contemporary puritanism
family nucleus and
friendship and
marriage and
sensuality and
‘to know’ verb in Bible
see also Catholic Church
Cicero
Cinderella story
cinema
civil partnerships
Civil War, English
Clean Air Act (1956)
Clinton, Bill
Close, Glenn
cognitive science
cohabitation
in pre-eighteenth-century England
settling down/finding partner
Cohen, Leonard
Coleridge, Samuel Taylor
Colette, Sidonie-Gabrielle
commitment-phobia
Comstock Act (USA, 1875)
concubinage
Condorcet, Nicolas de
confessional culture
consumerism
contraception
the pill
corporal punishment
coup de foudre
couples therapy
courtly love
courtship
Criminal Law Amendment Act (1885)
Dante, The Divine Comedy
Darwin, Charles
dating agencies
internet
David, Jacques-Louis
Davis, Katherine B.
Day, Doris
de Beauvoir, Simone
Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter
The Second Sex
de Bérulle, Pierre
de Clérambault, Gaëtan Gatian
de Gouges, Olympe
de Grouchy, Sophie
de Lafayette, Madame, La Princesse de Clèves
de Maintenon, Madame
de Necker, Madame
de Pompadour, Madame
de Rougemont, Denis, Love in the Western World
de Scudéry, Madeleine, Clélie
de Staël, Madame
de Tocqueville, Alexis
de Troyes, Marie
death
adultery and
in childbirth
lost love and
Defoe, Daniel
d’Épinay, Madame
depression (illness)
Derrida, Jacques
Deutsch, Helene
divorce
children and
in France
in history
in later life
no-fault
statistics
in USA
Don Giovanni (Mozart opera)
Donne, John
double standards, sexual see hypocrisy/double standards, sexual
Douglas, Michael
Drabble, Margaret, The Millstone
du Barry, Madame
du Châtelet, Marquise
Duckworth, Gerald
Dunn, Nell
Durrell, Lawrence, Alexandria Quartet
Dylan, Bob
eating disorders
education
sex education
Edwardian era
Egerton, Sir Thomas
Egypt, Ancient
Eichenbaum, Luise
Eleanor of Aquitaine, Queen
Eliot, George
Middlemarch
Eliot, T.S., ‘Burnt Norton’
Emerson, Frank Waldo
Emerson, Ralph Waldo
Engels, Friedrich
the Enlightenment
entitlement, sense of
envy
hate and
jealousy and
epigenetics
equality issues
in history
marriage and
men and
women and
workplace and
Eros
the erotic
danger and
de Beauvoir on
emotional pain and
as key to good life
see also sexual desire and sexuality
Esquirol, Jean-Étienne
Every Woman’s Book of Love and Marriage and Family Life
evolutionary thinking and Darwinism
evolutionary biologists/psychologists
excess, sexual
‘eye-gazing parties’
Facebook
fairy tales
families
changing nature of
Christianity and
economic forces and
feudal networks
first boy/girlfriends of children and
‘honour killings’
idealized (1950s)
importance of
intensity of
in literature
moving away/escape from
in mythology
patriarchal model
shaping trajectory of
size of
step-families
traditional
traditionalist views of
Victorian era
see also childhood; fathers; mothers; parents; siblings
fantasies, sexual
Farquhar, George, The Stage Coach
Fascism
Fatal Attraction (film)
Father Knows Best (television series)
fathers
changing role of
daughters and
displacement of
hands-on parenting
jealousy of baby
in literature
from little girl’s perspective
in Mediterranean cultures
in mythology
sharing of mother with
sons and
as symbolic law-giver
traditional role
feminism and women’s movement
Ferenczi, Sándor
Ferguson, Adam
fidelity
see also adultery; infidelity
first love
attempts to repeat
coup de foudre and
face of the beloved
hurdles and misunderstandings
intensity of
the internet and
lost love and
marriage and
narratives of
as original template
shaped by infancy experiences
singularity of desired one
transgression and
Fitzgerald, F. Scott
The Great Gatsby
Fitzgerald, Zelda
Flaubert
Madame Bovary
Fonagy, Peter
Forster, E.M.
