The Amateur Science of Love

by Craig Sherborne

  The important thing was that we were taking every opportunity to look at each other. Doing it while the other wasn’t noticing, though of course we were noticing. You don’t need eyes for noticing. You watch each other with your skin. I scanned for her every blemish, any petty reason to criticise her. A final excuse to curb my deranging. I could not find a single problem. Nor could she in me, going by our hour together. We did not touch. We did not kiss. There was no embracing. We were standoffish in a courting way, quaint old-fashioned courting. There was no chaperone but might as well have been.

  Two issues were most on Donna’s mind: if we wanted to take our attraction further there was Ruth to consider. ‘As I’ve said, I won’t do a cheap casual fling. If I was twenty and childless…But I am not twenty and childless. I don’t want a daughter who grows up thinking her mother entertained men.’

  ‘Fair enough.’

  ‘If, say, we went further with this, are you okay with taking on a child? Ruth comes with me, to state the obvious. Are you sure about that?’

  Ruth had not crossed my conscience. Donna’s ‘taking on a child’ had a forbidding ring. But the deranging doesn’t consider anything except its own immediate needs. ‘I’m sure. Absolutely,’ I said, turning up my palms as if never so certain in my life.

  The second issue was Tilda. Donna did not like the prospect of another woman being hurt. A woman who has never harmed her, never done her wrong. ‘Has she ever harmed you?’ She asked me this as if hoping for yes.

  ‘No.’ I was tempted to make up something, some lie about Tilda being unfaithful to me. There was no time to construct a credible tale complete with lover’s name and sordid details. Nor did I fancy the image of me as victim: a heartbroken man did not appeal to me as manly. What’s more, I did not want to fill her pretty ears with ugly lies. I mumbled off a list of marital complaints, trying not to sound too whiney. I was locked into a life of lovelessness, I said. I was far too young when I settled down. I told of the abortion and said it was all my doing. I hoped my honesty would impress her as brave, a full airing of dirty laundry. In a modern world only the welfare classes and the dumbest boys father children when they’re not much more than children themselves.

  She nodded agreement at my reasoning. She said she’d never had an abortion but would if necessary.

  I did mention Tilda’s rifle and weedkiller moments. Donna shook her head and said, ‘That must be difficult.’

  I avoided mentioning Tilda’s cancer directly. It could only make my courting Donna sound disgraceful. But she wasn’t about to let it pass. ‘It does add another dimension,’ she said.

  ‘It’s in remission.’

  ‘Even so.’

  ‘Yeh. You’re right.’

  ‘Who knows what would have happened if Cameron had lived. Would we have lasted? I presume so. I was content with him. He bore his disease lightly. He was not a complainer and I loved him. I never felt the desire to stray. Therefore I was never tested. But you have been tested. And I’m in the position of being the accomplice, if that’s the word.’

  ‘Does it put you off?’

  ‘It makes me take a breath. Then I think: It would be preferable, of course, if there was never mess or pain when two people are drawn together. But it’s not always realistic.’

  ‘So you are definitely drawn to me?’

  ‘I am.’

  I wanted to reach across the table and feel her hand, get contact with her skin. She must have sensed this and considered skin contact wrong just yet. She leant back and checked her watch and said, ‘It’s close to five. I have to organise dinner for Ruth. What time will Tilda start wondering where you are?’

  ‘Good point. I better go.’

  What a deliciously awkward few seconds came next. I stood and wanted to step forward and kiss and smell and caress her. Restraint is such a delicacy. I was teetering on the edge of her body and could not move.

  We agreed I would ring her tomorrow. I was to let her know immediately if I changed my mind. I said I had no intention of changing my mind but she reserved the right to be cautious: she feared letting go of her heart and having me change my mind and stay with Tilda.

  ‘I won’t change my mind.’ I did step forward at this point. The teetering was too much—I had to act on it.

  Donna held up a halting hand. ‘Don’t,’ she motioned with her head that Ruth might come in.

  I apologised for being impetuous. I opened the sliding door and smiled goodbye. I drove home.

