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Coming to Age

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by Carolyn Hopley


  the same score:

  you were just, you were kind, you lived a fortunate life.

  No harmony. No counterpoint. Except

  they’re not performers;

  real tears are shed.

  Luckily, you’re dead; otherwise

  you’d be overcome with revulsion.

  But when that’s passed,

  when the guests begin filing out, wiping their eyes

  because, after a day like this,

  shut in with orthodoxy,

  the sun’s amazingly bright,

  though it’s late afternoon, September—

  when the exodus begins,

  that’s when you’d feel

  pangs of envy.

  Your friends the living embrace one another,

  gossip a little on the sidewalk

  as the sun sinks, and the evening breeze

  ruffles the women’s shawls—

  this, this, is the meaning of

  “a fortunate life”: it means

  to exist in the present.

  Louise Glück

  ENOUGH

  It’s a gift, this cloudless November morning

  warm enough for you to walk without a jacket

  along your favorite path. The rhythmic shushing

  of your feet through the fallen leaves should be

  enough to quiet the mind, so it surprises you

  when you catch yourself telling off the boss

  for a decade of accumulated injustices,

  all the things you’ve never said circling inside you.

  It’s the rising wind that pulls you out of it,

  and you look up to see a cloud of leaves

  swirling in sunlight, flickering against the blue

  and rising above the treetops, as if the whole day

  were sighing, Let it go, let it go,

  for this moment at least, let it all go.

  Jeffrey Harrison

  MY BIRTHDAY PRESENT

  Seventy-nine, seventy-nine,

  I say it over, and every time

  it sounds peculiar. Is it a prime?

  It’s a queer number, seventy-nine.

  I will enter my eightieth year

  tomorrow evening, somewhere near

  six o’clock, around dinnertime,

  my mother told me. That’s a queer

  hour to be born, or to enter an eightieth year.

  But all of it’s queer, being here.

  Thinking how what I thought was mine

  was only borrowed, and what was dear

  has been forgotten, and every line

  I’ve written will become a sign

  for nothing at all, given time.

  But that’s what I was given, time.

  That’s my present, present time.

  Ursula K. Le Guin

  THE DECISION

  There is a moment before a shape

  hardens, a color sets.

  Before the fixative or heat of kiln.

  The letter might still be taken

  from the mailbox.

  The hand held back by the elbow,

  the word kept between the larynx pulse

  and the amplifying drum-skin of the room’s air.

  The thorax of an ant is not as narrow.

  The green coat on old copper weighs more.

  Yet something slips through it—

  looks around,

  sets out in the new direction, for other lands.

  Not into exile, not into hope. Simply changed.

  As a sandy track-rut changes when called a Silk Road:

  it cannot be after turned back from.

  Jane Hirshfield

  What is a moment in time? Can it be measured? In a striking series of visual and aural comparisons, Hirshfield gradually compresses time to the narrowest possible dimension, thereby demonstrating how an apparently inconsequential decision may have momentous results. All in her journey to the awkward but inevitable last line.

  THE ROUND

  Light splashed this morning

  on the shell-pink anemones

  swaying on their tall stems;

  down blue-spiked veronica

  light flowed in rivulets

  over the humps of the honeybees;

  this morning I saw light kiss

  the silk of the roses

  in their second flowering,

  my late bloomers

  flushed with their brandy.

  A curious gladness shook me.

  So I have shut the doors of my house,

  so I have trudged downstairs to my cell,

  so I am sitting in semi-dark

  hunched over my desk

  with nothing for a view

  to tempt me

  but a bloated compost heap

  steamy old stinkpile,

  under my window;

  and I pick my notebook up

  and I start to read aloud

  the still-wet words I scribbled

  on the blotted page:

  “Light splashed…”

  I can scarcely wait till tomorrow

  when a new life begins for me,

  as it does each day,

  as it does each day.

  Stanley Kunitz

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  “THE SOUND OF TIME”

  We experience the passage of time in many ways. It can both speed up and slow down, sometimes almost simultaneously. Minutes can feel like hours (a watched pot never boils) and vice versa (so-called “flow”). The summers of childhood are endless; those of old age vanish in a twinkling. But one thing is certain: the less time we have ahead of us, the more importance it assumes.

  As we relinquish various activities and undergo inevitable losses, our thoughts about time change. Perhaps for the first time, life’s finitude becomes real. And many poets whose youthful work has been considered obscure start to write more openly and directly as they face the end of their lives. There is a new, more common ground between author and audience. But the mystery of time remains for all of us.

  Time present and time past

  Are both perhaps present in time future,

  And time future contained in time past.

  T. S. Eliot, from “Burnt Norton”

  FALL WIND

  Pods of summer crowd around the door;

  I take them in the autumn of my hands.

