Cruel Hoax

by Henry Makow

  A single man should be aggressive and quickly sift without fear of rejection. If he knows what he wants, what she wants is less of a worry. The Internet is a godsend in this respect. He must be prepared to offer the right woman a profound relationship. She is not interested in "hooking up." Women are designed for courtship and marriage. Single men are so passive and juvenile single women today are climbing the walls.

  Man's Love

  Mirrors God's Love for Creation

  "And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters." --Genesis 1-2

  Every young girl imagines being swept off her feet by Prince Charming and living "happily ever after." But imagine if the prince had sex and dumped her. Her whole being would revolt. It would feel like God had abandoned her.

  In his book, Feminism and Freedom (1987), philosopher Michael Levin links feminist anger to the sexual revolution. In the liberated 1960's, New Left ladies slept with their boyfriends without first establishing committed relationships. After they were dumped, they expressed their sense of violation by referring to sex as "rape," vilifying "the patriarchy" and denying gender differences altogether. Women would become like men and vice-versa. (309)

  As a result of the sexual revolution, millions of people today cannot marry and are in a state of arrested development. To end the chaos created by feminist propaganda, men and women need to understand who they are in relation to God, and to each other.

  Marriage and family is a God-given path necessary for our fulfillment as human beings. In my view, Man represents the God Principle, woman the Creation Principle.

  A measure of the subversion of society is how Marxist standards of class warfare have been applied to gender, and women duped to believe men oppress them. There is no war. God is in love with Creation and vice-versa. This mystical union is mirrored in the love of man and woman.

  "Making love" is a physical expression of this mystical alchemy. It illustrates how each principle works. The Male Principle penetrates, possesses and plants the seed. The seed carries her husband's spirit and genetic code. It is the spark of creation. The female yields, receives and combines his essence with her own resulting in organic growth.

  By being possessed, she also possesses. Look at the imagery. The penis is totally engulfed by the vagina. The man belongs to the woman who belongs to him.

  Another metaphor is the relationship between a farmer and his land. The verb "husband" means to cultivate and manage prudently. The land gives birth and nurtures new life.

  Femininity is by nature instrumental. Woman is a bridge to the future. She is a medium. When she is fertilized, she grows large and gives birth, transforming herself and her mate into their child. The couple is recreating itself and projecting itself into the future.

  A girlfriend once told me, "I want to be used." In a way, a man channels God's love to a woman by making her a wife and a mother.

  If a woman isn't chosen and used for this higher purpose, she remains unfulfilled. If she is discarded after having sex, the sting is even sharper. In her soul, the sex act is a living metaphor for the love of God. She feels rejected on a metaphysical plane. This may explain the elemental wrath of the scorned woman.

  Love in a woman is synonymous with trust, openness and acceptance. Indeed, this is what a man craves most from a woman. He needs someone to believe in him. Her belief makes anything possible for him. Her faith provides the space into which the male expands. She is Creation.

  A woman wants to be nurtured, used and shaped by a man's love. When a woman loves a man, she accepts his leadership. She is content to be consulted and considered.

  Men forget that most women aspire to be wives. Dating is an interview. Courtship is probation. Marriage is a Sacred Covenant. Women find their bliss by being indispensable to husband and children.

  A single man should have a clear sense of what his goals are, and the role he wants his wife to play. This is what many women actually want and respond to. They do not respond to men who have no plan, and are just starved for sex and love. Nor are they satisfied with men who want them to remain independent, two parallel rails that never meet.

  In conclusion, having failed to create a class war between capital and labour, Illuminati Marxists created one between men and women in the guise of "feminism." The aim is the same: divide and conquer. They are creating conflict where none exists. They pervert something that is mystical and divine. They present sick behaviour as healthy. They stand between millions of people and happiness.

  Men represent the God principle. Women the Creation principle. Man and woman, God and Creation need each other for completion and propagation. The way to stop the spread of eminism is for men to start acting like men, so that women may trust them enough to accept their leadership.

  Men Must Champion Feminine Women

  (Or Lose Them)

  A feminine woman has the effect of a sunrise on a man's soul. In the words of novelist Alex Waugh, she draws a man "into a magic circle where everything is fresher, cleaner; where there is peace, warmth, comfort. She produces in him the desire to be his best."

  Nothing on earth is so fine. On this continent, increasingly nothing is so rare.

  The Official State Gender Ideology, feminism, has decreed that femininity is a "stereotype" invented by men to oppress women.

  Feminism is no longer about equal opportunity for women. It is a thuggish, devious synthesis of Marxism and lesbianism used by ruling elites to weaken individuals and society by undermining heterosexuality. It is to society what AIDS is to the body.

  But men are also to blame. We have accepted the feminist lie that women should be independent and pursue careers. We have abandoned the many gentle loving women who instinctively want to build their lives around a man. Many men are happy to evade the responsibility of supporting and leading a family. They pursue busy, neurotic overachievers who guarantee heartbreak and divorce.

