Secrets The Secret Never Told You;Law of Attraction for Instant Manifestation Miracles: How to Use the Law of Attraction (Law of Attraction Secrets for Instant Manifestation Miracles Book Book 2)
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Yes, I had manifested what I wanted, but once I got it, I realized it wasn't going to make me happy. So I changed my mind.
Thus, you see the beauty of taking steps.
Sometimes you think you want something, and then you get it, and you realize you were wrong.
I took a step. I rented a place for a month to check it out. I didn't pack up and move my whole life. It was no effort to go back and reassess what I really wanted next.
Learning what you don't want is a great way to point you toward what you really do want. Once you know what you don't want, you have another piece of the puzzle to what you really need to make yourself happy all the way through.
One of the ways to make sure you don't waste time going toward something you don't really want, is to check in with your triangle.
I call this my TRIANGLE CHECK.
When you go to manifest something, you need to realize that you're working with three parts of yourself.
Three little judges, if you will - we have our own little ‘congressional system’ and balancing act going on.
In our case, it's the mind, the body and the spirit.
Whether you like it or not, you must pay attention to what each one of them is saying.
The fact is, you won't manifest anything or pull it into the third dimension without all three parts of yourself agreeing on it.
Ultimately, you are using six-dimensional geometry to do this, so that it can manifest.
In my practice, very often my clients get in their own way, because they don't really want what they're trying to manifest!
As I said, all three parts of you have to agree, and I meant it. The most likely reason somebody is not manifesting something in their life that they truly seem to
want, is because a part of them is blocking it.
All three parts of you have a voice, and a choice in what you create. You can't ignore any part of you.
Here's an example from one of my lectures where a pretty young woman named Helen raised her hand and waved it about furiously, saying she really needed help.
She claimed she wanted to marry a handsome, well-dressed young man in her office. She knew if she could just learn how to manifest correctly that dream would be a reality, and she'd be walking down the aisle with him.
She was obviously enthusiastic! Helen's hand had been the first one that shot up when I asked for a volunteer.
Enthusiasm is a good start.
She was seemingly very sure of her attraction and similarity to this man.
Best yet, she was at a lecture on ‘How to Learn to Manifest.’ I had no doubt that this young woman would be able to manifest things in her life!
However, marrying somebody she didn't know? I had some questions.
I had to take this wish of hers to her judges to get a true call.
What would we find when we did a basic Triangle Check?
My very first questions to Helen quickly identified that she'd never dated this guy in the office, and in fact had barely had a conversation with him at work. Again, she reiterated to me how much she thought he was handsome and smart, and from across the room, she just knew he was ‘the one.’
Okay, sounds like she knew what she wanted, but then what is the next logical question? She never had a date with this guy, so she didn't really know him (i.e. he could be a real jerk, a loser, a gambler or a player) and maybe not a good guy at all; maybe he just looks good!
As I tried to get to exactly what she wanted, I realized we still needed to be more clear.
I asked the next logical question (the same way I suggest you ask yourself the next logical questions about your wish).
The next obvious question I asked her was, "Are you sure that marriage is what you want? Is this large, lifetime-committed step, with a person you don't really know, what you really want now? All of you?"
Let's take this to our congressional system and take a look at it from there, shall we?
Now, sounds as if she's very certain on a BODY level that she is very attracted to this man.
Okay, so far so good. We have one part that thinks he's the cat’s meow - on the body level then, it appears to be a full go.
Okay, moving along, let's continue by checking in with the Spirit.
How does the SPIRIT feel about this marrying the co-worker wish?
From what I'm getting, her spirit thinks he's attractive and is excited about getting to know him. However, it appears that her SPIRIT also feels marrying somebody that she doesn't really know, and could end up being completely wrong for her (or worse yet, horribly
suffocating to her true calling) is absurd.
You can see why the spirit can't really get on board with
Helen manifesting the marrying of this man.
Now the wish is starting to sound frivolous and not so perfect.
Let’s continue around the triangle and check into what her MIND has to say about her marrying somebody with whom she's never even had a long conversation.
