Everything Grows
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HIGH PRAISE FOR
everything grows
BY AIMEE HERMAN
A SWEET AND moving read about a young person growing up, coming out, and trying to find the right words to speak their truth. The awesome soundtrack is a bonus.
EASY VEGAN
EVERYTHING GROWS WILL grow inside you like a revelation, slowly unfolding to a shape that is vulnerable, raw and beautifully alive. . . . There’s tender wisdom and a wonderfully rendered young voice that anyone can recognize as human and real—all against a backdrop of riot grrrl rebellion. Herman writes a real story, teaching everyone a little about life as lived—genuinely and in discovery.
MAX WOLF VALERIO, author, The Testosterone Files; The Criminal: The Invisibility of Parallel Forces
EVERYTHING GROWS IS haunting. It touches the darkness of bullying and suicide, yet brims with hope. Aimee Herman’s tender debut novel is an achingly real exploration of grief, self-discovery, forgiveness, and love.
MEAGAN BROTHERS, author, Weird Girl and What’s His Name
SET IN THE decade of grunge rock and ill-advised do-it-yourself body piercings, Aimee Herman’s Everything Grows chronicles a sometimes heartbreaking, sometimes funny journey to acceptance, both of self and others. Eleanor Fromme is a witty, kind, and conflicted narrator who could teach many people in our nation a lot about empathy.
JULIA WATTS, author, Quiver
EVERYTHING GROWS IS a work of healing. It describes coming out as a lifelong process of discovery. Friendship, disfunction, parenting good and bad, and learning to love are unspooled here against a background of exquisite caring. It is the rare read that leaves one a wiser person.
STEVEN TAYLOR, author, False Prophet: Fieldnotes from the Punk Underground; editor, Don’t Hide the Madness: William S. Burroughs in Conversation with Allen Ginsberg
everything grows
a novel
Aimee Herman
THREE ROOMS PRESS
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Everything Grows
BY Aimee Herman
© 2019 by Aimee Herman
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This is a work of fiction. Names, characters, businesses, places, events, and incidents are either the products of the author’s imaginations or used in a fictitious manner. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental.
ISBN 978-1-941110-68-3 (trade paperback original)
ISBN 978-1-941110-69-0 (Epub)
Library of Congress Control Number: 2018962451
TRP-072
Publication Date: May 7, 2019
BISAC category code
YAF031000 YOUNG ADULT FICTION / LGBT
YAF037000 YOUNG ADULT FICTION / Loners & Outcasts
YAF058020 YOUNG ADULT FICTION / Social Themes / Bullying
YAF016000 YOUNG ADULT FICTION / Epistolary (Letters & Diaries)
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“There are years that ask questions and years that answer.”
—Zora Neale Hurston
For Romy
And for Andrew
Contents
Before
1993
1994
Acknowledgements
About the author
before
DEAR ELINORE,
MY MOM USED TO READ TO ME WHEN I COULDN’T FALL ASLEEP. IT WAS ALWAYS THE GIVING TREE, I INSISTED. THE PICTURES WEREN’T ANYTHING SPECIAL. I LIKED HOW SAD THEY WERE. KID BOOKS ARE ALWAYS SO HAPPILY EVER AFTER, YOU KNOW? AND LIFE IS JUST NOT LIKE THAT. THAT BOY JUST KEEPS TAKING AND TAKING FROM THE TREE UNTIL THERE IS NOTHING ELSE. HE CARVES INTO IT, TAKES ITS BRANCHES, ITS APPLES, LEAVING JUST A STUMP. WHEN I WAS A KID, I THOUGHT ABOUT HOW LUCKY THIS BOY WAS TO HAVE A TREE AS HIS BEST FRIEND, BUT WHAT A MORON I WAS TO THINK THAT. THE BOY NEVER GAVE ANYTHING TO THIS TREE. THE BOY NEVER ASKED IT WHAT IT WANTED. NOW I HATE THIS BOOK BECAUSE IT REMINDS ME OF HOW BLIND WE ARE. EVERYONE JUST TAKES. NO ONE REALLY KNOWS ME AND NO ONE CARES TO. MY PARENTS THEY HAVE NO IDEA.
