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by Henry Hitchings


  Anthony Trollope, An Autobiography (Berkeley, California: University of California Press, 1978)

  Frances Trollope, Domestic Manners of the Americans (Mineola, NY: Dover, 2003)

  Lady Troubridge, The Book of Etiquette (Kingswood: The World’s Work, 1926)

  __________, Etiquette and Entertaining (London: Amalgamated Press, 1939)

  Lynne Truss, Talk to the Hand (London: Profile, 2005)

  Martin Tupper, Proverbial Philosophy: A Book of Thoughts and Arguments, Originally Treated (London: Joseph Rickerby, 1839)

  Sherry Turkle, Alone Together: Why We Expect More from Technology and Less from Each Other (New York: Basic Books, 2011)

  Mark Twain at Your Fingertips, ed. Caroline Thomas Harnsberger (New York: Beechhurst Press, 1948)

  Jenny Uglow, A Gambling Man: Charles II and the Restoration (London: Faber, 2009)

  Amy Vanderbilt, ‘Bad Manners in America’, Annals of the American Academy of Political and Social Science 378 (1968), 90–98

  Wilbert van Vree, Meetings, Manners and Civilization: The Development of Modern Meeting Behaviour, trans. Kathleen Bell (London: Leicester University Press, 1999)

  Thorstein Veblen, The Theory of the Leisure Class (New York: Macmillan, 1899)

  Margaret Visser, The Rituals of Dinner: The Origins, Evolution, Eccentricities, and Meaning of Table Manners (London: Viking, 1992)

  __________, The Way We Are (London: Viking, 1995)

  __________, The Gift of Thanks: The Roots and Rituals of Gratitude (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Harcourt, 2009)

  Johann Wilhelm von Archenholz, A Picture of England, 2 vols. (London: Edward Jeffery, 1789)

  John Wade, British History, Chronologically Arranged; Comprehending a Classified Analysis of Events and Occurrences in Church and State, 5th edn (London: Henry G. Bohn, 1847)

  Robert Wallace, Characteristics of the Present Political State of Great Britain, 2nd edn (London: Andrew Millar, 1758)

  Maureen Waller, The English Marriage: Tales of Love, Money and Adultery (London: John Murray, 2009)

  Edward Ward, The History of the London Clubs (London: J. Dutten, 1709)

  Nicola J. Watson, Revolution and the Form of the British Novel, 1790–1825: Intercepted Letters, Interrupted Seductions (Oxford: Clarendon Press, 1994)

  Richard J. Watts, Politeness (Cambridge: Cambridge University Press, 2003)

  Evelyn Waugh, ‘Manners and Morals’, in The Essays, Articles and Reviews of Evelyn Waugh, ed. Donat Gallagher (London: Methuen, 1983)

  Alan F. Westin, Privacy and Freedom (New York: Atheneum, 1967)

  Frank Whigham, Ambition and Privilege: The Social Tropes of Elizabethan Courtesy Theory (Berkeley, California: University of California Press, 1984)

  Jerry White, London in the Eighteenth Century (London: Bodley Head, 2012)

  Susan E. Whyman, The Pen and the People: English Letter Writers 1660–1800 (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2009)

  Anna Wierzbicka, English: Meaning and Culture (Oxford: Oxford University Press, 2006)

  __________, Experience, Evidence, and Sense: The Hidden Cultural Legacy of English (New York: Oxford University Press, 2010)

  Joan Wildeblood and Peter Brinson, The Polite World: A Guide to English Manners and Deportment from the Thirteenth to the Nineteenth Century (London: Oxford University Press, 1965)

  A. N. Wilson, The Victorians (London: Arrow, 2003)

  Edmund Wilson, ‘Books of Etiquette and Emily Post’, New Yorker, 19 July 1947

  Edward O. Wilson, On Human Nature (New York: Bantam, 1979)

  K. J. Wilson, ‘Ascham’s Toxophilus and the Rules of Art’, Renaissance Quarterly 29 (1976), 30–51

  Mary Wollstonecraft, A Vindication of the Rights of Woman, 3rd edn (London: Joseph Johnson, 1796)

  John George Wood, The Uncivilized Races of Men in All Countries of the World, 2 vols. (Hartford, Connecticut: J. B. Burr, 1870)

  Michael Wood, In Search of England: Journeys into the English Past (London: Penguin, 2000)

