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by Betsy Israel


  Herland (Gilman), 34

  Herodotus, 37

  Herrick, Genevieve Forbes, 154

  Heterodoxy, 117

  Hickok, Lorena, 154

  Hoffe, Sally, 222, 223

  Hoffert, Emily, 227–28

  Hoffman, Alice, 176

  Hoffman, Carol A., 229

  Holding Their Own (Scharf), 160

  holidays, 260–61

  homeless women, 154–56, 159

  Hospital Sketches (Alcott), 45

  “Hot Corn: Life Scenes in New York” (Robinson), 66

  Howe, Marie Jenny, 117

  Howells, William Dean, 64

  How I Became Hettie Jones (Jones), 205

  How to Be Happy While Single (Van Ever), 174–75

  Humphreys, Mary Gay, 87–88, 96, 97, 105

  Hungry Hearts (Yezierska), 67

  Hutchins, Grace, 154

  immigrants, 33, 36, 56–57, 62, 109, 122

  immigrant working girls, 9, 56–84, 96–97

  American style embraced by, 60, 66–69

  assimilation of, 60, 67

  banged hairstyles of, 69

  beauty advice sought by, 68–69

  Bowery gals, 56–57, 70–75, 127, 229

  clothing of, 61, 67–68, 74–75

  daily life of, 78–84

  domestic servants, 55, 58, 60–61, 73

  factory girls, 9, 56, 58–60, 61, 68, 73, 77, 79, 83, 85, 86, 87–88, 91, 94, 97

  family homes of, 57–58, 66, 67, 75–76

  fantasy names of, 10

  in films, 66, 67

  Irish, 55, 58, 60, 72–73

  living quarters of, 58, 66–67, 79–80

  male abusiveness risked by, 70–72

  as moral calamity, 57

  pay handed over by, 58, 70, 140

  in penny press, 62–66

  pidgin dialects of, 87–88

  prostitution of, 58, 59, 74, 75, 78, 83, 94

  salaries of, 76–77

  strikes staged by, 59

  “treating” of, 70–71

  working conditions of, 58–61, 81

  Improvised Woman, The (Clements), 8

  Independent, 50, 104–5, 108, 115, 122

  “Independent Woman and Other Lies, The” (Roiphe), 255–56

  Internet, 244–45

  intersexuality, 142–43

  inversion, sexual, 143

  “It,” 130–31

  It (film), 97, 131, 132

  Ivory Soap girl, 126, 129

  Jacob A. Stamler, 105

  Jaffe, Rona, 206

  James, Henry, 23, 114

  Jane Eyre (Brontë), 20

  Janeway, Elizabeth, 39

  Jarman, Rufus, 185

  Jennie Gerhardt (Dreiser), 53

  Job, The (Lewis), 146

  job stealers, 150, 152, 156

  Johnson, Joyce Glassman, 200, 204, 205

  Jones, Hettie Cohen, 204, 205

  journalists, female, 152–53, 154

  June Bride, 177

  Kate and Leopold, 263–64

  Katz, Susan Leslie, 16

  Keller, Helen, 40

  Kellogg, Elenore, 154

  Kerouac, Jack, 181, 204, 205

  Kinsey Report on Female Sexuality, 188

  Kirk, Virginia, 134–35

  Kitty Foyle (Morley), 55, 101–2, 103–4, 106–7

  Klemesrud, Judy, 227, 229

  Knudson, Kneith, 144

  “Labor in New York” (Foster), 66

  Lady Audley’s Secret (Braddon), 48

  Lambert, Eleanor, 191

  Larcom, Lucy, 26, 31, 33

  Lauder, Estée, 191

  Laughlin, Clara E., 86

  Lawrence, Josephine, 141

  laws, 22n, 77, 120

  abortion, 31, 109

  on contraceptives, 31, 109

  credit, 234

  divorce, 27, 109

  draft, 170

  Girl Terms Act, 204

  inheritance, 48

  Mann Act, 124

  marriage, 27

  on married women holding jobs, 150

  suffrage, 36, 45, 119, 126

  on women’s smoking, 114–15

  on workplace restrictions, 169

  lesbians, 10–11, 28–29, 188, 249

  mannish, 143

  in sexology, 143–44, 145

  WACs as, 169

  LeSueur, Meridel, 155

  Letters to a Business Girl (Saunders), 99–100, 102–3

  Letter to Three Wives, A 177

  Lewis, Sinclair, 146, 163

  Liberty: A Better Husband (Chambers-Schiller), 25–26

  Linton, Eliza Lynn, 38

  living arrangements, 58, 66–67, 79–80, 89

  all-girl hotels, 106–7, 194–96

  latchkey, 104–7

  in 1960s, 208–9, 212, 214, 220, 221, 223–24, 225

