You are beckoning to him and he will subconsciously “feel” and “hear” you. It may take a few times before you “feel” or “see” him react to you calling out to him. I usually call 3 times but sometimes less. It depends on whether I "feel" connected. Just know that he will sense you, feel you, and hear you and you will connect to him in this manner. It will work each and every time you call out to him in this manner. I have received calls and messages immediately after using the technique on someone and many of my readers have, too.
You may not have a physical sensation when you connect with him and that’s perfectly fine. I will sometimes feel absolutely nothing, occasionally I get chill bumps and sometimes I yawn when the energy connects. Whatever your personal reaction is don’t worry about the bodily sensations.
You have called out to him and his subconscious mind hears you and responds. Remember Edgar Cayce emphatically stated that “thoughts are things” and they are felt and acted upon immediately. Trust it! The only thing that can stop the process is you!
The FIFTH STEP is to see him turn around and acknowledge you and watch him as he walks over to where you are standing. Visualize him as clearly as possible as you stand there looking at him. Some people are very visual and some are not. I happen to be someone who is not but it doesn’t matter that I don’t visualize perfectly because I still get the same results and you will, too.
I am much better at visualization now than I was when I first began. Practice has improved my visualization abilities but I got results the very first time after only a few minutes and not being a visual person. So don’t worry about the visualization part because whether he is visually clear in your mind’s eye or not does not affect your success.
Now I want you to look into his eyes and know that you have connected spiritually, mentally and emotionally with him and you are now in complete control. Feel the power of that knowledge! Allow emotions to be created in your heart area. Emotions are the driving force behind the technique so whether it is anger, lust, love, desire, hatred or passion all of your emotions fuel the visualization.
Create and enjoy as many powerful emotions as possible during this visualization. Allow your heart area to fill with the emotions as it overflows and connects to his heart area. I “see” it as connecting my solar plexus to his solar plexus. Allow the unobstructed flow of energy between your heart areas as well as between your third eyes.
The SIXTH STEP is while mentally looking at him I want you to “hear” him say what YOU want to hear him say. Not what you believe he would actually say to you. Just hear exactly what you want him to say. There is no “right or wrong” here, ladies. He can tell you whatever it is you want him to tell you. He can tell you he is a lying piece of trash or that he will never love anyone like he loves you. I keep mine positive because I want to focus on positive emotions.
For instance, he may say: “I love you. I cannot live without you. I’m sorry. I will never love anyone the way I love you. I will do anything to get you back. I miss you. I will leave my mistress. I will change the will. I will require no pre-nuptial agreement. I will take you to Belize or Paris. I will give you my American Express. I will follow you around like a puppy for the rest of your life. I will feel sick if I look at another woman. I will be unable to get an erection if I ever try to cheat.” Yes, I have made my men say all of the above statements and they worked. Trust me!
Whatever you WANT him to say is what you visualize! I want you to listen to the words you are putting in his mouth and feel the emotion and/or relief and ecstasy that you feel at hearing his words. FEEL THE EMOTION!!! Feel the joy and happiness that he wants to come back to you on your terms. Feel the ecstasy and know that he is on his way back! Feel how happy it makes you that he will never leave and will do everything you want him to do to keep you! Feel the joy that he will treat you like a princess and buy you whatever your little heart desires! Allow your heart to expand and overflow with love!
One thing I want to mention is that when you are seeing him in your mind’s eye DO NOT visualize the two of you standing there. Imagine that this scene is happening in the moment. If you are seeing both of you then you are daydreaming. If you are seeing him standing in front of you about two feet away then you will be focusing on his head and shoulders.
You may even want to visualize a powerful light that goes from your third eye to his as thoughts are carried to him. Stay focused only on him during the entire 3-5 minutes. If your attention strays during the visualization it can be caused by 1) your meditation is too long, or 2) you are not using the power of visualization and emotions. If you are emotional about something you aren’t going to have your mind wander easily. You will be focused!
The SEVENTH STEP is for you to “hear” yourself replying to what he has said to you. I want you to feel the feelings of happiness, relief, love, gratitude or whatever feelings his words naturally ignite in you. I want you to respond mentally to him. You may say things like “I love you, too. I’m so happy you’ve come back to me. I will never let you go. You will only be happy with me. We will have a wonderful life together. Thank you for your generosity. Thank you for adoring me. We will be so happy together…” Whatever positive statements you can make to him and BELIEVE will be what you will SAY.
I have had numerous emails from readers who say things like: “He didn’t say exactly what I told him to when we got together”. Does that mean that the technique failed? Or, “I wanted him to take me to lunch and in my visualization I told him that he would and he didn’t”. Come on sisters! The only reason you have him say things to you is because it creates in you a feeling, an emotion that creates reality.
What you hear needs to be something that elicits emotion in you and not something as mundane as having lunch together. The more emotion and the more powerful you FEEL the emotion the faster and greater your manifesting will be.
