The Tiger Mom's Tale

by Lyn Liao Butler

  To Christine Adler, who has been such a supporter and champion from the moment we met online and realized we live in the same town. My writing buddy, brainstormer, eater of all things, cheerer of all news, peed on by Lokie: thank you for your friendship and belief in me.

  To David Geshwind and Peter van Buren, my earliest readers of the original version of this book, you saw something in that crappy first draft and helped improve my writing.

  Thank you to the members of the New York City Writers Critique Group, especially Christopher Keelty, Steven Tate, Sheryl Presser, Hector Acosta, C. Correa, Letitia Edghill, Sara Lord, Whitney Trilling, Beatrice Indursky, Jeffrey Baer, Robert Turley, and Ken Chanko, who have either critiqued portions of my work or cheered me on.

  To my critique partner, Delise Torres, who gave such insightful feedback and helped to shape my writing and stories. We will meet in person one day!

  To my agent sister and critique partner, Jessica Armstrong, your writing inspires me. I can’t wait for the world to meet your books.

  To Farah Heron, Kristin Rockaway, Kristin Button, and Suzanne Park, authors who believed in me when I was querying for the third time and gave me feedback, encouragement, and courage.

  To Denise Williams, Anita Kushwaha, Saumya Dave, Samantha Vérant, Devon Daniels, Kate Lansing, and Allison Ashley for keeping me sane during the LONG wait for this book to be published.

  To Charles Salzberg and Tim Tomlinson, whose New York Writers Workshop taught me how to write a pitch. Because of them, I got my first full request ever, from Amanda Ng, then Tom Colgan’s assistant, on the first version of this book. It was so bad, but Tom was kind enough to pass it along at Berkley. Thank goodness none of the editors remembered that unformed disaster when Rachel pitched the new, shiny version. Sometimes, life does come full circle.

  To Allie Larkin, an author who helped me out when she had no idea who I was (except a big fan of hers). Allie, you were so kind from the first, and then we found out I live in the town where you grew up. Thank you for your willingness to answer questions and champion me.

  To Alison Hammer, who called me when I got my offer and gave me wise advice. Thank you also for talking me down about all things publishing related.

  To Em Shotwell, who I’ve never met, but whose Pitch Wars entry inspired me when I was about to give up. Because of her, I soldiered on, rewrote my first book, and signed with my agent.

  To my beta and earliest readers, especially Lori Myers, Jeremy Marshall, and Jodi Lew-Smith. You helped me so much when I was just starting out.

  To my friend Lauren Gleicher, thank you for ramening with me, reading my book, and always believing in me. And to her parents, Susan and Len Gleicher, and her kids, Leah and Zach Goldstein, for being my earliest (non-writer) readers.

  To Linna Heck, who inspired the character of Hsu-Ling, and the entire Heck family, Allison, Maren, Abigail, and Carey, who are like family.

  To my cousin Leslie Shei, thank you for helping me with the Taiwanese parts and fixing the wording of how our Taiwanese family would say things. Any mistakes are my own.

  To my sister, C. J. Liao, for reading a draft of this book and pointing out things that didn’t make sense or things about Taiwan that I’d forgotten.

  To my mother, Hsiang-Fang Liao, and my father, Yaw-Ting Liao, who have supported every endeavor I’ve ever pursued (and some of them to spectacular failure). Thank you for not being Tiger Parents. Thank you also for taking care of Lakon so I could write.

  And to my husband, Jim, thank you for putting up with crotchety old me and for reading all of my books. You never once thought that I was wasting my time. Thank you to Lakon, the happiest little boy in the world, who shows me every day how life should be lived. And to Pinot and Lokie, who were right next to me for every word written, every rejection, every accomplishment, always at my side, ready to listen or lick away tears. Pinot, my heart is still broken that you are no longer with me. You will live forever in my heart.

  READERS GUIDE

  THE TIGER MOM’S TALE

  Lyn Liao Butler

  Discussion Questions

  Lexa tells Maddie at the beginning of the book that Greg is her real father because he’s the one who raised her. Do you agree? Or do you think blood and biology makes someone the real parent?

  Lexa struggles to fit in. She feels like she sticks out in her all-blond family, but when she’s in Taiwan, people tell her she isn’t really Taiwanese, since she’s half white. Have you ever felt that you don’t fit in because of your background?

  Taiwanese food is mentioned throughout the book. Do the descriptions make you want to try it, if you’re not already familiar with it?

  Do you think Pong’s method to try to reconcile Lexa with her father was cowardly and manipulative? Or do you think he did the right thing? Would you have agreed to his conditions?

  Lexa equates sesame balls with bad luck after her mother tells her about Phoenix and her father dies. Have you ever associated things with bad luck because you were using/doing something when you got bad news?

  Do you think Lexa’s estranged relationship with her father is why she is still single and doesn’t want children? Why or why not?

  Susan thinks Lexa has buried herself in her work to avoid dealing with her past. Do you agree? Have you ever used work to ignore emotional feelings?

  Maddie made it clear she didn’t like Hsu-Ling even before meeting her. Why do you think she was so jealous of Hsu-Ling?

