Sex and Crime: Oliver's Strange Journey

by Oliver Markus

  Anyway, let's start at the beginning: I had finally mustered enough energy to hire a handyman to renovate my condo. When Hussy came over for the first time, my place looked like a war zone.

  We went straight into the bedroom, sat on the bed and talked for a few minutes. She told me she was taking care of 4 small children all by herself and needed to make money. Then we had sex. She had no boobs at all, except for dark nipples that poked out of her flat chest like two large peas. After seeing Hussy's nonexistent boobs, I realized how spoiled I had been with my ex-wife Donna's boobs. She had really nice 36 Ds, and during all our years of marriage, I had just taken them for granted.

  Hussy was very shy and soft-spoken. We felt comfortable around each other and we started hanging out every day. At first she only stayed for a few minutes of chatting and then sex. But after a few days she stayed longer, and we often ended up having sex a second time, after taking a break for about an hour and talking, or getting something to eat at Bice, my favorite restaurant at the Coconut Point Mall.

  Hussy opened up to me about her sad life and told me that her father had raped her for years when she was just a little girl. Then she ended up in several abusive relationships with guys who beat her regularly. It was a familiar story that I had heard many times before by now, and would hear many more times from other girls I met after Hussy. It was pretty obvious that it's really true: people who grow up in abusive households often end up in abusive relationships.

  She told me she was trying to get away from her abusive ex, Dick, so she had recently moved back in with her parents. But she was afraid her father might rape her baby daughter, just like he had raped Hussy when she was younger. I found out later that pretty much every word out of her mouth was a lie, so I'm not sure if her father ever even really raped her.

  I found out two years later that Hussy really hadn't moved in with her parents, and never really left her ex Dick, but that she and Dick had moved in with Dick's sister Nicole for a few weeks, until I offered Hussy to stay at one of my rental houses for free, because I felt so bad for her after all the sob stories she had told me about her life.

  At one point she claimed the tires on her truck were so bald, it was dangerous to drive around in it. Especially with her kids in the truck. I ended up giving her $400 for new tires.

  When she moved into my rental house, a duplex in Lehigh Acres, she needed new furniture, and told me one of her friends was about to sell everything in their apartment for only $400, because they were moving up north. Supposedly she had to act fast, or the furniture was going to be sold to someone else. So I gave her another $400.

  Hussy had a restraining order against Dick, and wanted to lift it, but one of the requirements was that she had to take domestic abuse counseling classes first. Those classes teach battered women how to recognize early warning signs of dangerous situations and things like that.

  I asked her why in the world she would want to lift the restraining order, if Dick is such an abusive asshole. She said so he could visit their baby daughter. Later I found out that it was really because they were actually living together.

  One day, when I picked her up after one of those classes, she told me that in a weird way, getting hit made her feel loved. That blew my mind. But after thinking about it for a while, it started to make sense. Girls who grow up in abusive homes see violence as a normal part of life. And they start to believe that they deserve to be hit, if they step out of line. They tell themselves that if their man hits them, it's because she did something to upset him, and he'll say things like: "Look what you made me do!"

  They tell themselves that their man only hits them, because his feelings are so strong for her, he just can't control his anger and frustration. And somehow their brains translate violence into love. I guess it's a coping mechanism, like Stockholm syndrome.

  I had a hard time seeing the link between love and abuse. Then again, wasn't that exactly the same thing I always told myself about my ex-wife Donna's outbursts? She lost her temper all the time and threw hateful tantrums, if I didn't do exactly what she wanted. And I told myself it was a sign of how much she loved me, and how much she couldn't control her jealousy, because her feelings for me were so strong. But that was really just my way of coping with her emotional abuse.

  Anyway, Hussy called me hysterically crying one day, and said her mother had been arrested, because Hussy and her sister Amber had gotten into big fight. Amber was a drug addict and Hussy felt that Amber was not taking care of her two kids as well as she should. Hussy and Amber started hitting each other. Then their mother got in the middle of it. Someone called the cops, and their mother ended up getting arrested for smacking Amber.

  Now Hussy was frantically trying to get bond money to bail her mom out of jail, because she had a heart condition, and without her medication, she might have a heart attack in jail. I ended up giving Hussy $500 to bail out her mother. Or so I thought. A few months later I found out her mother really didn't go to jail that night. Dick did, after hitting Hussy, and she called the cops on him. So I had wired Hussy money to bail out her abusive "ex" boyfriend, who really wasn't her "ex" at all.

  After Linda had conned me into paying for several fake abortions in Pennsylvania a year or two earlier, of course I was weary. I had my suspicion that Hussy may be lying about her mother going to jail. Then again, what kind of a person would lie about something like that? And Hussy was so upset at my doubting her at a time like this, she threw the phone on the floor in despair.