My assumption is her mind will be saying things like,
"Hello, are you crazy? There is no way we are going to allow you to manifest this! You've never gone out with him! We may have no compatibility, he might be boring, or he might be bad in bed. Hell no! Hey, you might not even want to be his girlfriend, let alone his wife!"
As you can see, her mind is going to have a problem with this. Her mind is not going to go along with her taking a huge leap into marriage with somebody she does not know.
Let’s sum up our triangle check.
The results go like this -
The BODY is full in with a YES.
The SPIRIT and MIND both say a big NO.
So guess what?
Right.
She's not going to manifest marrying this guy at this moment. What is the grand lesson here?
Make sure you check in with your triangle, mind, body and spirit.
They had better agree
or manifestation you won't see.
Twiddle dee dee and twiddle dee dum.
Helen was finally able to discover that she was really not ready to marry this guy.
In fact, she wasn't ready to marry any guy!
When she got really honest with herself and listened to what all parts of her triangle were voicing, she wasn't really even comfortable having a full date with him!
So, what did she find when she listened to her triangle core about what all three parts of her would be comfortable and happy about manifesting right now?
A simple cup of coffee.
In the end, all three parts of her were really only excited about moving forward with a simple cup of coffee with him!
Bingo! All three parts of her were excited about going out to coffee with this handsome guy in her office.
What a perfect and natural next step.
She found the exact thing she was ready for and really excited about. Now the rest was going to be simple. Now that all three parts of her were excited about it, we could use the 5-step process.
I can't say I was surprised when I heard back from Helen later that month. She had already had that cup of coffee she had decided to manifest, and was looking forward to a date with her office crush that Saturday night.
My friends, if I can do it, she can do it, we can do it, you can do it!
As soon as you realize it's really all about you.
And once you are being clear about you, then you can create anything.
Get to know all sides of you.
Then you'll start to see things materialize overnight, like magic. When you truly grasp the concept that most of the time the little devil keeping you away from your dreams, and sometimes in a victim or unhealthy place, is of your own making, then you must also realize that you have the ability to change it.
Get clear, choose well, and manifest it into your world.
It is that simple.
Because so many new students get hung up on this part of the manifestation process, I want to make sure you u
nderstand.
Here's another example of the use of the triangle for clarity, from my private practice.
George came to see me about something he wanted to manifest. George worked for a huge corporation and was stuck in middle management. George wanted to manifest becoming the CEO of the company.
Now, this isn't a huge jumping wish that is impossible.
It could very well happen! Having worked with many people in my lectures trying to make their wishes come true, I knew that a common mistake people made was trying to wish for something way bigger than what they were actually ready for. So I had questions for George.
Knowing this is a common mistake, and something that held people back, I quizzed him to get him into true clarity. I used the triangle process with George to make sure he was ready for this big wish.
I said, "Okay, you want to manifest being a CEO. Are you sure?"
George said, "Yes. I really yearn to be the CEO. I want the money, I want the prestige, I want the big office and the big title."
I kept quizzing him on this because I knew from experience that leaping from the middle to the CEO is difficult.
This is not because you can't do it through manifestation,
but because all three parts of your triangle usually are
not ready for that much of a huge change at once.
I've talked about the human condition and its need for small steps.
Continuing on, I asked him more questions.
"So you want to be the head honcho?”
George nodded, I continued, “So you are all ready to work 12 to 14 hours a day and travel the world, like a CEO of such a big company would need to do?"
This is when he began to hesitate and that's when I knew he had wished too big. He was already starting to resist his own wish!
I told you we do this!
Once George took a moment to actually think about that reality of being a CEO everyday, the 14-hour workday, away from home often with business travel....
He said, "Oh well, I have two small children at home so I couldn't work that long or really travel that much. No, I wouldn't like that part of the job."
Then I had to say to George, "But that is the job of a
CEO, George. Those are the hours and the requirements.”
If you want the job, then those things will be part of your life, because those things go along with the job of the CEO."
Now things were starting to take on a different color.
Now George really had to stop and wonder what he had been wishing for, and what he really wanted. I told him to go back and check inside himself for the truth.
Run the Triangle Check.
