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Overcome Femdom & Findom

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by Coach Nick


  Well, now you are developing those same skills of assertiveness, positivity, calm and people is starting to see you in the same way. They feel safe and alright around you. Sometimes you’ll have to take care of your friends as if they were your children. How does it feel? Fucking amazing. Are girls attracted to guys who have the situation under control when others are freaking out? Yes! Indeed in situations, they perceive as dangerous, they hide behind them not mentioning a lot of touching. Lucky alpha men.

  You got to understand that attraction for men and girls are two different universes.

  To Change Takes Commitment.

  You won’t get there at the first reading of this book and not even after a few days of abstinence. You have to go a lot further to learn and practice what I teach in the next chapters. Remember every time we read or listen to something we assimilate only 5-15% of that. That’s why it’s critical that you read this E-book 10-20 times. As you apprehend it and act on it, again and again, the philosophy I teach will become clearer, and you will become the confident man you can be. A James Bond’s kind man

  CHAPTER 4: TRAINING!

  Well, now that you learned how to preserve your sexual energy, instead of wasting it. It’s time to use it for its creative purpose. Yes! You can use it either to reproduce or to create new forces within yourself. You can model your body and improve your strengths.

  Working Out Will Shape Your Body, Mind, And Spirit.

  Is abstaining from masturbation enough to get the body you want? It’s not! You got to work your ass out. Everything starts with a tremendous desire. You need energy, which you learned how to retain in yourself. Then your belief and constant work will do the rest. Every great achievement is a pure thought mixed with unconditioned faith - it will happen, no matter what! - and persistence - hard work -.

  Do you think if you are not persistent in your work out, you’ll become strong and appealing? Of course, it won’t happen. If you have a desire, start to work on it even if you don’t see any result after the first days or weeks. Will you give up? You will if you don’t have unconditioned faith. Keep on going, and the results eventually will come. Maybe you need few weeks to condition your body and learn what to eat, but then results will come. If you don’t have any vision at all?? You can have all the faith and perseverance you want, but if you don’t know what you want to do, you won’t do anything.

  The three ingredients are essentials. So now you know what you want to do, and this is to become an alpha male, you know how to do it. It’s all explained in this E-book. You have faith because you know it’s possible. I did it before. You have what it takes to achieve it. I promise you, in this process, you will achieve a lot more than becoming an alpha male. You’ll also get all the benefits it brings, as fast as possible because you are following a path already walked.

  Develop The Persistence.

  Is training that necessary? Yes, it is, especially now that you have a full storage of internal energy, ready for its transmutation. You can convert it in many ways. First, we will work on your body, strengths and balance, then on your mind and focus and finally on your career and love-relationships. It does not mean you can stop to cultivate your business and social life while working on yourself. Carry on improving in all areas!

  In this chapter, we will talk about body and strength. What are the benefits you will encounter working out? You’ll become stronger, agile, better looking and disciplined. You shall reach a higher level increasing your persistence. It will be an important step in the transmutation into a reality of your abstract desire to go, from beta boy to alpha man.

  To achieve your goal you have to know how and this book gives you the concrete milestones you need to go through to complete the shift. You are going to use this map to become more alpha and to become alpha so you can enjoy the life you deserve.

  As soon as you own all the three ingredients to achieve anything in life: desire, faith, and persistence, you will enter higher frequencies. You’ll then realize you are the most entitled person to add the fourth and last ingredient, called “how to do it,” to this secret formula. This is the perfect moment to put a concept in your head: in this era of information, it’s absolutely right to use other people experience to get on the right track and to avoid to waste too much time, but you have to pay attention to who you wish to become. What’s your purpose? To answer this question is crucial. Without it, you will never be fulfilled, no matter how much money you earn. So it’s time to start from building your body and your state of mind, then you’ll go after your purpose. Now you want to build the perseverance of a lion within your heart!

  I struggled very much when I was trying to find a way to make my internal shift, but I did it. I’ve accomplished my goal and realized I could share my discoveries with many other people with the same personality disorder. That’s when I decided to write this E-book, which I honestly believe will change many people lives.

  The Diet.

  Now let’s focus on the process: training is the second habit you will have to include in your life to become an active, persistent and balanced man, even in stress conditions.

  I highly suggest you, to pay attention to your diet, because this is another way to acquire energy to transform in the realization of the body you dream. If you ingest low-class energy, you may become fat. Instead, quality food as fruits, vegetables, fibers, proteins, vitamins, magnesium, fats in the right amounts will help your transformation positively.

