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by Clinton Callahan


  of culture, 93, 128, 253, 304–307, 337

  of Earth’s biological experiments, 184, 245, 312, 334

  of thoughtmaps, 30–32, 136

  exercises and experiments, (This is a book of experiments. These are only a few.)

  awareness, xviii, 13, 54, 74, 28, 62–64, 194–195, 196, 248–254, 273–275

  build matrix, 96, 318–327; also see: matrix

  centering, 86–91, 199–201

  feelings, 32, 54, 98, 112, 113–114, 126, 130–133, 153–162, 164–167, 170–172

  Gremlin, 77–86

  intellectual, 8, 25–26, 33–34, 37–38, 54, 144–146, 212–214, 229–230, 247

  physical, 34, 50, 52, 54, 104, 176, 208, 226, 273

  Expand The Box, see: trainings

  expectations, 8, 11, 48, 56–57, 137, 159, 226–235, 281

  experiential reality vs verbal reality, 51, 60–64, 200

  externalizing costs, 27–29, 33, 95, 181, 282, 313, 335, 341

  F

  fear, 34, 40, 67, 124, 142–146, 149,165, 205, 253, 257–260; also see: feelings conscious

  feelings, (also see individual listings)

  and action steps, 214–215

  adult, 188–190, 243

  and archetypes, 209, 243, 244–245, 255–262

  authenticating inauthentic feelings (from others), 121

  “bad” or “negative”, 75, 97–100, 110, 129, 144, 146, 148, 173, 209, 305

  bring more energy, 214

  bring more harmony, 212–214

  completing incomplete feelings (from the past), 126

  communication with, 109–111, 217–221

  conscious, 34, 40, 99–106, 130–133, 150–152, 163–165, 167, 181

  decisions and, 215–217

  different from (incomplete) child emotions, 117, 120–127

  different from (inauthentic) parent emotions, 114–120

  different from thoughts, 106–109

  four, 67, 149, 99–106, 148–150

  how to consciously feel, 113

  hurting other people’s, 129–130

  intensity detector and valve, 165–166

  interpreting, 135

  low drama and high drama, 209

  maturation of, 111–114

  mixed, 150–162

  are neutral, 129, 133–134

  new thoughtmap of, 148–150

  old thoughtmap of, 66–67

  and pain, 104

  Phase 1 and Phase 2, 168–172

  purpose of, 173, repressed, xvii, 10, 14, 20, 95

  rewiring, 142–146

  stellating, 167, 169, 243, 244–245, 248, 250, 253, 255–262, 304–305

  stories and, 135, 209

  unconscious, 10, 34, 41, 65–69, 75, 86–89

  unmixing mixed, 150–162

  five phases of embracing change (Elizabeth Kübler-Ross), 320–321

  flat world thoughtmap, 25, 30–33, 94, 143, 181–182

  four archetypes, see: archetypes

  four bodies, 47–64, 95, 106–107, 146, 167, 196, 224–227, 239–240, 261, 293

  four feelings, see: feelings

  four step learning spiral, see: learning spiral

  Fritz, Robert, 288–289

  frustration, see: anger

  G

  Gallagher, Dennis, 183

  gameworld, 77, 86, 184, 241, 296, 298– 299, 303

  giving your center away, see: centering

  global warming, 1, 183, 313, 325

  globalization, xv, 5, 24, 93, 183, 297, 307

  going nonlinear, 84, 139–141, 146, 149– 150, 195, 209, 258, 272, 294, 319

  Gordon, Thomas, 44, 210, 222

  greenhouse gases, 6, 24, 27, 28, 309, 313, 325

  Gremlin,

  boundaries and, 239–242

  communication and, 61, 276

  conscious use of (putting Gremlin to work), 83–86, 210, 319

  detecting a hungry, 202, 203

  and disk of nothing, 267

  king / queen of your underworld identities, 72

  illustration, 78

  leader, 86–90

  low drama feeding frenzy, 68–77, 116, 201, 213, 228, 281, 321

  and modern culture, 296–297, 315, 326

  owning, 77–83

