Death Clutch

by Brock Lesnar

  DEATH CLUTCH

  My Story of Determination, Domination, and Survival

  Brock Lesnar

  with Paul Heyman

  Dedication

  To my wife, Rena, and my children, Mya, Turk, and Duke.

  You are the reason I do what I do.

  Contents

  Dedication

  Preface

  DEATHCLUTCH

  Part I

  RAISED TO BE A CHAMPION

  Raised to Be a Champion

  Wrestling with My Future

  The Cow-Chip Recruit

  A Detour on My Road to the NCAA Heavyweight Championship

  Senior Year: One Last Chance to Go Out on Top

  I'm an NCAA Champion: Now What?

  Part II

  THE NEXT BIG THING

  Faith, Family, Federation

  Pro Wrestling 101

  Curt Hennig

  Louisville

  The Next Big Thing

  Winning the Title . . . From The Rock

  The Undertaker

  Next in Line? The Big Show!

  Vodka and Vicodins

  My FirstWrestlemania

  Starting Year Two

  The Grind

  Brock vs. Rock in Miami

  Leaving WWE

  Closure

  Part III

  THE SWORD AT MY THROAT

  My Brief NFL Experience

  The Sword

  "Rena, Will You Marry Me?"

  My Not-So-Secret Meeting with Vince

  Brock Lesnar vs. WWE

  New Japan Pro Wrestling

  Getting Started in Mixed Martial Arts

  Getting Dana White's Attention

  Getting Back on the Horse

  UFC 91: My Fight vs. Randy Couture

  Road to Redemption

  What Is Wrong with Me?

  The Long Short Road Back

  Epilogue

  Acknowledgments

  Photos

  About the Authors

  Credits

  Copyright

  About the Publisher

  PREFACE

  DEATHCLUTCH

  I was living with a dark cloud over my head for seventeen months. I had gambled every bit of my reputation as a legitimate athlete, and I was determined to erase the stigma of being a WWE entertainer. All I had to do was smash Frank Mir into the ground, but I made a rookie mistake and got caught. These things happen in life, but I’m supposed to be better than that. I handed this guy, who will never be half the man I am, a victory he didn’t deserve.

  So for seventeen months, I waited.

  For seventeen months, I imagined what would happen in the rematch.

  For seventeen months, I couldn’t wait to get my hands on this guy again and show him, my family, the world, and God what I was capable of.

  When the wait was over, I did everything I intended on doing. I beat Frank Mir to a pulp, took him down to the ground, and smashed in his face so bad, the referee had to stop the fight.

  I was not only the Undisputed UFC Heavyweight Champion of the World, I had gotten out from underneath that dark cloud that just wouldn’t go away.

  I was so happy. I found my true calling. I was with the woman I love and am going to spend the rest of my life with. I had moved my parents close and given something back to my mom and dad. My wife had just given birth to our happy, healthy baby boy Turk.

  Life wasn’t just good, it was great. The best it had ever been. I was never happier.

  And then I almost died.

  What the hell happened to me? I’m supposed to be hunting and fishing with my kids. I’m supposed to be rewarding my wife for all of her love and support. I’m supposed to be kicking ass, ruling the MMA world, being the Baddest Dude on the Planet.

  I’m not supposed to be stretched out, withering away, dying in some hospital in the middle of nowhere, surrounded by a bunch of doctors who can’t determine how sick I am because they are waiting on a part for a CT machine to arrive. Even without a proper diagnosis, they want to cut me open.

  It’s amazing what goes through a man’s mind when he’s in the clutches of death.

  PART I

  RAISED TO BE A CHAMPION

  RAISED TO BE A CHAMPION

  I want you to understand something. It’s real simple. I owe it all to my mom and dad. Who I am. What I am. Where I am.

  Parents put a lot of pressure on their kids to succeed in sports, whether they mean to or not. Some kids can handle the pressure and live up to their parents’ expectations. Other kids can’t, and they fail. It wasn’t like I was being given a choice. I had to win.

  I was born with the talent and the athleticism—those were God-given gifts. But a lot of talented athletes go nowhere. What made me different? More than anything else, my mom and dad, and the rest of my family for that matter, were willing to make sacrifices for me.

  There are a lot of people who helped mold me into a champion, but my mom and dad deserve the credit first, before anyone else. I didn’t grow up with a silver spoon in my mouth. I didn’t grow up like a lot of people think I did, as a spoiled athlete who got his ass kissed all the way through school, and was catered to and coddled. I grew up poor, on a dairy farm in South Dakota, and I had to work for everything I have. A lot of my friends were not allowed to play any sports or participate in other after-school activities. They were farmers, and farm chores came first. We were farmers, too. But my mom and dad let me start wrestling when I was only five years old. I milked cows and shoveled manure like everyone else, but I never missed a wrestling practice.