  Last night I heard the first cold wind outside;

  the wind blew soft, and yet I shiver twice:

  Once for the thin walls, once for the sound of time.

  William Stafford

  SLOW SEASON

  Now light is less; noon skies are wide and deep;

  The ravages of wind and rain are healed.

  The haze of harvest drifts along the field

  Until clear eyes put on the look of sleep.

  The garden spider weaves a silken pear

  To keep inclement weather from its young.

  Straight from the oak, the gossamer is hung.

  At dusk our slow breath thickens on the air.

  Lost hues of birds the trees take as their own.

  Long since, bronze wheat was gathered into sheaves.

  The walker trudges ankle-deep in leaves;

  The feather of the milkweed flutters down.

  The shoots of spring have mellowed with the year.

  Buds, long unsealed, obscure the narrow lane.

  The blood slows trance-like in the altered vein;

  Our vernal wisdom moves through ripe to sere.

  Theodore Roethke

  Here the poet takes one of the most commonplace of comparisons—that between the year’s aging and our own—and, by his virtuosic choice of language and cadence, fashions an exquisite lyric poem. Read it aloud, slowly, savoring both sense and sound.

  SEASON TO SEASON

  I have been fooled before, and just because

  This summer seems so long, it might not be

  My last. Winter could come again, and pause

  T
he sky liked a taped tactical descent

  Of pocket paratroopers. Things to see

  Could happen yet, and life prove not quite spent

  But still abundant, still the main event.

  The trick, I’m learning, is to stay in doubt,

  Season to season, of what time might bring,

  And patiently await how things turn out.

  Eventually time tells you everything.

  If it takes time to do so, no surprise

  In that. You fold your arms, you scan the skies,

  And tell yourself that life has made you wise,

  If only by the way it ebbs away.

  But still it takes an age, and after all,

  Though nearly gone, life didn’t end today,

  And you might be here when the first leaves fall

  Or even when the snow begins again,

  If life that cast you, when this all began,

  As a small boy, still needs a dying man.

  Clive James

  LONG LIFE

  Late Summer. Sunshine. The eucalyptus tree.

  It is a fortune beyond any deserving

  to be still here, with no more than everyday worries,

  placidly arranging lines of poetry.

  I consider a stick of cinnamon

  bound in raffia, finches

  in the grass, and a stubby bush

  which this year mothered a lemon.

  These days I speak less of death

  than the mysteries of survival. I am

  no longer lonely, not yet frail, and

  after surgery, recognize each breath

  as a miracle. My generation may not be

  nimble but, forgive us,

  we’d like to hold on, stubbornly

  content—even while ageing.

  Elaine Feinstein

  While giving thanks for the miracle of daily life, the speaker is also offering a sardonic challenge to some current attitudes toward the old.

  THE WAY IT IS

  There’s a thread you follow. It goes among

  things that change. But it doesn’t change.

  People wonder about what you are pursuing.

  You have to explain about the thread.

  But it is hard for others to see.

  While you hold it you can’t get lost.

  Tragedies happen: people get hurt

  or die; and you suffer and get old.

  Nothing you do can stop time’s unfolding.

  You don’t ever let go of the thread.

  William Stafford

  STARFISH

  This is what life does. It lets you walk up to

  the store to buy breakfast and the paper, on a

  stiff knee. It lets you choose the way you have

  your eggs, your coffee. Then it sits a fisherman

  down beside you at the counter who says, Last night

  the channel was full of starfish. And you wonder,

  is this a message, finally, or just another day?

  Life lets you take the dog for a walk down to the

  pond, where whole generations of biological

  processes are boiling beneath the mud. Reeds

  speak to you of the natural world: they whisper,

  they sing. And herons pass by. Are you old

  enough to appreciate the moment? Too old?

  There is movement beneath the water, but it

  may be nothing. There may be nothing going on.

  And then life suggests that you remember the

  years you ran around, the years you developed

  a shocking lifestyle, advocated careless abandon,

  owned a chilly heart. Upon reflection, you are

  genuinely surprised to find how quiet you have

  become. And then life lets you go home to think

  about all this. Which you do, for quite a long time.

  Later, you wake up beside your old love, the one

  who never had any conditions, the one who waited

  you out. This is life’s way of letting you know that

  you are lucky. (It won’t give you smart or brave,

  so you’ll have to settle for lucky.) Because you

  were born at a good time. Because you were able

  to listen when people spoke to you. Because you

  stopped when you should have and started again.

  So life lets you have a sandwich, and pie for your

  late night dessert. (Pie for the dog as well.) And

  then life sends you back to bed, to dreamland,

  while outside, the starfish drift through the channel,

  with smiles on their starry faces as they head

  out to deep water, to the far and boundless sea.