  see also communal living

  Long Day, The (Richardson), 55, 78–83, 84

  Looking for Mr. Goodbar, 8, 230–31

  love letters, female, 29–30

  Lowell girls, 31, 83

  Luce, Clare Booth, 39–40

  Lundberg, Ferdinand, 172–73

  McCarthy, Mary, 151

  MacDonald, Dwight, 199

  macho career woman, 248–49

  MacLaine, Shirley, 185

  Macpherson, Annie, 35

  McPherson, Scott, 52–53

  Main Street (Lewis), 146

  Mann Act, 124

  Mannequin, 140

  mannish lesbians, 143

  man shortages, 171, 172, 176, 183, 237–38, 250

  Marjorie Morningstar, 186, 198

  marriage, 2, 3, 102, 115–16, 129, 248

  in British common law, 27

  dangers of, 31, 89

  Depression era and, 151, 161–62

  domestic feminists’ view of, 27–28

  as duty, 26–27

  flappers and, 129, 135, 136, 137

  of immigrant working girls, 62

  inequality in, 28

  maiden name retained in, 29, 74

  male drinking and, 31

  male preferences and, 115, 119

  of new women, 115, 119

  new women’s rejection of, 115–16, 117

  as 1950s norm, 183–86, 187, 188, 189–96, 206, 209, 252

  in 1960s, 208, 209, 211, 222, 223, 232

  in 1970s, 234

  in 1980s and 1990s, 250, 251–56

  as oppressive institution, 27

  in postwar period, 170–71, 175

  rates of, 30, 116, 151, 184

  sex in, 142, 145

  shop girls and, 89, 97

  single blessedness vs., 25–30, 31–32, 34, 35, 40, 41, 42, 45, 53

  upper-class women and, 18–19

  married working women, 150, 215, 247

  Marvin’s Room (McPherson), 52–53

  Mary Tyler Moore Show, The, 233–34, 258

  Mead, Margaret, 191

  Meehan, Diana, 227

  Meet Millie, 197

  Menehin, Thomas, 155

  Millay, Edna St. Vincent, 101, 115

  Miller, Jean Baker, 239

  Miller’s New York as It Is, 72

  Millet, Kate, 237n

  Mills, C. Wright, 103

  Milton, John, 27

  Minister’s Charge, The (Howells), 64

  Minor Characters (Johnson), 200, 205

  Miss America pageants, 132

  Modern Woman: The Lost Sex (Farnham and Lundberg), 172–73

  Molière, 16

  Moore, Colleen, 113, 130–31, 133

  Morley, Christopher, 55, 101–102, 103–4, 107

  Moskowitz, Belle, 121

  murders, single girl, 227–31, 240–41

  Murphy Brown, 248–49

  Muses, 37

  Muzzy, Aretemus B., 26

  Nashoba commune, 35

  neurotic husband hunters, 157, 172–75

  conduct guides for, 174–75

  as half a human unit, 173–74, 186

  new dep
endency, 140–41, 150

  new spinsters, 29, 138–47

  families as financial drain on, 140–41

  lifestyle of, 138–39

  limitations of, 145–47

  as socially pathetic, 145

  see also sexology

  new women, 9, 114–38

  causes supported by, 159–60

  college education of, 114, 115, 116, 117, 119, 127

  criminal tendencies of, 121

  feminist meetings organized by, 116–17

  as Gibson girls, 9, 124–26, 129

  marriage rejected by, 115–16, 117

  marriages of, 115, 119

  meaning of term, 114–15

  popular vs. reformist, 118–21, 134

  purchasing power of, 125–26

  sexology of, 117–18

  smoking by, 114–15, 116, 130, 132, 133, 134

  tea dances of, 120–21, 127

  white slavery and, 122–24, 125

  see also flappers

  New York in Slices (Foster), 65

  Nightingale, Florence, 25, 26, 270

  calling of, 35, 41, 43

  life of, 40–44, 47–48

  marriage as viewed by, 25, 42

  marriage proposals rejected by, 31–32 1950s, 6, 179, 181–206, 233, 237, 254

  Barbizon hotel in, 194–96

  Beat generation in, 204–6

  beauty advertising in, 191–93

  birthrate in, 184, 188

  breasts emphasized in, 192

  college education in, 185, 188, 190

  competitors of wives in, 189–90

  conduct guides in, 200–202

  European travel in, 186

  films of, 186, 193, 197–200