  If you could call it home. It was no home to me now. It was a place I was forced to part from Donna to go to. It was a place I did not want to arrive at. Then, having arrived, loathed. It was nothing but a place to be hostile in. Me, the betrayer, blamed Tilda for it all. To become the betrayer makes you turn on the betrayed. Why? Because they are the obstacle to your desire. They are the reason for your guilt. Hostility is the only option. The mere sight of Tilda brought it out of me. From the moment I got home to my un-home I ground my teeth and mocked Tilda in my thoughts. Can’t you see I do not love or need you or care for you anymore? Can’t you tell where I’ve been? Don’t you see Donna in my eyes? Are you blind? Are you stupid? Surely you can hear her in my silence.

  She tried to kiss me hello: ‘How was your day? Would you like a beer?’

  I was not going kiss her, no way, not even a peck. ‘No, I do not want a beer,’ I said with raised voice. ‘No, I am not hungry. No, I have not had a bad day. No, I am not in a bad mood.’

  Couldn’t you decipher my secret, Tilda? I’d had the most glorious day. A day of craving the body of another woman. A day of being in lust and plummeting in love. Couldn’t you make that out in me? ‘No, I am not going to massage you tonight. Can I not have one night off? One night of freedom from stroking that fucking log of an arm?’

  I told her I had no intention of naming her new picture tonight. Call it a pile of shit for all I care. I complained about the smell of turps through the house. ‘Fuck, I hate the stink. Air it out. Fuck! I’m sleeping in the futon room tonight. The turps is soaked into your flesh. It’s like sleeping with petrol. Am I supposed to be attracted to petrol? I don’t care if I am being hurtful. I am speaking my mind. See my lips move? That’s me speaking my fucking mind. Goodnight. I’m off to bed. You just stay there crying, there’s a good girl. Here, borrow my handkerchief—you can’t say I don’t comfort you.’

  I felt entirely justified in my cruelty. I felt powerful and right. I quipped, ‘You might want to consider skolling some weedkiller like you used to promise. Whatever happened to that promise? Why don’t you buy some tomorrow? Or get a rifle? Do yourself a favour and top yourself. Goodnight, sweetheart. Sleep well. Don’t disturb me.’

  I got halfway up the stairs before Tilda’s sobbing got to me. I turned around, hung my head, trudged towards her intending to be kindly and say I was tired, overtired from being busy at work. She was seated on the edge of dinner table, weeping into her hands. I turned back to the stairs, mounted them quickly before the weeping did its job and had me weakened and apologising and acting tenderly. I congratulated myself for not having given in. I muttered, ‘Do yourself a favour and top yourself, Tilda. You’d be doing me a favour as well. That would solve my problem.’

  In bed I wished it upon Tilda, death. I wished it like saying my prayers: now I lay me down to sleep, I pray she dies before the end of the week. I wanted to kill her. How could I do it and not be found out? Was there a way of stopping her breathing without evidence?

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  Sleep brainwashes us clean like a natural remorse system. If it wasn’t for sleep we might act on all our impulses, never have doubts to keep us rational. If it wasn’t for sleep I might have smothered Tilda with a pillow that night. Sleep did the decent thing and dreamt it out of me, sweated it out of me with horror-dreaming of being utterly alone, desolate. I was in a paddock and mourning, not for any particular person, not
at first. Just mourning my own desolation. Then I realised I was also mourning for Tilda. She was dead in my dream and I was begging the dream to bring her back to life. The colour of the dream was like photo negatives.

  I brought her breakfast in bed next morning—Vegemite on toast and a mug of milky Nescafé. She gave a faint nod of thanks but did not squeeze my hand when I cupped hers, or respond with a nuzzle into her pillow when I kissed her temple. Her temple was dank with hot hair. I could see where a crow’s-foot of tears had rolled over it through the night and dried crusty.

  I began saying, ‘I said some awful things last evening. I’m…I get wound up in my work…I feel dreadful and I want you to forget I opened my cakehole and said those awful things…’

  She made no attempt to assure me I was forgiven. Not so much as an eyelid twitch of recognition that she had heard me.

  ‘Eat your toast before it gets cold,’ I said, touching her chin. I was resolved to driving to the Hastings Road phone that instant. I was going to lay down the law to Donna Wilkins. ‘I am not going to pursue a relationship with you,’ I was going to say. ‘Finished. Over. I am not going to break my wife’s heart. I can’t do it. I don’t have it in me. I can’t do it.’