  Was Pin-Yen a sympathetic character at all? Can you understand how someone could do something like what she did to Lexa, all to protect her own daughter?

  Lexa is reluctant to let Jake in because they live on opposite coasts and differ in their views of children. Do you think she really feels that way, or is it just an excuse? Do you think Lexa and Jake can overcome their differences and have a healthy relationship?

  Lexa finds solace and strength in kung fu, relying on it throughout her life when dealing with difficult situations and people. Do you have something similar in your own life that helps you get through difficult times?

  Keep reading for an excerpt from Lyn Liao Butler’s next novel,

  Red Thread of Fate

  coming soon from Berkley.

  She was on the phone with her husband when he died.

  Tamlei Kwan leaned against a wall outside the elementary school during her lunch break, phone tucked between her ear and shoulder. She balanced on one foot and slipped her other foot out of her taupe pumps. Ah, much better. The shoes felt like prison after a summer of flip-flops.

  “Did we get it?” Tony’s brusque voice greeted her. They were anxiously awaiting their letter of acceptance for the little boy they were adopting from China. But still. He couldn’t bother to say hello first?

  Tam stuck her tongue out at the phone. “No, I haven’t heard anything. Will you be home for dinner?” Two days back at school and she was already acting like her young charges. “I could cook.” But seriously, why was she even offering? He sounded so distant, as if he had better things to do than take her call.

  “Sure, that sounds good. I shouldn’t be home late. Thanks, Tam.” Tony’s voice softened on her name and just like that, she was glad she had made the effort. She knew she wasn’t being fair. He had been doing a lot lately and she shouldn’t be so prickly.

  A sudden cacophony of traffic noises made her hold the phone away from her ear.

  “What’s going on?”

  “Nothing . . . a lot of traffic.” She could barely hear his voice.

  “You’re going to the deli on Amsterdam?” she yelled.

  “Yes . . . hang on a sec.” She could hear Tony’s muffled voice before he came back on the line. “I’m grabbing lunch before my afternoon class. Let me know if you hear from Sandra, okay?” Their caseworker,
Sandra, had told them their dossier had gone through review and was in match mode, which meant they should be getting that letter any day now.

  “Okay.” Tam chewed on her bottom lip. “Um, what should I make?” She wished she didn’t sound so wishy-washy. Why was she so confident in her mind, but the moment she opened her mouth, she sounded like a meek mouse?

  “I don’t care, whatever you . . . HOLY SHIT!” Tony’s voice was cut off in the midst of a loud roaring sound that made Tam think of the old wooden roller coaster at Coney Island that Tony had dragged her on once. Then, nothing. Silence.

  “Tony? Tony! Hello?” Tam shouted. What the heck? She straightened off the wall, jamming her foot back in her shoe, all thoughts of her aching feet and wishy-washiness forgotten. She immediately redialed him, only to get his voice mail. His phone didn’t even ring. She dialed again and again, her heart jumping into her throat. She finally decided to try his department at Columbia University, hoping someone could find him.

  Her hands were shaking and she touched the wrong contact, dialing Tony’s Pizzeria instead of Tony’s office. “Darn it,” she muttered, stabbing her finger at the phone. “I don’t want a freaking pizza.” This time, she hit the right number and a colleague of Tony’s in the Department of East Asian Languages and Cultures picked up, informing Tam that Tony had left for the day.

  “What do you mean he left for the day?” Tam’s voice rose with each word. “I just spoke to him and he said he was going to the deli on Amsterdam.”

  The woman on the phone was silent for a moment. “Uh, I saw Tony an hour ago and he was definitely leaving. He has a half day on Thursdays.”

  A half day? What was the daft woman talking about? Tony taught an afternoon class on Thursdays at Columbia this semester and then had office hours to meet with students, which was why he was sometimes late coming home. She started to explain but realized she was wasting her time. She hung up after making the woman promise to have Tony call her if she saw him.

  Looking at the time, Tam knew she had to get back to her own class of first graders. She tried Tony one more time but still couldn’t get through. She returned to her classroom, tamping down the panic that threatened to erupt.

  Where was Tony? What had happened? Should she call the police? But if he had only dropped his phone and broke it, he wouldn’t appreciate a police hunt for him. She had a bad feeling in the pit of her stomach and left her phone on her desk.

  “Mrs. Kwan. Mrs. Kwan! I have a question about hot and cold.” Tam looked up to see Steven Abrams waving his arm frantically. It was only the second day of school and already she knew this precocious little boy with the floppy brown hair would be a handful.

  “Yes, Steven. What is it?”

  “I heard my daddy talking to his friends about you. He said if you got rid of your glasses and unbuttoned your shirt, you’d be hot. But if you took off your shirt, wouldn’t you be cold, not hot?” Steven tilted his head and looked up at her. His father was a single dad and so good-looking he had all the female teachers (and some of the male ones) fluttering about him.

  “Oh, my.” Tam knew she sounded like an eighteenth century schoolmarm, but she was at a loss. Normally, she was quick on her feet with the children and could come up with a clever answer to the questions her students asked. But now she could only stare, her mouth open “like a nincompoop” as Steven had so blithely called a fellow student yesterday, while the six-year-olds debated her hot and coldness.