  hair dye in, 191–92

  husband-hunting techniques in, 190–93

  ideal attributes in, 191

  lifestyle of, 182–83

  marriage as norm in, 183–86, 187, 188, 189–96, 206, 209, 252

  marriage rate in, 184

  moving to cities in, 186–90, 200–206

  relocating surplus women in, 188–89

  sex in, 188, 198–204

  sexual double standard in, 199–200

  television in, 173, 183, 196–99

  “togetherness” in, 186, 209, 220, 252 1960s, 208–32

  adoptions in, 235

  alarmed reactions in, 213

  anonymity in, 220

  autonomous girl in, 211–14

  available careers in, 214, 215, 217–19, 221, 229

  films in, 209

  living arrangements in, 208–9, 212, 214, 220, 221, 223–24, 225

  moving to cities in, 215–17, 220

  the Pill in, 209–11

  rate of change in, 232

  reportage in, 218n, 219, 221, 225–27

  sex in, 210–13, 222–23

  single girl murders in, 227–31, 240–41

  single parents in, 222, 223, 225

  singles industry in, 220–21

  singles scene in, 219–22

  spinsters eulogized in, 214–15

  television in, 218, 226–27

  1970s, 229–41, 256

  changing attitudes in, 232–37

  dangers in, 229–31, 240–41

  drug addiction in, 241

  films in, 230–32

  financial inequities in, 239

  lifestyles in, 234–35

  psychological problems in, 239–40

  public mudslinging in, 237–39

  reportage in, 236–37

  sardonic humor in, 231

  sex in, 231–32

  shopping bag ladies in, 241

  shortage of desirable men in, 237–38

  single parents in, 235

  singles scene in, 240

  television in, 233–34

  women’s movement in, 208, 233, 234, 236, 251

  1980s and 1990s, 237, 247–56

  baby brides in, 251–56, 258

  biological clock in, 247, 250–51

  depression in, 250

  films in, 249

  housework in, 254

  incompetence with children in, 249–50

  safety sought in, 255, 258

  sex in, 250

  shortage of desirable men in, 250

  television in, 248–49

  weddings in, 253, 254, 255

  Nixon, Pat, 236

  Notes on Nursing (Nightingale), 47

  Novak, Kim, 197, 203

  Odd Women, The (Gissing), 48–50

  office workers, 9, 19, 97–104, 130, 165, 214

  advice guides for, 99–100

  business schools for, 101–2

  in Depression era, 152, 164

  free-time activities of, 101–2, 103–4

  in 1960s, 214, 215, 219

  number of, 103

  strategies of, 104

  as suspected socialists, 100–101

  working conditions of, 98

  O’Harro, Mike, 220

  old maids, 16–18, 21, 22, 25, 53, 212, 214

  bad teeth of, 17, 18, 139

  “One Old Maid” (Harland), 51–52

  Only a Shopgirl (Sterling), 94

  On the Vindication of the Rights of Woman (Wollstonecraft), 38

  Oregon Land Donation Act, 22n

  “out work,” 18, 57

  Pabst, Charles, 136

  Parent, Gail, 231

  Parkhurst, Genevieve, 160

  Parsons, Talcott, 186n

  Pauline religious order, 34–35

  Peiss, Kathy, 70

  Penny, Virginia, 61

  penny press, 56, 62–66

  personal-advice columns in, 68–69

  urban sketch in, 63–64

  Persuasion (Austen), 24

  Pickford, Mary, 98

  Pill, the, 209–11

  Playboy, 192, 193, 243–44

  Polykoff, Shirley, 191–92

  Pope, Alexander, 17

  Porter, Sylvia, 213–14

  postwar period, 169–79

  assertive women in, 171, 185

  bobby-soxers in, 178

  college class of 1934 in, 178–79

  divorce rate in, 170, 175–76

  divorcée paranoia in, 176–77

  films in, 177–78, 179

  GI Bill in, 186

  majority gender in, 171–72

  man shortage in, 171, 172, 176, 183

  workforce in, 169–70

  see also neurotic husband hunters

  Power, Susan C., 69

  Private Secretary, 197

  prostitutes, prostitution, 31, 32, 105, 107, 130, 168, 204

  earnings of, 77

