Produced by David Widger

  LETTERS TO HIS SON

  By the EARL OF CHESTERFIELD

  on the Fine Art of becoming a

  MAN OF THE WORLD

  and a

  GENTLEMAN

  CONTENTS

  SPECIAL INTRODUCTION

  1746-1747

  LETTER II

  LETTER III

  LETTER IV

  LETTER V

  LETTER VI

  LETTER VII

  LETTER VIII

  LETTER IX

  LETTER X

  LETTER XI

  LETTER XII

  LETTER XIII

  LETTER XIV

  LETTER XV

  LETTER XVI

  LETTER XVII

  LETTER XVIII

  LETTER XIX

  LETTER XX

  LETTER XXI

  LETTER XXII

  LETTER XXIII

  1748

  LETTER XXV

  LETTER XXVI

  LETTER XXVII

  LETTER XXVIII

  LETTER XXIX

  LETTER XXX

  LETTER XXXI

  LETTER XXXII

  LETTER XXXIII

  LETTER XXXIV

  LETTER XXXV

  LETTER XXXVI

  LETTER XXXVII

  LETTER XXXVIII

  LETTER XXXIX

  LETTER XL

  LETTER XLI

  LETTER XLII

  LETTER XLIII

  LETTER XLIV.

  LETTER XLV

  LETTER XLVI

  LETTER XLVII

  LETTER XLVIII

  LETTER XLIX

  LETTER L

  LETTER LI

  LETTER LII

  LETTER LIII

  LETTER LIV

  LETTER LV

  LETTER LVI

  LETTER LVII

  LETTER LVIII

  LETTER LIX

  LETTER LX

  LETTER LXI

  1749

  LETTER LXIII

  LETTER LXIV

  LETTER LXV

  LETTER LXVI

  LETTER LXVII

  LETTER LXVIII

  LETTER LXIX

  LETTER LXX

  LETTER LXXI

  LETTER LXXII

  LETTER LXXIII

  LETTER LXXIV

  LETTER LXXV

  LETTER LXXVI

  LETTER LXXVII

  LETTER LXXVIII

  LETTER LXXIX

  LETTER LXXX

  LETTER LXXXI

  LETTER LXXXII

  LETTER LXXXIII

  LETTER LXXXIV

  LETTER LXXXV

  LETTER LXXXVI

  LETTER LXXXVII

  LETTER LXXXVIII

  LETTER LXXXIX

  LETTER XC

  LETTER XCI

  LETTER XCII

  LETTER XCIII

  LETTER XCIV

  LETTER XCV

  LETTER XCVI

  LETTER XCVII

  LETTER XCVIII

  LETTER XCIX

  1750

  LETTER CI

  LETTER CII

  LETTER CIII

  LETTER CIV

  LETTER CV

  LETTER CVI

  LETTER CVII

  LETTER CVIII

  LETTER CIX

  LETTER CX

  LETTER CXI

  LETTER CXII

  LETTER CXIII

  LETTER CXIV

  LETTER CXV

  LETTER CXVI

  LETTER CXVII

  LETTER CXVIII.