  She tugged at the white shirtwaist dress she wore. When she pulled the dress out this morning, she’d debated against wearing it since it was a few days after Labor Day. But it was such a warm, sunny day and she wanted to wear the dress one more time, despite the fact it would probably get dirty from the children. It was buttoned to the top and a size too big. She hated clothes that dug into her skin. She dressed that way for school, but if she had to be honest, she dressed that way outside of school too. She’d much rather be comfortable even if it made her look like a shapeless blob.

  When the bell finally rang and she saw her charges safely to the bus and pick-up area, she huffed out a breath and rushed to her car. Tony hadn’t called and she still couldn’t get through. She threw her phone on the passenger seat in frustration. Driving the short distance to their home in Dobbs Ferry, she decided she would call the police when she got home. Maybe they could trace his cell.

  But as she pulled into the dead-end street that led to their townhouse at the bottom of the hill, her heart sank. Sitting in front of their unit was a Dobbs Ferry police car. She knew then—something bad had happened.

  She pulled into her parking spot and gripped the steering wheel hard to stop the tingling in her fingers. When her vision blackened, she squeezed her eyes shut and rested her head on the cool leather between her hands. She forced herself to breathe slower to stop the panic from taking over her body, not wanting to leave the safety of her car. She knew the minute she got out, her life would change forever, and she wanted to hold onto her old life for as long as she could.

  What happened next passed in a blur. Facing the sympathetic-looking officers as her legs turned to jelly, she heard only bits and pieces of what they said.

  “Flushing police . . . accident . . .”

  The officers’ radios buzzed to life in a burst of static and Tam turned toward the noise, her eyes glazed.

  “Your husband . . . terrible . . .”

  She turned back to the officers and they swam in front of her eyes. She swayed and would have fallen if one of them hadn’t reached out to steady her, helping her inside and onto a chair. They continued to speak but they might as well be speaking Russian for all that she understood.

  She looked down at her lap to avoid their gaze, grabbing fistfuls of her dress in her hands to keep from screaming. Then her eyes widened as she realized with dawning horror that she was wearing the symbolic color of death in China. Tony was more traditionally Chinese than she was and had commented this morning that she was dressed for a funeral. Had she killed her husband by wearing white today?

  “. . . call your family to come?”

  She looked up, eyes wide with shock and shook her head. The officers kept talking and she scrambled to understand but her body refused to cooperate. She was frozen in her chair. Suddenly, something they said penetrated the fog that had descended over her brain.

  “Flushing police? What do you mean? He was in Manhattan, at Columbia University where he teaches.”

  The officers looked at each other and then at her. “Uh, no ma’am. He was on the corner of Main and Roosevelt in Flushing, Queens.”

  Ma’am? She was a ma’am now? How’d that happen? She had an absurd urge to laugh and had to choke it down. “You’re wrong. I was on the phone with him. He said he was going to the deli on Amsterdam Avenue.” Tam pulled her phone out to show the officers, as if that would prove he had been in Manhattan at the time of the accident. Maybe they had the wrong man since her Tony was at Columbia where he belonged, and not miles away in Flushing, Queens?

  The officers exchanged a look. The younger one asked if they could call a friend for her. Tam closed her eyes. She put her hands over her ears knowing she was being childish but she couldn’t help it. She didn’t want to hear anymore. They were mistaken. They had the wrong man. She needed to make them stop, stop trying to ruin her life when she knew Tony was fine.

  “His cousin was with him.”

  Her eyes flew open. She’d heard, even through her hands. Tony only had one cousin. “Mia? He was with Mia?”

  One of the officers looked at his pad and said, “Mei Guo. She didn’t survive either.”

  “Oh, no. That’s her. She goes by Mia.” Her head began to ache and she could feel every heartbeat in a vein in her temple. What was going on? Mia was dead too? Why would Tony tell her he was at work if he’d been with Mia? Hysterical laughter bubbled out of her and she was suddenly laughing even as
tears streamed down her face and soaked her dress.

  She gave in and let the police call her friend Abby Goldman. She was grateful to see her friend’s familiar pouf of curly blonde hair and sank into Abby’s arms, the tears falling fast. She could finally let go and stop trying to piece together the events of the day, which made no sense.

  Tam didn’t remember driving with Abby to Flushing from their town in the suburbs of New York City or identifying the body. She didn’t understand a word anyone said to her in the noisy police station except that one young officer thought it was incredible she had been on the phone with Tony when he died. She kept hearing him say, “That’s so weird. She was on the phone with him!” until an older officer hit him on the side of the head and told him to shut up.

  She let Abby take care of everything. All Tam wanted was to curl up in her warm familiar bed with the blankets over her head, the smell of Tony lingering in the sheets. Her eyes were red and gritty and she was so tired, yet every time she closed her eyes, she heard again the last words he ever said to her ringing like a giant gong echoing in a temple, “HOLY SHIT!” They rarely cursed, so for that to be his last word to her made her feel like . . . well, shit.

  When they finally, finally got home, Abby helped her upstairs to her bed.