After a few minutes of visualization let the feeling of peace, love, gratitude and “knowing it is true” to completely wash over you. You are finished with the technique. You do not need to do anything else to ensure that it worked. It worked! I cannot stress this enough.
The simple truth is that you cannot fail to send him messages, create feelings deep in his soul and make him feel what you desire if you follow my instructions. The only way you can block the outcome is to worry about it, not release the manifesting out to the universe, have negative self-talk and sabotage your own creativity.
When I finish the technique I release the person with love and peace and go about my day knowing that my desire will manifest. Realize that you have just sent a powerful message and it is impossible that he will not respond mentally or physically to your message. If he is a stubborn ass it may be a while before he comes back to you and you hear the words directly from his mouth.
But, rest assured that he is at least thinking the thoughts you have put into his head. The minute you began using this technique it is as if you whispered into his ear. You had his undivided attention from the start of the visualization.
I am going to emphasize a few points so you understand them totally and thoroughly. You should absolutely feel regenerated, positive and confident. It is a feeling like winning the lottery or getting some sort of windfall would feel like to you.
Just the fact that you know beyond a shadow of a doubt that you contacted him, he received your message, he believes your thoughts and actually incorporated them to be his own thoughts, and you have the power to change him should make your day very special.
Do not get discouraged if something doesn’t happen immediately.
Be patient and do not get discouraged. Just because he hasn’t picked up the phone and given in doesn’t mean that his thoughts are not driving him crazy. Remember your thoughts are now his thoughts! You are sending and receiving love from this man during your visualizations. He feels the emotions you are sending and believes them to be his own! Relax and let the process work!
Chapter 7 - After The Technique
I will tell you a true story about myself and my “true love”. I was madly in love with my man for four years and during that time we had a couple of times when we broke up. I used the technique to bring him back. Once it took over three months for him to come back but he did. He’s a stubborn ass and I am the only woman he’s ever returned to. The technique worked like a charm!
He actually had to think of a good reason to contact me and I guess the universe provided it to him so he sent me a text message. He had no idea that I was using the technique on him and still doesn’t even know what I write about so it was all his idea. Or so he thinks! We were good for another year or so and then we broke up again.
The next time we broke up was when we were exactly at the four-year mark of our relationship. I loved this man very much and was devastated when he broke it off. It wasn’t a perfect relationship but I am like most women and overlook the negative things and focus on the positive.
Anyway, we did not see each other or speak for one entire year. He had commitment issues and I think four years is ample time to decide whether you want to settle down with someone. I let him go! I didn’t chase him, call him, track him, and creep on his Facebook or social media accounts. I just let him go.
The difference is that I know the power of this technique so I used it on him. At first I used it daily and then I did the technique every few days or less. It doesn’t matter how much or how little you use it because it still works. Think of it like a “cloud” that contains the information you sent to the person.
The cloud doesn’t go anywhere and as long as I wanted to contact him mentally I knew I could in an instant. I never doubted it. I KNEW he couldn’t get me off of his mind. This is where faith comes in. I had faith because I know without a doubt that thoughts are things and they are real. If you combine your powerful thoughts with intention, emotion and belief there is no way you can fail.
One year later he contacted me because my little nine-year old Maltese died. He looked for a reason for a year to come back because he missed me every day. The minute he saw me and I walked over to him I knew the visualizations had not only worked but they changed him!
He no longer had commitment issues and within weeks he proposed to me. He is now the man I deserved from the beginning but it took a year of separation for him to become that person. If I had allowed myself to get discouraged, depressed or just given up we wouldn’t be together. The time apart was good for us and I don’t regret it because we both grew and we are better partners now.
Now let me state one thing that is important for all my sisters to hear. I did not sit by my idle phone, allow myself to lie in bed listening to sad songs, worry about him constantly or any of the other morbid things we do when we lose someone we love. Instead I used the technique, let any expectations go and moved forward in life.
I made new friends, went out on dates, did some extensive traveling, wrote books and even dated a celebrity. In other words, I had a life! Don’t allow yourself to stay in limbo during your time apart. You will grow from the experience and he will appreciate the changes in you.
Face the fact that if things were all that great before you broke up you would still most likely is together. You both need space to grow! Allow this to be YOUR time of growth, too. Do not get stuck on having only one outcome because it limits your ability to live a full, beautiful life. Be open to all possibilities!
Also, be patient during the process. I, who knows this technique works, even thought at one point “Oh my God have I forgotten how to manifest?” Yes, patience is your friend but I am not all that patient in my personal life. I just had to trust and have faith because this technique has worked miracles in my life and I know that it never fails. I repeat -- it never fails!