  LETTER CXIX

  LETTER CXX

  LETTER CXXI

  LETTER CXXII

  LETTER CXXIII

  LETTER CXXIV

  LETTER CXXV

  1751

  LETTER CXXVII

  LETTER CXXVIII

  LETTER CXXIX

  LETTER CXXX

  LETTER CXXXI

  LETTER CXXXII

  LETTER CXXXIII

  LETTER CXXXIV

  LETTER CXXXV

  LETTER CXXXVI

  LETTER CXXXVII

  LETTER CXXXVIII

  LETTER CXXXIX

  LETTER CXL

  LETTER CXLI

  LETTER CXLII

  LETTER CXLIII

  LETTER CXLIV

  LETTER CXLV

  LETTER CXLVI

  LETTER CXLVII

  LETTER CXLVIII

  LETTER CXLIX

  LETTER CL

  LETTER CLI

  LETTER CLII

  LETTER CLIII

  LETTER CLIV

  1752

  LETTER CLVI

  LETTER CLVII

  LETTER CLVIII

  LETTER CLIX

  LETTER CLX

  LETTER CLXI

  LETTER CLXII

  LETTER CLXIII

  LETTER CLXIV

  LETTER CLXV

  LETTER CLXVI

  LETTER CLXVII

  LETTER CLXVIII

  LETTER CLXIX

  LETTER CLXX

  LETTER CLXXI

  LETTER CLXXII

  LETTER CLXXIII

  LETTER CLXXIV

  LETTER CLXXV

  LETTER CLXXVI

  LETTER CLXXVII

  LETTER CLXXVIII

  LETTER CLXXIX

  LETTER CLXXX

  LETTER CLXXXI

  LETTER CLXXXII

  LETTER CLXXXIII

  LETTER CLXXXIV

  1753-1754

  LETTER CLXXXVI

  LETTER CLXXXVII

  LETTER CLXXXVIII

  LETTER CLXXXIX

  LETTER CXC

  LETTER CXCI

  LETTER CXCII

  LETTER CXCIII

  LETTER CXCIV

  LETTER CXCV

  LETTER CXCVI

  LETTER CXCVII

  LETTER CXCVIII

  LETTER CXCIX

  LETTER CC

  LETTER CCI

  LETTER CCII

  1756-1758

  LETTER CCIV

  LETTER CCV

  LETTER CCVI

  LETTER CCVII

  LETTER CCVIII

  LETTER
CCIX

  LETTER CCX

  LETTER CCXI

  LETTER CCXII

  LETTER CCXIII

  LETTER CCXIV

  LETTER CCXV

  LETTER CCXVI

  LETTER CCXVII

  LETTER CCXVIII

  LETTER CCXIX

  LETTER CCXX

  LETTER CCXXI

  LETTER CCXXII

  LETTER CCXXIII

  LETTER CCXXIV

  LETTER CCXXV

  LETTER CCXXVI

  LETTER CCXXVII

  LETTER CCXXVIII

  LETTER CCXXIX

  LETTER CCXXX

  LETTER CCXXXI

  LETTER CCXXXII

  LETTER CCXXXIII

  LETTER CCXXXIV

  LETTER CCXXXV

  LETTER CCXXXVI

  1759-1765

  LETTER CCXXXVIII

  LETTER CCXXXIX

  LETTER CCXL

  LETTER CCXLI

  LETTER CCXLII

  LETTER CCXLIII

  LETTER CCXLIV

  LETTER CCXLV

  LETTER CCXLVI

  LETTER CCXLVIII

  LETTER CCXLIX

  LETTER CCL

  LETTER CCLI

  LETTER CCLII

  LETTER CCLIII

  LETTER CCLIV

  LETTER CCLV

  LETTER CCLVI

  LETTER CCLVII

  LETTER CCLVIII

  LETTER CCLIX

  LETTER CCLX

  LETTER CCLXI

  LETTER CCLXII

  LETTER CCLXIII

  LETTER CCLXIV

  LETTER CCLXV

  LETTER CCLXVI

  LETTER CCLXVII

  LETTER CCLXVIII

  LETTER CCLXIX

  LETTER CCLXX

  LETTER CCLXXI

  LETTER CCLXXII

  LETTER CCLXXIII

  LETTER CCLXXIV

  LETTER CCLXXV

  LETTER CCLXXVI

  LETTER CCLXXVII

  LETTER CCLXXVIII

  LETTER CCLXXIX

  LETTER CCLXXX

  LETTER CCLXXXI

  LETTER CCLXXXII

  LETTER CCLXXXIII

  1766-1771

  LETTER CCLXXXV

  LETTER CCLXXXVI

  LETTER CCLXXXVII

  LETTER CCLXXXVIII

  LETTER CCLXXXIX

  LETTER CCXC

  LETTER CCXCI

  LETTER CCXCII

  LETTER CCXCIII

  LETTER CCXCIV

  LETTER CCXCV

  LETTER CCXCVI

  LETTER CCXCVII

  LETTER CCXCVIII

  LETTER CCXCIX

  LETTER CCC

  LETTER CCCI

  LETTER CCCII

  LETTER CCCIII

  LETTER CCCIV

  LETTER CC

  LETTER CCCVI

  LETTER CCCVII

  LETTER CCCVIII

  LETTER CCCIX

  LETTER CCCX

  LETTER CCCXI

  LETTER CCCXII

  LETTER CCCXIII

  LETTER CCCXIV

  LETTER CCCXV

  LETTER CCCXVI

  LETTER CCCXVII

  LETTER CCCXVIII

  LETTER CCCXIX

  LETTER CCCXX

  PG Editor's Notes:

  O. S. and N. S.: On consultation with several specialists I have learned that the abbreviations O. S. and N. S. relate to the difference between the old Julian calender used in England and the Gregorian calender which was the standard in Europe. In the mid 18th century it is said that this once amounted to a difference of eleven days. To keep track of the chronology of letters back and forth from England to France or other countries in mainland Europe, Chesterfield inserted in dates the designation O. S. (old style) and N. S. (new style).

  Chesterfield demonstrates his classical education by frequent words and sometimes entire paragraphs in various languages. In the 1901 text these were in italics; in this etext edition I have substituted single quotation marks around these, as in 'bon mot', and not attempted to include the various accent marks of all the languages.

  Only obvious typographical errors have been corrected. The original and occasionally variable spelling is retained throughout. D.W.

  SPECIAL INTRODUCTION

  The proud Lord Chesterfield would have turned in his grave had he known that he was to go down to posterity as a teacher and preacher of the gospel of not grace, but-"the graces, the graces, the graces." Natural gifts, social status, open opportunities, and his ambition, all conspired to destine him for high statesmanship. If anything was lacking in his qualifications, he had the pluck and good sense to work hard and persistently until the deficiency was made up. Something remained lacking, and not all his consummate mastery of arts could conceal that conspicuous want,-the want of heart.

