Overcome Femdom & Findom

by Coach Nick

  What do you think “did he burnt the boats”? Yes! He did, I agree. “He had an incredible faith his goal would have turned reality.

  These two tails gave you a taste of what to have faith means. Not saying go and risk all your money as Elon Musk did. Many of the wealthiest men alive would never do that. He did it because he loved id. He said: <> Trust your guts. Follow your dreams. Take a decision and burn all of your alternatives.

  The belief will make you act on it, and the universe will help you to achieve the impossible.

  Be Confident, But Keep a Gentle Touch.

  I recommend. Consider what life gives to you simply a gift and treat it gently. Don’t become avid. Don’t expect it to be yours forever. Let it be free- This applies to both women - or people in general - and material things. If you try to force things to stay in your life, you are going to lose them for sure. It shows that you are afraid of losing them. Which in Universe language means “I don’t deserve these things.”

  Now you can understand the importance of following all this E-book’s steps. Exercising your body increased your strength, and balance, even in a stress’ condition. You learned how to protect your woman with strength when she needs it, but not to crush her with an oppressive grab – which would either push her away or, even worst kill her -. To train your mind is developing a stronger ability to be relaxed, during tough times and to spread this peaceful state to others. This ability is critical in business. Indeed it leads the companies to get the best results. And it’s what a real leader can do and why this kind of presence is a necessity in businesses that aim to great success!

  A new Leader is Born.

  Finally, you got the capability to control your focus and to believe. You love to work every day in the direction of your dreams. Indeed it turns you on to know you’re improving. It wakes you up in the morning. You cannot help it. Add to this the fact that in the first chapters of this book I gave you some routines - as to abstain from masturbation, to train and to learn to control your mind-state – to improve your discipline and you get the perfect cocktail for success. If tough times would come and you were not prepared, enthusiasm could be not enough to protect your dreams.

  Now you got all it takes to translate your dreams into reality. Others people will believe, work on it and love your - that, don’t make any mistake, if they invest their time and efforts in it, it also becomes theirs - vision as much as you do.

  Be ready to share success with others, or lose it all!

  Ps: at the beginning, when you start to work on your dreams it could be difficult to stay always in the present moment. What do you have to do? Just start to work. It will help you to develop a stronger discipline and passion towards your “work.”

  Get rid of all the resistance, that society instilled in your mind through the fear of failure and the fear of success. You deserve success.

  CHAPTER 7: DOMINANT BEHAVIOUR: NEVER PURSUE WOMEN & THEY’LL PURSUE YOU!

  You can be a true alpha male, the leader of your relationship and still, let your woman dominate you in the bedroom. I’ll show you through my vast experience on the subject:

  1) What makes a man dominant.

  2) Many women fantasize about dominating a man.

  The Legend Says Women Don’t Like to Dominate in The Bedroom.

  I know this may be surprising for you, because of what you have read on the internet, or what women told you when you asked if they like to dominate men. Yes, the majority of women write/give answers like: <>. But you got to understand that women are emotional creatures (not rational as men are). They need to be melt. Only after it, they will be positively responsive to any sexual activities. You could ask a girl <> and most probably she’ll refuse. On the other hand, if you seduce a woman and get laid she will probably give you a blow-job!

  Women are very different from men. If you want to be successful with them, you need to understand what turns them on. 97% of males, don’t have any idea on the subject.

  Good looks attract masculine energy. Confidence attracts feminine energy.

  Why do many women say they want a caring and cute boyfriend? Reality says that kind of men is usually friend-zoned. Movies taught them that they like nice guys. But in real life, they gravitate around confident men. Does it mean if a guy is kind he cannot be confident? No! That would be the perfect male.

  Every woman dreams of a confident man that can take care of her in all areas of life. Weak men are often not able to provide a woman the comforts, the understanding, the leadership and the sex she needs.

  If you have high confidence, a woman will be lead to you, even if she thinks to don’t like you. When she likes you, it doesn’t matter how busy she may be. She’ll always find the time to stay with you.

  To be a real alpha male you have to learn to read her level of attraction always. It will avoid you waste of time on girls that don’t like you, and you’ll know how to keep her level of attraction at the 9/10 range.

  Always Read Your Woman – Understand women’s Language.

  Let’s organize the level of attraction numerically – from 0 to 10 - as I learned and I am reporting almost literally from Coach Corey Wayne’s E-book:

  “0-4: There is no chance of you going out with her and of her falling in love with you. When you talk to her, she looks elsewhere, and it seems she is thinking: “I hope one of my girlfriends comes up and saves me because I don’t want to talk with him anymore. She avoids to make eye-contact with you and give you one-word answers. If you ask: <> She answers: <>. When you call her to set up a definite date, she claims to be too busy and says: <> not coming up with a specific night she is available, or she just asks you to call back to confirm. In this case, she will probably not take your call or come up with a last minute excuse.