  My parents got me into every wrestling tournament they could because they wanted me to learn what it was like to compete. As far back as I can remember, weekends meant wrestling tournaments. I can picture myself in the back of the family station wagon for hours on end, watching the farm fields go by, and wondering where we would end up.

  My mom did most of the driving to practices, matches, and tournaments, because my dad had to stay home and work the farm. They both made it whenever they could, but sometimes I had to hitch a ride with another family or my coach. However I got there, my job was to win.

  My mom didn’t accept any excuses. If I lost, it was my fault. Period. I couldn’t blame a loss on the referee, and there were no teammates to let me down. It was just me and the other kid on the mat. One winner. One loser. The outcome was up to me, and me alone.

  When I lost a match—as I did from time to time—it was “admit it, accept it, get in the car, and let’s go home.” My mom’s comments were always brief, and she always said the same thing. “There’s another match next weekend. If you don’t like the way you feel when you lose, then get in there and win. What do you want to be in life? The guy who feels good because he wins, or the guy who feels like you do now because he lost?”

  My mom was pretty stiff, but it turned out to be the best thing for me. It may seem coldhearted, but she loved me enough to make me want to go out there and earn victories. Just like crying was not acceptable if I lost, there was no big celebration if I won. Instead, my mom would just say, “Good job, Brock, now let’s get in the car and go home. You won. That’s what you’re supposed to do.”

  My dad was no different. If I won a trophy, he would say “good job.” If I lost, he would tell me to try harder and win the next time. That was it. The expectations were clear. Losing was not an option.

  Looking back from where I am now, I wouldn’t have had it any other way. Wrestling is a competition. So is life. Even as a kid, I walked into every tournament for one reason—to win. My mom and dad expected no less, and they taught me to never settle for second best. I haven’t.

 
I will never forget how upset my mom was when I lost in the quarter finals of the National Junior College Wrestling Tournament. It was during my freshman year at Bismarck State College in North Dakota. She really wanted me to excel—to stand out. She wanted me not only to live up to my potential, but to do even more. She knew I had been blessed with certain gifts as an athlete, and that I had the ability to push myself harder than anyone else; so why wasn’t I number one? In her mind, there was no reason I shouldn’t be the best, and she wasn’t ever going to let me think second place was “okay.”

  Sure, my mom pushed me hard to win. She saw a passion in me. She saw that I was a competitor. She wanted me to make the most of my natural instincts. I was her last son.

  I was the third of four children, and I feel bad for my siblings because most of the time I was the center of attention. My two older brothers, Troy and Chad, were standout athletes in their own right, but chose not to pursue sports as a career. Over time, they became known as Brock’s brothers. My poor little sister, Brandy, was a very good athlete too, and she excelled at basketball, volleyball, track, and any other sport she decided to play. But no matter how well she did, she still had to live in the shadow of her big brother Brock.

  I won’t lie. Being the center of attention had its perks. But it wasn’t all good. I felt the pressure to succeed, too. What set me apart is that I accepted all challenges.

  At a very young age I developed an inner confidence that I still have today. I don’t know if it’s ego, attitude, arrogance, or something else. But whatever it is, it works for me.

  I think my self-confidence is why, for as long as I can remember, I’ve been the backbone of my family. I am comfortable being the go-to guy. The one people depend on. The one in control. It’s always been that way for me. I still try to take care of my mom and dad, and I will always try to make sure the rest of my family is taken care of. That’s just who I am. It’s up to me, and I look out for the people I love.

  At the same time, I know my limitations. I know I’m not perfect. I know what I know, but more importantly, I know what I don’t know. When I don’t know something, I surround myself with people I can trust to teach me.

  How many times have you seen an athlete who is his own worst enemy? He can’t leave his ego at the door when he walks into the gym or onto the playing field. Nobody can tell him anything. I never had that problem. Every coach I’ve ever had, from kindergarten to college to my current MMA coaching team, will agree: I am coachable.

  I know to this day that it’s so important to have the right coaches around you. A great athlete needs coaches that can see mistakes, work on imperfections, point out what sometimes is the obvious, and motivate. Athletes are too close to the competition, and don’t always see things that a coach may see clear as day.

  I have been very fortunate to have had great coaches, from my youth and high school coach, John Schiley, to my junior college coach, Robert Finneseth, and my University of Minnesota and current professional coach, Marty Morgan. Those two, in particular, deserve a lot of credit.

  The same way my mom made sure that I learned from my mistakes, the nature of the sport of wrestling really brought that lesson home. In wrestling, you can win a tournament one day, and the very next day you might be taken down in the practice room by a B-squadder or a guy who is at the weight below you. That’s why wrestling is such a humbling sport, and why it reinforced the same lessons my mom kept teaching me over and over again.

  Every day with my parents, and in the gym, was a constant reminder. I’m not perfect. I can always make a mistake. One mistake is all it takes. One, simple, stupid, momentary lapse (like the mental mistake I made in my UFC debut against Frank Mir) is all it takes to go from “champion” to “loser.” As soon as you start to think you are too good, that you just can’t slip up, someone will always be there to show you the error of your ways.