Howards End
Maurice
Where Angels Fear to Tread
Four Weddings and a Funeral (film)
France
belle époque
Catholic Church in
declining birth rate (1880-1920)
divorce in
Enlightenment salons
French Revolution
infidelity in
marriage in
the précieuses
sexual double standards in
Third Republic
Fraser, Antonia, Must You Go?
free love
French language
Freud, Anna
Freud, Sigmund
on ambivalence of passion
Beyond the Pleasure Principle
on child’s sexual enlightenment
‘“Civilized” Sexual Morality and Modern Nervous Illness’
‘Contributions to the Psychology of Love’
Delusions and Dreams in Jensen’s Gradiva
the father and
friendship and
infant’s development and
The Interpretation of Dreams
on jealousy
marriage of
obstacles to love and
‘oceanic feeling’
Oedipal template
patriarchal culture and
‘psychical impotence’ concept
repressive sexual mores and
on secrecy
&
nbsp; sexual choice and
sexual double standards and
on sexual honesty
on sibling relations
superego concept
‘The Taboo of Virginity’
Friends (television series)
Friends Reunited
friendship
‘Boston marriages’
capitalism and
Cavell on
in childhood/adolescence
Christianity and
classical ideal of
definition of
the Enlightenment and
female
humanist ideal
imaginary friends
importance of
in literature
Montaigne and
philosophy and
political regimes and
psychology and
Romantic movement and
in Shakespeare
virtual networks and
as women’s sphere
Futurism
Gaiman, Neil
Gainsborough, Thomas
Gatternigg, Hedwig Verena
gender identity
Gerhardt, Sue, Why Love Matters
Gertler, Mark
Gilbert, Elizabeth, Eat, Pray, Love
la giovinezza (youth movement)
Gladstone, William
Glorious Revolution
Goethe, Johann Wolfgang
The Sorrows of Young Werther
Goldsmith, Jimmy
Gopnik, Alison, The Philosophical Baby
Gorer, Geoffrey
gossip
Gough, Kathleen
The Graduate (film)
grandparents
Grant, Cary
Great Exhibition (1851)
Great War
Greece, Ancient
greed, culture of
Greene, Robert, The Art of Seduction
Grimm brothers, ‘The King’s Son Who Feared Nothing’
Gross, Otto
Haldane, Charlotte, Man’s World
Haldane, J.B.S.
Halper, Jan, Quiet Desperation: The Truth about Successful Men
Harlequin novels
hate
bullying and
in continental literature
envy/jealousy and
the family and
psychoanalysis and
spurned love and
women as objects of
health and welfare systems
Hebrew culture, ancient
Hemingway, Ernest
Hepburn, Katharine
higher education
His Girl Friday (film)
Hitschmann, Dr Eduard
Hobbes, Thomas
Hoffman, Dustin
homosexuality
Aids and
in Ancient Greece
gay culture
gay movement
marriage and
religious opposition to
in Roman Empire
in Victorian era
House of Commons
Howard, Trevor
Hume, David
Hurston, Zora Neale
Huxley, T.H.
hypocrisy/double standards, sexual
in French history
Freud and
in USA
in Victorian era
hysteria
Ibn Hazm, The Ring of the Dove
Ibsen, Henrik, A Doll’s House
illegitimacy
‘love-child’
Imlay, Gilbert
immigrant communities
In Treatment (television series)
incest
India
individuality, culture of
capitalism and
infancy
attachment theory
importance of
jealousy in
pre-twentieth-century
psychoanalytic theories
psychosexual development
in twentieth-century
infidelity
age and
in France
new fathers and
public attitudes to
see also adultery
International Social Survey Program
internet
advice for mothers on
commodification of sex
dating websites
first love and
friendship and
infidelity and
telling/sharing on
Islam
Jacobson, Howard, The Act of Love
James, Henry
The Ambassadors
The Bostonians
The Golden Bowl
Portrait of a Lady
What Maisie Knew
The Wings of the Dove
jazz age
jealousy
cross-generational unions and
envy and
father’s of baby
Freud on
in infancy
in literature
Saint Augustine on
of siblings
violence and
Jefferson, Thomas
Jensen, Wilhelm, Gradiva: A Pompeiian Fancy
Jewish culture
Johnson, Celia
Johnson, Samuel
Jong, Erica, Fear of Flying
Joy of Sex (Alex Comfort)
Jung, Carl Gustav
Kafka, Franz
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