  5-6: When you approach her she will give you a hard time to give you her telephone number. She will make eye contact with you when you speak. She will answer your questions and tell you something more about it. You say: <> Response: <>. Women love to talk when they like you.

  Before the appointment, she may call you at the last minute to try to change your plans. In that case, unless it’s an emergency you don’t accept it and tell her something like: <>. This strategy’s the “take away,” then if she says: “ok let’s do it another time” without naming a specific time and day, then wait a whole full week before calling her to make another date. If another problem presents itself, then you know her level of attraction now is lower than 5. Move on!

  6-7: This is the range where the girls which really like you initially will be. She will give you her contact information easily. The appointment will be funny.

  7-8: She stay as close as possible to you, she touch your arm. She is really interested in what you have to say and laugh at your jokes. If she compliments you for your t-shirt, it’s her way to say she likes you.

  8-9: If you are meeting her for the first time she will give you her contact info without you even having to ask for it. After the first appointment, she will be calling and pursuing you heavily. She texts you things like: <>, she calls you to say: <>.

  9-10: This is when she is really in love and feels the butterflies in her stomach for you. She will tell you things like: <>, which is her way of saying: <>.

  She says:<>, she is very affectionate. When you pick her up, she jumps into your arms. She kisses you. She wants to hold your hand. Being with you is like a drug to her. She will do just anything you want. She bu
ys you gift, leaves you notes, defends you, etc. – not all girls do these things -

  When a woman is in love with you, she wants your attention all of the time. The question is: <> The answer is: only after you work on your business, body, hobbies, passions, meeting friends, etc. All your free time go to her if you want to. Your priorities first, then your girl. This will create anticipation and will make her wanting you more and more. It’s important that you give her time to desire you. She wants to talk to her girlfriends about you. She wants to wonder where she stands for you. Not pursuing her will cause her to pursue you, which is what she wants. Girls are more attracted to men which feelings are unclear.

  I know that many girls who like the concept of female independence, as nearly 90% of the findoms, will say that these things are not real. They will refuse to admit it. Actually, they are not lying. Indeed they are not like this on average, but when they get emotionally attached to a man everything changes. Remember, women are emotional beings.

  Your goal is to keep your girl’s level of attraction always at the 9-10 range. Watch for all touching, affection, compliments, and I love you all to start to drop as her level of attraction drops. As it drops, she will start testing you more and more to find your weaknesses.

  So what do you have to do? Basically, all the things you did in the courtship: being your own man, building anticipation, being completely unpredictable are necessary. The courtship never ends.

  Many men think: <>. Stay alerted man; this is not how it works. Not even a girl in the world dream this out of her life and probably she won’t tolerate such a bore for long.” Other men after being cool during the courtship, become weak and put the girl before anything else - hobbies, passions, etc. – after few months. This will cause her level of attraction to drop, as you are no more your own man and you don’t give her anymore any chance to wonder about your feelings.

  Crucial it’s also to understand that when your girl wants to talk to you. She just wants to speak. She’s not asking for your advice. Men are rational beings, and their brain always looks for solutions. Women are not like that. They just want to talk, and this will make them feel relieved! If you listen to her, she will listen to you. If your woman wants your advice she will ask for it saying: <> In this case, give her your opinion about it.

  For a woman is important to know her man is really into knowing how she feel and what her feelings are. If you do this for her, trust me she’ll give you enjoyable and pleasurable prizes – like sweetness and sexual pleasure -.

  Listen More, Speak Less.

  You have to develop an outstanding quality. Listen more (and speak less), and you will find yourself to be always listened by others when you speak. Plus you will be mysterious, charming, like James Bond and will make many women go crazy for you. Great leaders possess this quality!

  I bet some of you now is thinking, “but I never speak, I always let other people lead speak.” I am not talking about being silent because you are too shy to talk. Neither about to let other people speaking while you are absent-minded. What I mean is that you are really into what other people says and you ask questions because you are curious to know more. Asking questions is a great way to lead a conversation.

  Dating, Seduction, And Sex – The Power of Emotional Connection.

  You can either meet girls who are already curious about “power exchange” or you can meet vanilla girls, seduce them and then gently introduce them to the fantasies you want to experience.

  The first kind of woman will easily end up doing something “fetish” the first night. The second ones are looking for a relationship, and once you get in their head, they can give you more satisfaction.

  So unless you know that a particular girl is interested in fetishes, at the first appointment just be yourself, but don’t say things like: <> or <> You have to lead the situation and make the things happen. Women are emotional beings. Don’t give her a list of your fetishes. Not only this is annoying, because it kills the mystery, but is also an indicator that you think you are spending your time with a sexual object and not with a person.

