Hooking Up : Sex, Dating, and Relationships on Campus
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Perception: and behavior, 89–95; and
arly definitions of, 2, 4; sexual
college students, 82–89, 161–163;
norms, 36–39
and opposite sex, 78–82; and
Hummer, Robert, 33, 199n16,
same-sex, 74–78; and virginity,
199n17
82–85
Petting, 19, 159, 164, 181
In loco parentis, 22
Pill, the, 21
Institute for American Values, 5,
Power: between men and women in
192n18, 192n22
hook up culture, 125, 172–179; de-
Internet dating, 157
fined, 209n50; hidden, 101; shift
Intimacy revolution, 20
from calling to dating, 18
It’s a Wonderful Life (movie), 13
Premarital sex, 4, 19–20, 159–163,
182, 204n11
Laumann, Edward, 160, 192n19,
Principle of least interest, 174–179,
197n13, 201n5
198n21
Love, 163–165
Promiscuity: being labeled a “slut,”
112–114; stigmatized by bad repu-
Marriage: age at first, 2, 22, 161, 172,
tation, 113–114, 204n19
199n6; alumni timetable for,
137–138, 154–157, 172–179; col-
Rape, 3, 162,184,185,191n10, 202n22,
lege students delaying marriage,
205n2
53–54; college women’s interest
Rating and dating, 13–16, 194n22,
in, 78–80, 101–103
195n38. See also Dating
I N D E X
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Relationships: and alumni women,
Sexual revolution, 20, 96, 103–104,
154–156; and college women,
160
76–82; gender differences in
Sexual scripts, 7–8, 193n29, 193n2;
timetable for, 172–179; stages,
and “bases,” 21; dating as domi-
39–44; types, 115–125; why
nant script, 14, 18; and first date,
women desire, 101–104
138, 206n4; and hooking up, 29,
Religion, 65–66; and effect on hook-
39; lack of alternatives, 184–185;
ing up, 160–161
and oral sex, 196n6; and percep-
Rolling Stone, 180
tions, 95; “script-switching,” 153,
206n7
Scripting theory. See Sexual scripts Sexually transmitted disease, 3, 184,
Sex: casual, 4, 29, 167, 183; change in
185; fear of contracting, 149–150
timing and meaning of, in hook
Simon, William, 8, 197n16, 197n17
up era, 47, 158–159; and dating
Sororities, 180
era norms, 19–20, 158–159; and
Speed dating, 157
hooking up era norms, 93–95;
and post-college dating norms,
Virginity, 82–85, 161, 181, 197n7,
140–145; risky, 4, 167, 201n9
201n10, 201n12, 201n13
Sex and the City (series), 141
Sex ratio: on college campus, 23; and
Walk of shame, 35, 74
dating era, 15
Waller, Willard, 14–16, 174, 179,
Sexual assault. See Rape
194n23, 198n21, 208n30
Sexual attraction, 12, 31, 33
Whyte, Martin, 19–20, 158, 195n47,
Sexual double standard, 97, 103–115,
206n3
147, 181–182, 203n3
Wolfe, Tom, 1
Sexual marketplace, 197n13
Women’s movement, 21, 96, 182
About the Author
Kathleen A. Bogle is Assistant Professor of Sociology and Criminal Justice at LaSalle University in Philadelphia. She received her Ph.D. in sociology from the University of Delaware.
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Document Outline
Contents
Acknowledgments
1 Introduction
2 From Dating to Hooking Up
3 The Hookup
4 The Hookup Scene
5 The Campus as a Sexual Arena
6 Men, Women, and the Sexual Double Standard
7 Life after College: A Return to Dating
8 Hooking Up and Dating: A Comparison
Methodological Appendix
Notes
Bibliography
Index
About the Author