  of immigrant working girls, 58, 59, 74, 75–78, 83, 94

  as vagrancy (loitering), 76, 106

  white slavery and, 122–24

  purchase brides, 20

  Quaaludes, 241

  Quinn, Roseanne, 230

  “race suicide,” 33, 109–10, 111, 116, 142

  rackets, 88–89, 92, 93, 96, 103, 107, 120, 124

  radio soap operas, 178

  Rainy Day Club, 90

  rape, 70–71, 155, 241

  Rear Window, 193

  Reisman, David, 179

  Rhys, Jean, 164

  Richardson, Dorothy, 55, 78–83, 84, 194

  Roberts, Julia, 40

  Robinson, Grace, 154

  Robinson, Solon, 66

  Robles, Richard, 227–28

  Roiphe, Katie, 255–56

  Roosevelt, Eleanor, 36, 40, 154, 155, 159

  Roosevelt, Theodore, 33, 109, 116

  Rosenteur, Phyllis, 211

  Rosie the Riveter, 166, 167

  rubbering, 88, 91

  Rules, The (Fein and Schneider), 258–59

  Sagan, Françoise, 185–86

  Salem witch trials, 17, 21

  Salinger, J. D., 198

  Sands, Alma, 71–72

  Sanger, Margaret, 115

  Sarmiento, Domingo, 29

  Saunders, Florence Wenderoth, 99–100, 102–3
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br />   Sawyer, Lanah, 70–71

  Sayers, Dorothy L., 17

  Scharf, Lois, 160

  Scudder, Vida, 26

  Seberg, Jean, 186

  Sedgwick, Catherine M., 27

  settlement houses, 35–37, 143

  Seventh Heaven (Hoffman), 176

  Sex and the City, 1, 262–63

  Sex and the Single Girl (Brown), 212

  sexology, 111, 117–18, 141–45, 156

  frigidity in, 142, 144, 145, 172, 198

  lesbianism in, 143–44, 145

  typology of, 142–43

  Sheila Levine Is Dead and Living in New York (Parent), 231

  shop girls, shoppies, 9, 84–98, 103, 127, 128, 232

  “blue Mondays” of, 91

  clothing of, 85–86, 89–91

  controlled facial expressions of, 86, 94–95

  critics of, 90–91

  dances attended by, 88–89, 91, 92, 93, 94, 96

  dress reform desired by, 90–91

  education of, 97

  “fairy days” of, 92, 94

  in films, 97

  free-time activities of, 88–89, 95–96

  living quarters of, 89, 105

  male sales clerks vs., 86

  nascent feminism of, 93

  newsletters of, 92–93

  salaries of, 86

  store social clubs formed by, 92, 94

  teaching profession entered by, 97

  “treating” of, 88, 94

  upper-class women vs., 93–94

  working conditions of, 85–88, 91, 92, 94–95

  youth of, 91–92

  shopping bag ladies, 241

  Showalter, Elaine, 39

  Show Boat, 23n

  single blessedness, 25–48, 53, 114

  exemplars of, 40–48

  marriage proposals rejected in, 26, 31–32

  public taunts endured in, 32–33

  special friends in, 28–30

  see also communal living

  single girl murders, 227–31, 240–41

  “Singleness of Heart” (Katz), 16

  single parents, 222, 223, 235

  singles bars, 222, 229

  singles industry, 220–21

  singles scene, 219–22, 240

  Single Woman, The (Rosenteur), 211

  siren, 137–38

  Sister Carrie (Dreiser), 8, 59

  slacker spinsters, 256–59

  “slumming,” 64, 73, 93–94

  Smith-Rosenberg, Carroll, 30, 36

  smoking, 114–15, 116, 130, 132, 133, 134, 143, 158

  Smollett, Tobias, 16–17

  Southgate, Eliza, 25

  Speck, Richard, 228

  spieling, 88–89, 93, 128

  spinsters, 9, 14–53, 56, 57, 105–6, 109, 110, 129, 135–36, 190, 197, 219

  behavior required of, 23–24

  courtesan training proposed for, 21

  deportation proposed for, 20–21, 23, 32

  Depression era and, 161–62

  in early America, 21–25

  in 1851 British census, 19–21

  in 1855

  U.S. census, 23

  first appearance of, 15–16, 18

  free labor provided by, 139, 186n

  in industrial revolution, 18–21

  as insane, 16, 29, 53

  lesbians and, 11, 28–29

  in literature, 14, 16–17, 19–20, 24, 48–53

 

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