  You want to create romance, that’s what women are after. They love the process of seduction.

  - You can meet a girl in real life, or in online dating and get straight to the point. But you have to be excellent at it. If you are into foot fetish or ballbusting, you can offer her a foot massage or make her think she wants to kick you in the balls. Playing on the fact that men are superior to women. I repeat you have to be good at it. Be playful and funny all the time. Make it appear as something casual, but when she understands you like it, don’t try to hide it. It would be silly.

  How to behave on a date? As a charming and confident gentleman. You got to seduce her. Play and flirt with her during the appointment. Have fun and behave as the alpha man that you are. Look her in the eyes, and touch her. Many males speak all the time, trying to impress her. Nothing could be more wrong. This is a clear sign of insecurity and girls notice these things. Always!

  What you have to do is much easier. Be yourself, ask her questions and let her do 70-80% of the talking. If you want to bring the things to a fetish level – after 30-60 minutes – start to play in a different way. If she is wearing beautiful high heels, compliment her. Then say something like, “I don’t understand how girls can walk on them.” with a smile. If her answer don’t mention that they do hurt, then ask her: <> She will probably say that they do. Then keeping the eye-contact you should confidently say confidently: <> Don’t wait for her answer, just get closer to her, caress her leg and looking her in the eyes gently, but with decision take her legs and put them on your ones. Maintaining the eye-contact take her shoes off and start to massage her feet, and suddenly say something casual: <>, in this way you are completely leading the situation. You are avoiding embarrassing situations, which girls hate! Carry on massaging her feet and raise the tension again, making it as sexual as you wish. Watch her reactions; this will tell you if she finds it arousing, pleasurable or if she hates it. Tell her she has gorgeous feet. Then slowly bring a foot close to your mouth, maintaining the eye-contact, and give it a kiss. Just put her shoes back on and speak a bit more. Ask for the bill, pay it, giving a decent tip to the waiter. Then as a gentleman stand up and walk out arm in arm with her.

  As you walk towards the car, look her in the eyes and with the necessary decision, softly kiss her on the lips. She will be turned on from your confidence, even if she does not accept the kiss. End of the appointment.

  After 3-4 days, call her and organize another appointment within few days. Most of the girls are ready to have sex with a man they like at the end of the second or third date. You have to guide the interaction, leading it to the sexual intercourse – it does not mean talk about sex -. She doesn’t want to feel responsible for the sex which is going to happen. Have a bottle of wine or some cocktail ready at home.

  While you are out, kissing and petting, just stop and say: <> she will perfectly know what intentions are. If she won’t feel ready, she will let you know it. Never get impatient. Just talk about something else and enjoy the time spent together. After a while when she starts to kiss you again say: <>. She will obviously want to say yes, she is really into you. But maybe she will refuse. Try again!

  Ps: You can avoid bringing feet massages or fetishes talks up at the first appointment. Unless you feel pretty bold and you suspect she may be into that. I would wait when we are in the bedroom to start to play with her. Tickling her feet or in other ways. I prefer to use the firsts dates to make her feel my male presence.

  6 Mistakes to Avoid & States of Mind to Adopt.

  1) When you a
pproach a girl you have to be in the state of mind, “I am a catch if she doesn’t like me, it’s her loss.” It’s full of girls out there! It’s called abundance mentality.

  2) When you call her to set a date, don’t talk for more than 10 minutes on the phone, then come up straight with a definite appointment. The telephone must be used exclusively to set dates. Don’t give her info about what you are going to do during the date. Let her wonder.

  3) At the date, you don’t have to talk too much. Let her do 70-80% of the talking. You just have to make her questions and let her speak. And when she ask something about you, answer in a light-hearted way and ask something else to her. Women love to talk; the conversation will flow. – On average men say, 2.000 words per day and women 8.000. Let her talk, discover all you can about her so she won’t know a lot about you. Wondering=Mystery=Attraction.

  4) Never more than 2-3 messages, then just come up with a definite appointment. If after you set it up, she still messages you back, answer: <
  5) Hesitation: this is the worst attraction killer. Go for the kiss. It’s bold to have the guts to kiss her, and she will love it. You can do everything right, but if you don’t kiss her at the first appointment, she will perceive you as weak. Which in women vocabulary means unattractive.

  6) Don’t delay the conclusion. Create the opportunity for sex. And just go for it. You will feel much better after it. And she will start to fall in love with you.

  How do Women Test Your Masculine Energy?

  The most classical example of how a woman test your center? She doesn’t answer to your messages, or she stops responding with no reason. Indeed she may be doing it on purpose to see your reaction. If you are successful with women, you will just wait till she answers - and answers her back as soon as you are free, after work, gym or the night out -.