  Even if you are eating well, you cannot go back to masturbation. You have a goal which is to abstain to rewire your brain and to have more energy and faster results. After the rewiring process you can - with moderation and without porn - masturbate again if you want.

  A Super-Power Called Decision-Making.

  What does training for you? It erases a dangerous but unnoticed habit. Indeed, nobody talks about it. This habit is killing most of the people’s dream. It’s called hesitation. We all have a tendency to hesitate, instead of doing the little actions that could improve our life. Why’s that? Well, the reason is that our brain has the function to keep us away from what he perceive as dangerous. And every time you hesitate your brain will receive a stress signal, so I’ll do all in its power to keep you away from that action, that it perceive as dangerous. The reality is that this habit is entirely preventing you from improving your life. What’s the solution? Wake yourself up reminding that you will never be motivated to do difficult things, the human’s brain is only motivated to do easy things, and that you are a decision away from a better life. Just take action. Watch my video, google or youtube: “How to avoid findom - The 5 seconds rule” for more info. Training you’ll develop a quality which must become a habit, called “Decision Making.” When you are, doing push-ups, it will hurt you, and your brain will start a garbage based inner dialogue, “I better stop if I don’t want to get an injury,” “I have used too many energies for today, better stop or I’ll feel bad.” Hello, McFly I have a notice for you, if you avoid pain, you’ll get nowhere. That one push-up more, done every day can give an incredible boost to your body’s growth. This concept does not apply only to bodybuilding, but to anything in life.

  Now you understand how training can change your endurance, and make you a man that complete all the small, uncomfortable but necessary actions to be successful in business and with women.

  Do you think, to be able to see a beautiful girl and to go straight to approach her with confidence, could improve your life? Yes! Straight decision-making is a superpower nowadays since most men don’t have this ability.

  Obviously, training won’t automatically make you “Casanova,” neither a successful business owner. You will have to work towards those goals to get those qualities. How? Bypass your fears, of rejection and failure and work every day on that. Relentless. No excuse.

  Form New, Powerful Habits.

  Once what I teach in this E-book will become a habit for you, suddenly and automatically your dominant personality will arise. You will
be submissive only in bed and only when you want to relax and feel powerless. You will never be a slave of your sexuality anymore. Instead, you will control it.

  The Law of Average.

  When you start to get in a better shape than your friends and colleagues, they will start to criticize and try to discourage you. They’ll joke about your perseverance, tell you that you are becoming anti-social, etc.

  Probably when you first told them that you were going to train, they said you: <> insulting your ass <>, but when they see that you are committed and getting results. You will become their nightmare. You will show them what they could have become if they were not so lazy. They’ll say things like <>, you’ll answer them: <>. What is happening now? You are a reflection of their failures, lack of persistence, lack of focus and you always remind them of their lost dreams. They will try to hold you back expressing “objective” opinions. Truth to be told, they are trying to instill doubts in you to keep you low and average. I doubt they will influence you because now you know what’s happening. Don’t be angry with them, be compassionate. They are weak, and they are confirming you that you are going in the right direction.

  Your wife, your mother or your best friend may be the one trying to get you out of your dreams.

  Be WARNED wasting too much time discussing with them, will only distract you. You need only to be focused on your goal. That’s how you achieve it. Go for the body of your dreams.

  Giving importance to average people will make the difference between you being the loser of your town for the rest of your days, or you moving in the house of your dreams, with a wealthy neighborhood of happy and fulfilled people, who will challenge you to become better and better.

  Now just a few important reminders: The goal of this book, is not to make a one way, dominant person and to erase your submissive part completely. My purpose is to make you an alpha man, with a dynamic, yet mysterious character, who will be able to lead his woman/women to get joy from a complete, respectful, colorful and never boring relationship. The other goal is to help you to discover what makes you passionate and to live a wealthy and pleasurable lifestyle doing that.

  This book has the power to bring you step by step into a higher state of mind which will allow you to become the best version of yourself.

  In the next chapter, I will teach you how to learn to control your state of mind continuously. How to go from frustrated/pissed off to happy and back in your center. Always!

  I know you think it’s normal that your thoughts dominate your mind and that you have no control over them. You have been taught this limiting story, but when you learn the power of focus, you will understand how limits make most people average.

  CHAPTER 5: FOCUS – CONTROL YOUR STATE OF MIND!

  It’s finally time to concentrate on mental strengths. You have to commit to staying permanently in happy states of minds.

  You are now, perfectly able to understand and assimilate this concept. It will gradually become easier and finally natural for you to control your state of mind on all occasions. This resource will make you a perfect leader. When you can shift from a fearful to a relaxed state of mind, and this vibration positively influences people around you, you are a real leader!