  Her father picked up the phone and texted me that Hussy was so upset about her mother going to jail, he was afraid she might try to kill herself again. Apparently Hussy had attempted suicide at least half a dozen times. This was not the time for annoying questions, I thought, so I wired her the money to get her mom out. Later I found out I really hadn't been texting with her dad. That was really Hussy pretending to be her dad texting me. How sick is that?

  A few weeks later her dad suddenly went to jail. Or so Hussy claimed. Once again it was a life or death situation, and Hussy was about to kill herself unless I was going to send her money to bail her father out. Later I found out that whole story wasn't true either.

  Then Amber died from a drug overdose. Hussy was distraught over the loss of her beloved sister. Sure, they had their fights. All sisters do. But deep down they loved each other. And now Hussy was beside herself with grief. Well, then later I found out there never was an Amber. Hussy had made her up. Amber was a figment of Hussy's imagination. Amber's two kids didn't exist either. But I didn't find all that out until much later.

  Anyway, one day, after Hussy and I had spent some time together again, I went to Home Depot to buy some paint for the new crown mouldings in my condo. At the check out, I noticed that both of my debit cards were missing from my wallet.

  I texted Hussy: "Damn! My ATM cards are gone. Did u see them lying around anywhere? Maybe I took them out of my wallet while paying some bills?"

  Hussy replied: "I'm gonna turn around and come right back to help u look for ur cards."

  I wrote back: "Nah, it's ok. I'm just gonna go home and look for them. If they're not there, I'll just cancel them."

  For some reason her reply made me suspicious. Her eagerness to drive all the way back to help seemed suspect. My instincts told me she had stolen my cards and now she was scared and she was only going to "help" look for them, so she could pretend to find them somewhere, while really pulling them out of her pocket.

  It reminded me of a joke Patty the drug counselor had told me: What's the difference between a drug addict and an alcoholic? An alcoholic will steal your wallet and then feel so guilty, he'll get drunk. A drug addict will steal your wallet, and then help you look for it.

  On that day two other people had been at my place. A lady who measured one of the bedrooms for a new carpet, and the handyman who had been working on the condo for the past few weeks. So I didn't just want to accuse Hussy of stealing my cards, unless I was absolutely sure.

 
On my way home from Home Depot, the fraud department of my bank called to confirm some unusual activity on my personal debit card. I told them it had been stolen. They said that within the last hour, about $1000 had been charged to it at several different stores in the Coconut Point Mall, just down the street from my apartment. The suspicious charges began at 5:15 pm. Hussy had left my house at 5 pm. So obviously she had gone straight to the mall after she left my place and went on a wild shopping spree with my card, swiping it as a credit card, instead of a debit card, to get around the $500 daily spending limit.

  I told the bank that I think I know who took my card, but that I wasn't 100% sure. They told me to call the police and tell them who I suspected. The police could get a copy of the security tapes at the stores, and have me look at them to identify the thief.

  A few minutes later the fraud department called me again. This time they told me about suspicious activity on my business debit card. Someone had spent almost $1000 on that card in the past hour as well.

  Then I texted Hussy: "I talked to my bank's fraud department. They said I should call the police."

  "Yeah, definitely," she replied.

  "I don't want to do that yet though. I want to talk to u first."

  "Why? What do u mean?" she texted back.

  "The bank people told me the cops can get the stores' security tapes and I can identify the thief. So I want to talk to u first."

  "Are u saying I took ur cards?" she replied.

  "I'm just saying I want to talk to u in person first, because whoever took my cards is going to jail."

  That's when she broke down, and admitted that she stole them. She texted me that she didn't know what had come over her, and that stealing was totally unlike her. She said she was taking care of 7 children, and she just didn't know how to make ends meet, even with the money I had been giving her.

  I felt really bad for her, so I didn't press charges. I forgave her, because I figured, if I was in her shoes, and I was a single parent taking care of 7 kids, I too may do things I'm not proud of.

  A few days went by, and we made up. Suddenly, while we were having lunch at Bice, she mentioned that it was going to be her birthday the next day.

  "What? Why didn't you tell me that sooner? We could have done something nice for your birthday," I said.

  "It's ok. My parents are Jehovah's Witnesses, and growing up, I never had a birthday. So I'm used to nobody remembering my birthday or celebrating it," she replied.

  "Aww, that's so sad," I said. "Well, that's all the more reason to make this birthday extra special. How about I take you to Miami Beach tomorrow, and we go to the beach for a while and then we'll have dinner at a nice restaurant?"

  "I would love that! Thank you so much," she said with a big smile.