YOU PROBABLY READ THIS BOOK A MILLION TIMES, OR AT LEAST KNOW IT. I’VE SEEN YOU IN THE HALLWAYS WITH YOUR NOSE IN SOME BOOK—PROBABLY FOR PLEASURE AND NOT BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO, YOU’RE LIKE THAT. WE’VE GOT A WEEPING WILLOW IN OUR BACKYARD. YOU KNOW WHAT THIS IS? YOU PROBABLY DO. I THOUGHT THEY ACTUALLY CRIED LIKE TEARS ON THEIR LEAVES SORT OF THING. THEY LOOK LIKE THEY’RE WEEPING, ALL HUNCHED OVER LIKE THEY FOUND OUT SOME BAD NEWS AND CAN’T SEEM TO RECOVER.
I THOUGHT ABOUT THIS ONE DAY ON THE BUS RIDE HOME FROM SCHOOL. FOR MONTHS, I’VE BEEN COLLECTING WAYS TO DO IT. THERE IS A TREE BY THE RAVINE NEAR MY HOUSE. IT’S REALLY BEUTIFUL BEAUTIFUL AND MAYBE I’VE ALWAYS KIND OF KNOWN THAT WAS THE ONE.
1993
THE STORY OF MY FIRST HAIRCUT is legendary. Or at least it is in my family. It has circulated over Thanksgiving meals, in synagogue after prayer time is over and all that is left are slightly stale cookies to munch on during Oneg, and even when my grandfather was slowly dying in the hospital.
It was just after my third birthday. My thick, curly hair had gathered into more knots than a brush could untangle, so Dad grabbed the scissors from the coupon drawer and started cutting. Shirley (my mother) was too distraught to do it. After the first cut, I started to scream.
“You’re hurting her,” Greta, who was five at the time, yelled.
And then—according to this well-circulated story—I yelled: “You’re killing it,” meaning my hair. I guess I thought my hair, like everything else on my body, was alive. I didn’t understand why my dad would try to cut a piece of me away. So, he stopped and I wouldn’t let anyone near my hair again until I was almost six. By then, my head resembled a blond abandoned squirrel’s nest.
I’M FIFTEEN NOW, SO OF COURSE I understand that hair is dead. My strands don’t scream out when I’m at the hair salon. Though of course, Henny, who has been cutting my hair since I was eight, knows the story too.
Here is what my hair looked like before. It was beautiful, like shampoo commercial hair where the woman throws her head around and each strand glistens as though weaved with tiny suns. Strangers have even stopped me at the grocery store. Or they’d stop Shirley and tell her what gorgeous hair her daughter has. Grandma (Dad’s mom) used to ask for my scraps after a haircut. Her hair was thin and straight. No one really understood where my curls came from. But apparently, I was blessed. This word was also used a lot to describe my hair. Anyway, it was long and thick and beautiful and then I cut it.
I don’t believe I’m unusual. What I mean is, how else should a teenager react when they find out a classmate has committed suicide? Oh, maybe I should start from the beginning, though I’m not sure where that would be. Beginning of me? Beginning of when I started to realize things out about myself that made me feel different than others? When does this story begin
?
We were in second grade together. He sat behind me. Also fourth grade, where I got my first ‘D’, which I don’t think was fair at all, and seventh grade science class, and he is was in my English class this year. It’s not like we were friends. Hardly. He was my bully. Threw frog guts at me in seventh grade during dissection. He called me “screen door” and “mosquito bites” in front of the whole class, and yet the teacher didn’t even notice. Maybe he had a whole roster of people he bullied, but it sure felt like he had his hatred aimed straight toward me. But who cares about any of that now? He’s dead.