  psychopathic, 175–179

  resentment and, 230

  and Shadow Principles (hidden purpose), 256–257, 281, 282, 287– 288, 322

  also see: archetypes

  grief, see: sadness

  grounding cord, 263–267, 270, 271, 274

  guilt (a mixed feeling), 81, 98, 151–153, 181, 203, 343

  H

  Hawken, Paul, 315

  heart, 1–2, 12, 22, 48–52, 98, 101–102, 106–111, 174, 225, 286

  hidden purpose, hidden purpose process, 75, 169, 219, 256, 257, 281, 282

  hierarchy, 6–8, 92, 174, 184, 304

  high drama, 69–70, 83–84, 98, 126, 167–173, 190–191, 204–209, 241–243, 253, 281

  Hillesum, Etty, 280

  hitting bottom, 175, 178, 203, 210, 232, 234, 235

  holding space, see: spaceholding

  how to be killed and not die, 263, 276–278

  hysteria (a mixed feeling), 2, 98, 150– 153, 179, 203, 213

  I

  I (as in, which “I” is speaking now?), 72

  I am a bridge to next culture, 325–326

  India, 14, 17–18, 29, 95, 313, 315

  Inquisition, 75–76, 310

  intellectual body, see: four bodies

  intelligence, 33, 49, 83, 161, 165, 184– 185, 198, 292, 304–305, 313–314

  intention, 28, 40, 48–49, 72–73, 89–91, 121, 149, 159, 169, 322

  intersection of worlds (upperworld, middleworld, underworld), v, 322

  intimacy, 1–3, 22, 49, 52–55, 109, 177, 196, 228–235, 269, 272

  irresponsibility, 28, 66, 75–78, 188, 202– 204, 209, 221, 230, 281, 313

  Is-Glue and Is-Glue Dissolver, 135–146, 205, 213, 241, 264, 279

  isolation (a mixed feeling), 3, 12, 85, 150–152, 203

  J

  Jackson, Andrew, 93

  Jackson, Michael, 206

  jealousy (a mixed feeling), 54, 98, 150– 153, 203, 273–274

  joy, 34, 40, 67, 102–103, 149, 122–123, 124–125, 129–130, 133–134, 279; also see: feelings, conscious

  K

  Karpman, Stephen, 69

  king, see: archetypes; leader

  Köhler, Wolfgang, 48

  Kübler-Ross, Elisabeth, 320, 321

  L

  laboratories, see: trainings

  Lankford, Valerie, 100, 152

  law of precession, 254, 294

  leader (irresponsible), see: archetypes; Gremlin, leader psychopathic

  leader (responsible), see: archetypes; Map of Possibility, responsibility

  leader,

  adolescent, 27–29, 183, 249, 302, 312, 313

  archetypal, 88–90, 255, 257, 286, 311

  Gremlin, 76, 87–90

  and high drama, 209

  and joy, 150, 169, 255

  next culture, xviii, 128, 316

  psychopathic, 6–8, 34, 174–180

  learning spiral, 43–46

  Ledger, Heath, 206

  liquid state, 49, 59, 145–148, 173, 199, 234, 235

  looking good, 43–46

  love,

  in archearchy, 307, 313, 316

  archetypal, 273–275

  blocked, 22, 59–61

  Bright Principle of, 103, 281, 286

  communication and, 221

  and emotional body, 48

  and feeling, 12, 135

  as Gremlin food, 75

  and high drama, 77, 86

  and relationship, 53–54

  speed of, 273

  and work, 26, 34

  lover, see: archetypes

  low drama, 68–78, 83–84, 98, 116, 189– 191, 201–209, 213, 241–242, 279, 281

  Lozowick, Lee, 36, 212, 281, 321

  M

  m
ainstream culture, see: modern culture

  magician, see: archetypes

  Malthus, Thomas, 185, 186

  map, see: thoughtmap; Appendix A, List of Thoughtmaps

  Map of Possibility, 69, 257, (actual map) 281, 282

  marshmallow zone, 145; also see: Box

  matriarchy, 253, 304–305, 307, 313

  matrix (building), 44, 95–97, 128, 199, 207, 249, 322–323, 351

  Matus, Don Juan, 251–252

  McFastfood, 323

  McPizzaKing, 299

  Meadows, Donella H., 301

  meeting technologies, new, 262–263, 269–271, 271–272, 293, 302, 311, 321, 325–326, 341–342

