All About Love: Anatomy of an Unruly Emotion

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by Lisa Appignanesi

‘A Hunger Artist’

  Kãstner, Erich

  Kinsey reports (1948, 1953)

  Kipnis, Laura, Against Love

  Klein, Melanie

  Kollontai, Alexandra

  Kramer vs Kramer (film)

  Kureishi, Hanif

  Intimacy

  ‘Strangers When We Meet’

  La Boétie, Étienne de

  La Rochefoucauld

  La Rochelle, Pierre Drieu

  Lacan, Jacques

  Lamb, Charles

  Lamb, Mary

  Langhamer, Claire

  language

  acquisition

  Larkin, Philip

  ‘An Arundel Tomb’

  ‘This Be The Verse’

  Lawrence, D.H.

  Lady Chatterley’s Lover

  Sons and Lovers

  Leigh, Augusta

  Lemmings, David

  Leonardo da Vinci

  lesbianism

  Lette, Kathy

  Levinas, Emmanuel

  Lévi-Strauss, Claude

  Lewes, George Henry

  Lewis, C.S.

  Les Liaisons dangereuses (Pierre Choderlos de Laclos)

  liberal social consensus

  liberalism

  libertine tradition

  Linklater, Alex

  literature and fiction

  adultery in

  adventure stories

  American gothic

  Ancient

  babies in

  ‘chick lit’

  families in

  fathers and daughters in

  friendship in

  jealousy in

  marriage in see marriage, in literature

  popular romances

  romantic love in see romantic love, in literature

  sex in

  Locke, John

  Some Thoughts concerning Education

  Two Treatises on Government

  lone parents

  Lost in Austen (TV series)

  lost love

  first love and

  Louis XIV, King of France

  Louise, Princess

  Ludovici, Anthony M.

  Luther, Martin

  Macaulay, Thomas Babington

  Mad Men (television series)

  madness

  Madonna

  Malinowski, Bronislaw

  Malraux, André, Man’s Fate

  Mamma Mia! (film)

  Mann, Thomas, Buddenbrooks

  Margolis, Zoe (Abby Lee)

  Marion, Henri

  marriage

  age of consent

  age of first marriage

  in Antiquity

  aristocratic form

  ‘arranged’

  children as reviving of

  choice and

  clandestine

  ‘common law’

  conflict and disappointments in

  contemporary uncertainty

  courtly love and

  division of labour in

  the Enlightenment and

  equality issues and

  in fairy tales

  fantasy of

  to first love

  in France

  of Freud

  fundamental matters

  ‘golden age of’

  growing up and

  guidebooks/manuals

  health and

  history of (to Glorious Revolution)

  history of (eighteenth-century)

  Jane Austen and

  as legal form

  in literature

  in literature (contemporary)

  in literature (continental)

  love as factor within

  mid-twentieth century

  Montaigne on

  notions of perfection

  polygamy

  post-Great War

  in pre-eighteenth-century England

  in primitive societies

  Puritanism and

  pursuit of happiness and

  rates and durability

  the Reformation and

  religion and

  remarriage to same partner

  rupture of mid-century ideal

  Samuel Johnson on

  settling down/finding partner

  sex and

  Shakespeare on

  support for/popularity of

  in USA

  in Victorian era

  Marriage Act (1753)

  Married Women’s Property Act (1870, 1882)

  Mars (god)

  Martin, Kingsley

  Martineau, Harriet

  masochism

  masturbation

  matchmakers

  McCullers, Carson, The Ballad of the Sad Café

  McEwan, Ian

  On Chesil Beach

  The Child in Time

  Saturday

  the media

  1950 s consumerism and

  commodification of sex

  gay culture and

  hypersexualized images in

  marriage and

  sexualization of younger women

  medical science

  memory

  of absent lover

  childhood

  early childhood

  families and

  Proust and

  songs and

  men

  age at marriage

  capability for love

  eating disorders

  fundamental ‘rapaciousness’

  growing up

  infantilization of

  libertine tradition

  media representations of bodies

  the new man

  ‘psychical impotence’ concept

  sex and emotion

  sexual anxiety

  ‘sexual equality’ culture and

  see also fathers

  Mencken, H.L.

  menstruation

  mental illness

  Meyer, Stephenie, Twilight series

  ‘milf’ (slang word)

  Mill, Harriet Taylor

  Mill, John Stuart

  The Subjection of Women

  Millet, Catherine

  Jealousy

  The Sexual Life of Catherine M

  Mills & Boon

  Milne, A.A.