  I whispered ‘I love you’ to Tilda, kissed the lobe of her ear. A desperate I love you to reel back the life I was only yesterday prepared to let slip. There was still no eyelid movement or parting of the lips from her. ‘Oh well, then,’ I sighed. I was impatient for a reward for my gentle effort. I was prepared to relent to mutual servicing if she showed gratitude for my tenderness and kiss. I expected a return I love you too even if it sounded automatic.

  I deserved the silent treatment. But as I drove to Hastings Road I could not help but feel an injustice. Why couldn’t she have blinked or relented with one little lip-corner smile? Why couldn’t she have given me something to go on with instead of blank rebuffing? Just one little lip-corner smile. By the time I pulled onto the gravel beside the phone box I was brooding on being taken for granted by Tilda. Was I supposed to beg and crawl to her? I’m worth more than silent treatments.

  I was in no good humour to queue to make a call. Three girls—aged fifteen, if a day—had wheeled their baby prams into an arc of waiting and smoking. A fourth girl was in the box on the phone. Housing Commission types with oily unbrushed scalps, tracksuit pants, black moccasins.

  ‘Excuse me,’ I said gruffly, as if interviewing them. ‘Is there a problem with this telephone? I’m Colin Butcher from the Wimmera Wheatman. There have been reports of vandalised public phones. I have to check this one for a story I’m doing on how viable our phone network is to cope with bushfire season.’

  That got me to the head of the queue, huffing loudly enough to rush the current user into hanging up. Once in the box I said, ‘Do you mind all standing back, please. Back further, please. Thank you.’ It got me privacy.

  I was still determined to finish it, the Donna thrill. The brainwashing horror-dream was still fresh in me. Daytime does reduce the power of nightmares, however; the sun shines down a calming light. But I was determined to finish it. I just hoped it would not be too brief or blunt a call. I intended to explain that I was not a weak man but I was resigned to the dutifulness of my marriage, even at the expense of my happiness or the affections of my heart.

  Passion too has a brainwashing ability. Once in your system it makes bad dreams fade from the memory fast. I did not finish things with Donna during the call. It felt too good to be on the end of her voice. Too good to hear her excited at hearing my voice. She asked if I had changed my mind, and when I said I hadn’t she said ‘Excellent’ and ‘I was worried you might.’

  ‘No need to be worried. I’m very sure about what I’m doing.’ Just saying this made me feel surer and stand more fixedly in my shoes. I told her there was tension between Tilda and me. I did not mention my cruel tongue, of course. I used ‘frosty’ to describe us. I used ‘a difficult evening with unpleasant exchanges of words.’ I said, ‘There is a…what’s the word…a realignment happening inside me. Like I’ve changed my focus. My focus is you—you’re who I think about. Not Tilda.’ Which sounded so clear-cut. I even told her Tilda and I slept in separate beds last night. ‘I can’t sleep with her any longer. It’s like I’d be unfaithful to you.’

  Donna gasped that she wished she could hold me and give me strength for what must be so harrowing.

  Yes, I would love to be held, I replied. I reckoned I could swing another Watercook trip in the afternoon if she wanted, on the pretext of more work being needed on the rye-grass-resistance story. I said I could swing anything if it meant seeing her.

  ‘There’s a playgroup in town. I could leave Ruth there for an hour.’

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  I liked Donna’s term keep company. It had her smell on it—citrus and aniseed from the gels she showered with. I liked her long, coy way of saying the word—commpanyyy. She made it sound like a foreign language. Tilda’s congressing was pompous, like she was better than fucking, too good for it.

  I never intended keeping company in Donna’s house. When I arrived I was hoping for her to hold me like she said she wanted to, but even that seemed unlikely given her shyness and hesitancy. I had to make the first move. I asked her, ‘Can I have that embrace we talked about on the phone?’

  She kept her head down and took two slow steps my way. I took a step her way to meet her more quickly. Contact. We made contact. Slow and tender contact, as if our skins might bruise. Citrus and aniseed were all through her hair. There was a peppermint breeze from her lips as they parted upward onto mine. She was shorter than Tilda, which meant a more physical kiss: I had to strain and lower my head down more.