  For heterosexuals to find fulfillment, each sex must assume its natural part. The sex act is a metaphor: The man's spirit pervades the female and they become one. The male spirit must be active and the female receptive.

  Many men ignore willing, feminine women who can complete them. We cannot thrive unless we recognize, defend and love them.

  What is a feminine woman?

  A feminine woman is motivated by love of husband and children. She is devoted to their well-being. This is her career. A woman who is preoccupied with another demanding career must pay less attention to her family. Love is mainly paying attention. There is a New Yorker cartoon where a child wearing a welder's mask is writing, "I need love" on the wall with a blowtorch. His mother says to her friend, "He's just doing that to get attention."

  A feminine woman may have another career but it is her second priority. She is not driven by personal ambition. I liked the movie "Legally Blonde" because the heroine showed that she could excel in the work world but why bother? She had a more important goal: a husband and family.

  Career is a feminist lie. Since when are careers the source of human fulfillment? What is so great about being an Assistant Loan Manager at a bank? Or even a dentist? How many women can be brain surgeons or astronauts? Is society expected to provide legions of eager feminists "fulfilling" careers to compensate for their loveless lives?

  Feminists are teaching women to be "strong and independent." This is not feminine. Men respond to a woman's vulnerability. We want to rescue the damsel in distress and win her favours. This archetype is also innate in women. She wants to be saved and enlisted by a man.

  A feminine woman depends on a man. This doesn't mean she is an emotional waif. She is competent but she doesn't pretend to be independent. Men and women need each other to be whole. As long as I have my wife, I am self-sufficient. So is she.

  Just as the woman is the heart of the family, the man is the head and shoulders. A feminine woman is her husband's partner. They make decisions together but he ha
s the last word. Men must be the visionaries, the navigators, and the captains. A woman's most important decision is the man she chooses to love (i.e. trust).

  A woman wants to be loved more than anything in the world. She wants to be "known" in all her divinity. This happens when she is truly loved. The Bible uses the word "know" as in Abraham "knew" Sarah, to speak of sexual intercourse. All women are beautiful when they are loved.

  Women's liberation has taught women to pursue sex for its own sake, as though they were men. This is not feminine. If a man prefers a new car, why would he marry a "used" woman? He doesn't want a car that's been driven by other men. He doesn't know what damage has been done. "A man wants to be a woman's first lover; a woman wants to be his last," my wife says.

  I'm not saying women must save their virginity until marriage but certainly sex should be reserved for long-term loving relationships. Men need to stop looking for sex and start looking for the right woman. That's the best guarantee of good sex anyway.

  If men chose wives with the same attention as they choose cars, more marriages would succeed. Women are the vehicles to the future, in terms of emotional fulfillment and family. If men knew where they wanted to go, they would choose the women who would get them there. They would not be blinded by sex.

  A feminine woman tries to please the man she loves. Pleasing a man has not been outlawed; it just seems that way. A feminine woman generates love by giving love. She empowers her man by believing in him. Love is expressed in actions and effort. Baking a pie is an act of love. So is making the home inviting. Are we so blind, impoverished and demoralized that we cannot appreciate this? Why have we allowed feminists to stigmatize homemaking? Women would be more than happy to be wives, mothers and homemakers if they received the recognition and appreciation they deserved.

  A feminine woman has grace, beauty and wisdom. These all come from staying in touch with her spirit and not pursuing an exhausting career requiring brutish masculine qualities.

  On the "Oprah" Show, I saw three 20-something women interviewed about the "quarter-life" crisis. They were having trouble getting their careers on track, and because of their families' high expectations, they were falling apart.

  Oprah urged these girls to "follow their instincts." No one suggested that this might entail having a baby. No one is following their instincts any more. They are doing what feminists tell them to do.

  It's time men started listening to their instincts too. We want to be the masters of our domain. We want to love and possess ("pay attention," "know") our wives. We want to create families that are loving, lively and happy according to a positive vision of life.

  It's time we embraced the quiet, unassuming beautiful women who want to be our helpmates.

  Marie Robinson's "The Power of Sexual Surrender"

  Why Feminists Often Are Frigid

  Marie N. Robinson MD, a Cornell educated psychiatrist devoted her New York City practice to the treatment of frigidity. Her book, The Power of Sexual Surrender (1958) is very important but it's out-of-print. Why? It is politically incorrect.

  Dr. Robinson says that millions of American women suffer from frigidity. Although she explores various causes, she notes that frigid women universally adopt the feminist view. This view, that men exploit women and a career as a wife and mother is demeaning creates an "emotional logjam" which obstructs sexual response and psychological development.

  Dr. Robinson writes that a woman's identity lies in an "essential feminine altruism." Her self-expression and power are based on making her husband and children her first priority. Similarly, her sexual satisfaction and spiritual fecundity depend on self-surrender. Robinson says men and women are different by nature. Men are designed for mastery of the external (physical) world, and women for mastery of the internal (spiritual) world and the home. These are not social stereotypes, as feminists argue.