  Eleanor Lerman

  ALICE AT ONE HUNDRED AND TWO

  Yes, she said, I want to live a lot more years

  and see what happens, but

  I want new fruits—a century of apples, oranges

  and bananas is enough.

  And I want new rooms. I want balustrades,

  inglenooks, casement windows, and chintz!

  Yes, I want chintz! Whatever happened to chintz,

  with the sunlight or lamplight carving mother,

  grandmother, aunt, out of its shadows?

  And I want something to happen here, quickly—

  the inexplicable death of a wealthy tycoon, six

  likely suspects—midnight melodrama, love and

  betrayal—a diamond robbery, fugitive in disguise—

  a great-grandson eloping with a dancer from New Orleans.

  Something!

  Yes, she said, I want to live a lot more years,

  but not so slowly.

  Elizabeth Alexander

  POSTHUMOUS LETTER TO GILBERT WHITE

  It’s rather sad we can only meet people

  whose dates overlap with ours, a real shame that

  you and Thoreau (we know that he read you)

  never shook hands. He was, we hear, a rabid

  Anti-Clerical and quick-tempered, you the

  quietest of curates, yet I think he might well have

  found in you the Ideal Friend he wrote of

  with such gusto, but never ran into.

  Stationaries, both of you, but keen walkers,

  chaste by nature and, it would seem, immune to

  the beck of worldly power, kin spirits,

  who found all creatures amusive, even

  the tortoise in spite of its joyless stupors,

  aspected the vagrant moods of the Weather,

  from the modest conduct of fogs to

  the coarse belch of thunder of the rainbow’s

  federal arch, what fun you’d have had surveying

  two rival landscapes and their migrants, noting

  the pitches owls hoot on, comparing

  the echo-response of dactyls and spondees.

  Selfishly, I, too, would have plumbed to know you:

  I could have learned so much. I’m apt to fancy

  myself as a lover of Nature,

  but have no right to, really. How many

  birds and plants can I spot? At most two dozen.

  You might, though, have found such an ignoramus

  a pesky bore. Time spared you that: I

  have, though, thank God, the right to re-read you.

  W. H. Auden

  ARS POETICA

  To gaze at the river made of time and water

  And recall that time itself is another river,

  To know we cease to be, just like the river,

  And that our faces pass away, just like the water.

  To feel that waking is another sleep

  That dreams it does not sleep and that death,

  Which our flesh dreads, is that very death

  Of every night, which we call sleep.

  To see in the day or in the year a symbol

  Of mankind’s days and of his years,

  To transform the outrage of t
he years

  Into a music, a rumor and a symbol,

  To see in death a sleep, and in the sunset

  A sad gold, of such is Poetry

  Immortal and a pauper. For Poetry

  Returns like the dawn and the sunset.

  At times in the afternoons a face

  Looks at us from the depths of a mirror;

  Art must be like that mirror

  That reveals to us this face of ours.

  They tell how Ulysses, glutted with wonders,

  Wept with love to descry his Ithaca

  Humble and green. Art is that Ithaca

  Of green eternity, not of wonders.

  It is also like an endless river

  That passes and remains, a mirror for one same

  Inconstant Heraclitus, who is the same

  And another, like an endless river.

  Jorge Luis Borges

  (translated from the Spanish by Mildred Boyer and Harold Morland)

  “Ars Poetica,” or “The Art of Poetry,” is a poem by the ancient Roman poet Horace. Other poets down through the ages have used this title for their own poems defining poetry, as Borges does here. In Horace’s view poetry was an ars, which also means “craft” in Latin. Following this idea, Borges likens it not to a place of wonders but to the humble island of Ithaca, home of Ulysses, the hero of Homer’s Greek epic the Odyssey. (Ulysses is the Latin version of the name Odysseus.) After leading the Greeks to victory in the Trojan War, Ulysses wandered for ten years before finally returning to the little green island that held first place in his heart.

  Heraclitus, Greek philosopher of the fifth and sixth centuries BC, said famously: “No man ever steps into the same river twice, for it is not the same river and he is not the same man.”

  ITHACA

  As you set out for Ithaca

  hope the voyage is a long one,

  full of adventure, full of discovery.

  The Laestrygones and the Cyclopes

  and angry Poseidon, do not fear them:

  such on your way, you shall never meet

  if your thoughts are lofty, if a noble

  emotion touch your mind, your body.

  The Laestrygones and Cyclopes

  and angry Poseidon you shall not meet

  if you carry them not in your soul,

  if your soul sets them not up before you.

  Hope the voyage is a long one.

 

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