During our honeymoon phase of being back together I found out that I influenced everything in his life with my directed thoughts. At one point during a visualization I clearly heard him say “Oh Lanie, where are you?” as he paced around his home. He later told me that he would walk around his house saying that very phrase over and over again.
The songs that reminded him of me I placed in his mind. I would hear a song and visualize him hearing it and thinking of me. It wasn’t even his type of music but he named all of the songs that made him unable to get me off of his mind. I influenced him and created his reality with the power of my mind! No contact! No fear! No stuck in my life waiting! Every woman he went on dates with he thought “She’s not Lanie”. And, who put the thought there? Yep, it was me!
Don’t put pressure on yourself by constantly worrying about whether or not it is working. Sometimes it takes time! That should not be discouraging if you are learning, growing and moving forward in your own life. Do not allow yourself to become stuck in a rut! If you are constantly worrying about where he is, who he is with, and whether the process is working then HE is controlling you. If you truly want to break the cycle and be in control of your life I hope you will need my advice.
You are the one who needs to control him! You need to KNOW that it is working and not WORRY about when it will materialize. The most important thing you can do to assist the process is to feel positive emotions. The subconscious mind works entirely on visualization and emotions so if you feel negative emotions you will attract negative events.
“Your subconscious mind does not know the difference between right or wrong, real or fiction, truth or lies. ALL it does is set about to make happen WHAT YOU have visualized, created and directed it to do by your thoughts and feelings.”
I get questions about when to use the technique. You can practice this technique anytime you want during the day. You don’t have to lie down in order for it to work. Eventually, you will be able to tap into your subconscious mind easily with no trouble at all. As you are reading this book you can repeat “Sleep, Sleep, Sleep” and you will feel the shift in your consciousness.
You can visualize the person with your eyes open although I sometimes close my eyes to see more clearly. The point is, without dwelling on the process or person; you can tap into their subconscious mind whenever you choose. Just don’t forget to feel the emotion of ecstasy and gratitude knowing that he will say the words, perform the action or have the feelings you want in no time at all.
I intentionally do not do or say anything that brings harm to someone. Like I said, I have grown. Revenge is not what I seek. I prefer to attract positive things in my life. However, there are exceptions and that is if someone has harmed you physically.
I have a disgust that is more like loathing of men who mistreat and abuse women so I think if they are doing it now or have done it in the past they are entitled to a little bit of their own treatment.
I will confess that I had a man physically abuse me once and he suffered with a peculiar pain around his testicles for 6-9 months. After numerous doctor visits, sonograms and an MRI they couldn’t find anything physically wrong with him. Of course, I know exactly what was wrong with him because I caused the symptoms with the power of my thoughts and visualization.
I eventually told him I was doing it, where the pain was and when he felt it. I could describe exactly what was happening because I was responsible for it. He didn’t allow himself to believe me because he could never admit that I had that kind of power. You now have the same knowledge and power so use it at your discretion.
My philosophy is don’t mess with women who have the knowledge and power to make your nuts fall off -- literally!!! I realize some of you will be non-believers and I understand. You can't know the absolute power and success of this technique until you use it for a couple of weeks. You may even write it off as a coincidence rather than give the technique credit for the changes you will experience. I don't mind. I don't need or want kudos for teaching it to you.
I’ve had more than my share of readers who try to rationalize their results with “it’s a coincidence” or “it’s just too simple to work”. Well, it does work and all you have to do is try it to find that out. If it didn’t work
I wouldn’t be a faithful user of the technique every day of my life. I write this book, as well as my other books, to help my “sisters”.
I want to spread the word to all women! It is so heartwarming to get correspondence from readers who tell me about their success stories. I received an email from a woman who had been battling her fiancé over a last minute pre-nuptial agreement. After reading my technique and practicing it for a few weeks he voluntarily gave her exactly what she wanted.
According to her he was a skinflint and he was at the point of breaking it off. Money meant more to him that she did – or so he thought. Attorneys had battled with him and he wouldn't budge. After a few weeks of her nighttime visualization he woke up one morning and "told her what she visualized him saying to her".
He went from a hard-ass to a pussycat with just a couple of minutes a day of her time and focus. Pretty awesome stuff! I would absolutely love for all women to use this technique rather than sit around feeling blue and out of control. The control is now in your hands. I will reiterate “if this technique didn’t work I would not use it consistently in my own life!!!!”
Chapter 8 – What Else Can You Do?
There is no limit to the number of things you can get your man to do! Whatever you can think of and imagine in your mind can be created through the power of this technique. Does he not want to commit to you? Is he a cheater? Is he with another woman? Is he using you for good times but also out dating other women? What do YOU want him to do and say to you? That’s all you have to decide.
So, you know as examples when I went through the steps of the technique we used statements like “I love you” or “I can’t live without you”. You can add any other statements you want in the visualization. The most important thing is that you believe what you are visualizing. If you don’t believe it then you will block the manifestation.
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