  Patrick Wormald, Legal Culture in the Early Medieval West: Law as Text, Image and Experience (London: Hambledon Press, 1999)

  Cas Wouters, Sex and Manners: Female Emancipation in the West, 1890–2000 (London: Sage, 2004)

  __________, Informalization: Manners and Emotions Since 1890 (London: Sage, 2007)

  Lawrence Wright, Clean and Decent: The History of the Bath and Loo, rev. edn (London: Routledge & Kegan Paul, 1980)

  Elizabeth Wyse et al., Debrett’s A–Z of Modern Manners (Richmond: Debrett’s, 2008)

  Arthur Young, Travels, During the Years 1787, 1788, and 1789 (Bury St Edmunds: J. Rackham, 1792)

  Robert J. C. Young, The Idea of English Ethnicity (Oxford: Blackwell, 2008)

  Paul J. Zak, The Moral Molecule: The Source of Love and Prosperity (London: Bantam, 2012)

  Theodore Zeldin, The French (London: Collins, 1983)

  __________, An Intimate History of Humanity (London: Minerva, 1995)

  Index

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  Addison, Joseph

  aesthetics: and morality

  Alberti, Leandro

  Alberti, Leon Battista

  Alexander the Great

  Alfonsi, Petrus: Disciplina clericalis

  Alfred the Great, King of West Saxons

  Allen, Ralph

  Allestree, Richard: The Causes of the Decay of Christian Piety; The Ladies Calling; The Whole Duty of Man

  America: Chesterfield’s letters in; see also United States of America

  American Beauty (film)

  American Civil War (1861–5)

  Amhurst, Nicholas: Terrae-filius

  Amis, Martin: Lionel Asbo

  Angelo, Domenico

  Anne of Cleves, Queen of Henry VIII

  Aquinas, St Thomas

  Archenholz, Johann Wilhelm von: A Picture of England

  arguments

  Ariès, Philippe

  aristocracy

  Aristotle

  Aristotle’s Masterpiece (sex manual)

  ASBOs (Anti-social Behaviour Orders)

  Ascham, Roger; Toxophilus

  Aslet, Clive: Anyone for England?

  Astell, Mary: A Serious Proposal to the Ladies

  Athelstan, King of the English

  Athenian Mercury (magazine)

  Aubrey, John

  Austen, Cassandra

  Austen, Jane; Emma; Persuasion; Sanditon

  Austria: formal manners

  Ayscough, George Edward

  Babbage, Charles

  Babees Book, The

  Baldrige, Letitia: New Manners for New Times

  Baldwin, Stanley, 1st Earl

  Baltzell, E. Digby

  Bank of England: established (1694)

  Banse, Ewald

  Barnes, Julian: England, England

  Barthes, Roland

  Bath

  bathing clothes

  baths and toilets

  Beckford, Peter

  Bede, Venerable: Ecclesiastical History of the English People

  Bedlam

  Beeton, Isabella: The Book of Household Management

  Bell, Alexander Graham

  Bell, Florence: The Minor Moralist

  Bergson, Henri

  Beyfus, Drusilla: Modern Manners

  Binder, Pearl: The English Inside Out

  Blackburn Standard and Weekly Express

  Blair, Tony

  Blake, William

  bodily functions

  body language see gesture

  bonhomie

  bore (word)

  Borg, Björn

  Boswell, James

  Bourdain, Anthony

  Bourdieu, Pierre

  Bowes, George Seaton: Conversation: Why Don’t We Do More Good By It?

 
; bowing

  Boyer, Abel: The History of the London Clubs

  Brathwait, Richard: The English Gentleman; The English Gentlewoman

  breeding (good)

  Breton, Nicholas

  Bristol

  British: defined

  Brooks, David

  brothels

  Brother (film)

  Brown, John: An Estimate of the Manners and Principles of the Times

  Brunelleschi, Filippo

  Bryant, Sir Arthur

  Bryson, Bill; At Home

  Bunce, Oliver Bell: Don’t: A Manual of Mistakes and Improprieties

  Burckhardt, Jacob: The Civilization of the Renaissance in Italy

  Burghley, William Cecil, Baron

  Burke, Edmund; Reflections on the Revolution in France

  Burke, Peter

  Burney, Fanny (Madame d’Arblay); Evelina

  Burney, Hetty

  Bush, George W.