  We almost didn’t go further. I pulled away on seeing her brass bed reflected in the hallway mirror. It had four pillows—two each side. Her and Cameron’s pillows. Their bed, not Donna’s and mine. I tried to ignore that line of thought. I adjusted my kissing position to a deeper and more strenuous hold. I stepped towards the bedroom, still kissing, keeping Donna in step with me. I was not rushing her. I stepped and stopped, stepped and stopped, and she kept in time—a walk-dance. At that moment I thought of Tilda: how I was breaking faith with her. But it was a thought no more than a heartbeat long. Breaking faith was easy. I had given over completely to breaking it now. I slipped my fingers under Donna’s blouse and rubbed the small of her back to test her willingness. She pressed on tiptoes to kiss her yes.

  But the mirror reflection kept bothering me. We could not do it on his bed, Cameron’s bed. We could not do it in his house. You don’t have to be alive to be a presence. I unkissed my mouth from hers to explain: ‘It’s not like I’m feeling his eyes looking on. It’s just, I’d love somewhere neutral. Somewhere ours.’

  Her eyelids were half closed with willingness. She came down off her tiptoes, pulled her blouse straight and licked her bottom lip like a way of kissing herself to keep the kissing going. This drew me back to kissing. Then to stepping. The ‘neutral’ idea could not compete against resting my hands on her hips, running them up over her ribs to her bra strap. Then a breath, a pause to concentrate and savour what my hands were about to do. They were about to shift around onto two breasts. Two not one. No scar, no elephant fatness in the sandy shaved pit of her arm.

  I could not stop looking at them. As we crabbed onto the bed her breasts transfixed me—two not one, as if two were unusual and I had never seen them before. Their little noses of nut-nipple, softer than Tilda’s body-part nipple. We were unwrapping each other from our clothes yet I had to slow up and stare at them, give my lips the pleasure of rubbing both. I said nothing of this to Donna. I just revelled in her to the point of over-delight. I had to close my eyes or else I’d need mathematics. I concentrated on removing my shoes, taking a moment to unlace and settle. Two breasts not one. And ribs not poking out but covered with a healthy layer of flesh. Rounded buttock and thigh, strong not skinny.


  It is impossible not to compare one lover to another, even as you’re climbing into them. I was thinking how Donna’s diaphragm was not as deep in as Tilda’s. I butted its rubber and refrained from thrusting quite so deeply.

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  I could feel Cameron’s shape in the bed. The scoop where his body slept on the mattress. Even if I changed sides his scoop was still there under me. Donna put it down to my imagination but conceded somewhere neutral would be preferable. She agreed it didn’t seem right stepping over children’s toys and dolls in the hall and then doing what we were doing. Having been spreadeagled in one another’s arms, it was hardly romantic to get up and wash us from the sheets because Ruth liked to get into bed with her mother in the mornings.

  What about we use the forest at Ringo Point? I suggested it because a motel was difficult: we’d have to drive halfway to Melbourne given the risk of tongues wagging. No one hires a motel room for the day in the country, not unless they’re up to no good. Besides, there was the expense of it. I knew all the forest at Ringo. I knew of clearings and cavities in the scrub where only kangaroos would see us. There was the risk of the odd reptile but that was okay, I would shoo any away and we could throw a blanket down. Consider it a temporary measure, I said, until I left Tilda. And I would leave Tilda soon, I promised.

  The forest became our arrangement. Tuesdays and Fridays—Donna’s non-uni days. She dropped Ruth off at playgroup and drove an hour to me. We used an old doona cover she had, spread it at a spot three minutes’ walk west of the sundial where there was plenty of bush to screen us. Ironbarks stretched out enough for two people to keep company in shade. The ground was hard but smooth. There were no bull ants. We codenamed it Neutral Motor Inn.

  For six weeks we made a brief bed there, never fully naked in case we heard humans. We did a drill, just so we’d be ready, pulling our clothes up as fast as possible. We were never interrupted except by parrot voices. Afterwards we shared water from Donna’s thermos and watched the ticker-tape effect of sun through the swaying branches. We could not remember, either of us, being so happy, so peaceful.