  melancholy (a mixed feeling), 2, 98, 150–153

  memes, 319

  memetic virus, 313

  methane, see: greenhouse gases

  microculture, 326

  middleworld, see: archetypal worlds

  minimizing now, 85, 192, 194–196, 200, 204, 207, 277

  mixing feelings, see: feelings mixing

  mobbing, 2, 203

  modern culture,

  and attention, 120

  and center of being, 87–89, 91

  education, 4, 6–8, 27, 50–51, 53, 66, 159, 173, 183, 249

  and emotions, 119–120

  and empowering your inner child, 195–199

  flat-world thoughtmaps, 182–184

  going beyond the limits of, 8, 24–26, 47–48, 50, 128, 213–214, 263, 278–279

  and love, 53–54

  myths of, 26

  and numbness, 1, 4–6, 10, 34, 65–67, 91, 92

  and psychopaths, 6–8

  responsibility and, 26–29, 181

  thoughtmaps of, 33

  and verbal reality, 60–64

  morphogenetic field, 319, 326

  Morris, Desmond, 65

  myths, 106

  N

  Na’vi, 91

  navigating space, see: space navigating

  networks, 77, 315, 317

  next culture,

  and feelings, 40, 98, 129–133, 151– 152, 170

  implementation, xviii, 77, 93–94, 99, 111, 127, 248, 302–303, 309–311

  rite of passage, 28, 40–41, 57, 98, 130, 146, 169–172, 190, 199, 244–259, 307, 313–314, 351

  understanding, xv–xvi

  nonlinear, see: going nonlinear

  nostalgia (a mixed feeling), 85, 150–152

  now, see: minimizing now

  nuclear power, 14, 27, 28, 55–56, 313

  O

  oil, see: peak oil

  Olduvai Theory (about the length of civilization), 16

  ostrich, 23

  overpopulation, 1, 66, 95, 185, 313

  overshoot (population), 185, 186, 309, 337

  P

  pain,

  as authentic remorse, 180, 204, 210

  and being killed but not dying, 276–278

  and clearing resentment, 233–238

  and feelings, 100, 149, 154, 173

  flat-world thoughtmaps about, 33–35

  four kinds of, 49–53, 103

  -free hero, 17, 334

  and Gremlin, 69, 72–77, 85, 281

  as high drama, 206–209, 210

  of joining the patriarchy, 4–6

  making stories about, 104

  of not being heard, 220

  of realization, 35, 40, 70, 300–302, 323–325

  redeems your underworld, 210

  and suffering, 130, 278–279

  paradigm, 6, 307, 309, 313, 315–318

  cannot shift, 322–323

  parallel culture, see: culture parallel

  parent ego state, see: ego state

  passionate professionalism, 3

  patriarchy, xv, 4, 24, 169, 174, 184, 253, 300, 304–309, 313–315

  peak oil, xvi, 14–15, 28, 183, 186, 307, 313, 315, 316, 335

  perfection, 34, 40, 135–136, 188, 236, 321–322

  persecutor, see: archetypes

  personality, see: Box

  pharmaceutical industry, 26, 206, 211, 237; also see: drugs

  Phase 1 and Phase 2 (of feelings work), xvii, 98, 107, 152, 159, 168–172, 213, 244, 305, 318

  phoenix process, 235, 302

  physical body, see: four bodies

  Pirate (this archetypal term for responsible radical audacity is fully explored in the book Radiant Joy Brilliant Love by Clinton Callahan), 254

  Possibility Labs, see: trainings

  Possibility Management, xv, 153, 272, 276, 348

  Possibility Manager, 48, 169, 216

  Possibility Trainer, 148, 256

  Prajnanpad, Swami, 39, 281

  present moment, see: minimizing now

  Principles,

  and archetypes, 281

  Bright, 103, 169, 248–249, 253, 271– 272, 280–295, 299, 305, 322, 344

  Shadow, 75, 78, 83, 169, 256–257, 281, 322

  profit, 5, 26, 29, 170, 181, 206, 211, 282, 313, 326

  psychopath, see: leader psychopathic

  Q

  queen, see: archetypes; leader

  R

  radical responsibility, 7, 133, 198, 204, 207, 232; also see: responsibility

  rage, see: anger

  Ray, Paul, 128, 315

  religion, 4, 8, 18, 24, 27, 117, 169

  rescuer, see: archetypes

  resentment, 4, 12, 126, 202, 204, 227– 238, 281

  responsibility (this book is only about taking responsibility; the following are merely a few references), 26–29, 39–41, 57, 69–71, 90, 98, 113, 117, 121, 126, 167, 169, 183

  responsible victim, 69–71; also see: low drama

  rewiring the feeling of fear, 144–146

  Rischard, J. F., 28

  rite of passage to adulthood, see: next culture, rite of passage

  roadblock, see: communication

  S

  sadness, 1–2, 34, 40, 54, 67, 101–102, 110, 122, 149, 323; also see: feelings conscious