  Byron, George Gordon, 6th Baron

  Cagadoc, Luc

  Callisthenes

  Cameron, David

  Cammaerts, Emile

  car ownership

  Carlyle, Thomas; Sartor Resartus

  Carroll, Lewis

  Carter, Stephen L.

  carving (meats)

  Castiglione, Baldassare; Il Libro del Cortegiano (The Book of the Courtier)

  Catholicism: and English Reformation; hostility to

  Cawdrey, Robert: A Table Alphabetical

  Caxton, William

  Cecil, Robert (later 1st Earl of Salisbury)

  ceremony and ritual

  Chancellor, Richard

  Charlemagne, Emperor

  Charles II, King

  Charlotte, Queen of George III

  charm: and irritation

  Charm Offensive (Young Foundation report)

  Chaucer, Geoffrey; The Canterbury Tales

  Cheadle, Eliza

  Chesterfield, Philip Dormer Stanhope, 4th Earl of: appearance and manner; counsels against laughter; esteem for French; on etiquette and manners; and letter-writing; letters to son; opposition to

  children: upbringing; Victorian

  chimpanzees: behaviour

  China: eating habits; and health benefits of sex; influence in England; manners

  chivalry

  chopsticks

  Christianity: and civility; see also religion

  Church, the: importance in medieval period

  Cicero

  Cincinnati

  city life

  civility

  civilization: and growth of inhibition

  class (social): as system; Victorian changes

  cleanliness (personal)

  clubs (social); gentlemen’s

  Cockayne, Emily

  Cockeram, Henry

  coffee

  coffee houses

  Collier, Jane: An Essay on the Art of Ingeniously Tormenting

  colour: in dress

  common sense

  Confucius

  contraception

  Contrast, The: or an Antidote to … the Letters of the Late Earl of Chesterfield

  conversation

  Cooper, Jilly: Class

  corporate values

  Coryat, Thomas

  cotton: for garments

  court (royal): ceremonies and rituals; as heart of social network

  courtesy (word)

  Courtin, Antoine de: Nouveau traité de la civilité qui se pratique en France parmi les honnêtes gens

  courtly love

  Cowley, Hannah: The Belle’s Stratagem (play)

  crime and criminality; decline

  Cromley, Elizabeth Collins

  Crusades

  Cullen, Edward

  Curb Your Enthusiasm (US TV series)

  Curtin, Michael

  curtsies

  Daily Express

  Daily Mail

  Daily Telegraph: on word ‘sorry’

  dance and dancing: Chesterfield on; improving effects; modern changes in

  dandyism

  Daniel of Beccles: Urbanus Magnus (or Liber Urbani; poem)

  Davetian, Benet

  David I, King of Scotland

  David, Larry

  Davis, Miles

  Debrett’s A–Z of Modern Manners

  Debrett’s Etiquette and Modern Manners

  de Courcy, Anne

  Defoe, Daniel; ‘The True-Born Englishman’

  della Casa, Giovanni: Galateo

  DeMott, Benjamin

  Dickens, Charles: American Notes

  Digby, Kenelm Henry: The Broad Stone of Honour

  DiMaggio, Joe

  Disney, Walt

  Donaldson, Walter: Synopsis Oeconomica

  Dostoevsky, Fyodor: Notes from Underground

  dress: codes; colour; cotton; Elizabethan; and propriety

  Druckerman, Pamela: French Children Don’t Throw Food

  drunkenness

  duels and duelling

  Dunton, John: The Night-walker

  eating and drinking; and sex; see also table manners

  Edge (online magazine)

  Edison, Thomas

  education

  Edward I, King

  Edward II, King

  Edward the Elder, King of the Angles and Saxons

  Edwards, Anne and Drusilla Beyfus: Lady Behave: A Guide to Modern Manners

  effeminacy

  Eleanor of Aquitaine, Queen of Henry II

  Eleanor of Provence, Queen of Henry III

  Elias, Norbert: Über den Prozess der Zivilisation (The Civilizing Process)

  Eliot, T. S.