  A day or two earlier, while we were grocery shopping for her kids at Walmart on Colonial Boulevard, she had longingly stared at a laptop and mentioned that she was so broke, she didn't even have a computer.

  So I figured I'd make her birthday extra special by surprising her with that laptop she liked.

  When she came over the next morning, we drove down Alligator Alley to get to the East Coast. During the car ride, I handed her the gift-wrapped laptop. She was ecstatic. Once we got to South Beach, we went swimming and then had dinner at a fancy restaurant on Ocean Drive. She told me this was the best birthday of her life. That made me feel really good. At the last minute, without any advance notice, I pulled off a pretty nice birthday for her. Later I found out that day wasn't even her birthday. It was just a scam to get a new laptop.

  A few days later, I happened to check my bank account on the computer. I noticed a few checks I didn't recognize. Each one was for anywhere around $700 to $900. I clicked on each one, to see a scanned image of the front of the check. That wasn't my handwriting. All these checks were fake. Someone had stolen 8 checks from me, filled them out, and deposited them. Guess who? Hussy.

  She was not exactly a criminal mastermind, because she didn't even bother to make the checks out to cash. She actually made them out to herself, and then faked my signature. I have no idea how she thought she was going to get away with that. I called her up and screamed at her: "I just saw you stole checks from me. ARE YOU OUT OF YOUR FUCKING MIND?!?"

  Hussy started to cry and told me that it had been a moment of weakness. She said she had stolen the checks on the same day she had stolen my debit cards, she just didn't cash them right away. She said her sister Amber's death had made her crazy with grief. And now that she had to take care of Amber's two young kids on top of her own 5 children, she had lost it.

  At this point I didn't know yet that the entire story about Amber was completely made up, but I had it with Hussy anyway. I had forgiven her after she stole my debit cards and charged $2000 on them. But now she had cashed 8 stolen checks, for a total of about $7000. This was not just a momentary lapse in judgment. There was method behind her madness. She cashed the stolen checks every few days. So she knew she was stealing from me again and again. There was no way I was going to let her get away with that. I was gonna put that fucking bitch in jail.

  She said she hadn't even spent any of the money, and that it was all still in her bank account. I told her: "You better be here tomorrow morning before 10 am and bring me back all my money, and the laptop, or I'm calling the cops!"

  I was going to call the cops either way, but I wanted to get my money and my laptop back first.

  The next morning she brought me the laptop and handed me $600. I looked at the cash and asked: "What is that?"

  Hussy was so nervous, while I counted the money, she threw up. Then she said: "That's all that's left. I don't know what happened to the rest. I thought it was all still in my account, but when I checked today, it was all gone, except the $600."

  "Get the FUCK outta here!" I said. She quietly cried, got in her car and left.

  As soon as she was gone, I called the Lee County Sheriff's office. They sent a deputy. I filed a report and told him what had happened. He asked me to describe Hussy, so I did. Then he asked me for her date of birth. Since we had just celebrated her birthday a few days earlier, I knew exactly when her birthday was.

  The deputy said: "I think I know who you're talking about, but that's not her date of birth."

  "Yeah, it is," I replied.

  "Come with me, we'll look at my computer," the officer said.

  On the dashboard laptop in his police cruiser, the officer pulled up Hussy's mugshot. She had a bunch of prior charges for writing bad checks. Yupp. That was definitely her in the mugshot, and her birthday was definitely not last week. And that's when I realized that we had celebrated a fake birthday just so that she could con me into buying her a laptop. Motherfucker! What kind of a sick, twisted psycho does something like that?!

  I told the officer that I wanted her to rot in jail for playing me like that. He said she would, but first I would have to speak to a detective in the financial crimes unit. The deputy said he was just here to take the report, but I would have to wait for a detective to actually work on the case. And that was going to take at least a week.

  "What am I supposed to do until then?" I asked. "If I don't talk to her anymore, she'll know something is up, and she'll skip town. Her parents recently moved to Ocala. So she'll probably hide up there."

  "If she tries to run, we'll issue a warrant," the officer said. "She can't hide forever. We'll catch her eventually. But for now, just pretend everything is ok, so she has no reason to run."

  So for the next few days, I pretended I had forgiven her, just like I had done when I found out about her stealing my debit cards. Hussy came over every day, as usual, and we had sex as usual, hung out, watched TV, or went to the mall, or out to eat.

  About a week later, a detective called me. I told him what she had done and that I wanted her to go to jail. He said he couldn't just go arrest her. He said he would have to call her into his office and talk to her first.

  A few minutes later, Hussy called me, hy
sterically crying: "You said you wouldn't call the cops!"