When George did check in with his three inside judges, what he found was a big no from his heart, and a big no from his spirit.
His mind had been the only one excited about being a CEO and the voice making the wish. His mind had reasoned that his life would be better if he ran the company and made more money for his family.
And why wouldn't George think this? We are often told to go for the top, grab the money, sell your life to the man... We can get programmed to move toward things we don't even really want.
You owe it to yourself to be kind enough to honor all parts of yourself and make yourself happier!
As I continued to ask questions of George to help him
gain clarity, other things were revealed.
He didn't want to be away from his children and wife for long hours every day. He wanted to be part of his children’s lives and sports teams, and he enjoyed bowling and golfing with his wife. However, if he was made CEO his family and friends would all be put on the back burner while he ran this huge company.
This is a BODY feeling being voiced, involving family and home. His wish was not going to make his body axis happy at all! This was a family guy, and his family was important to him.
Upon more examination, we found that George's SPIRIT wasn't thrilled about working 14 hours a day for a company he didn't love either. George had hobbies and interests outside of work that he enjoyed, and all the time devoted to work would mean they would suffer.
When George did check in, this was the end result:
Body - No
Spirit – No
Mind– Yes
(but programmed?)
Total – No
Once again, we discovered that a person really didn't want what they were wishing for once they really looked at it.
Much like Helen, once we were able to truly get a clear message after using the Triangle Check, we could move ahead to manifest.
When we finally whittled it down to what George really wanted, all he really wanted was more money. He also wanted more creativity with room for advancement.
That's it!
George didn't really want the $1 million job, he didn't need the title of CEO, and he didn't want a career that would pretty much take over his whole life. He just wanted more.
Once we were able to figure out what he really wanted, we could manifest it. Now there would be no more resistance to that wish coming true.
Now let's take your wish and put it through the same check with your inner judges.
Exercise 2 - The Triangle Check
Based on these client stories, let's take a look at what
you're wishing for!
Take a moment to check in with your triangle. How do you feel? How does your body feel about it? How does your head think about it? How does your spirit feel about it coming true? Is there any resistance? Are all three parts of you ready for this now?
Ask yourself some questions and try to pinpoint the truth for yourself. Ask questions as I asked of George and Helen.
Can you scale it down in any way, where you feel more comfortable?
Chapter 6
Getting into a High Frequency
So how are YOU feeling?
Are you ready to move ahead with your wish?
Are you so ready, that if it came to you tomorrow you'd be totally happy about it?
If you truthfully answer yes, then you're ready.
Good, because we are going to go manifest it and sometimes it happens right away.
In my experience, I very often have seen things manifest within 24 hours.
Then conversely, at other times, it takes a little while to manifest because the pieces have to be put into place.
In this case, signs will show up to show you that the message has been received.
Step 1: You've identified what you wanted and made sure that all three parts of you are in agreement.
We are ready to move on to Step 2 in the process of creation, getting yourself in a high frequency..
To manifest quickly you need to get yourself into the highest frequency possible.
Like attracts like.
Good things come in on good vibrations.
To manifest the quickest, stay in the highest frequency possible - all the time.
Do you know what a high frequency is?
High frequency is any time you're feeling good, like when you hear birds singing, or little kids laughing, whenever love is emanating from you, or you're bouncing off the walls with joy.
High frequencies are what you want in your life.
Simply put, the higher the frequency the more divine, happy and good it feels.
The science of frequencies can get kind of complicated, but to simplify things, just remember that high frequencies make you feel good, so you should always move toward them.
Move toward things that make you feel good.
Conversely, low frequencies make you feel bad.
Examples of low frequencies are: getting sick, gaining weight, losing your job, and mean people.
Whenever you identify a low frequency, you should move away from it.
The way you move away from low frequencies is – well, if it's your mother-in-law, you can walk out the door, but vibrationally, you can do that by raising your frequency above it - by going to the next highest freque
ncy you can get to.
If the science of frequencies interests you, then you should check out my first book, where I go into the complete understanding of the Science of Frequencies and the Law of Attunement, Ultimate Power.
The next simple part of frequencies you need to understand, is how frequencies interact with each other.