  Milton, John, Doctrine and Discipline of Divorce

  Miltown (sedative)

  modernity

  post-Great War

  monomania

  Montaigne, Michel de

  Moonstruck (film)

  Moore, Demi

  Morrell, Lady Ottoline

  Morrissey

  Mortier, Erwin

  mothers

  in 1950s era

  absence of

  breast feeding

  care model

  childbirth

  as child’s primary carer

  child’s symbiotic love for

  in Cinderella stories

  cult of idealized motherhood

  de Beauvoir on

  early mothering

  iconic purity of Mary

  infant’s dependence on

  in literature

  from little boy’s perspective

  from little girl’s perspective

  Mary/baby Jesus narrative

  mother-love

  natural paradigm

  in pop culture

  pre-twentieth-century

  sharing of

  taboo of sexual mother

  ‘unconditional love’ term

  in Victorian era

  women’s movement and

  Mumsnet

  Munro, Alice, ‘Carried Away’

  Mussolini, Benito

  MySpace

  myths

  Egyptian

  Greek

  modern

  Nabokov, Vladimir

  Lolita

  Napoleon

  Nayar of East India

  neuroscience

  neuroses

  Newnham College, Cambridge

  Nietzsche
, Friedrich

  Norris, Charles G., Bread

  Nugent, Robert

  obsessive compulsive disorder

  obsessive nature of love

  jealousy and

  older people

  cross-generational unions

  O’Neill, Joseph, Netherland

  Orbach, Susie

  Orwell, George, Nineteen Eighty-Four

  Ottoman Empire

  Ouida, Under Two Flags

  Ovid, Ars Amatoria

  Oxford women’s colleges

  Padel, Ruth, Where the Serpent Lives

  paedophilia

  Paglia, Camille

  Pamuk, Orhan, The Museum of Innocence

  Papini, Giovanni

  parents

  children as vehicles of hopes

  dysfunctional

  enjoying of children

  expert advice for

  imaginative understanding

  lone parents

  over-zealous

  setting of limits

  see also fathers; mothers

  parthenogenesis

  Partridge, Ralph

  passion

  ambivalence of

  arrival of children and

  courtly love and

  dissipation of

  excessive nature of

  as fevered state

  permeability to the other

  Plato on

  see also first love; sexual desire and sexuality; the erotic

  Patmore, Coventry

  patriarchal culture

  families and

  Kafka on

  Virgin Mary and

  Patton, Claire

  penises

  Perel, Esther, Mating in Captivity

  Pericles

  Perkins, William

  permissive era

  Great War as agent for change

  prohibitions and rules in

  youth and

  see also sexual revolution

  Person, Ethel Spector

  Petrarch, the Canzoniere

  The Philadelphia Story (film)

  Philip II, King of France

  Philipson, Mrs Hilton

  Phillips, Adam

  philosophy

  photography

  Pinter, Harold, Betrayal

  Plath, Sylvia

  Plato

  Poe, Edgar Allan, ‘Annabel Lee’

  poetry

  of Provençal troubadours

  political correctness

  polygamy

  Pope, Alexander, Essay on Man

  pornography

  Porter, Cole

  postmodernism

  poverty

  pregnancy

  fantasies/fears during

  last stages of

  prenuptial agreements

  Presley, Elvis

  primal state, return to

  primitivism

  privacy

  prohibitions and rules

  contemporary puritanism

  in fiction

  inhibitions

  Muslim women and

  in permissive age

  ‘psychical impotence’ concept

  prostitution

  Protestantism

  Proust, Marcel, À la Recherche du Temps Perdu

  Psyche

  psychiatry

  psychoanalysis

  ‘as if’ personalities

  ‘cure through love’

  friendship and

  homosexuality and

  infancy and

  see also Freud, Sigmund

  psychology

  evolutionary

  friendship and

  infancy and

  literature and

  motherhood and

  siblings and

  psychotherapy

  puberty

  punishment

  biblical

  Puritanism

  Quebec

  Raikes, Harry

  the Reformation

  rejection

  relational therapy

  religion

  adultery and

  fundamentalism

  Islam

  marriage and

  see also Catholic Church; Christianity

  Renaissance

  reproduction, assisted

  reproductive urge

  Restoration comedy

  Reynolds, Debbie

  Richardson, Samuel

  rights, culture of

  risk

  Robbins, Amy Catherine (‘Jane’ Wells)

  Roiphe, Katie, Uncommon Arrangements

  Roman Empire

  romantic love

  advice industry and

  Christian paradigm and

  cinema and

  coup de foudre

  falling in love

  feminist critique of

  in literature

  in literature (contemporary)

  in literature (continental)

  marriage and

  obsessive

  playing hard to get

  popular romances and

  songs and

  star-crossed lovers

  transformative power of

  twin souls concept

  Romantic movement

  Romieu, Madame

  Rouchefoucauld-Liancourt, duc de la

  Rousseau, Jean-Jacques

  The Rules: Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr Right (Fein and Schneider)

 

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