  Elizabeth I, Queen

  Elizabethan period

  Ellis, Bret Easton: American Psycho

  Ellis, Sarah Stickney: The Wives of England

  Elyot, Sir Thomas; The Boke Named the Governour; The Castle of Health

  email see internet

  Emerson, Ralph Waldo: English Traits

  emotion: and bodily expression

  empiricism

  Engels, Friedrich

  English (and England): character and national identity; collecting and hobbies; conversation and use of language; customs and practices; defined; eccentricity; exceptionalism; experience of abroad; foreign visitors’ views of; geography and climate; historical continuity; images; immigrants; manners; monarchs; politeness and rudeness; reasonableness; and social unease; violence

  equality (social)

  Erasmus, Desiderius; De Civilitate Morum Puerilium

  Erskine, Thomas

  etiquette: as art; Chesterfield on; guides to; and internet; as word

  euphemism and verbal avoidance

  Evelyn, John

  Facetus (or Urbanus; Latin poem)

  fair, fairness (words)

  Faret, Nicolas

  farewells

  farting

  fashion; see also dress

  feasts: in medieval England

  Fein, Ellen and Sherrie Schneider: The Rules

  feminism

  Fey, Tina: Bossypants

  Field of the Cloth of Gold, The

  Fielding, Henry; ‘An Essay on Conversation’; Tom Jones

  Fine Gentleman’s Etiquette, The (1776)

  Fiston, William: The School of Good Manners

  Fitzgerald, F. Scott

  flagellation

  Flaubert, Gustave: Madame Bovary

  Florio, John

  Floyer, Sir John: The History of Cold Bathing

  Flügel, J. C.: The Psychology of Clothes

  food and diet; see also eating and drinking

  football (Association)

  Fordyce, James: Sermons to Young Women

  Foreman, Richard

  forks (cutlery)

  Forster, E. M.: A Room with a View

  Foucault, Michel

  Fox, Charles James

  Fox, Kate

  France (and French): Burke on; children’s upbringing; conduct and behaviour; English hostility to; influence on fashion; Jo
hnson disparages; word borrowings from

  Francis I, King of France

  Franklin, Benjamin

  Franzen, Jonathan

  French Revolution

  Freud, Sigmund; Civilization and its Discontents (Das Unbehagen in der Kultur)

  Friedan, Betty

  Frieman, Richie (Modern Manners Guy)

  funerals and bereavement

  furniture: upholstered

  Garway, Thomas

  gentleman (word)

  Gentleman’s Magazine: on etiquette

  George I, King

  George III, King

  Germany: formal manners

  gesticulation

  gesture

  Ghazali, Abu Hamed Mohammed ibn Mohammed al-

  Gladstone, William Ewart

  Glaeser, Edward

  Glorious Revolution (1688)

  Godwin, William

  Goffman, Erving

  Goldblatt, David: The Ball Is Round

  Gombaud, Antoine

  Goozey, Alexander

  Gordon Riots (1780)

  Gorer, Geoffrey

  Gough, Richard: The History of Myddle

  Graham, Laurie

  Grand Tour

  Grand’Comb, Félix de (Félix Boillot)

  gratitude

  Great Fire of London (1666)

  greetings

  Gregory the Great, Pope

  Grosseteste, Robert, Bishop of Lincoln

  Guardian (newspaper)

  Guazzo, Stefano: La Civil Conversazione

  habits

  Habits of Good Society, The (1859)

  Hale, Sir Matthew: Advice to his Grandchildren

  Hale, Sarah Josepha: Manners; or, Happy Homes and Good Society All the Year Round

  Halifax, George Savile, 1st Marquess of

  handkerchiefs

  handshakes

  Hanway, Jonas

  Harland, Marion

  Harris’s List of Covent Garden Ladies

  Hart, Sir Robert

  Hazlitt, William; ‘On The Conduct of Life’

  hedges

  hello: as greeting

  Helzer, Erik

  Henry I, King

  Henry VIII, King

  Herodotus

  Herschel, Caroline

  Herschel, William

  Hessler, Peter: Country Driving

  Hewlett-Packard (company)

  Himmelfarb, Gertrude

  Hitchens, Christopher

  Hitchens, Peter

  Hobbes, Thomas; Leviathan

  Hoby, Sir Thomas

  Hodgkinson, Tom

  Homer

  homes: numbers and ownership; privacy and space

  homosexuality

  honour: and chivalry

  Hume, David

  Humphrey, Duke of Gloucester

  impolite (word)

  incivility

  individuality

  Institucion of a Gentleman (1555)

  internet

  intuition

  Irving, Sir Henry

 

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