  "Women are designed for duties different from those of the marketplace, another kind of stress entirely," writes Robinson. They "tend to lose their essential womanliness if they stay [in the marketplace] by choice." (149)

  According to Robinson, modern women have an identity crisis because they think they are no longer needed as women. Before the industrial revolution, the home was the centre of all life with a woman at its heart. She nursed and trained the children, prepared clothing and food, and helped with farm tasks.

  The industrial revolution seemed to make women obsolete. Children were not needed and were even considered a liability. Everything could be bought in stores. The home was empty. Children went to school, husbands to work.

  Woman's response was to turn against her own femininity. Mary Wollstonecraft wrote a feminist manifesto Vindication of the Rights of Women (1792) that proclaimed women were identical to men and promoted maleness in women.

  According to Robinson, "the feminist credo thoroughly discredited feminine needs and characteristics and substituted male goals for female goals."(53)

  The other response to the industrial revolution was not feminist, but "Victorian." Robinson says Victorian women took "revenge" on men by denying women had any sexual feelings. They "were amazingly successful in convincing men in general and even the scientists of the day that frigidity was indeed a basic attribute of the female." (54)

  Thus, feminists and Victorian women both laid the foundations for modern female neurosis.

  "The depreciation of the goals of femininity, biological and psychological, became part and parcel of the education of millions of American girls. Homemaking, childbearing and rearing, cooking; the virtues of patience, lovingness, giving ness in marriage, have been systematically devalued. The life of male achievement has been substituted for the life of female achievement." (55)

  FEMININE DEVALUATION AND SELF-HATRED

  The feminist-Victorian antagonism to men was handed down from mother to daughter so that "to millions of women, hostility towards the opposite sex seems almost a natural law. Although many a modern women may pay lip service to the ideal of a passionate and productive marriage to a man, underneath she deeply resents her role, conceives of the male as fundamentally hostile to her, as an exploiter of her. She wishes in her deepest heart, and often without the slightest awareness of the fact, to supplant him, to exchange roles with him." (Emphasis mine, 56)

  Robinson says that if feminism had brought women happiness, the game might have been worth it.

  "But it hasn't been. The game has brought frigidity and restlessness and a soaring divorce rate, neurosis, homosexuality, juvenile delinquency all that results when a woman in any society deserts her true function." (56)

  Dr. Robinson writes that once the emotional "log jam" is removed, a woman's natural instincts will flow and health will be restored. Essentially this involves "allowing herself to trust her husband in a very deep sense. It means that she finally realizes that she no longer has to fear or oppose his strength, but that she can rely on it to protect her, to give her the secure climate necessary for the full flowering of her femininity." (153)

  For a profound vaginal orgasm, Robinson writes, "the excitement comes from the act of surrender. There is a tremendous surging physical ecstasy in the yielding itself, in the feeling of being the passive instrument of another person..." (158)

  On the other hand, the woman who mistrusts her husband's love and her own femininity has a "difficult, painful, frenetic" approach to life. She is at war with herself. In bed, she has to feel "in control all the time."

  Robinson regards the clitoris as a masculine vestige. She implies that a woman may still be frigid even if she is sexually active and mechanically adroit. Feminine sexuality depends on "absolute trust" in a man, which allows a woman to fully receive and fully respond.

  Dr. Robinson says there is nothing in life more important than love. She believes marriage is the key to human development. The power of love is felt in the world through this relationship.

  "Love means, in its very deepest sense union; union between individuals...It is the most basic
and profound urge we have and its power for good is illimitable... the lover partner becomes as important as oneself...This fact is why real love never leads to domination or to a struggle for power..." (129)

  FEMINISM AS ELITE DEPOPULATION PROGRAM

  The significance of The Power of Sexual Surrender is profound.

  By coercing women to abandon their femininity and usurp the male role, feminism has thrown a spanner into humanity's natural heterosexual mechanism. Millions of women are condemned to loneliness and frustration. Similarly, men are deprived of the role of protector and provider and the love essential to their development and fulfillment.

  The triumph of such a wrongheaded ideology, and the suppression of the truth, signifies that control in the world has passed over to a malevolent force.

  As I have shown elsewhere, the immoral money power fosters feminism as part of a long-term agenda to dislodge Western Civilization from its religious and cultural moorings and replace it with a pagan plutocratic Orwellian police state. Feminists who oppose the NWO and globalization are in fact its unwitting agents and dupes.

  The Effect of Sexual Deprivation on Women

  (Women Need Loving)

  We live in a culture that doesn't admit that women need sex every bit as much as men, if not more.

  Conservatives like to put women on a romantic pedestal. Women are virginal and sexless. Feminists deny women need men for anything.

  "Women are made to feel guilty for needing men," my wife said. "We're told we're weak, co-dependent or lacking in self-esteem."