  schadenfreude (a mixed feeling), 98, 151–152, 203, 213

  school, see: modern culture education

  security, 11, 12, 25, 88, 89, 135, 170, 226, 296, 307

  Second Copernican Revolution, see: Copernican Revolution

  sect, see: cult

  self-observation, 26, 34–39, 47, 72, 76, 118, 127, 149, 204, 288

  self-organizing, 28, 319

  self-respect, 22, 288, 292

  sentimentality (a mixed feeling), 38, 85, 151–152

  Shadow Principles, see: Principles

  sheep or sheeple, 12, 115, 237, 312, 324

  Simon, Paul, 106

  society, see: modern culture

  soldier, 4, 20–22, 58, 119, 131, 184, 305, 323

  sorcerer, sorceress, see: archetypes

  space,

  being the space (for Bright Principles), 53, 54, 169, 256, 293, 314, 321, 322

  between you and your Box (gap, slack), 40–42, 58, 204

  boundaries shape the, 241

  cleaning (with black hole), 269–270, 321

  creation, 248

  cultural, 17, 197, 319

  declaring, 92, 241, 264–267, 271–275, 321–322

  double spaceholding, 271–275

  extraordinary and archetypal, 273–275

  giving yourself or others, 55, 94

  high drama, 241

  (holding) spaceholding, 128, 148, 149, 191, 205, 251, 319

  landing distinctions or Principles in, 48, 291, 271–275

  of love, 54

  moods of, 177

  navigating, 53

  not your, 177

  personal (bubble), 241, 264–267

  of possibility, 57, 201, 314

  putting your energy into someone else’s, 177–178, 241, 265–266

  of relationship, 53, 194

  responsibility for, 250

  safe, 9, 113, 148, 180, 235

  shifts, 63

  stage fright, 194, 199–201

  Standard Human Institutional Thoughtmaps, 33

 
star, see: feelings stellating, and archetypes stellating

  stellating, see: feelings stellating, and archetypes stellating

  stories,

  and Is-Glue, 135–140, 213

  and Is-Glue Dissolver, 140–142

  about feelings, 135, 142–145, 209

  about pain, 104, 279

  for resentment clearing, 233, 235

  responsible or victim, 281

  stuttering, 199–201

  suffering (changing pain into suffering), 278–279

  suicide, 2, 5, 20–23, 29, 58, 230, 305, 312, 313

  superstitions, 26

  survival strategy, see: Box

  sustainability, 1, 27–28, 98, 170, 181, 184–186, 247, 300, 304–309, 326

  system of influence, 317–319

  swarmsource, 302

  sword of clarity, 87, 117, 127–128, 202, 240, 276–277

  T

  technology, 116, 245–247, 250, 301, 307

  technopenuriaphobia TPP (the fear of being without modern technology), 245–247

  thoughtmaps (for individual thoughtmaps see: Appendix A: List of Thoughtmaps), 29–33, 47–48, 143, 171, 181, 191

  thoughtware, 172–173, 263, 306

  tipping points, 1, 6, 315–316

  Tonic Gold, 97

  tourism, 297–298

  Trainer Labs, see: trainings

  trainings,

  Expand The Box, 19, 52

  New Warrior, 177

  Possibility Labs, 48, 257

  Trainer Labs, 148

  U

  unconscious competence or incompetence, see: learning spiral

  unconscious feelings, see: feelings

  underworld, see: archetypal worlds unmixing feelings, see: feelings

  unmixing upgrading thoughtware, see: thoughtware

  upperworld, see: archetypal worlds

  V

  verbal reality vs experiential reality, 61

  victim, see: archetypes

  voice blaster, 81, 192–193, 204

  Vonnegut Jr, Kurt, 104, 174, 298, 334

  W

  Wal-Bucks, 299

  walking at the speed of love, 54, 273, 313

  war, 4–5, 18, 28, 58, 138, 184, 220–221, 231–232, 235, 249

  warrior, warrioress, see: archetypes

  what is, see: accepting what is

  what to do, 20, 105, 110, 165, 206–208, 215, 305, 313, 322–326, 337

  Wheatley, Margaret J., 28, 317–318

  who am I?, 53, 169, 256, 293, 312–315, 322

  Windes, Ken, 46

  worlds, see: archetypal worlds

  worldview, see: Box

  FURTHER EXPERIMENTS

  I appreciate that you are reading this page. Each further experiment you try has the possibility of cutting new forms of consciousness that others can then more easily follow. This makes you a bridge to next culture. Someone must go first. In this case that someone is you. Please keep making personal efforts and being a bridge for others to do the same. Here are some suggestions:

  1. Commit to lowering your numbness bar as part of your rite of passage to adulthood. Then, for the rest of your life, responsibly use whatever feelings come up for you to heal things or handle things.

 

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