Built to Belong

by Natalie Franke

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  4. There is a decline in religious affiliation, even among those who were once raised in religious families. (https://www.pewforum.org/2019/10/17/in-u-s-decline-of-christianity-continues-at-rapid-pace/); The number of adults attending club meetings has dropped significantly; Fewer families are eating dinners together (https://news.gallup.com/poll/10336/empty-seats-fewer-families-eat-together.aspx); More and more people are living alone. (https://ourworldindata.org/living-alone).

  CHAPTER 3

  1. Musk, Elon. “All Our Patent Are Belong to You.” Tesla (blog), June 12, 2014. https://www.tesla.com/blog/all-our-patent-are-belong-you.

  CHAPTER 4

  1. The Enneagram is a set of nine distinct personality types. You can learn more and find your type at the Enneagram Institute (https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/).

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  7. “A Night to Remember,” video file, 6:25, YouTube, posted by US Open Tennis Championships, September 1, 2019, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9zAqdVF489k; Maine, D’Arcy. “Naomi Osaka and Coco Gauff Teach a Lesson in Humility and Sportsmanship.” ESPN. ESPN Internet Ventures, September 1, 2019. https://www.espn.com/tennis/story/_/id/27510249/naomi-osaka-coco-gauff-teach-lesson-humility-sportsmanship.

  CHAPTER 5

  1. Noor, Iqra. “Confirmation Bias.” Simple Psychology, June 10, 2020. https://www.simplypsychology.org/confirmation-bias.html.

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  4. Stangor, Charles, Rajiv Jhangiani, and Hammond Tarry. “Social Categorization and Stereotyping.” Essay. In Principles of Social Psychology. Victoria: BCcampus Open Textbook Project, 2014. https://opentextbc.ca/socialpsychology/chapter/social-categorization-and-stereotyping/.

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  CHAPTER 6

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  CHAPTER 9

  1. Walsh, Bari. “The Science of Resilience: Why Some Children Can Thrive Despite Adversity,” March 23, 2015. https://www.gse.harvard.edu/news/uk/15/03/science-resilience.

  CHAPTER 10

  1. Nortje, Alicia. “Social Comparison: An Unavoidable Upward or Downward Spiral.” PositivePsychology.com, September 1, 2020. https://positivepsychology.com/social-comparison/.

  2. Wheeler, L., and K. Miyake. “Social Comparison in Everyday Life.” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology 62 no. 5 (1992): 760–773. https://doi.org/10.1037/0022–3514.62.5.760.

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  CHAPTER 11

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  CHAPTER 12

  1. Parker, Priya. The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters. New York: Riverhead Books, 2018.

  CHAPTER 13

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  CHAPTER 14

  1. Sprout Social. “#BrandsGetReal: What Consumers Want from Brands in a Divided Society.” Sprout Social (blog), May 2, 2019. https://sproutsocial.com/insights/data/social-media-connection/.

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  3. Airbnb. “Belong Anywhere.” Airbnb (blog), July 18, 2014. https://blog.atairbnb.com/belong-anywhere/.

  4. Passiak, David. “Belong Anywhere—The Vision and Story Behind Airbnb’s Global Community.” Medium. January 30, 2017. https://medium.com/cocreatethefuture/belong-anywhere-the-vision-and-story-behind-airbnbs-global-community-123d32218d6a.

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