  Why is it so important to control the state of mind? Because if you don’t, you will never get the results you want out of life. Some people are permanently sad. And they think that’s their personality. Of course, that’s not the case! Indeed this is just a sensation. They just decided to make of that sensation their new home. But don’t you think it’s time to change this story? To live most of your life in a particular state of mind, can be good. In this case, it will take the best out of you. But if you are in a bad one it’ll depress you. It will deprive you of life’s joy.

  Two Opposite Ways of Focusing.

  The first one is a man, a teacher. We all know that teachers are one of the greatest yet most underappreciated and underpaid assets. In this job your upside potential earning, even after a long career is very limited. All you can do is to give value to maximum a bit more than 30 students. So this teacher, as many others in the world do, think, “I’ll never make enough money doing what I love.” But this is a limiting belief. A story that society told us and teacher who believe in it will never live a life of wealth doing what they love. But a South Korean’s teacher decided to create a new story for himself.

  The second story is about success and a proper use of focus.

  Kim Ki-Hoon, a South Korean teacher, is known as the “rock star.” He refused to buy that limiting story.

  Now he is one of the most successful teachers in his country. How did he become so successful? He worked harder on himself than on his job. He found all the best teachers and put enormous time into studying their patterns and how to create breakthroughs. He found ways to help his students to learn faster and smarter; then he didn’t stop there. Not only his students, he thought <> He realized he could put his classes online, making his passion available to everyone. Last year he earned 4$ million. Ki-Hoon’s story shutters the belief that teacher’s profession is not lucrative.

  He proved that you can earn doing anything you love, and that focusing on the right questions, the needed answers come.

  Your focus controls your state of mind. But how can you control your focus? Tony Robbins discovered that our focus is our questions. Ask yourself high-quality questions, and you will get better quality answers, which will reflect on your state of mind, giving you a better quality life.

  Arnold Schwarzenegger.

  This incredible man has given us an incredible amount of priceless advice. He confirmed that the most important thing to do is to have a very clear vision, of what you are going to do because only then you’ll do it. He said: <
  Tony Robbins said: <>.

  If you are constantly worrying or just thinking of things that haven’t any connection with your goal, instead of thinking how to achieve what you want. You are going to get the answers about what you are “asking.”

  The kind of questions are you going to ask yourself are directly proportional to the quality of your life! If you sow weeds, you can’t hope for flowers. If you sow good, you reap good. If you sow bad, you reap bad. Google “the law of sowing and reaping” by Jim Rohn -. If your question is: <>, <> Your brain will start to look for ways to do that. Exactly this is what focus does. It brings you into the necessary state of mind to operate, which will give you the fuel to go after your vision.

  We all know the story of Schwarzenegger. The body he has. We are aware he has been one of the highest paid actors in Hollywood and that he’s been California’s governor, with no previous political experience. <> is one of his most famous quotes.

  Focus And Work Ethic - The Combo to Manifest your dreams.

  <> You already know that you control it with the questions you ask yourself. By the way, to do it, you need to lower the bad habits as television, cinema, wrong friends, discouraging family people and start to feed yourself of conversations with high achievers and fulfilled people, going to seminars, reading biographies, etc. Average people instill in
you, doubts. Successful people push you forward.

  Focus. This quality when developed will make you able to stay in the present moment and your chores, no matter if people is screaming or trying to distract you.

  Learning to use this skill properly can bring you back from a submissive to a dominant attitude in 1 second. It will make you very unpredictable. Your strong, complex and mysterious personality will make girls go crazy for you!!

  I know, and even you know by now, that what I am writing is real, entirely achievable and probably you are already experimenting the change within yourself.

  CHAPTER 6: BECOME AN ACHIEVER, THE ABILITY TO TRANSLATE DREAMS INTO REALITY!

  In the first four chapters, you’ve learned how to improve your skills. Now it’s finally time to make them alive in your business - this chapter - and social and sexual - next chapter- life. You will learn how to get to the ultimate level. You’ll discover the secrets to become a leader, a successful businessman and how to be attractive to women, no matter what your sexual desires are.

  At this point, you are fearless and courageous enough to understand who you are and what you want to achieve in life. You got what it takes to discover/create the primary purpose that will drive you through life.

  Probably you want to know how an idea can drive you? Well, the reason is that your goal will revive all of your lost dreams and emotions. It’ll bring you into a state of mind, which can be either productive or destructive, it’s up to you.

 

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