  But I had my mom and dad, and they were behind me all the way. If it weren’t for their belief in me, and the sacrifices they made, you would not be reading this book. They are my biggest fans, and I am theirs.

  WRESTLING WITH MY FUTURE

  Farming is the life I enjoy, and the one I look forward to most when my fight is over. I farm now because I choose to—not because it’s all I know. I’m not stuck on my farm. I want to be here. But it wasn’t always that way.

  When I was a junior in high school, I wanted a future that included something more than milking cows and sitting on tractors. It just happened that as I was thinking about how to get off the farm, a National Guard recruiter showed up at my school. My dad was in the Guard, so I didn’t think he’d mind if I signed up. As a matter of fact, I didn’t even ask him; I had my mom co-sign for me.

  Here I was, seventeen years old, on my way to Fort Leonardwood, Missouri. Let me say this for the record, so that everyone who is reading this can understand something. The nine weeks I spent in the National Guard that summer changed my life. I came back home a totally different person, and all for the better.

  The only problem was that I went into the Guard to join the local artillery supply unit. We worked with explosive charges that were coded red and green. That’s what I wanted to do. But after an eye test, which showed that I am red-green color-blind, I was assigned to clerical duty. Can you see my big ass sitting at a computer screen all day? That was not exactly what I had in mind when I signed up. Lucky for me, I couldn’t pass the typing test, and that was the end of my Guard career.

  During guard training, we had to run every morning, which helped me nail a two-mile run in 10:56. When I went back to high school for my senior year, I was in great shape, and I had one more year on the football team with my friends. I even signed a letter of intent to play football at Northern State University in Aberdeen, because I didn’t have any wrestling offers.

  I wanted to run the ball. I had the speed, and I was getting some size. But just as I was starting to rack up some impressive numbers, a defensive back took my knee out, and I had to have knee surgery. That was the end of my high school football career.

  High school wrestling starts when the football season ends. That meant that my knee wouldn’t be completely healed before the first day of wrestling practice. In fact, when wrestling started I was still on my crutches.

  That was bad enough. But to make matters worse, every year since I was in sixth grade, our coach, John Schiley, made us do a six-mile run on the first day of practice. It was called a “gut check,” and everyone was expected to finish if they wanted to be on Schiley’s team. This was my senior year and I was a leader. So I started the six miles on crutches and kept going until the coach was satisfied and let me jump in the back of his pickup. I was disappointed, though, because I had finished that run every year since I was in sixth grade.

  Believe it or not, I was a late developer. As a young kid, I certainly was no heavyweight. I was a string bean.

  In seventh grade, I wrestled at 103 pounds. As a freshman in high school, I was a 152-pounder; sophomore year, I was 160. By my junior year, I was 189 pounds. Finally, as a senior, I made it to the heavyweight division, but only by a couple of pounds.

  Looking at me now, it might be hard to believe that I didn’t even have hair in my armpits when I graduated from high school. I guarantee you I was the last guy to go through puberty in my class. I lifted a lot of weights, and even though I was a six-foot-tall, 210-pound senior, I still looked like nothing more than a big stretched-out kid. Even in my freshman year of college, at my heaviest, I was only 226 pounds.

  Coming up through the high school ranks, I was never a monster by any means. I was just trying to grow into my own skin. But that struggle became a huge positive for me: when I had to wrestle as a 103-pounder, or a 152-pounder, I developed the moves and quickness of a lighter-weight wrestler. When I got to heavyweight, I still had those moves, and I was fast. Had I always been big, I probably would have skated by on strength and size
alone, and I never would have learned to move like I do now.

  In both my junior and senior years in high school, I placed third in the state tourney. But to me, that was nothing special. I was supposed to win. That’s what I came to do.

  Even though I only played football in high school because everyone else did, I was still pretty good at it. In my heart, though, I was a wrestler. Football was just something to do with my friends until the wrestling season started.

  I never thought of myself as a football player, even when I was exploding through the defensive line. I never for a minute thought I was going to play football in college, or at the professional level. When I looked in the mirror, all I ever saw was a wrestler.

  That’s probably why, when things didn’t work out for me with the Minnesota Vikings, I wasn’t all that upset. Instead, in some ways, being the last man cut from the roster only confirmed something I had always known. I can’t hide the fact, and I really don’t want to hide it. I’m proud to say it: I’m not a football player, I’m a fighter. It’s what I do. It’s my passion. It’s my life.

  THE COW-CHIP RECRUIT

  It makes me laugh every time I read one of these articles about how I was a blue-chip athlete and had my ass kissed by recruiters and scouts when I came out of high school. There was no college recruiting war for my services. No under-the-table money. No fancy cars. That’s all bullshit. I placed third in the South Dakota state wrestling tournament. That didn’t exactly put me on the national recruiting radar.