  Teacher and preacher he assuredly is, and long will be, yet no thanks are his due from a posterity of the common people whom he so sublimely despised. His pious mission was not to raise the level of the multitude, but to lift a single individual upon a pedestal so high that his lowly origin should not betray itself. That individual was his, Lord Chesterfield's, illegitimate son, whose inferior blood should be given the true blue hue by concentrating upon him all the externals of aristocratic education.

  Never had pupil so devoted, persistent, lavish, and brilliant a guide, philosopher, and friend, for the parental relation was shrewdly merged in these. Never were devotion and uphill struggle against doubts of success more bitterly repaid. Philip Stanhope was born in 1732, when his father was thirty-eight. He absorbed readily enough the solids of the ideal education supplied him, but, by perversity of fate, he cared not a fig for "the graces, the graces, the graces," which his father so wisely deemed by far the superior qualities to be cultivated by the budding courtier and statesman. A few years of minor services to his country were rendered, though Chesterfield was breaking his substitute for a heart because his son could not or would not play the superfine gentleman-on the paternal model, and then came the news of his death, when only thirty-six. What was a still greater shock to the lordly father, now deaf, gouty, fretful, and at outs with the world, his informant reported that she had been secretly married for several years to Young Hopeful, and was left penniless with two boys. Lord Chesterfield was above all things a practical philosopher, as hard and as exquisitely rounded and polished as a granite column. He accepted the vanishing of his lifelong dream with the admirable stolidity of a fatalist, and in those last days of his radically artificial life he disclosed a welcome tenderness, a touch of the divine, none the less so for being common duty, shown in the few brief letters to his son's widow and to "our boys." This, and his enviable gift of being able to view the downs as well as the ups of life in the consoling humorous light, must modify the sterner judgment so easily passed upon his characteristic inculcation, if not practice, of heartlessness.

  The thirteenth-century mother church in the town from which Lord Chesterfield's title came has a peculiar steeple, graceful in its lines, but it points askew, from whatever quarter it is seen. The writer of these Letters, which he never dreamed would be published, is the best self-portrayed Gentleman in literature. In everything he was naturally a stylist, perfected by assiduous art, yet the graceful steeple is somehow warped out of the beauty of the perpendicular. His ideal Gentleman is the frigid product of a rigid mechanical drill, with the mien of a posture master, the skin-deep graciousness of a French Marechal, the calculating adventurer who cuts unpretentious worthies to toady to society magnates, who affects the supercilious air of a shallow dandy and cherishes the heart of a frog. True, he repeatedly insists on the obligation of truthfulness in all things, and of, honor in dealing with the world. His Gentleman may; nay, he must, sail with the stream, gamble in moderation if it is the fashion, must stoop to wear ridiculous clothes and ornaments if they are the mode, though despising his weakness all to himself, and no true Gentleman could afford to keep out of the little gallantries which so effectively advertised him as a man o
f spirit sad charm. Those repeated injunctions of honor are to be the rule, subject to these exceptions, which transcend the common proprieties when the subject is the rising young gentleman of the period and his goal social success. If an undercurrent of shady morality is traceable in this Chesterfieldian philosophy it must, of course, be explained away by the less perfect moral standard of his period as compared with that of our day. Whether this holds strictly true of men may be open to discussion, but his lordship's worldly instructions as to the utility of women as stepping-stones to favor in high places are equally at variance with the principles he so impressively inculcates and with modern conceptions of social honor. The externals of good breeding cannot be over-estimated, if honestly come by, nor is it necessary to examine too deeply into the prime motives of those who urge them upon a generation in whose eyes matter is more important than manner. Superficial refinement is better than none, but the Chesterfield pulpit cannot afford to shirk the duty of proclaiming loud and far that the only courtesy worthy of respect is that 'politesse de coeur,' the politeness of the heart, which finds expression in consideration for others as the ruling principle of conduct. This militates to some extent against the assumption of fine airs without the backing of fine behavior, and if it tends to discourage the effort to use others for selfish ends, it nevertheless pays better in the long run.

  Chesterfield's frankness in so many confessions of sharp practice almost merits his canonization as a minor saint of society. Dr. Johnson has indeed placed him on a Simeon Stylites pillar, an immortality of penance from which no good member of the writers' guild is likely to pray his deliverance. He commends the fine art and high science of dissimulation with the gusto of an apostle and the authority of an expert. Dissimulate, but do not simulate, disguise your real sentiments, but do not falsify them. Go through the world with your eyes and ears open and mouth mostly shut. When new or stale gossip is brought to you, never let on that you know it already, nor that it really interests you. The reading of these Letters is better than hearing the average comedy, in which the wit of a single sentence of Chesterfield suffices to carry an act. His man-of-the-world philosophy is as old as the Proverbs of Solomon, but will always be fresh and true, and enjoyable at any age, thanks to his pithy expression, his unfailing common sense, his sparkling wit and charming humor. This latter gift shows in the seeming lapses from his rigid rule requiring absolute elegance of expression at all times, when an unexpected coarseness, in some provincial colloquialism, crops out with picturesque force. The beau ideal of superfineness occasionally enjoys the bliss of harking back to mother English.

 

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