I was down the block at Dara’s house. Her mom (who knows everything about everyone) got a phone call (not sure from who) and went down to the basement where we were playing and asked if we knew him. I don’t even remember saying goodbye. I just ran home, rushed upstairs to my bedroom, grabbed the scissors on my desk and started to cut my hair. When someone dies like that, things just stop making sense.
Of course, I understand why I was so upset. So, maybe that is where this story starts? But first let me explain what happened after the first cut. Again, I’m fifteen. I don’t understand everything about the body, but I get that if I cut my finger, I will bleed and maybe cry, but blood and pain doesn’t come out of a haircut. And yet, it was like I could feel every hair being pulled out of my scalp. I just stood in the middle of my bedroom, away from my mirror, because I didn’t want to watch what was happening, and cut. The sound was like a slow rip. Not like paper, but well, like something else. My neck itched from the hairs falling against it and the floor caught my curls, creating a puddle of me. I just cut and cut, trying not to imagine him. Trying not to think about why a fifteen-year-old boy would want to kill himself. Trying not to think about Shirley and how I know about the time she tried to kill herself last May, but not about the other times, and there must have been more. Trying not to think about having to visit her on the weekends at that hospital. Angry about what she did, but still trying to be nice to her because she was in a mental hospital that smelled like rotten bandages. I used to call her Shirley in my head, though I’m not sure why. After she tried to leave us, I started saying it out loud.
I threw the scissors down on my bed and slowly walked to my mirror. My hardwood floor was now covered with my hair. Actually, it was really just a messy pile, but it felt like a lot. My hair had reached past my shoulders. The mirror now revealed my new ‘do.
“Eleanor!” screamed Shirley.
Well, I couldn’t hide in my room forever.
“What did you do to yourself?”
“I cut my hair,” I said, plainly.
“I see that. Why?”
“I . . . I don’t know. I needed to—”
“Francine just called me. She said you ran out of the house. She also told me about the boy in your grade.”
I took a deep breath. Greta was the one who found Shirley, not me. But I had to help get her to throw up. She had swallowed too many of her pills. Greta was incredible. She called for an ambulance, tried to calm me down, took care of things. It’s like she knew exactly what to do. I felt paralyzed. I didn’t understand what was happening.
“Why would she take too many?” I asked, as though Shirley had forgotten the correct dosage of her anti-depressants.
“El,” Greta said, “I think Mom tried to kill herself. Call Dad.”
It’s very strange when a parent does something wrong. You can’t send them to their room and punish them. You can’t take away their favorite toy; they don’t have any. I never really got to react in the way I needed to, which was apparently by chopping all my hair off and leaving a messy patch of dirty blond nothingness.
Shirley pulled me into her and I could smell the haunt of cigarette smoke against her clothing. She quit while she was in the hospital, but I had a feeling she’d recently started back up. It was kind of like a secret we both knew about but didn’t mention.
“Honey, I’m so sorry. Did you know him?”
“No,” I said into her chest. “Yeah, I mean, not really.”
“Can I make you something? Can I . . . what can I do?”
“Nothing. I just . . . I just want to be alone.”
WHILE SHIRLEY WAS IN THE HOSPITAL, Flor—her best friend—watched us. Dad was traveling for work at the time. I missed him, but I got along really well with Flor, and she was happy to take care of us. Dad called every day to check on us. He even visited Shirley in the hospital when he got back into town. It’s strange. They’ve been divorced for like six years now, but it’s like they’re nicer to each other now that they’re not married.
Shirley’s doctor at the hospital suggested we try a support group—for survivors of suicide. Dad, Greta and I went each week. Once summer arrived, Greta was hanging out with her friends more—before they all split and went to college—and stopped going to the group. Once Greta went away to college in August, Dad came with me a few more times. I thought about stopping, but actually, I really liked going. I didn’t mind going alone. I guess it helped to be able to talk about it openly, to be around others who understood. Recently, Flor started to go with me.
“ELEANOR, DARA IS ON THE PHONE!”
I walked over to my desk to pick up the phone. We used to have only one phone in the whole house. It was in the kitchen with a cord long enough to reach the family room and even the front hallway. Then, we got cordless phones a few years ago. One in the kitchen, one in Shirley’s bedroom and Gret and I have one in our bedrooms. I used to love how—depending on the channel—you could hear bits and pieces of neighbors’ conversations. There was always some static, but I’d dig out all the wax in my ears just to hear whatever I could. My imagination would always fill in the rest.
“Hey,” I said.
“You okay?” Dara asked. “You just ran and—”
“Sorry.”
“Want me to come over?”
“Nah.”
“Why do you think he—”
“I don’t want to talk about it,” I said.
“Yeah, okay. I mean, I guess it’s extra scary because your mom . . .”
“I really don’t want to talk about it.”
THAT NIGHT, SHIRLEY TOOK ME TO the mall to get my hair evened out, whatever that means. I asked her if I could dye it. Up to that point, I was only able to use sun-in and my hair was already blond, so I didn’t really see the point—though that didn’t stop me from using it. Maybe Shirley felt bad or too tired to disagree, but whatever the reason, we went to the beauty supply store on the second floor, got some bleach and manic panic—I couldn’t believe it!—and headed home.
“It fades,” Shirley said, when we got home. “That’s why I didn’t battle you earlier. And . . .” she paused, “ . . . I understand why this is extra hard, Eleanor. But you know I am better, right? I’m not looking to leave anytime soon. I love you. That has never wavered.”
“Yeah, I know. I love you too. If it’s okay, I’m gonna try this out.”
“Please use an old towel,” she said. “And put paper towels on the counter, in case anything drops.”
Before the bleach. Before the cranberry-fizz-colored hair dye. Before I started to mourn my dull blond curls. I grabbed the heaping pile of my hair and put it into a plastic Food Town bag. I figured next time we visit Grandma’s grave, I can bring her some. I know how much she loved it.
After the bleach. After the cranberry-fizz-colored hair dye. After I started to mourn my dull blond curls.
“Well, next time we lose each other in the mall, I’ll easily find you,” said Shirley.
“Ugh, is it awful?”
“Well, it certainly looks different from this morning, but it’s not terrible.”
I feigned a smile.
“Is your homework all done? You ready for school tomorrow?”
“Yeah. I don’t know, I . . . Shirley, can I . . . can I ask you something?”
“Eleanor, you know how I feel about you calling me that. Go ahead.”
“I feel like there mu
st have been so many bad days. So, what turns a bad day into what you desperately hope is the last day? I mean, what makes someone decide: today I kill myself. Maybe yesterday sucked, but today is just too much.”
“I certainly can’t answer that for James, but for me . . . oh honey, I got to the point that I thought you and Greta would fare better without me.”
“You thought dying would make our lives better?”
“I know. I know how ridiculous that sounds, but I wasn’t thinking clearly.”
“And now?”
“Now, with medication and—”
“But you were on medication. That’s what you—”
“Better medication, more regulated. And going to therapy again has really helped. Brinna even mentioned me trying some group therapy. We’ve been making great headway and she feels like being around others could be really beneficial.”
“It could get you to meet people,” I said, trying to be optimistic.
“You have, right?”
“What? At the support group? Yeah, I mean, everyone is super nice, I guess. Didn’t exactly go there to make friends, but . . .”
“But it gives you the opportunity to understand a little more. To know it’s never about the survivors. To understand mental illness.”
“Yeah.”
Shirley threw her hand into my hair and tousled the tiny amount left. “I like this. Like Debbie Harry or something.”
“Who?”
* * *
“THERE IS JUST NO WAY TO prepare for something like this.” Ms. Raimondo stood in front of us, as she always does, but she looked different today, like her veins somehow wilted and all the blood inside vanished. I guess we all looked like that today.
James was dead.
“As your homeroom teacher mentioned, there are grief counselors who will be here all week into next, and you can go to them to process what’s going—”
“Like instead of going to class?”
Ms. Raimondo just stared at Harris blankly. “Like because you need to.”